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let break it down so that we can understand the nature of the lifestyle and hope to shed a little light on things ~Sir Arithon
Masochism : The term used for the person on the receiving end of a Sadist a person who derives satisfaction from pain. The pleasure of it is their tonic, Now its not for everyone and I appreciate it could be a little disturbing and I'm not trying to sell it to reader but if your best friend told you that she liked to feel the sting of leather on their back before being taken to the moon of sensual pleasure would you value them less? As a general guide the term BDSM can incorporate a wide variety of personal fetishes but at its core is a Dominant and at least one Submissive. Negotiation this is the stage when the basic rules and structure are negotiated and agreed. At this point the submissive has agreed to be "under consideration'' often they will wear a blue coloured collar so if you hear the term "Blue Collars" this is referring to the submissives in the phase. For all intended purposes in public both off and online these subs will behave as is they were owned and collared. Once in UC they are considered by the community to be OFF LIMITS and it is very bad form to approach a blue collar with a view to stealing them away. think of it as exclusively dating. A period of time when the Submissive and the Dominant can experience the bonding but can bow out gracefully if it does not work. negotiation is critical so take your time and cover all the bases, Once a submissive gives themselves to you the framework that is developed here must be adhered to. It will change of course as life unfurls but essentially here is the place you agree what levels and limits you have. Hard limits and soft limits are discussed negotiated and agreed, Rules, punishments, playtime everything. This of course is the Step only the Submissive can make. Why? because you have to know that he or she is willing to give themselves on all levels to you of their own free will. A lot of submissives just don't know all these things and will follow the Dominant blindly. This is not good and can lead to bad and destructive dynamics. BDSM communities have existed for many hundreds of years in fact the deeper dynamic often known as D/s style relationships are prominent in many walks of life. I will point out some ex<strong>amp</strong>les In later ramblings but first let me try to explain the nature of the dynamic. Perhaps if the rise of Christianity had not been so prevalent in the years following the fall of the Roman Empire you would be living in a world where every young maiden would be looking forward not to the dream of a beautiful wedding but instead would excitedly proclaim her Collaring Day The truth is that Women before the rise of Christianity were revered. In fact the pagans (which is the Christian word for people not like them) believed that the only way to heaven was through the woman. This may have a lot to do with the notion that it is from the woman's womb that life springs and so a natural conclusion would be to suggest that through a woman so the next life shall spring.
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