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CHALLENGE: THE TEN-DAY MENTAL<br />

CHALLENGE<br />

Here’s your opportunity now to really apply all <strong>the</strong> new disciplines you’ve learned in <strong>the</strong> previous<br />

chapters. My challenge to you is simply this:<br />

For <strong>the</strong> next ten days, beginning immediately, commit to taking full control of all your mental and<br />

emotional faculties by deciding right now that you will not indulge in or dwell on any unresourceful<br />

thoughts or emotions for ten consecutive days.<br />

It sounds easy, doesn’t it? And I’m sure it could be. But those who begin it are frequently surprised to<br />

discover how often <strong>the</strong>ir brains are engaged in nonproductive, fearful, worrisome, or destructive thinking.<br />

Why would we continually indulge in mental and emotional patterns that create unnecessary stress<br />

in our lives? The answer is simple: we actually think it helps! Many people live in a state of worry. In<br />

order to accomplish this state, <strong>the</strong>y continually focus and dwell on <strong>the</strong> worst possible scenario. Why<br />

would <strong>the</strong>y do this? Because <strong>the</strong>y believe it will get <strong>the</strong>m to do something—to take action. But <strong>the</strong><br />

truth of <strong>the</strong> matter is that worry usually puts a person in an extremely unresourceful emotional state. It<br />

doesn’t usually empower us to take action, but ra<strong>the</strong>r, it tends to cause us to become overwhelmed with<br />

frustration or fear.<br />

Yet, using some of <strong>the</strong> simplest tools in this book, you could change your worried state immediately by<br />

focusing on a solution. You could ask yourself a better question like, “What do I need to do right now to<br />

make this better?” Or you could change your state by changing <strong>the</strong> vocabulary you use to describe <strong>the</strong><br />

sensations you’re feeling: from “worried” to “a little bit concerned.”<br />

In essence, if you decide to accept my Ten-Day Challenge, it means that you’ve committed to putting<br />

yourself and keeping yourself in a passionately positive state, no matter what happens. It means that if<br />

you find yourself in any unresourceful emotional states, you’ll instantaneously change your physiology<br />

or focus into a resourceful state regardless of your desires of <strong>the</strong> moment. For example, if someone does<br />

something that you believe is destructive or even hateful toward you, and you begin to find yourself<br />

becoming angry, you must immediately change your emotional state, regardless of <strong>the</strong> situation, during<br />

<strong>the</strong>se ten consecutive days.<br />

Again, remember that you have a multitude of strategies for changing your state. You could ask yourself<br />

a more empowering question like, “What could I learn from this?” or “What’s great about this situation,<br />

and what’s not yet perfect?” These questions will lead you into resourceful states where you’ll find<br />

solutions instead of dwelling on and habitually running <strong>the</strong> cycle of increased anger and frustration.<br />

©2013 <strong>Robbins</strong> <strong>Re</strong>search International. www.tonyrobbins.com 41

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