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Young Adult Women 151<br />

with their attainment of the right to vote, received in 1920. And<br />

the obsession increased. The flapper image of the late twenties into<br />

the thirties further illustrates this point, with the flattened breasts<br />

and curveless clothes. In the fifties women were given a reprieve as<br />

domesticity was “in,” and the fuller figure was reaccepted. But in<br />

the mid-sixties Twiggy became the role model of many women—a<br />

prepubescent tubular body, which appeared to have the fragility of<br />

a twig that might snap in the wind. Wolf says, “When women came<br />

en masse into male spheres, that pleasure had to be overridden by an<br />

urgent social expedient that would make women’s bodies into the<br />

prisons that their homes no longer were” (184). Are women trying<br />

to be less feminine in their attempts to compete in a male-dominant<br />

society? Perhaps it is but a different version of the chameleon of<br />

which I spoke earlier.<br />

Wolf (1991) talks exquisitely of her “One Stone Solution” (186).<br />

One stone, the British measurement of fourteen pounds, is the average<br />

amount of weight women aspire to lose—a weight that will have<br />

50 percent of dieting women well below their ideal weight that is<br />

natural and beautiful to their bodies. But society set it up that way—<br />

and women bought it. Without the extra thin body, a woman is not<br />

truly successful. And as she struggles to attain and maintain it, like<br />

quicksilver, she cannot hold onto it because physically she is crying<br />

out for the sustenance she needs. Her mind and body are in conflict.<br />

She is unable to be as successful as she might be in whatever<br />

endeavor she undertakes.<br />

Wolf cites research by S. C. Wooley and O. W. Wooley which<br />

illustrated that preoccupations with weight lead to “a virtual collapse<br />

of self-esteem and sense of effectiveness,” while J. Polivy and C. P.<br />

Herman found that “prolonged and periodic caloric restriction<br />

resulted in a distinctive personality whose traits are passivity, anxiety,<br />

and emotionality” (Wolf 1991, 187, 188). Thus Wolf concludes, “It is<br />

those traits, and not thinness for its own sake, that the dominant culture<br />

wants to create in the private sense of self of recently liberated<br />

women, in order to cancel out the dangers of their liberation” (188).<br />

As a therapist today working with these young women, I believe that<br />

Wolf makes a cogent argument, one we cannot ignore. In their relentless<br />

pursuit of thinness, many of these young women are nowhere<br />

nearly as effective in their overall performance as they have the capac-

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