monastic INSIGHTOn <strong>the</strong> <strong>Way</strong>HomeBy Sister Annabel, True VirtueIn response <strong>to</strong> a request from her teacher, <strong>Thich</strong> <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong>, Sister Annabelis writ<strong>in</strong>g about her life. Thay suggested that her s<strong>to</strong>ry be serialized <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>M<strong>in</strong>dfulness Bell and <strong>the</strong>n put <strong>to</strong>ge<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> a book. In this first <strong>in</strong>stallment,when <strong>the</strong> s<strong>to</strong>ry beg<strong>in</strong>s she is <strong>in</strong> her early thirties.Sister Annabel, True Virtuepho<strong>to</strong> by John CottermanIn 1984 I was <strong>in</strong> Cheshire, England, work<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> an organic garden.In <strong>the</strong> w<strong>in</strong>ter it was sometimes very cold. As <strong>the</strong> wet English snowfell and <strong>the</strong> bitter easterly w<strong>in</strong>d blew, we picked sp<strong>in</strong>ach. Whatcan be more pa<strong>in</strong>ful than <strong>the</strong> blood try<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> make its way throughfrozen f<strong>in</strong>gertips? In <strong>the</strong> greenhouse <strong>the</strong> broccoli and Ch<strong>in</strong>ese cabbageflourished even <strong>in</strong> w<strong>in</strong>ter and if <strong>the</strong> mice did not come <strong>in</strong> andeat <strong>the</strong> seedl<strong>in</strong>gs, lettuce would grow <strong>to</strong>o. It was wonderful howf<strong>in</strong>e <strong>the</strong> vegetables looked without herbicides and artificial nitrates.I was happy <strong>to</strong> learn that cultivat<strong>in</strong>g organically is possible and Ifelt <strong>the</strong> vegetables were happy <strong>to</strong>o.<strong>The</strong> garden, however, did not completely fulfill me. Somewheresometh<strong>in</strong>g very important was miss<strong>in</strong>g. I had not foundmy sangha. Because of this, Buddha and dharma or <strong>the</strong> spirituallife were lack<strong>in</strong>g. I had not arrived, I was not at home. Still I wasable <strong>to</strong> dream and one night I had a dream <strong>to</strong> show me <strong>the</strong>re was away ahead. In <strong>the</strong> dream I was walk<strong>in</strong>g up a green hill and I came<strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>p of <strong>the</strong> hill. <strong>The</strong>re was a wall or fence along <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>p of<strong>the</strong> hill, s<strong>to</strong>pp<strong>in</strong>g me from go<strong>in</strong>g down <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r side. I walkedup and down <strong>the</strong> fence, search<strong>in</strong>g for a way <strong>to</strong> climb over. Withdifficulty, I did climb over. <strong>The</strong>re was a farmer on <strong>the</strong> o<strong>the</strong>r side;it may have been my fa<strong>the</strong>r. He showed me a gate <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> fenceand asked me why I had not used it. It would have been so mucheasier. <strong>The</strong>se years of wander<strong>in</strong>g without arriv<strong>in</strong>g had been likestruggl<strong>in</strong>g over a fence and only now had I seen <strong>the</strong> gate. <strong>The</strong> gatehad always been <strong>the</strong>re, only I was not aware, I had not seen it. It22 Summer 2006is not necessary <strong>to</strong> struggle, but because we cannot see, becausewe are ignorant, we struggle.Now that I have arrived, is that not <strong>the</strong> happiest th<strong>in</strong>g? “Ihave arrived” does not necessarily mean that I have realized <strong>the</strong>path. It just means that I know I am on <strong>the</strong> path and I do not need<strong>to</strong> be anywhere else.<strong>The</strong> dream was a presage because <strong>the</strong> next day I received<strong>the</strong> newsletter of <strong>the</strong> Buddhist Peace Fellowship U.K. and <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>newsletter was <strong>the</strong> poem “Please Call Me By My True Names”with a pho<strong>to</strong>graph of <strong>the</strong> Vietnamese Zen Monk <strong>Thich</strong> <strong>Nhat</strong> <strong>Hanh</strong>.Thay was smil<strong>in</strong>g and hold<strong>in</strong>g a teapot. Pho<strong>to</strong>graphs of Thay wererare at that time and this teapot pho<strong>to</strong>graph appeared <strong>in</strong> manyplaces. It was perhaps <strong>the</strong> only one available. I already had an ideaof what Buddhist monks looked like because I had spent time <strong>in</strong>India, but Thay did not conform <strong>to</strong> that idea. Intellectually I didnot understand <strong>the</strong> poem but <strong>the</strong> images were music <strong>to</strong> my soul:<strong>the</strong> caterpillar—whoever would look so deeply at caterpillars?Whoever would have <strong>the</strong> time <strong>to</strong> look deeply at caterpillars?F<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g Safe AnchorageIn that poem and that pho<strong>to</strong>graph I was beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> arrive. Idid not have <strong>the</strong> fruit of arrival but <strong>the</strong> fruit of go<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> directionof arrival. <strong>The</strong>re was a safe anchorage for my boat that hadbeen sail<strong>in</strong>g for so many years without a port of call. In 1980, I
