The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere (1)

man, and that may be true; however, you won’t experience a deep and
genuine connection with every single one.
Such a connection is rare to experience more than once in a lifetime;
although, there are exceptions to the rule.
Having a genuine connection with someone is a special experience. It’s
like two spirits recognizing their counterpart. This doesn't happen with
most people you meet, which is why a special connection is a strong
indicator, and a necessary foundation to recognize that this is the man God
has for you.
Connection vs Chemistry
Now don’t confuse connection with chemistry.
When I speak to people they’ll claim to have a “great connection.” I’ll
ask what they mean by this, then they follow up with getting along, liking
the same things, or sharing common interests and passions. All of these
which are great; however, it doesn’t mean there’s a deep and genuine
connection. Most times, it’s just part of the chemistry between two people.
To give more clarity, chemistry accounts for the ability to get along
with each other. It’s two people happily coexisting with one another.
Chemistry is the foundation of a connection, it’s sets the tone for people to
dive deeper, although this may not always happen. When there’s a deep
and genuine connection, those two people develop a bond. They enjoy each
other as they are, and it goes beyond common and shared interests. With a
deep and genuine connection, it allows two people to be comfortable with
vulnerability. You accept their layers and enjoy simply being in their
space. It’s easy to unpack who you are with them because there’s a mutual
acceptance.
This is huge.
You want to be sure the relationship goes deeper than, “we get along.”
Think about the long-term. If you’re not spending extended periods of
quality time with a person, chemistry can fool you. This doesn’t mean you
need to live with a person; however, there needs to be time spent getting to
know one another.
You need to talk, open up, and share the deeper parts of you. Without
it, you won’t discover who they are. Although you may not completely
know a person, you want to gain a more in depth understanding. Getting
along and liking someone, or being able to hang out with them only