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<strong>March</strong> <strong>2016</strong><br />

THE VALLEY BUSINESS JOURNAL<br />

www.TheValleyBusinessJournal.com<br />

5 Smart Tips for Parents of Teen Drivers<br />

25<br />

You knew this day would come,<br />

but who knew it’d be so soon!? Wasn’t<br />

it yesterday you were putting them in<br />

their car seat, pushing them in a stroller,<br />

and teaching them to ride a bike? Now<br />

they’re ready to drive! When the heck<br />

did that happen!?<br />

Let’s be honest…parenting a teenager<br />

these days is serious business, (what<br />

with the Internet, social media, smart<br />

phones, texting, and all that loud music!)<br />

and getting them ready for the road can<br />

be terrifying. So to help make your teen<br />

smarter behind the wheel plus help stop<br />

your hand from shaking as you hand over<br />

the keys, here are 5 tips for dealing with<br />

a new teen driver:<br />

1. Demonstrate good driving behavior<br />

early - They started copying you when<br />

they were babies (remember when<br />

they repeated that one word you wish<br />

they hadn’t?) so it’s no surprise that<br />

kids mimic your behavior behind the<br />

wheel, too! If you want your new<br />

driver to keep off the phone, stay calm,<br />

and focus on the road, remember to<br />

do that kind of stuff yourself. Think<br />

of yourself as a road role model, and<br />

drive that way.<br />

2. It’s OK to let a Pro teach them -<br />

You’ve been teaching them stuff<br />

their whole lives (how to walk, tie<br />

their shoes, throw a baseball, talk to<br />

girls) so it makes sense that you’d<br />

want to teach them to drive too. But<br />

the reality is this is a tough time in<br />

both your lives. You want them to be<br />

the safest drivers on the planet…and<br />

they just want to grow up and drive<br />

away. That’s why hiring a professional<br />

driving instructor or signing them<br />

up for Driver’s Ed is a good idea. It<br />

may be unnerving, but they’ll get the<br />

right info and training. And this way,<br />

it won’t affect your relationship, or<br />

their maturity. It may even earn them<br />

an Auto insurance discount!<br />

3. Set realistic boundaries - It may not<br />

feel like it sometimes, but kids crave<br />

rules and boundaries (even if they<br />

break them once in a blue moon). So<br />

talk to your kids early on and discuss<br />

their boundaries as new drivers. Maybe<br />

you don’t want them going more<br />

than 20 miles from home, driving with<br />

a bunch of friends in the car, or riding<br />

around after dark…at least for the first<br />

few months. Whatever guidelines you<br />

think are best, lay them down well<br />

in advance and you’ll avoid those<br />

big arguments when your teen starts<br />

driving. It may even help to write up<br />

a contract with them to sign, or give<br />

them rewards or more responsibilities<br />

as they gain experience.<br />

4. Talk to them about the risks of driving…not<br />

just drinking and driving<br />

- You’ve probably been talking to<br />

your kids about drinking and driving<br />

for a while now, because since<br />

forever, that’s been parents’ biggest<br />

concern. But now we’re in a world of<br />

Smartphones, tablets, Smartwatches,<br />

satellite radio, and who knows what<br />

else technology is on the horizon!<br />

That means countless new distractions<br />

for drivers, young and old. So spell<br />

them out for your teen, and help them<br />

understand the dangers of distracted<br />

driving just as much as the dangers<br />

of drinking and driving.<br />

5. Share driving responsibilities - As new<br />

drivers, it’s a good idea to give your<br />

teen excuses to practice their skills.<br />

Send them out to the grocery store,<br />

have them pick up their little brother<br />

from soccer practice, or ask them to<br />

drive Dad to the airport. It may take<br />

a little getting used to for you, but<br />

sharing the household driving responsibilities<br />

takes some of them off your<br />

plate. It’ll also expand their skills and<br />

get them ready for the boring realities<br />

of driving in the real world.<br />

Craig Davis is an agent for Farmers<br />

Insurance and the owner of Craig Davis<br />

Family Insurance located at 27645 Jefferson,<br />

Suite 113, in Temecula. He may<br />

be reached at (951) 699-1776. cdavis@<br />

farmersagent.com

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