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Focus on the Family Magazine - April/May 2020

It can be a struggle to raise a family while balancing your work life, social life and relationships. Focus on the Family magazine is here to help! Each complimentary issue delivers fresh, practical Biblical guidance on family and life topics. Every issue comes packed with relevant advice to build up your kids, strengthen your marriage, navigate entertainment and culture, and handle common challenges you may face in your marriage and parenting journeys. Plus you'll find seasonal advice ranging from back-to-school activities to date night tips for you and your spouse.

It can be a struggle to raise a family while balancing your work life, social life and relationships. Focus on the Family magazine is here to help! Each complimentary issue delivers fresh, practical Biblical guidance on family and life topics.

Every issue comes packed with relevant advice to build up your kids, strengthen your marriage, navigate entertainment and culture, and handle common challenges you may face in your marriage and parenting journeys. Plus you'll find seasonal advice ranging from back-to-school activities to date night tips for you and your spouse.

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IMPACT STORY / FAITH & INSPIRATION<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>Focus</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Family</strong> depends <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong><br />

d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>s of our supporters to help<br />

foster families like <strong>the</strong> Salcherts. Help<br />

us c<strong>on</strong>tinue this ministry by visiting<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>Focus</str<strong>on</strong>g>OnThe<strong>Family</strong>.com/d<strong>on</strong>ati<strong>on</strong>.<br />

Samuel's parents and members of<br />

<strong>the</strong> Sheboygan Fire Department<br />

surround Samuel as he is named<br />

an h<strong>on</strong>orary firefighter.<br />

Captain Tim Kohlbeck of <strong>the</strong><br />

fire department remembers <strong>the</strong><br />

moment well.<br />

“To me, it was a miracle,” he says.<br />

“In that broken body was a spirit<br />

created by God, and that smile was<br />

a validati<strong>on</strong>. It was a gift from God.”<br />

It made an impact <strong>on</strong> Judge<br />

Foley, too.<br />

“This was <strong>on</strong>e of <strong>the</strong> most remarkable<br />

experiences of my life,” he says.<br />

“If I ever write a book, I’ll do a chapter<br />

<strong>on</strong> Samuel and <strong>the</strong> Salcherts.”<br />

Less than three weeks later—Oct.<br />

16, at 4 p.m.—Samuel passed away.<br />

But his impact lives <strong>on</strong>.<br />

In lieu of flowers, <strong>the</strong> Salcherts<br />

asked that memorials be given in<br />

<strong>the</strong> form of teddy bears, which<br />

emergency pers<strong>on</strong>nel use to calm<br />

small children in traumatic situati<strong>on</strong>s.<br />

Hundreds of bears poured in.<br />

“The legacy of T Bear will keep paying<br />

it forward,” Kohlbeck says. “The<br />

kids w<strong>on</strong>’t know, but we do. Every<br />

time I hand out a teddy bear, I think<br />

of him.”<br />

Bey<strong>on</strong>d <strong>the</strong> big events of <strong>the</strong> day,<br />

Foley remembers <strong>the</strong> little things<br />

as well. “It’s not just Cori’s medical<br />

background that makes her good at<br />

this,” he says. “It’s how she relates to<br />

those children. You watch her hold<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir hands and sing to <strong>the</strong>m and<br />

whisper in <strong>the</strong>ir ears—that’s what<br />

strikes me most.”<br />

And Cori? She’s just thankful.<br />

“The spark created by <strong>the</strong> Wait No<br />

More event was fanned into flame in<br />

God’s timing,” she says. “It’s a beautiful<br />

thing to love deeply. We were<br />

privileged to invest for 22 m<strong>on</strong>ths<br />

and hold Samuel’s hand as he<br />

slipped away from us and flew away<br />

to heaven.”<br />

The Salcherts intend to keep doing<br />

what <strong>the</strong>y do—and to encourage o<strong>the</strong>rs<br />

to do <strong>the</strong> same.<br />

“Sometimes I tell people, ‘I may be<br />

crying, but I’m not in despair—far<br />

from it,’ ” Cori says. “This isn’t fun,<br />

but it’s deeply satisfying. I’m given <strong>the</strong><br />

privilege of carrying <strong>the</strong>se children<br />

until <strong>the</strong>y go home to Jesus. And I’m<br />

being carried by Him while I do.” •<br />

Matt Kaufman is a freelance writer based<br />

in illinois.<br />

<strong>April</strong> / MAy <strong>2020</strong> FOCUS ON THE FAMILY 27

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