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8 • NEWS • OUT & ABOUT NEWSPAPER • APRIL, 2006<br />

Pho<strong>to</strong> provided<br />

GLBT youth under fire — continued from page 1<br />

ment that is designed <strong>to</strong> prevent GLBT<br />

people from “owning” t<strong>he</strong>ir identities<br />

and whose main goal is <strong>to</strong> prevent those<br />

same people from gaining b<strong>as</strong>ic civil<br />

rights.<br />

In fact, t<strong>he</strong> “t<strong>he</strong>rapy” can do immediate<br />

and long-term harm <strong>to</strong> gay youth<br />

and h<strong>as</strong> <strong>be</strong>en <strong>as</strong>sociated with depression,<br />

suicidal ideation, sexual dysfunction and<br />

ot<strong>he</strong>r psychosocial problems. T<strong>he</strong>re is<br />

also a high correlation with distancing<br />

from loved ones, both significant ot<strong>he</strong>rs<br />

and biological<br />

family mem<strong>be</strong>rs.<br />

T<strong>he</strong> impetus<br />

for t<strong>he</strong> study<br />

also came from<br />

t<strong>he</strong> realization<br />

on t<strong>he</strong> part of<br />

national experts<br />

that t<strong>he</strong>re is a<br />

shift in focus<br />

Foreman<br />

occurring within<br />

t<strong>he</strong> “ex-gay”<br />

movement. In<br />

turning away<br />

from “curing” adults and focusing on<br />

“prevention” in children and aggressive<br />

treatment of teens, t<strong>he</strong> movement h<strong>as</strong><br />

<strong>be</strong>gun <strong>to</strong> concentrate its attention on<br />

some of t<strong>he</strong> most vulnerable mem<strong>be</strong>rs<br />

of our community.<br />

“It is morally repugnant and downright<br />

dangerous t<strong>he</strong> way t<strong>he</strong>se extremists<br />

demonize young people and prey on t<strong>he</strong><br />

fears of parents through t<strong>he</strong>ir so-called<br />

ex-gay programs,” said Matt Foreman,<br />

executive direc<strong>to</strong>r of t<strong>he</strong> National Gay<br />

and Lesbian T<strong>as</strong>k Force. “T<strong>he</strong>se programs<br />

and conferences are often establis<strong>he</strong>d<br />

in states that are fertile ground<br />

for right-wing organizing efforts,<br />

notably in states that are considering<br />

anti-same-sex marriage ballot me<strong>as</strong>ures.<br />

It is no wonder that t<strong>he</strong>ir organizers are<br />

viewed <strong>as</strong> politically motivated.”<br />

Foreman’s statement came only days<br />

<strong>be</strong>fore a national Reclaiming America<br />

for Christ conference <strong>he</strong>ld at Coral<br />

Ridge Baptist Church in Fort<br />

Lauderdale, Fla. T<strong>he</strong> speakers’ roster for<br />

that conference included Alan<br />

Cham<strong>be</strong>rs, President of Exodus<br />

International, an “ex-gay” umbrella<br />

organization that claims worldwide<br />

scope. Exodus International <strong>he</strong>adquarters<br />

are located in Orlando, Fla.<br />

A cursory inven<strong>to</strong>ry of online references<br />

reveals a minimum of twelve “exgay”<br />

programs in Tennessee located<br />

from Chattanooga <strong>to</strong> Kingsport <strong>to</strong><br />

Memphis. As previously reported in<br />

“<strong>Out</strong> and <strong>About</strong> <strong>Newspaper</strong>”, Zach<br />

Stark, a gay teen from Memphis, w<strong>as</strong><br />

incarcerated in Refuge, a Love in Action<br />

affiliate, l<strong>as</strong>t summer.<br />

His blog chronicling his distress<br />

regarding t<strong>he</strong> treatment in that facility<br />

sparked protests by <strong>Queer</strong> Action<br />

Coalition and brought national attention<br />

<strong>to</strong> Zach’s plight. Some of t<strong>he</strong>se programs<br />

are affiliated with Exodus<br />

International while ot<strong>he</strong>rs are “homegrown”<br />

and lump gays <strong>to</strong>get<strong>he</strong>r with sex<br />

addicts of various stripes.<br />

“Tennessee youth are particularly vulnerable<br />

<strong>to</strong> faith-b<strong>as</strong>ed attacks on t<strong>he</strong>ir<br />

identity,” <strong>as</strong>serted Paul Balo, president<br />

of t<strong>he</strong> Greater Knoxville Chapter of<br />

PFLAG. “T<strong>he</strong>re are concerns about t<strong>he</strong><br />

targeting of youth by any group fostering<br />

exclusion. GLBTQ youth are especially<br />

vulnerable <strong>to</strong> t<strong>he</strong> isolation caused<br />

by feeling different. Bible-<strong>be</strong>lt culture<br />

can provide e<strong>as</strong>y justification for meanspirited<br />

attacks on GLBTQ people.<br />

PFLAG supports family communication,<br />

which is often silenced by certain religious<br />

<strong>be</strong>liefs, and provides referrals <strong>to</strong><br />

youth services.”<br />

T<strong>he</strong> Greater Knoxville area also bo<strong>as</strong>ts<br />

Spectrum Diversi-Tea and Coffee House,<br />

providing a venue for local youth <strong>to</strong><br />

find friends and a supportive environment.<br />

Participation is limited <strong>to</strong> youth<br />

aged 14 <strong>to</strong> 18. T<strong>he</strong> group is hosted by<br />

t<strong>he</strong> Tennessee Valley Universalist<br />

Unitarian Church with David M<strong>as</strong>sey at<br />

t<strong>he</strong> <strong>he</strong>lm of this very important group.<br />

In nearby Oak Ridge, t<strong>he</strong> recently<br />

formed Oak Ridge High School Gay-<br />

Straight Alliance offers yet anot<strong>he</strong>r<br />

resource for teens seeking support and<br />

friendship. It is listed <strong>as</strong> a resource on<br />

<strong>Out</strong>minds, an online community offering<br />

an Internet haven for students aged<br />

13 and older.<br />

“We now have permission <strong>to</strong> have our<br />

club and will <strong>be</strong> looking forward <strong>to</strong> creating<br />

a more <strong>to</strong>lerant community at<br />

ORHS,” <strong>as</strong>serted Tess Ful<strong>to</strong>n, a leader in<br />

t<strong>he</strong> Alliance.<br />

Additionally, t<strong>he</strong>re are tentative plans<br />

<strong>to</strong> air t<strong>he</strong> film “Trevor” <strong>as</strong> part of a Pride<br />

2006 event focusing on t<strong>he</strong> emotional<br />

needs of GLBT youth and suicide prevention<br />

in that population. �<br />

Beth can <strong>be</strong> reac<strong>he</strong>d at<br />

<strong>be</strong>th@outandaboutnewspaper.com

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