Eating Disorders - fieldi
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30 Recovery Through Nutritional Counseling<br />
alphabetical order. She is surprised that there are so many feelings.<br />
I now ask her to highlight the ones that describe her mood. This<br />
makes her feel slightly better, not only because I can now<br />
empathize with her since I know how she feels but also because she<br />
herself has a name for these uncomfortable feelings. Patients are<br />
often elated to find a vocabulary that finally describes what they<br />
have been coping with.<br />
The third question has two parts. There is a short-term question:<br />
Does restricting or eating help? Does it make you feel better? In<br />
most cases, the answer is yes! Not everyone knows why but, after<br />
some thought, most patients admit that restricting or eating numbs<br />
those painful feelings they just realized they had had. We call that<br />
emotional restricting or eating, as opposed to physical eating, which is<br />
when we eat because of hunger. The second part of this question<br />
deals with the long-term picture: Does restricting or eating solve the<br />
problem? We agree that it does not, so now she needs to address the<br />
last question: What can I do instead of restricting or eating? It is<br />
hoped that appropriate brainstorming will lead to suggestions about<br />
what to do. Deep down, filled with fear, the anorexic knows that she<br />
needs to eat and face her blocked feelings. For the bulimic and the<br />
compulsive overeater, suggestions might include exercising, attacking<br />
a long-awaited project (cleaning a closet), calling someone, writing<br />
about it, or just accepting it. In order to “just accept it,” patients<br />
have found it helpful to analyze realistically the situation that caused<br />
the feelings. This analysis helps the patient realize that her feelings<br />
are frequently based on personal assumptions about what others<br />
would think or say about her—rather than reality.<br />
The patient eventually will become somewhat aware of these new,<br />
often painful feelings that can be overwhelming and try to get in<br />
touch with them. The therapist and nutritionist will communicate<br />
with each other regarding focus and content in order to coordinate<br />
this part of emotional relearning. Learning how to deal with new<br />
feelings frequently leads to continuous restriction or binge eating.<br />
The patient comes to realize slowly how she unconsciously has been<br />
responding to mental discomfort. She is now more ready than ever<br />
to listen to suggestions on prevention. How can she help herself not<br />
to eat or overeat/binge over emotional issues? After some brainstorming,<br />
anything is worthwhile practicing. With the bulimic