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Who deserves to be Worshiped ?

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equires the husband <strong>to</strong> treat them equally, caring for his wives financially and<br />

emotionally in the exact same manner. It should <strong>be</strong> noted that if a woman is unhappy<br />

in this situation, and she fears that she will <strong>be</strong> unable <strong>to</strong> fulfil her responsibilities <strong>to</strong><br />

her husband as well as <strong>to</strong> Allah, she can opt out of the marriage. A man is not<br />

allowed <strong>to</strong> force his wife <strong>to</strong> stay married.<br />

12.13 Divorce rules<br />

Islam is a religion of moderation. Although divorce is allowed when necessary,<br />

family unity is encouraged. For example, in the event of a divorce, the two spouses<br />

are encouraged <strong>to</strong> bring arbitra<strong>to</strong>rs from their family mem<strong>be</strong>rs <strong>to</strong> help reconcile<br />

them. Islam discourages divorce, yet it recognizes the rights of both partners <strong>to</strong> end<br />

their matrimonial relationship if circumstances dictate it. Prophet Muhammad<br />

(bpuh) said:<br />

«A <strong>be</strong>lieving man should not hate a <strong>be</strong>lieving woman. If he dislikes one of her traits,<br />

he will <strong>be</strong> pleased with another.» (Recorded by Imam Muslim)<br />

Therefore Islam is realistic about the option of divorce, but it also encourages<br />

attempts <strong>to</strong> resolve any conflicts and hold the marriage <strong>to</strong>gether.<br />

It is clear that women in Islam are honoured for their roles as mothers. Islam<br />

acknowledges that a woman sacrifices her life for her children, so she is given an<br />

honour above that of the father.<br />

12.14 Protection of life<br />

The Quran also calls for the protection and sanctity of human life, specifically<br />

mentioning that the taking of an innocent life is one of the worst and most hideous<br />

crimes. The Prophet (bpuh) forbade breaking the bones of a dead person, so what<br />

about the taking of an innocent life? The Quran prescri<strong>be</strong>s ‘a life for a life’ and ‘an<br />

eye for an eye’ for all killings or injuries, large or small, unless the family of the<br />

victim agrees <strong>to</strong> accept financial compensation instead.<br />

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