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dharma TALKbe recognized.” When you are able <strong>to</strong> recognize that thought youreach a degree of freedom because you are no longer a victim ofthat thought.But if you are not a practitioner, you cont<strong>in</strong>ue <strong>to</strong> rum<strong>in</strong>ateabout <strong>the</strong> negative situation and that will make you fall <strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> astate of depression.To recognize <strong>the</strong> presence of a thought or feel<strong>in</strong>g is veryimportant. That is <strong>the</strong> basic practice of a practitioner of meditation.You do not try <strong>to</strong> suppress <strong>the</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>gs and <strong>the</strong> thoughts. Youallow your feel<strong>in</strong>gs and your thoughts <strong>to</strong> manifest. But you have<strong>to</strong> be <strong>the</strong>re <strong>in</strong> order <strong>to</strong> recognize <strong>the</strong>ir presence. In so do<strong>in</strong>g, youare cultivat<strong>in</strong>g your freedom.In our daily life we may allow <strong>the</strong>se thoughts and feel<strong>in</strong>gs <strong>to</strong>appear, and we are not capable of recogniz<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir presence. Becauseof that we become <strong>the</strong> victim of <strong>the</strong>se thoughts and feel<strong>in</strong>gsand emotions. We get lost <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> realm of feel<strong>in</strong>gs and thoughts andperceptions because we are not truly present. <strong>The</strong> practice is <strong>to</strong> staypresent <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> here and <strong>the</strong> now and <strong>to</strong> witness what is go<strong>in</strong>g on, <strong>to</strong>exam<strong>in</strong>e it, <strong>to</strong> be aware. That is <strong>the</strong> practice of freedom.Be<strong>in</strong>g on Au<strong>to</strong>matic PilotWe are accus<strong>to</strong>med <strong>to</strong> allow<strong>in</strong>g our m<strong>in</strong>d <strong>to</strong> chase after <strong>the</strong>pleasant and <strong>to</strong> avoid <strong>the</strong> unpleasant. Our thoughts follow thishabit pattern: runn<strong>in</strong>g, follow<strong>in</strong>g, search<strong>in</strong>g for <strong>the</strong> pleasant; andtry<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> run away, <strong>to</strong> avoid <strong>the</strong> unpleasant. Because of that welose all our freedom. We do not know that we are runn<strong>in</strong>g aftersometh<strong>in</strong>g and try<strong>in</strong>g <strong>to</strong> avoid someth<strong>in</strong>g. We are carried away byour thoughts, our feel<strong>in</strong>gs, our perceptions.me, and I want <strong>the</strong>se elements <strong>to</strong> come forward <strong>to</strong> help me <strong>to</strong> sor<strong>to</strong>ut this situation, <strong>to</strong> help me <strong>to</strong> be on <strong>the</strong> right path.”You give yourself <strong>the</strong> time <strong>to</strong> brea<strong>the</strong> <strong>in</strong> and out. You don’thurry <strong>to</strong> react or take action. And while you are breath<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> andout you give <strong>the</strong> wonderful positive elements with<strong>in</strong> yourself achance <strong>to</strong> <strong>in</strong>tervene.<strong>The</strong>re is a computer with<strong>in</strong> us, and this computer has a lot ofpower. If you know how <strong>to</strong> make use of this power you can transform<strong>the</strong> situation. You can br<strong>in</strong>g a lot of light, joy, and compassion<strong>in</strong><strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> situation. By not allow<strong>in</strong>g yourself <strong>to</strong> be carried away, yougive yourself an alternative perspective from which you can seeth<strong>in</strong>gs more clearly. You are not <strong>in</strong> a hurry <strong>to</strong> react, <strong>to</strong> jump <strong>to</strong> aconclusion. You just become aware of <strong>the</strong> situation, what is manifest<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong> you and around you. <strong>The</strong> practice of m<strong>in</strong>dful breath<strong>in</strong>gand m<strong>in</strong>dful walk<strong>in</strong>g gives you space, which allows <strong>the</strong> positiveelements <strong>to</strong> <strong>in</strong>tervene. You allow <strong>the</strong> Buddha, <strong>the</strong> K<strong>in</strong>gdom of God,<strong>in</strong> you <strong>to</strong> have a chance.With<strong>in</strong> us <strong>the</strong>re is a terri<strong>to</strong>ry of depression, a terri<strong>to</strong>ry ofhell, and our negative th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g and emotions sp<strong>in</strong> out from <strong>the</strong>seterri<strong>to</strong>ries. But we know that <strong>in</strong> us <strong>the</strong>re is also <strong>the</strong> terri<strong>to</strong>ry of <strong>the</strong>K<strong>in</strong>gdom of God, of <strong>the</strong> Buddha Land. <strong>The</strong>re is <strong>the</strong> powerful seedof compassion and wisdom <strong>in</strong> us. If we give <strong>the</strong>m a chance, <strong>the</strong>ycan come and rescue us.<strong>The</strong> <strong>Way</strong> Out of DepressionWe have <strong>the</strong> power <strong>to</strong> recognize our thoughts, our feel<strong>in</strong>gs, ouremotions, our perceptions. We don’t have <strong>to</strong> suppress <strong>the</strong>m. Butwe want <strong>to</strong> have <strong>the</strong> time and space <strong>to</strong> look at <strong>the</strong>m and recognizeof <strong>the</strong> year 2006, I will do my best <strong>to</strong> practice right th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g.”Imag<strong>in</strong>e an airplane on au<strong>to</strong>matic pilot. <strong>The</strong> plane can reach itsdest<strong>in</strong>ation, can do <strong>the</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs that it has been asked <strong>to</strong> do, with noneed for any human be<strong>in</strong>g on <strong>the</strong> plane. Very often we behave likethat. We are on au<strong>to</strong>matic pilot. We are not present <strong>to</strong> witness whatis happen<strong>in</strong>g. <strong>The</strong> practice that is proposed by <strong>the</strong> Buddha is <strong>to</strong> be<strong>the</strong>re, <strong>to</strong> stay present, <strong>to</strong> be truly alive. You know <strong>the</strong> value of eachthought, of each feel<strong>in</strong>g, of all your perceptions. You know that<strong>the</strong>re are terri<strong>to</strong>ries you have not discovered with<strong>in</strong> yourself. Youdon’t allow yourself <strong>to</strong> be carried away. You want <strong>to</strong> be yourself.You don’t want <strong>to</strong> be on au<strong>to</strong>matic pilot.Every time a thought, feel<strong>in</strong>g, or emotion arises, you want <strong>to</strong>be <strong>the</strong>re <strong>to</strong> control <strong>the</strong> situation. You don’t want <strong>to</strong> be carried away.You smile <strong>to</strong> your th<strong>in</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g, <strong>to</strong> your feel<strong>in</strong>gs, <strong>to</strong> your emotions.You don’t want <strong>to</strong> react right away because <strong>the</strong> habit energy <strong>in</strong> youpushes you <strong>to</strong> respond right away <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> feel<strong>in</strong>gs, <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> emotions,<strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> thought that just arose. This is extremely important.You tell yourself: “Well, this is a thought, this is a feel<strong>in</strong>g,this is an emotion. I know <strong>the</strong>y are <strong>in</strong> me, but I am not just thatthought, that feel<strong>in</strong>g, that emotion. I’m much more than that. Ihave a treasure of understand<strong>in</strong>g, compassion, love, wisdom <strong>in</strong><strong>the</strong>m as <strong>the</strong>y are. This is <strong>the</strong> basic practice. To do that wehave <strong>to</strong> stay present <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> here and <strong>the</strong> now. Very often ourbody is <strong>the</strong>re, but our m<strong>in</strong>d is elsewhere. Our children donot feel that we are truly present.When you come <strong>to</strong> a house andyou want <strong>to</strong> meet someone <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>house, you ask, “Is anyonehome?” And if someonesaid, “Yes,” <strong>the</strong>n you’dbe happy. You don’twant <strong>to</strong> go <strong>to</strong> a housewhere <strong>the</strong>re is no one.Thay and monastics at <strong>the</strong> Peace Walkpho<strong>to</strong> by Paul Davis<strong>the</strong> M<strong>in</strong>dfulness Bell 7

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