Queer as he wants to be - Out & About Newspaper
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8 • NEWS • OUT & ABOUT NEWSPAPER • APRIL, 2006<br />
Pho<strong>to</strong> provided<br />
GLBT youth under fire — continued from page 1<br />
ment that is designed <strong>to</strong> prevent GLBT<br />
people from “owning” t<strong>he</strong>ir identities<br />
and whose main goal is <strong>to</strong> prevent those<br />
same people from gaining b<strong>as</strong>ic civil<br />
rights.<br />
In fact, t<strong>he</strong> “t<strong>he</strong>rapy” can do immediate<br />
and long-term harm <strong>to</strong> gay youth<br />
and h<strong>as</strong> <strong>be</strong>en <strong>as</strong>sociated with depression,<br />
suicidal ideation, sexual dysfunction and<br />
ot<strong>he</strong>r psychosocial problems. T<strong>he</strong>re is<br />
also a high correlation with distancing<br />
from loved ones, both significant ot<strong>he</strong>rs<br />
and biological<br />
family mem<strong>be</strong>rs.<br />
T<strong>he</strong> impetus<br />
for t<strong>he</strong> study<br />
also came from<br />
t<strong>he</strong> realization<br />
on t<strong>he</strong> part of<br />
national experts<br />
that t<strong>he</strong>re is a<br />
shift in focus<br />
Foreman<br />
occurring within<br />
t<strong>he</strong> “ex-gay”<br />
movement. In<br />
turning away<br />
from “curing” adults and focusing on<br />
“prevention” in children and aggressive<br />
treatment of teens, t<strong>he</strong> movement h<strong>as</strong><br />
<strong>be</strong>gun <strong>to</strong> concentrate its attention on<br />
some of t<strong>he</strong> most vulnerable mem<strong>be</strong>rs<br />
of our community.<br />
“It is morally repugnant and downright<br />
dangerous t<strong>he</strong> way t<strong>he</strong>se extremists<br />
demonize young people and prey on t<strong>he</strong><br />
fears of parents through t<strong>he</strong>ir so-called<br />
ex-gay programs,” said Matt Foreman,<br />
executive direc<strong>to</strong>r of t<strong>he</strong> National Gay<br />
and Lesbian T<strong>as</strong>k Force. “T<strong>he</strong>se programs<br />
and conferences are often establis<strong>he</strong>d<br />
in states that are fertile ground<br />
for right-wing organizing efforts,<br />
notably in states that are considering<br />
anti-same-sex marriage ballot me<strong>as</strong>ures.<br />
It is no wonder that t<strong>he</strong>ir organizers are<br />
viewed <strong>as</strong> politically motivated.”<br />
Foreman’s statement came only days<br />
<strong>be</strong>fore a national Reclaiming America<br />
for Christ conference <strong>he</strong>ld at Coral<br />
Ridge Baptist Church in Fort<br />
Lauderdale, Fla. T<strong>he</strong> speakers’ roster for<br />
that conference included Alan<br />
Cham<strong>be</strong>rs, President of Exodus<br />
International, an “ex-gay” umbrella<br />
organization that claims worldwide<br />
scope. Exodus International <strong>he</strong>adquarters<br />
are located in Orlando, Fla.<br />
A cursory inven<strong>to</strong>ry of online references<br />
reveals a minimum of twelve “exgay”<br />
programs in Tennessee located<br />
from Chattanooga <strong>to</strong> Kingsport <strong>to</strong><br />
Memphis. As previously reported in<br />
“<strong>Out</strong> and <strong>About</strong> <strong>Newspaper</strong>”, Zach<br />
Stark, a gay teen from Memphis, w<strong>as</strong><br />
incarcerated in Refuge, a Love in Action<br />
affiliate, l<strong>as</strong>t summer.<br />
His blog chronicling his distress<br />
regarding t<strong>he</strong> treatment in that facility<br />
sparked protests by <strong>Queer</strong> Action<br />
Coalition and brought national attention<br />
<strong>to</strong> Zach’s plight. Some of t<strong>he</strong>se programs<br />
are affiliated with Exodus<br />
International while ot<strong>he</strong>rs are “homegrown”<br />
and lump gays <strong>to</strong>get<strong>he</strong>r with sex<br />
addicts of various stripes.<br />
“Tennessee youth are particularly vulnerable<br />
<strong>to</strong> faith-b<strong>as</strong>ed attacks on t<strong>he</strong>ir<br />
identity,” <strong>as</strong>serted Paul Balo, president<br />
of t<strong>he</strong> Greater Knoxville Chapter of<br />
PFLAG. “T<strong>he</strong>re are concerns about t<strong>he</strong><br />
targeting of youth by any group fostering<br />
exclusion. GLBTQ youth are especially<br />
vulnerable <strong>to</strong> t<strong>he</strong> isolation caused<br />
by feeling different. Bible-<strong>be</strong>lt culture<br />
can provide e<strong>as</strong>y justification for meanspirited<br />
attacks on GLBTQ people.<br />
PFLAG supports family communication,<br />
which is often silenced by certain religious<br />
<strong>be</strong>liefs, and provides referrals <strong>to</strong><br />
youth services.”<br />
T<strong>he</strong> Greater Knoxville area also bo<strong>as</strong>ts<br />
Spectrum Diversi-Tea and Coffee House,<br />
providing a venue for local youth <strong>to</strong><br />
find friends and a supportive environment.<br />
Participation is limited <strong>to</strong> youth<br />
aged 14 <strong>to</strong> 18. T<strong>he</strong> group is hosted by<br />
t<strong>he</strong> Tennessee Valley Universalist<br />
Unitarian Church with David M<strong>as</strong>sey at<br />
t<strong>he</strong> <strong>he</strong>lm of this very important group.<br />
In nearby Oak Ridge, t<strong>he</strong> recently<br />
formed Oak Ridge High School Gay-<br />
Straight Alliance offers yet anot<strong>he</strong>r<br />
resource for teens seeking support and<br />
friendship. It is listed <strong>as</strong> a resource on<br />
<strong>Out</strong>minds, an online community offering<br />
an Internet haven for students aged<br />
13 and older.<br />
“We now have permission <strong>to</strong> have our<br />
club and will <strong>be</strong> looking forward <strong>to</strong> creating<br />
a more <strong>to</strong>lerant community at<br />
ORHS,” <strong>as</strong>serted Tess Ful<strong>to</strong>n, a leader in<br />
t<strong>he</strong> Alliance.<br />
Additionally, t<strong>he</strong>re are tentative plans<br />
<strong>to</strong> air t<strong>he</strong> film “Trevor” <strong>as</strong> part of a Pride<br />
2006 event focusing on t<strong>he</strong> emotional<br />
needs of GLBT youth and suicide prevention<br />
in that population. �<br />
Beth can <strong>be</strong> reac<strong>he</strong>d at<br />
<strong>be</strong>th@outandaboutnewspaper.com