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With Rosa Lee, I was dealing with a family of drug addicts. I explained at the beginning of the<br />

project that under no circumstances would I give anyone in her family money. I know how drug<br />

addicts collect little bits of change from different people until they have enough to buy drugs. I knew<br />

that they would simply use my money to buy drugs.<br />

Every member of Rosa Lee’s family tried to scam money off of me. Rosa Lee’s daughter, Patty,<br />

even offered me sex in exchange for money. But they eventually learned that this was a rule I was<br />

never going to break.<br />

So there was no exchange whatsoever for the entire four years you were reporting her story?<br />

No, I just didn’t give anyone money. I told Rosa Lee that if she was hungry we would go to a<br />

restaurant, and I would pay for the food. And if she wanted a pack of cigarettes, I’d buy them. But I<br />

will not give you money to buy food or to buy cigarettes—because I knew where that money would<br />

go.<br />

But Rosa Lee inevitably broke some of your rules. You told her you wouldn’t be witness to any<br />

criminal behavior, but she went shoplifting when she was with you. She also tried to use your<br />

connection to The Washington Post to help her navigate government bureaucracy. You write, “I’m<br />

angry at Rosa Lee for violating my trust, and I’m angry at myself . . . Why did I think she would<br />

behave differently around me?”<br />

In retrospect, it was very egotistical of me to insist that when she was with me she behave so<br />

differently from the way she normally behaved. After all, this is a woman who has been shoplifting<br />

since she was thirteen years old! She never paid attention to the rules! So why did I think I was going<br />

to be able to impose rules on her? It was a mistake, although a well-intentioned one.<br />

Rosa Lee obviously looked up to you. At one point, she asked you whether she should stop<br />

teaching her granddaughter to shoplift. She asks, “So you think I should stop?” And you reply,<br />

“No, no. I’m not getting into whether you should stop. I’m asking you how do you justify it?” Do<br />

you ever worry about becoming too involved with your characters?<br />

It is a very fine line between maintaining my role as a reporter and developing the kind of humane<br />

relationship that inevitably occurs between two people who spend a lot of time with each other.<br />

In the case of Rosa Lee’s teaching her granddaughter to shoplift, she crossed the line. I didn’t want<br />

my opinion influencing her behavior. I wasn’t taking a moral position on what she was doing. All I<br />

wanted was to understand her justification for it.<br />

How do you convince your subjects to talk to you so openly?<br />

I’m a pretty gregarious guy, and I’m very flexible and open about myself. I am very accessible.<br />

Most of my subjects get addicted to the interview process and don’t want to stop talking.<br />

Time is the most important factor in doing this sort of project. For example, when I was reporting

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