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September 2008 - The Parklander Magazine

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EDUCATIONAL INFORMATION<br />

Getting Organized:<br />

THE KEY TO SCHOOL SUCCESS<br />

By Dr. Renae Lapin, LMFT<br />

Teaching your children to be organized can be both the most important and<br />

the most daunting challenge a parent can undertake. <strong>The</strong> significance of this<br />

critical skill of exploring, developing and following an organization system<br />

that works for each child is often overlooked. Also, when the parent is<br />

“organizationally challenged”, this task becomes increasingly more important<br />

and more difficult.<br />

Success in school<br />

and future work<br />

hinges on the ability to have some semblance of an organization system.<br />

Organization skills are required for success in managing college courses,<br />

your job, your finances, nutrition, medical needs, exercise, your family life,<br />

your children, music, auto maintenance and your hobbies.<br />

In my practice, many parents have inquired about a simple plan to follow<br />

to help their children become more organized with their schoolwork.<br />

Even if you are not the best role model in this area, you can use the<br />

guidelines below to help your children enhance their ability to succeed in<br />

school and avoid risking additional school stress:<br />

Depending upon their age, grade level and ability, on a daily basis,<br />

parents can require their children to:<br />

• Write in their planner<br />

• Include an entry for each subject<br />

• If no homework assignment, then review notes, read, study for<br />

next test or organize folder<br />

• Place name, date and subject on every school paper<br />

• Keep a separate folder or binder for each class<br />

• Use different colors for easy identification<br />

• Label all folders or binders neatly for each subject<br />

• Keep a separate folder for papers to take home to parent/guardian<br />

and “to do” reminders<br />

• Replace folders or binders once each quarter or as they wear<br />

out or break<br />

Take the time to neatly place each paper in the<br />

correct folder or binder throughout the day<br />

• Keep a three-ring hole puncher in backpack— punch holes and place<br />

papers in binders immediately.<br />

• Keep only papers related to subject in each folder. Do not keep any<br />

papers in subject folders that are not related to the subject, such as<br />

forms to be sent home, drawings or notes from friends.<br />

• Only keep current papers in folders in backpack. File school papers<br />

and organize school folders daily as part of homework routine.<br />

• Develop and maintain a file system at home for old papers divided by<br />

subject and quarter. This will be different for each subject; however, it<br />

is a good rule to file papers at home each new quarter.<br />

• Keep pens, pencils, paper and all school supplies available in a<br />

sensible, user friendly place in backpack.<br />

• Replenish supplies as needed and check supplies daily as part<br />

of homework routine.<br />

• Keep an updated “to do” list throughout the day and look at it as<br />

part of homework routine. For example: buy pens, get parent<br />

permission form signed, bring in money for field trip, ask teacher<br />

for make-up work.<br />

• Develop a study schedule at home.<br />

• Begin homework, organizing and studying before TV, computer,<br />

games, telephone or free time.<br />

• Locate a quiet place at home to do homework, or select an alternative<br />

study location, such as an afterschool program, community center<br />

or library.<br />

Begin studying at home daily with:<br />

• Reviewing all papers for name, date and subject.<br />

• Organizing and filing all papers in correct folder or in home file.<br />

• Before beginning homework or studying, estimate the amount of<br />

time needed for each assignment.<br />

• Select which assignment or studying should be done first considering<br />

which is more time consuming, more difficult or most important.<br />

After completing an assignment,<br />

immediately place it carefully in<br />

correct folder in backpack.<br />

Regularly review system for organization of :<br />

• Materials and supplies<br />

• Time management<br />

• Location and space for studying<br />

• Finally, experiment with different systems and methods to find out<br />

what works best for you and your children.<br />

This may all take some time to master, but make sure to encourage and<br />

congratulate your child on his/her efforts and a job well done!<br />

92 SEPTEMBER <strong>2008</strong>

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