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<strong>March</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />
THE VALLEY BUSINESS JOURNAL<br />
www.TheValleyBusinessJournal.com<br />
5 Smart Tips for Parents of Teen Drivers<br />
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You knew this day would come,<br />
but who knew it’d be so soon!? Wasn’t<br />
it yesterday you were putting them in<br />
their car seat, pushing them in a stroller,<br />
and teaching them to ride a bike? Now<br />
they’re ready to drive! When the heck<br />
did that happen!?<br />
Let’s be honest…parenting a teenager<br />
these days is serious business, (what<br />
with the Internet, social media, smart<br />
phones, texting, and all that loud music!)<br />
and getting them ready for the road can<br />
be terrifying. So to help make your teen<br />
smarter behind the wheel plus help stop<br />
your hand from shaking as you hand over<br />
the keys, here are 5 tips for dealing with<br />
a new teen driver:<br />
1. Demonstrate good driving behavior<br />
early - They started copying you when<br />
they were babies (remember when<br />
they repeated that one word you wish<br />
they hadn’t?) so it’s no surprise that<br />
kids mimic your behavior behind the<br />
wheel, too! If you want your new<br />
driver to keep off the phone, stay calm,<br />
and focus on the road, remember to<br />
do that kind of stuff yourself. Think<br />
of yourself as a road role model, and<br />
drive that way.<br />
2. It’s OK to let a Pro teach them -<br />
You’ve been teaching them stuff<br />
their whole lives (how to walk, tie<br />
their shoes, throw a baseball, talk to<br />
girls) so it makes sense that you’d<br />
want to teach them to drive too. But<br />
the reality is this is a tough time in<br />
both your lives. You want them to be<br />
the safest drivers on the planet…and<br />
they just want to grow up and drive<br />
away. That’s why hiring a professional<br />
driving instructor or signing them<br />
up for Driver’s Ed is a good idea. It<br />
may be unnerving, but they’ll get the<br />
right info and training. And this way,<br />
it won’t affect your relationship, or<br />
their maturity. It may even earn them<br />
an Auto insurance discount!<br />
3. Set realistic boundaries - It may not<br />
feel like it sometimes, but kids crave<br />
rules and boundaries (even if they<br />
break them once in a blue moon). So<br />
talk to your kids early on and discuss<br />
their boundaries as new drivers. Maybe<br />
you don’t want them going more<br />
than 20 miles from home, driving with<br />
a bunch of friends in the car, or riding<br />
around after dark…at least for the first<br />
few months. Whatever guidelines you<br />
think are best, lay them down well<br />
in advance and you’ll avoid those<br />
big arguments when your teen starts<br />
driving. It may even help to write up<br />
a contract with them to sign, or give<br />
them rewards or more responsibilities<br />
as they gain experience.<br />
4. Talk to them about the risks of driving…not<br />
just drinking and driving<br />
- You’ve probably been talking to<br />
your kids about drinking and driving<br />
for a while now, because since<br />
forever, that’s been parents’ biggest<br />
concern. But now we’re in a world of<br />
Smartphones, tablets, Smartwatches,<br />
satellite radio, and who knows what<br />
else technology is on the horizon!<br />
That means countless new distractions<br />
for drivers, young and old. So spell<br />
them out for your teen, and help them<br />
understand the dangers of distracted<br />
driving just as much as the dangers<br />
of drinking and driving.<br />
5. Share driving responsibilities - As new<br />
drivers, it’s a good idea to give your<br />
teen excuses to practice their skills.<br />
Send them out to the grocery store,<br />
have them pick up their little brother<br />
from soccer practice, or ask them to<br />
drive Dad to the airport. It may take<br />
a little getting used to for you, but<br />
sharing the household driving responsibilities<br />
takes some of them off your<br />
plate. It’ll also expand their skills and<br />
get them ready for the boring realities<br />
of driving in the real world.<br />
Craig Davis is an agent for Farmers<br />
Insurance and the owner of Craig Davis<br />
Family Insurance located at 27645 Jefferson,<br />
Suite 113, in Temecula. He may<br />
be reached at (951) 699-1776. cdavis@<br />
farmersagent.com