The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere (1)

expect, but the person will have everything you need and attraction will be
part of it.
So what’s the difference?
When two people have an attraction, it’s specific to the action or power
of sparking an interest, pleasure, or the like for someone or something. It’s
the force that draws a connection, which I’ll get into later on in the book.
There are different types of attraction. You can attract or be attracted to
someone in many ways. Physical attraction is important, and although this
attributes to sexual attraction, what you ultimately want is to develop a
romantic attraction with someone. This particular attraction brings the
desire of a romantic relationship and determines if this person is for you.
We all have our preferences, desires, and physical traits that we’re
drawn to or like and still found ourselves attracted to someone who
doesn’t fit our particular style. It’s the attraction that’s important, not if
the world thinks they’re cute, or if your friends think they’re hot. The
attraction is there despite them not having your preferred look, and if it
isn’t, I would never tell you to move forward. Doing so is detrimental and
I’ll provide the reasons why; however, if it is in place, even if they’re not
your typical style, you should be open to and embrace it.
Attraction is the ingredient that transitions a relationship from platonic
to romantic. Without it you have friendship, roommates, “play cousins,”
anything but a romantic relationship.
There is no way around it.
To expect you, or anyone, to enter into a romantic relationship with
someone where there’s no attraction to would be foolish, and lead to
bigger problems than you can imagine.
Many of you may clap your hands in agreement, happy that someone
finally confirmed what you’ve known all along. People tried to convince
you otherwise, told you it’s not a big deal and to ignore it. Even beaten you
down with the idea and encouraged you to settle for someone less
attractive. On the other hand, some of you may wonder what real issue
would it cause. You believe you can grow to like this person, the attraction
to him being the least of your worries. If you’ve entertained the thought of
moving forward with someone you’re not attracted to, I need you to
understand why this a HUGE problem. I’ll share three reasons.
#1 – Lack of Effort