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quality of our lives.Values underli
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comparing myself, using that metric
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success as his life-defining metric
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albums well into the 2000s. So what
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metrics, should be invigorating you
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Bad values are generally reliant on
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CHAPTER 5You Are Always ChoosingIma
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way. But once he finally made it, o
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Ben before a thief whom Peter Parke
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There’s a difference between blam
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We all love to take responsibility
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But then I actually applied my own
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staring at a computer screen, winni
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population in a way that outrages y
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CHAPTER 6You’re Wrong About Every
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A certain woman is single and lonel
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specific sequence of behaviors requ
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It turned out Meredith wasn’t alo
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Around this time, a new form of tre
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person. A little bit on the woo-woo
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Evil people never believe that they
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avoid it.That means the more someth
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ourselves, we free ourselves up to
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compassion needed to resolve a lot
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far, far, far more likely that I’
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I grew up in a wealthy family. Mone
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respond to me. My self-worth is bas
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Our most radical changes in perspec
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women would think I was a creepy ra
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Emotional inspiration → Motivatio
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CHAPTER 8The Importance of Saying N
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don’t smile at strangers or prete
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accepting and affirmative as possib
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themselves to prove it!It’s suspe
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responsibility for their problems/e
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in a sick way, that would actually
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few hours later I come sulking back
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the first step, there should be no
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important goals and achieve a great
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friendly and happy to let me talk,
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myself to read fifty nonfiction boo
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This realization causes what Becker
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my skin. I look up. It’s bright.
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that it’s all right to die.This w
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As alluring as it is, entitlement i
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The Aussie stands for a moment, per
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reading and studying these subjects
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