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Inspiring Women : November 2020

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In October 1991 my father, who had since moved to LA, had a stroke and my Stepmom asked me to<br />

move back with them to help take care of him since she was still working full-time. Once I settled in<br />

LA, I auditioned and was accepted to the American Academy of Dramatic Arts in Pasadena, where I<br />

studied Shakespeare, music, dance, Meisner, and Stanislavsky, I even learned how to fence!<br />

I possessed such a driving desire to perform that everything else in life was secondary. I knew in my<br />

heart that I wanted to make my living as an actor and share my art, give life to the words written by<br />

the playwright, and engage compassionate human connection in ways that only I, as an actor could<br />

do. So I poured my heart and soul into my art and worked part-time to fulfill my dreams. It was an<br />

exciting and trying time which should have been filled with lovely memories, but unfortunately, my<br />

father passed away in May 1992, followed by my mother six weeks later, which made it the most<br />

awful year of my life.<br />

After I graduated from the American<br />

Academy of Dramatic Arts, the very first<br />

audition I attended was for a singer/dancer<br />

for a major cruise line company. It was a<br />

nerve-wracking and totally exciting audition<br />

since the producer was none other than<br />

Anita Mann of Solid Gold fame (look it up<br />

young ‘uns). Nevertheless, I got the gig and<br />

ended up sailing all over the world for the<br />

next nine years. I have traveled up to the<br />

North Cape and down to Antarctica all in the<br />

same year.<br />

I refer to working on cruise ships as my<br />

“magic time” since I loved my job as a<br />

performer and I was traveling to new,<br />

exotic, and exciting countries. It took a<br />

Dressed for the Underseas finale with Remco (now my husband)<br />

special kind of person to work on a cruise<br />

ship since you lived where you worked and worked where you lived for periods of up to one year and<br />

beyond. It's not as easy as it sounds, but you learn to adapt to your new environment very quickly.<br />

On my first ship in 1994, my roommate<br />

(who is still one of my best friends) and I<br />

lived in an 8x10, windowless, double<br />

occupancy, below the waterline cabin<br />

that was plunged into complete darkness<br />

the moment you turned off the lights.<br />

But the pros heavily outweighed the cons,<br />

and the rewards of working on the ship<br />

were endless: Waking up in a different<br />

port every day, meeting fascinating<br />

people from all over the world, 5-star<br />

cuisine, romance and performing awardwinning<br />

shows in the middle of the<br />

ocean, wearing costumes designed by<br />

Bob Mackie.<br />

With actor Ann Miller on MS Rotterdam in 1999<br />

I met some of the most eccentric,<br />

incredible, and beautiful people from all<br />

walks of life from all over the world, and<br />

one of them happened to become my<br />

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