Inspiring Women : November 2020
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name. George or Mrs. Sanders or Professor.<br />
You might say, “Hey George, about time you<br />
showed up,” which now makes clear that<br />
your partner has a name and is late. Late to<br />
what? Where? Who are you? If you trust your<br />
improv, you wait to find out. It is your<br />
partner who will name you and flesh out the<br />
situation. He or she could say, “Yeah, boss,<br />
I’m sorry, the cat died” or “Look Fred, this<br />
wedding thing - I can’t go through with it.”<br />
Now maybe you were expecting a different<br />
answer like “Sorry, Sarah, I was out with the<br />
boys,” and instead you got “yeah, the space aliens from under the volcano jumped out, and I had to<br />
kill them all, but one of them had a giant death ray gun so, I had to die a couple times, but I kept<br />
coming back” which could leave you just staring at your partner. I mean, space aliens? Volcano?<br />
That’s insane and perhaps for a moment you consider trying to force the scene back to where Sarah<br />
leaves him for good.<br />
But that’s bad improv. The story has now<br />
changed. You now have two choices. You could<br />
accept the aliens as being real world and say<br />
something like, “Oh, that explains all the<br />
explosions I heard while getting dinner ready.<br />
Glad you made it,” or “Oh, I get it. You were<br />
playing that old video game your father used to<br />
play, ‘Space Volcano.’ He loved that game.“ The<br />
real joy of improv story telling is trying to figure<br />
out how to say yes to whatever comes out of the<br />
moment you are in.<br />
Way back those ten years ago, I also started using<br />
improv Just Say Yes in the real world. I come from<br />
a family that deeply valued being prepared for<br />
anything. I can leave the house with both a<br />
sweater and a t-shirt in case the temperature changes, yet sometimes life is better met<br />
unprepared. Just Say Yes helped me say yes to moving to Germany. Just Say Yes has led to many<br />
adventures around the world. Just Say Yes has made room for unexpected gifts to appear in my life.<br />
I want to tell you a story, but I also want you to tell that story with me. Together we can discover the<br />
story that wants to be told.<br />
Anitra Kitts is a writer, Presbyterian minister,<br />
weaver, and improver. Anitra was born in Oregon,<br />
which she still considers her home base, and<br />
moved with her husband to Munich from the Bay<br />
area in California in 2012. Anitra is a member of<br />
an all women improv group called Service’s Out<br />
and has come to the conclusion that improv is not<br />
zoom friendly. A past president of the Munich<br />
International <strong>Women</strong>’s Club, Anitra is grateful for<br />
all the communities that women create together.<br />
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