monastic INSIGHThad gone <strong>to</strong> India <strong>to</strong> practice Buddhism with Tibetan nuns. Beforethat I had lived <strong>in</strong> a community along with practitioners of differentfaiths. I had even camped out around Greenham Common<strong>in</strong> order <strong>to</strong> resist any attempt <strong>to</strong> move nuclear missiles from thatbase. But <strong>in</strong> my heart I was not at home and I had not found <strong>the</strong>path I most wanted <strong>to</strong> tread.As I became more <strong>in</strong>volved with <strong>the</strong> Buddhist Peace Fellowship,I learned about <strong>the</strong> Vietnamese refugees deta<strong>in</strong>ed <strong>in</strong> refugeecamps <strong>in</strong> Hong Kong. Hong Kong was a British protec<strong>to</strong>rate at thattime. So I met people who had been <strong>in</strong> those camps and I heard<strong>the</strong>ir s<strong>to</strong>ries. I learned that <strong>the</strong>re was a place called Plum Villagethat opened its doors <strong>to</strong> guest practitioners for one month everyyear from July 15th until August 15th. A friend and I thought ofgo<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> summer of 1985, but when I wrote I received a replyfrom Sister True Empt<strong>in</strong>ess (Sister Chan Khong) say<strong>in</strong>g all placeswere taken. It was not yet time for me <strong>to</strong> go.I was still not sure if Plum Village was my true spiritual home.Indeed when I first read part of <strong>The</strong> Miracle of M<strong>in</strong>dfulness, I wasnot sure if it was for me. After <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>tricacies of Tibetan Buddhism,its complex rituals, its teach<strong>in</strong>gs couched <strong>in</strong> descriptions of strangeand distant scenes, someth<strong>in</strong>g so homely and simple was a shockthat was difficult <strong>to</strong> accept. When I could fully accept Plum Villageteach<strong>in</strong>gs, Plum Village would accept me. To do that I had<strong>to</strong> meet Thay and Sister True Empt<strong>in</strong>ess.Fortunately Thay agreed <strong>to</strong> come <strong>to</strong> England <strong>in</strong> March 1986.It was still bitterly cold and I organized a retreat <strong>in</strong> Cumbria <strong>in</strong> adrafty old castle that some Tibetan monks had acquired and rentedout for o<strong>the</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> have <strong>the</strong>ir retreats. This castle had huge roomsthat could never be heated. <strong>The</strong> fireplaces gave out heat <strong>to</strong> a spaceonly one meter <strong>in</strong> front of <strong>the</strong>m. One day it snowed and one day itwas f<strong>in</strong>e enough for us <strong>to</strong> walk <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> sea. Thay did not compla<strong>in</strong>.He ate <strong>the</strong> English food that <strong>the</strong> retreatants ate. He attended allactivities on <strong>the</strong> schedule and led <strong>the</strong>m all as well as giv<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>dharma talk. Gently he encouraged me <strong>to</strong> practice by say<strong>in</strong>g “andyou do not need <strong>to</strong> hurry, just take one step at a time,” because Iwanted <strong>to</strong> run everywhere, do<strong>in</strong>g everyth<strong>in</strong>g. Before <strong>the</strong> retreatbegan, Thay <strong>in</strong>vited me <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> his room <strong>to</strong> ask me what I thought of<strong>the</strong> daily schedule he proposed for <strong>the</strong> retreat. I was moved: whywould Thay ask me? After all I was a complete beg<strong>in</strong>ner, I knewnoth<strong>in</strong>g. Still, I said <strong>the</strong> proposed schedule was very good.Thay had someone br<strong>in</strong>g a cloud bell from Plum Village <strong>to</strong>use <strong>to</strong> announce activities and summon us <strong>to</strong> m<strong>in</strong>dfulness. A cloudbell is a flat piece of bronze molded <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> shape of a cloud. It hasa sharper sound than <strong>the</strong> round bowl-shaped bell. It was <strong>in</strong>vited<strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> draughty corridor on <strong>the</strong> ground floor of that castle twentyyears ago. Thay must have felt cold. When I looked at Thay’s bedit looked as if it had never been slept <strong>in</strong>. I imag<strong>in</strong>ed Thay sat <strong>in</strong>meditation all night long. Sister True Empt<strong>in</strong>ess asked me <strong>to</strong> try<strong>to</strong> f<strong>in</strong>d an electric heater for Thay’s room. I do not remember thatwe paid Thay or Sister True Empt<strong>in</strong>ess any honorarium.