V22 N8

The Answer Lady invites inquiries from
gentle readers on all manner of relationship
quandaries, matters of the
heart and ethics. If you’d like to send
a query, write to info@exitzero.us. Or,
simply sit back, enjoy a cup of coffee and contemplate
the wisdom herein.
Dear Answer Lady
I am seventeen and I want eyelash extensions
and lip filler before the prom. My parents
said no and I don’t understand. I’m using
my own money. When I am 18 I intend to do it
anyway and I want a tattoo, which they also
oppose. It’s my body and I think I should have
a choice. What do you think? — Free to be Me
Dear Free
You are not free to be you yet and unless
you are prepared to move out, so you might
just have to sit on this for a bit. We know the
prom is coming up, but we would also like
you to know that Mr Rogers had it right when
he said, “I like you just the way you are.” The
Answer Lady senses that you do not like the
way you look or think you will look better if
The Answer Lady
Wise answers to perplexing questions
you do these things. It is a road that usually
never ends with satisfaction. There is always
some perceived imperfection that you may
decide needs to be “fixed.” Instead, why not
spend your money on a really knockout outfit?
Take Mom with you. Stop in at Willow & Stone
or Caroline’s Boutique. Focus on the positive
and not the negative. It will make you happier.
Dear Answer Lady
I asked my husband what he wanted for his
birthday. He said he wanted nothing except to
play golf and “sit in front of the TV.” So, I did
nothing except give him a card. It was very
apparent the next day that he expected more.
What he wanted, I don’t know, but whatever it
was, I failed him. I don’t know how to make up
for this. On the other hand, was I expected to
mind read? — In the doghouse
Dear In House
Asking people what they want for any
occasion is tricky. Some people don’t think it
is inappropriate to make what they may deem,
demands. As adults, we sometimes think it
childish to “make a fuss.” However, most people
want some kind of acknowledgement of
their special day. The Answer Lady suggests
you make reservations at Oyster Bay. When
you make the reservation, ask them to bring
a dessert with a candle at the end of the meal.
We are sure they will be very accommodating
and what a surprise it will be. After he blows
out the belated birthday candle, offer an apology
and a promise not to be quite so literal next
year. And don’t forget to leave a good tip.
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