63On Signing oneself with the mark <strong>of</strong> Cross... 125water stopped flowing when the chest was beingcarried across the river. These rocks will alwaysremind our people <strong>of</strong> what happened here today.(L.B.)CommentWhen somebody makes a memento or a replica <strong>of</strong> the Cross<strong>of</strong> our Lord and venerates the same, it cannot be objectivelyjudged as worship. For worship, as noted above, is a mentalexercise although accompanied or attended by certainexternalities, which are essentially <strong>of</strong> a secondary nature.5. Likewise venerating and honouring <strong>of</strong> churches or church articlescan in no way be considered idolatry.Ref: (a) Lev. 12:4. Then it will be thirty three more days beforeshe is ritually clean from her loss <strong>of</strong> blood; she mustnot touch anything that is holy or enter the sacredtent until the time <strong>of</strong> her purification is completed.(G.N.B.)(b) vide. 2 Sam. 6:7. (G.N.B.)(c) vide. Dan. 5:7. (G.N.B.)CommentOn the basis <strong>of</strong> the theology <strong>of</strong> the distinction between realityand replica, it is contented that, honouring <strong>of</strong> church buildings,church articles etc do not amount to worshipping them assuch.Theme No: 24On Chastity1. Nobody shall be forbidden from entering into wedlock.Ref: 1 Tim. 4:3. Such people teach that it is wrong to marry.(G.N.B.)CommentThis is an argument to remove the mistaken notions onmarriage and chastity. As marriage is a sacrament, it cannotbe forbidden even by putting forward that celibacy is acondition for chastity. It is opined so, because chastity in thetrue sense is a mental disposition along with externalities.Mere abstinence from marital relationship will not make aperson chaste. It is common knowledge that it needs morethan a philosopher’s gown to make a man a genuinephilosopher. Marriage is no hindrance to chastity orsaintliness. We may recall that many <strong>of</strong> the Jewish prophetswere married men.2. If one opts voluntarily to keep himself free from wedlock forkeeping his body and mind ever ready to perform the work forGod’s sake, it is good.Ref: (a) 1Cor. 7:7-8. Actually I would prefer that all <strong>of</strong> youwere as I am. But each one has a special gift fromGod. One person this gift another one that gift. Nowto the unmarried and to the widows I say that itwould be better for you to continue to live alone asI do. (G.N.B.)(b) 1Cor. 7:32, 33. I would like you to be free from worry.An unmarried man concerns himself with the Lord’swork; because he is trying to please the Lord. But amarried man concerns himself with worldly matters,because he wants to please his wife and so he ispulled in two directions. (G.N.B.)(c) Mt. 19:12. For there are different reasons why mencannot marry: some because they were born that
64On Chastity 127way; others, because men made them that way; andothers do not marry for the sake <strong>of</strong> the Kingdom <strong>of</strong>heaven. Let him who can accept these teaching doso. (G.N.B.)CommentMarriage cannot be imposed on a person. If one decides tobe a bachelor or spinster as the case may be, on the groundthat it is better to be so far God’s work, no one shall interferewith the decision. But a word <strong>of</strong> caveat or caution. Thedecision to remain single should be the result <strong>of</strong> duedeliberation. If so vouched, by the person concerned, it mustbe regarded as emanating from ‘... the infinitesimal wisdom<strong>of</strong> the Lord,’ as St. Thomas A Kempis puts it in some othercontext.3. Even though a person who took the vow <strong>of</strong> chastity subsequentlyrenounces it and marries, he does not become blameless albeitnot ineligible for grace; such persons must he removed from therespective positions held by them in the Church.Ref: 1Tim. 2:12. I do not allow them to teach or to have authorityover men; they must keep quiet. (G.N.B.)CommentThe ecclesiastical attitude to a person who breakes the vow<strong>of</strong> chastity is formulated here. The Church would not regardsuch an action as one to be pardoned. The Ecclesia is verystrict that such persons should be removed from theecclesiastical <strong>of</strong>fices. It is certainly not as a retributivepunishment, but as an exemplary and a preventive one. Whensuch a person repents, the Church holds that the personconcerned is eligible for divine grace.Theme No: 25On the Matrimony <strong>of</strong> the Clergy1. It is not because matrimony is unclean, but because theincumbents <strong>of</strong> the <strong>of</strong>fices <strong>of</strong> Patriarch, Catholicose and Bishophave special responsibility, and so are expected to devote theirentire time in the discharge <strong>of</strong> such duties,Ref: 1 <strong>of</strong> Theme 11CommentThe Church today does not permit the bishops, archbishops,the Catholicos and the Patriarchs to marry. This restrictionis however not theological. It appears that this practice <strong>of</strong>celibacy crept into the Church, as noted elsewhere in thiswork, following the emergence <strong>of</strong> monastic orders and itsinfluence. It has already been pointed out that some <strong>of</strong> theearly prelates <strong>of</strong> the Church, like a few <strong>of</strong> the CappadocianFathers were married men.2. Because they are to keep away from carnal desires for Godlypursuits they are expected to be ‘religious’. But as the priestswho manage the affairs <strong>of</strong> the churches have to be free andfriendly, with both men and women alike,Ref: op. cit. 2 (a) <strong>of</strong> Theme 24.CommentThe rationale for the restriction <strong>of</strong> marriage <strong>of</strong> Ecclesiasticaldignitaries like the bishops and the personages <strong>of</strong> the higher<strong>of</strong>fices is reiterated. It is necessitated by the need to keepsuch <strong>of</strong>ficers completely free from carnal desires and makethem fully devoted to religious causes. This practice, however,is not strictly to be followed in the case <strong>of</strong> priests. Theargument is that by and large the priests have to be in theworld, move in the world and mix with people, both men andwomen, as parish vicars or in charge <strong>of</strong> other missions. Inshort the dictum <strong>of</strong> the S.O.C. is that the priests shall notmarry. So the S.O.C. make the following provision. If a person