Post-16 Transitions: a Longitudinal Study of Young People with ...
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As a result, her social life in practice centres around her family,<br />
<strong>with</strong> whom she has a very strong relationship. This is a situation<br />
which her father at least is happy to maintain.<br />
Much the same is true <strong>of</strong> Andrea. There is considerable tension in<br />
the family home, but this does not encourage Andrea to develop a<br />
full and independent social life. By her own admission, she has<br />
few friends and rarely goes out. She is, however, passionate about<br />
Dr Who, accesses Dr Who web sites and goes to conventions to<br />
meet other fans. Asked, therefore, about the current state <strong>of</strong> her<br />
social life, she responds:<br />
“At the moment pretty much non existent, ’cos most <strong>of</strong> my friends I<br />
actually met them over the internet. You go on there and you can talk to<br />
them and post messages and then when they go on they answer or they<br />
post messages so you get on there and it’s just loads <strong>of</strong> conversations. We<br />
actually all agreed to meet up. We actually met up at a convention so<br />
there were a lot <strong>of</strong> people around…”<br />
Whilst her interest in Dr Who opens up to her a social circle, this<br />
is, <strong>of</strong> course, a circle <strong>with</strong> significant limitations:<br />
“I’d like to be able to spend more time <strong>with</strong> my friends ’cos at the<br />
moment we only meet up for conventions. Maybe go to a pub afterwards<br />
but they all like [live too far away] to meet up regularly…Quite a few <strong>of</strong><br />
them are actually in America.”<br />
Perhaps not surprisingly, given this pattern <strong>of</strong> isolation, Andrea<br />
claims to have no interest in developing deeper relationships. She<br />
has not had and, she says, does not want, a boyfriend. As for<br />
marriage:<br />
“Not worth the hassle. I’ve been a kid. I don’t want anyone else to put me<br />
through it. So I know what I’ve put people through and I love it, love<br />
winding people up but I know if I get a kid they’re gonna do it to me, so<br />
no thanks.”<br />
Living arrangements<br />
For Simon, independent living is not out <strong>of</strong> the question, but there<br />
is little incentive for him to leave the family home. It provides him<br />
<strong>with</strong> relatively undemanding security and in addition allows him<br />
to keep much <strong>of</strong> his limited income to spend on computer games.<br />
Those involved <strong>with</strong> him, therefore, can see little prospect <strong>of</strong> his<br />
moving towards greater independence.<br />
<strong>16</strong>6<br />
<strong>Post</strong>-<strong>16</strong> <strong>Transitions</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Young</strong> <strong>People</strong> <strong>with</strong> SEN: Wave 2