The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere (1)

and the man you’re with is imbalanced and that’s not where you need to
be.
Love should be reciprocated. If you want to have a great love, you have
to set the bar. You can’t enter a relationship waiting to see what they’re
going to do, or if they’ll put forth all the effort. Because this particular
man is sensitive and attuned emotionally, he’ll realize you’re playing
chess with his heart, not being receptive, and showing the effort he needs.
Eventually, he’ll think you’re not serious, get tired and walk away. In
turn, you’ll think he wasn’t serious because he didn’t stick around and deal
with your mess.
No.
He left because you kept holding back and it happens every single day.
Don’t believe you should look for the man who loves you more. As we
discussed, there needs to be alignment, as well as a deep and genuine
connection. In order for you determine the alignment and connection, you
have to be open and vulnerable, as well as embrace the love you have for
this person. All of this goes back to the root of addressing your issues.
Have you resolved any lingering fears? Have you healed from your past
and completed the work within, for you to receive, accept, and nurture the
great relationship God has for you?
A whole man will want a whole woman.
You have to work on being whole. It’s not about finding a man who
completes you, it’s about completing yourself and receiving the man who
complements you, as you complement him in return. That’s the
relationship that will flourish and become something amazing.
Be willing to give all of yourself and if you’re not ready, then you
know there’s work to be done. Don’t be afraid of it. We all have room for
improvement and things we need to work on in life. We all have to
embrace learning, growing, evolving and healing because we’ve all been
hurt. We’ve all been damaged at some point. But there are those who work,
resolve, and arise from it greater than ever, and those dwell in it.
Make sure you’re not the one who’s dwelling in it.