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I TAKE
Charge
of my life
Ms. Merlyn Leny Vaidyan
e new generation is awestruck by the fascinating, glamorous world, searching for shortcuts and smart cut to
survive the pressure and pleasure of life. No doubt, these days Parenting is the most challenging job. Yes, it's a job
without proper law and order. Parents are bewildered before their children in the name of the generation gap. At
times it harnesses proper thinking and ruins the manner of gradual development of a child.
e ‘Never give up ‘slogans are prominent and more spoken off. Motivation and boosting is often needed.
Psychological and physiological problems embark. ey scale their life to two extremes either to the top or to the
bottom. Emotional intelligence is nil. Everyone is getting carried away. Fear of failure, fear of rejection is haunting
many hearts.ere I urge everyone to understand that they should learn to Take Charge of their life.
ey need to learn facing Challenges by Hardworking, being Ambitious by Respecting everything they have,
considering own life as a Gift from God and showing their Excellence. (CHARGE)
Failure I refer is a ‘Tunnel time’. Entering into a tunnel and the darkness as we encounter, we are stumbled,
confused and the option we find is to return i: e to give up. One moment we close our eyes in prayer and patience
we suddenly realise a way to pass through. We convince our mind to face the challenge and recuperate. I think we
need to believe that every failure is God’s verdict which forcibly changes your pathway to the right one which we
are destined for. We are all believers of God. But due to lack of real faith when we are tested at times, we fail. We
face hindrances and intrusion. Distraction prevail and there is the victory of evil over good.
Holy spirit and divine Wisdom can lead us through such a situation. Parents can train children to take small
challenges and allow them to fail. If they agonize to fail, they will always fear to take up challenges. Train them to
suffer and be patient for their needs. Fulfil what is needed not all what they desire. Even God Almighty do not fulfill
all our desires. He chooses the right time and provides us with what is needed.
In Colossians 3:17 it says ...” And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving
thanks to God and the Father by him.
Every child should remember that it's God’s plan and justify with what God is asking them to do. Big dream is not
enough, rather we need to inculcate the habit of hardworking, growing gradually with steadfast steps toward goal
in life but respect the world God has given them. Take all responsibility to strive through and touch the sky of their
dreams and accomplishments. World needs new, natural shining stars who can light up this world with the grace of
Almighty's blessing.
Challenges by Hardworking, being Ambitious by Respecting
everything they have, considering own life as a Gift from God
and showing their Excellence.
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