<strong>The</strong> Door OpensWhen we went <strong>to</strong> London Thay gave a talk <strong>in</strong> Friend House onEus<strong>to</strong>n Road, <strong>the</strong> ma<strong>in</strong> center for Quakers <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> United K<strong>in</strong>gdom.Aga<strong>in</strong> I was moved when Thay asked me <strong>to</strong> tell <strong>the</strong> audience about<strong>the</strong> Buddhist Peace Fellowship, as if I had someth<strong>in</strong>g worth say<strong>in</strong>g.Thay treated o<strong>the</strong>rs with that k<strong>in</strong>d of respect. Everyone hadsometh<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> offer and Thay gave <strong>the</strong>m a chance <strong>to</strong> offer it.How lucky I felt as I went <strong>to</strong> sleep! How lucky <strong>to</strong> have metThay, although I was on my own aga<strong>in</strong>. I jo<strong>in</strong>ed a Tibetan Sangha<strong>in</strong> London for a time and I was happy that hav<strong>in</strong>g practiced withThay I now knew how <strong>to</strong> prostrate. Before I met Thay I did notlike <strong>to</strong> prostrate. It was just an outer form. Thay taught me <strong>the</strong>content of prostration—surrender<strong>in</strong>g all idea of a separate selfand <strong>to</strong>uch<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> quality of great understand<strong>in</strong>g, great action, andgreat compassion—not as m<strong>in</strong>e and also not apart from me; realbut nei<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong>side or outside. My practice <strong>in</strong> that Tibetan-basedSangha was successful because of what I had learned <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> fivedayretreat from Thay.Before, Thay’s teach<strong>in</strong>gs had seemed <strong>to</strong>o simple for me;now <strong>the</strong>y were miraculously simple, real, and concrete. Dur<strong>in</strong>gthat retreat I wore brown clo<strong>the</strong>s, not <strong>in</strong>tentionally; it was justthat <strong>the</strong> warm clo<strong>the</strong>s I had with me were brown. And sitt<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong>front of Thay, who was wear<strong>in</strong>g a brown robe, I felt we were one.<strong>The</strong> simple act of hold<strong>in</strong>g up a sheet of paper, as Thay did <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>dharma talk on <strong>the</strong> last day of <strong>the</strong> retreat, <strong>to</strong>uched me deeply. <strong>The</strong>talk was on <strong>the</strong> Heart Sutra. That sutra had been a closed door forme; <strong>the</strong> commentaries I had seen and heard on it had been complexand difficult <strong>to</strong> understand. Now it sufficed <strong>to</strong> look at a piece ofpaper and see <strong>the</strong> cloud float<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> it. <strong>The</strong> piece of paper was trulyempty of a separate self—that, <strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong>tellect could understand—butThay transmitted someth<strong>in</strong>g else. Thay’s own empt<strong>in</strong>ess and myempt<strong>in</strong>ess were <strong>in</strong> it.How lucky <strong>to</strong> meet my enlightened teacher <strong>in</strong> my own country!<strong>The</strong> Tibetans had <strong>to</strong>ld me that that was where I would meetmy teacher and he would not be Tibetan, but from Far East Asia.<strong>The</strong> prophecy came true. Prophecy comes not just from <strong>the</strong> m<strong>in</strong>dof <strong>the</strong> one who prophesies but from <strong>the</strong> m<strong>in</strong>d of <strong>the</strong> one who isprophesied <strong>to</strong>.“Here Is India”In Plum Village Thay sat on a hammock <strong>in</strong> a gray robe. Hewas prepar<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> Upper Hamlet for <strong>the</strong> summer open<strong>in</strong>g. Thay’sfirst words <strong>to</strong> me were “Here is India, India is here.” I thought Thaymeant it was very hot, as hot as <strong>in</strong> India. It was deeper than that. Tome India was home, at least my spiritual home. I believed spiritualhome could not be found anywhere else. I missed India with ak<strong>in</strong>d of long<strong>in</strong>g. “Here is India” meant you have arrived, you arehome. My conscious m<strong>in</strong>d did not realize it, but deep down, <strong>the</strong>seed was sown. One month later, <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> Lower Hamlet, I realizedI was home. It was a feel<strong>in</strong>g of be<strong>in</strong>g at home that I had not felts<strong>in</strong>ce I was a child. Look<strong>in</strong>g up at <strong>the</strong> hills of <strong>the</strong> Dordogne <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong>north of <strong>the</strong> Lower Hamlet, I was home. Contemplat<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> whiteknobbed s<strong>to</strong>nes that made <strong>the</strong> walls of <strong>the</strong> Red Candle MeditationHall, I was home. <strong>The</strong>se th<strong>in</strong>gs had always been part of me and Ihad always been part of <strong>the</strong>m.At first Thay allowed me <strong>to</strong> dream of my Indian home, perhapsit was part of Thay’s dream <strong>to</strong>o. Thay said: “Although you cannotbe <strong>in</strong> India you can dream of be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>re. For <strong>in</strong>stance <strong>the</strong>re is<strong>the</strong> little hut you make of bamboo with its banana leaf roof and<strong>the</strong> M<strong>in</strong>dfulness Bell 23