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the wedding singers<br />

Music men hit the right notes<br />

By Weam Namou<br />

It’s your wedding day and the banquet<br />

hall is beautifully decorated<br />

with flowers, the cake has turned<br />

out just as you imagined, and the<br />

food, from past experience, is expected<br />

to be delicious. The guests are surprisingly<br />

on time. There are no signs<br />

of family quarrels and everyone is<br />

ready to let loose and have fun. Now,<br />

how are you going to ensure that you<br />

and your guests will have a fun-filled<br />

reception on the dance floor?<br />

“It’s all about the bride and groom<br />

and their bridal party,” says Munther<br />

Fahmi, the lead singer of Summer<br />

Band. “If they are dancing and having<br />

fun, everyone would have fun,<br />

and the band becomes in a good<br />

mood. If they’re laid back and just<br />

talking to their friends, then that<br />

slows the party down.”<br />

Majid Kakka, however, believes<br />

that every detail of the wedding helps<br />

make it a fun experience. While he<br />

said most people come into a wedding<br />

happy and ready to enjoy themselves,<br />

in rare occasions a dispute or<br />

recent death may put a damper on<br />

things. Sometimes it’s smaller matters<br />

— a bad menu, the dinner being<br />

served very late, the flowers dying as<br />

a result of severely cold weather.<br />

Whatever the circumstances,<br />

Kakka, who has been singing at weddings<br />

for more than 30 years, said the<br />

most important factor for a singer<br />

is to understand and remember the<br />

main idea of a wedding.<br />

“Two people are getting married,”<br />

he said. “There’s nothing sad or difficult<br />

about that. It’s all about fun and<br />

happiness.”<br />

At every wedding in which he<br />

performs, Kakka considers it his<br />

brother’s wedding and himself as the<br />

best man.<br />

“This is how I give it my all,”<br />

he said, adding that it helps him<br />

reach out to the wedding party’s<br />

family members, like the mother or<br />

the grandmother who might be in a<br />

wheelchair.<br />

Basma Goro booked Kakka for<br />

her June 7 wedding because she<br />

heard that having his band present<br />

Majid Kakka leads the popular Bells Band.<br />

photo by IVAN GEORGE/FUTUREWAVE IMAGES<br />

The Summer Band’s Munther Fahmi.<br />

translated to guests that “this is a<br />

fancy wedding.”<br />

“He sings a mixture of Arabic and<br />

Chaldean and makes the reception<br />

so lively that people don’t stop dancing,”<br />

said Goro. “And having the<br />

large band that he does, the music is<br />

of higher quality. So that when you<br />

play your wedding video, the sound is<br />

as loud and clear as when it was live.”<br />

Wisam Namou, whose wedding<br />

was on November 18, 2010, feels it is<br />

the wedding band’s responsibility to<br />

“rock the party.”<br />

“If the band messes up a lot, then<br />

they break the guests’ mood for dancing,”<br />

he said.<br />

While he liked the performance<br />

of the band at his wedding, having<br />

chosen them because they sang a lot<br />

of Chaldean songs and because he’d<br />

seen them perform at other parties,<br />

he felt they could have done a bit<br />

better.<br />

“My wife and I had sat with the<br />

band prior to the wedding and told<br />

them the songs we wanted them to<br />

sing,” said Namou, “but for some reason,<br />

they only performed 70 percent<br />

of what we requested.”<br />

Kakka and Fahmi sing a combination<br />

of Arabic and Chaldean songs,<br />

and their DJs play American songs.<br />

But over the years, Fahmi has observed<br />

that people want more American<br />

songs.<br />

“Whether people want mostly<br />

Arabic or mostly American, we still<br />

add Chaldean in every party – no<br />

matter what,” he said. “It’s our language<br />

and we want to keep it alive,<br />

even if people don’t request it.”<br />

Summer Yatooma’s wedding is<br />

March 25. He booked Fahmi because<br />

of his popularity, his “hot” performances<br />

at other weddings, and his<br />

Ashley Maza<br />

and Christopher<br />

Hindo dance<br />

up at storm at<br />

Shenandoah<br />

on August 13,<br />

2010.<br />

strong Iraqi dialect.<br />

“I want to have a lot of modern,<br />

but native-Iraqi, songs at my wedding”<br />

said Yatooma.<br />

Kakka said he hasn’t really noticed<br />

a big change in music preferences<br />

over the years, and that people<br />

go for whatever is newly released and<br />

popular.<br />

“Arabic songs are becoming more<br />

international,” he said. “Whether it’s<br />

the newcomers or those who have<br />

been here 50 years, when a good song<br />

comes out, they want it.”<br />

Kakka began his career singing at<br />

parties in Baghdad, where ironically,<br />

only 20 percent of the music was<br />

Iraqi or Arabic and 80 percent was<br />

Western.<br />

“Here in the United States, it’s<br />

the opposite,” he said. “It’s 80 percent<br />

Arabic and Chaldean and 20<br />

percent – the DJ part – American.”<br />

The singers have enjoyed giving<br />

performances at weddings, some nationwide,<br />

others abroad, but Fahmi —<br />

who this spring is opening a school<br />

for Chaldean kids to learn about<br />

Chaldean and Arabic music — said,<br />

“There’s nothing like Detroit! Here,<br />

we’re many different villages gathered<br />

together.”<br />

Sometimes a musician’s duties go<br />

beyond a simple performance. Fahmi<br />

said he’ll never forget performing at<br />

a wedding at Shenandoah when at<br />

the end of the night, the bride and<br />

groom were left all alone with no cars<br />

or guests in sight.<br />

“The groom asked if I lived in the<br />

area and I said yes. He said, ‘I don’t<br />

know what happened. Everyone is<br />

gone. Can you take me home?’”<br />

<strong>MARCH</strong> <strong>2012</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29

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