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“I spend every single day with him,<br />

mostly because his girlfriend isn’t<br />

with us. He hangs on to me for dear<br />

life but, the truth is, we need each<br />

other!” says Johannes, who joined<br />

Strictly in 2018, but enjoyed his first<br />

celebrity pairing in 2019 when he<br />

and former Coronation Street actress<br />

Catherine Tyldesley coupled up.<br />

They lit up the dance floor until<br />

week six.<br />

Touring with the Strictly pros,<br />

enthuses Johannes, is “like being on<br />

holiday with your best mates” and<br />

even though many have secured<br />

lucrative gigs outside the hit BBC1<br />

show – such as Oti Mabuse on The<br />

Greatest Dancer, and AJ Pritchard<br />

who joined RuPaul’s Drag Race UK<br />

as a dance coach – he insists there is<br />

never jealousy between the cast.<br />

“The pie’s big enough for<br />

everybody. We don’t live in the<br />

competitive world anymore. Not to<br />

say that the competition isn’t rife<br />

when we come to Strictly, because<br />

we all want to win, but we’re all<br />

different. We all have our qualities.<br />

It’s so nice amongst the pros.<br />

They’re all kind. It’s been so great.”<br />

Now 32, Johannes finds himself at<br />

a fascinating moment in his career,<br />

and has every reason to be cheerful.<br />

For one, he is finally at home in<br />

his own skin. Three months before<br />

we meet, a fortnight before he<br />

and Graziano danced in the show’s<br />

first same-sex routine, Johannes<br />

slayed a pro dance sequence,<br />

performing to ‘Fame’ in a pair of<br />

high-heeled PVC boots. It set the<br />

Twittersphere ablaze, with Strictly<br />

fans commending him for breaking<br />

the mould of gender stereotypes.<br />

It also, he says, attracted a flurry of<br />

praise from “older gay men” who<br />

“identified with the boldness and<br />

the confidence”.<br />

“That was my coming out party<br />

to the world,” grins Johannes,<br />

revealing that when show bosses<br />

proposed the idea he agreed, not to<br />

publicly shout about being openly<br />

gay, but to educate his extended<br />

family back home. While Johannes<br />

has “always known” he is gay and<br />

never hidden his sexuality, he says<br />

some relatives were still asking at<br />

family functions when he would<br />

“come home with a wife and kids”.<br />

Johannes, who concedes that in<br />

Africa there is a generational gap of<br />

LGBTQ+ education and acceptance,<br />

sighs. “It’s a reality, but we live<br />

in such progressive times, and I<br />

realised there’s no need to hide any<br />

more,” he says. “The world has been<br />

ready, all I had to do was embrace<br />

who I am fully, fully, fully, because<br />

that was always my fear – that sense<br />

of rejection, that feeling of ‘if I do<br />

this, what if somebody mocks me?<br />

I don’t want to bring shame to my<br />

family.’ It took me 32 years to finally<br />

accept that and say, ‘Honestly, this is<br />

my life.’”<br />

Johannes believes historically<br />

there’s been insufficient media<br />

representation of LGBTQ+<br />

minorities, but has observed<br />

an improvement over the past<br />

two years. He was “inspired” by<br />

groundbreaking US series Pose,<br />

which delves into the New York City<br />

ballroom scene at the height of the<br />

AIDS crisis, and accepts credit for<br />

his own role in the acceptance of<br />

greater diversity within society.<br />

“I’m the change. Honestly, I see it<br />

like that. I’m the first gay black man<br />

on Strictly. I just think, good for you<br />

Johannes. I’m proud!”<br />

In the last series of the Danish<br />

version of Strictly, a male duo<br />

emerged victorious, and Steps<br />

singer Ian ‘H’ Watkins and pro<br />

The world has been<br />

ready, all I had to<br />

do was embrace<br />

who I am fully,<br />

because that was<br />

always my fear<br />

skater Matt Evers were paired on<br />

this year’s Dancing On Ice. Surely it’s<br />

time for Strictly to regularly feature<br />

same sex couples, and to hell with<br />

the armchair critics (Johannes<br />

and Graziano’s dance attracted 189<br />

complaints to Ofcom)?<br />

“Out of how many million<br />

viewers?” says Johannes, instantly<br />

putting the protest into perspective.<br />

“It’s good that the BBC have started.<br />

Whenever they are ready to make<br />

that step, they should know there’s<br />

representation.”<br />

For Johannes, who never thought<br />

he would “have a voice”, being<br />

a respected public figure is a<br />

responsibility he cherishes. He’s<br />

actively planning to align with<br />

a LGBTQ+ youth charity, and is<br />

intent on making a difference to<br />

vulnerable youngsters’ lives.<br />

“I hope with my actions I’m<br />

breaking barriers, and bringing<br />

comfort and assurance that it’s OK,”<br />

he says. “Life gets better.”<br />

Which is true. Johannes and his<br />

elder sister Pearl grew up in the<br />

small South African township of<br />

Zamdela, raised by their mother<br />

Jacobeth, and dad Benjamin.<br />

Curiously, as he describes the<br />

“very real struggle” of a “lack<br />

of opportunity and finances”,<br />

Johannes smiles. >>><br />

18 • happiful.com • <strong>March</strong> <strong>2020</strong>

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