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Kreung Ethnicity - United Nations in Cambodia

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that she becomes pregnant. At this time, if the possible pregnancy is not<br />

discussed, future tatch will not be <strong>in</strong>cluded <strong>in</strong> this issue. In some cases, the man<br />

may pay a higher tatch up front that would <strong>in</strong>clude payment for any possible<br />

pregnancy that occurs.<br />

In the case where an unmarried man has sex with another man’s wife, he will<br />

be responsible to pay tatch. With regard to the marriage, the husband has<br />

prior right to divorce his wife. The unmarried man also has right to accept or<br />

reject the woman to be his wife. The woman has only the right to refuse<br />

marry<strong>in</strong>g the unmarried man, but not to divorce her husband. However, both<br />

the unmarried man and the woman are considered to have broken a customary<br />

rule, so they have to jo<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> the responsibility to provide tatch to the husband,<br />

who is considered the victim. If the woman’s husband is will<strong>in</strong>g to offer his wife<br />

to the other man, both can live together, but they must pay tatch for the<br />

expenditure <strong>in</strong> the previous wedd<strong>in</strong>g and other <strong>in</strong>terests promised dur<strong>in</strong>g the<br />

wedd<strong>in</strong>g/engagement to the husband. Secondly if the unmarried man and the<br />

husband both refuse to accept the woman to be his wife, then the unmarried<br />

man must pay a separate tatch to the husband accord<strong>in</strong>g to his claim, and<br />

the woman must also pay tatch to her husband accord<strong>in</strong>g to the wedd<strong>in</strong>g/<br />

engagement promise. This tatch must be at least a cow, a pig, a chicken and a<br />

jar of w<strong>in</strong>e. A pig, chicken and w<strong>in</strong>e are brought for sacrific<strong>in</strong>g to the spirits as<br />

well as heal<strong>in</strong>g of the dispute. The cow, however, is not sacrificed and is given<br />

to the husband. However, as <strong>in</strong> other cases, the negotiation of tatch is<br />

determ<strong>in</strong>ed by the parties on a case by case basis.<br />

As <strong>in</strong> previous examples, <strong>in</strong> cases where a married man has sex with an<br />

unmarried woman, both are considered culturally guilty. With regard to the<br />

marriage, the husband is under no obligation to divorce his wife and the<br />

unmarried woman is under no obligation to marry the man. In either case, both<br />

the man and woman have broken a customary rule, and therefore have the<br />

jo<strong>in</strong>t responsibility of tatch to the wife, who is considered the victim. Firstly,<br />

if the wife is will<strong>in</strong>g to offer her husband to the unmarried woman and her<br />

husband agrees, they can live with each other. However they must pay tatch<br />

as noted above. If the husband does not agree to divorce her, the woman<br />

<strong>Kreung</strong> <strong>Ethnicity</strong>: Documentation of Customary Rules<br />

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