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Burnout<br />

Q<br />

I’m worried<br />

about a<br />

colleague.<br />

They have become<br />

detached and seem to<br />

have lost their ‘spark’.<br />

How can I support<br />

them?<br />

One of our fundamental<br />

A needs is to be truly<br />

seen, and when a person<br />

becomes disconnected, they<br />

have become invisible –<br />

even to themselves. When<br />

this is done with kindness<br />

and compassion, it creates<br />

a much-needed space for<br />

connection.<br />

Tips include keeping things<br />

simple. Let them know<br />

that you see them in this<br />

struggle, and that you are<br />

there for them. Have soft<br />

eye contact. Be gentle with<br />

your tone of voice. Choose<br />

a place and time that fits<br />

this more intimate moment.<br />

Avoid speculating why this<br />

is happening, or trying to fix<br />

it. Be ready to listen. Don’t<br />

get hung up on needing to<br />

do something, or expecting<br />

them to ask for something<br />

in return. The very act of<br />

seeing them is a powerful<br />

support in itself.<br />

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