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the wedding singers<br />
Music men hit the right notes<br />
By Weam Namou<br />
It’s your wedding day and the banquet<br />
hall is beautifully decorated<br />
with flowers, the cake has turned<br />
out just as you imagined, and the<br />
food, from past experience, is expected<br />
to be delicious. The guests are surprisingly<br />
on time. There are no signs<br />
of family quarrels and everyone is<br />
ready to let loose and have fun. Now,<br />
how are you going to ensure that you<br />
and your guests will have a fun-filled<br />
reception on the dance floor?<br />
“It’s all about the bride and groom<br />
and their bridal party,” says Munther<br />
Fahmi, the lead singer of Summer<br />
Band. “If they are dancing and having<br />
fun, everyone would have fun,<br />
and the band becomes in a good<br />
mood. If they’re laid back and just<br />
talking to their friends, then that<br />
slows the party down.”<br />
Majid Kakka, however, believes<br />
that every detail of the wedding helps<br />
make it a fun experience. While he<br />
said most people come into a wedding<br />
happy and ready to enjoy themselves,<br />
in rare occasions a dispute or<br />
recent death may put a damper on<br />
things. Sometimes it’s smaller matters<br />
— a bad menu, the dinner being<br />
served very late, the flowers dying as<br />
a result of severely cold weather.<br />
Whatever the circumstances,<br />
Kakka, who has been singing at weddings<br />
for more than 30 years, said the<br />
most important factor for a singer<br />
is to understand and remember the<br />
main idea of a wedding.<br />
“Two people are getting married,”<br />
he said. “There’s nothing sad or difficult<br />
about that. It’s all about fun and<br />
happiness.”<br />
At every wedding in which he<br />
performs, Kakka considers it his<br />
brother’s wedding and himself as the<br />
best man.<br />
“This is how I give it my all,”<br />
he said, adding that it helps him<br />
reach out to the wedding party’s<br />
family members, like the mother or<br />
the grandmother who might be in a<br />
wheelchair.<br />
Basma Goro booked Kakka for<br />
her June 7 wedding because she<br />
heard that having his band present<br />
Majid Kakka leads the popular Bells Band.<br />
photo by IVAN GEORGE/FUTUREWAVE IMAGES<br />
The Summer Band’s Munther Fahmi.<br />
translated to guests that “this is a<br />
fancy wedding.”<br />
“He sings a mixture of Arabic and<br />
Chaldean and makes the reception<br />
so lively that people don’t stop dancing,”<br />
said Goro. “And having the<br />
large band that he does, the music is<br />
of higher quality. So that when you<br />
play your wedding video, the sound is<br />
as loud and clear as when it was live.”<br />
Wisam Namou, whose wedding<br />
was on November 18, 2010, feels it is<br />
the wedding band’s responsibility to<br />
“rock the party.”<br />
“If the band messes up a lot, then<br />
they break the guests’ mood for dancing,”<br />
he said.<br />
While he liked the performance<br />
of the band at his wedding, having<br />
chosen them because they sang a lot<br />
of Chaldean songs and because he’d<br />
seen them perform at other parties,<br />
he felt they could have done a bit<br />
better.<br />
“My wife and I had sat with the<br />
band prior to the wedding and told<br />
them the songs we wanted them to<br />
sing,” said Namou, “but for some reason,<br />
they only performed 70 percent<br />
of what we requested.”<br />
Kakka and Fahmi sing a combination<br />
of Arabic and Chaldean songs,<br />
and their DJs play American songs.<br />
But over the years, Fahmi has observed<br />
that people want more American<br />
songs.<br />
“Whether people want mostly<br />
Arabic or mostly American, we still<br />
add Chaldean in every party – no<br />
matter what,” he said. “It’s our language<br />
and we want to keep it alive,<br />
even if people don’t request it.”<br />
Summer Yatooma’s wedding is<br />
March 25. He booked Fahmi because<br />
of his popularity, his “hot” performances<br />
at other weddings, and his<br />
Ashley Maza<br />
and Christopher<br />
Hindo dance<br />
up at storm at<br />
Shenandoah<br />
on August 13,<br />
2010.<br />
strong Iraqi dialect.<br />
“I want to have a lot of modern,<br />
but native-Iraqi, songs at my wedding”<br />
said Yatooma.<br />
Kakka said he hasn’t really noticed<br />
a big change in music preferences<br />
over the years, and that people<br />
go for whatever is newly released and<br />
popular.<br />
“Arabic songs are becoming more<br />
international,” he said. “Whether it’s<br />
the newcomers or those who have<br />
been here 50 years, when a good song<br />
comes out, they want it.”<br />
Kakka began his career singing at<br />
parties in Baghdad, where ironically,<br />
only 20 percent of the music was<br />
Iraqi or Arabic and 80 percent was<br />
Western.<br />
“Here in the United States, it’s<br />
the opposite,” he said. “It’s 80 percent<br />
Arabic and Chaldean and 20<br />
percent – the DJ part – American.”<br />
The singers have enjoyed giving<br />
performances at weddings, some nationwide,<br />
others abroad, but Fahmi —<br />
who this spring is opening a school<br />
for Chaldean kids to learn about<br />
Chaldean and Arabic music — said,<br />
“There’s nothing like Detroit! Here,<br />
we’re many different villages gathered<br />
together.”<br />
Sometimes a musician’s duties go<br />
beyond a simple performance. Fahmi<br />
said he’ll never forget performing at<br />
a wedding at Shenandoah when at<br />
the end of the night, the bride and<br />
groom were left all alone with no cars<br />
or guests in sight.<br />
“The groom asked if I lived in the<br />
area and I said yes. He said, ‘I don’t<br />
know what happened. Everyone is<br />
gone. Can you take me home?’”<br />
<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2012</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29