The Man God Has For You by Stephan Labossiere (1)

man that’s for you will want ALL of you not “the broken down” version
who isn't embracing healing and growth.
Another thing to consider is this guy will be more attuned to feelings. I
didn’t specify yours or his because it will encompass both.
Again, it’s a lot easier to chase lust than it is to chase love.
The man that’s for you has a genuine desire for you, and considers you
as someone he wants to spend the rest of his life with. He will pay more
attention to what you do and don’t do. He’ll struggle more when he senses
you holding back, or may question your interest when he sees you’re not
really giving yourself to him. He’ll be afraid because to loves someone
means to be vulnerable. As women, you know this. So when he’s
vulnerable and open, and doesn’t see you putting in equal effort or, at
least, meeting him halfway, he’ll pause. The negative thoughts will start
and give him reason to fall back.
This is an absolute truth when it comes to the man who’s genuinely
interested in you.
On the other hand, the man who wants to have fun, views you as
someone to kick it with, or a temporary girlfriend (yes there are men who
think like this), may not care. He only wants you around for the benefits
you provide. Holding back or the willingness to love is not of his concern;
however, man who’s genuinely into you and loves you, will notice the wall
you’ve built immediately. He’ll be more concerned and have reason to
question, as well as pause things. Because he’s more attuned to you, he’ll
pick up on it quicker than the average guy. So when you hold back, have
your wall up, shield your feelings, and refrain from clarity, specifically
when he asks what’s going on, it creates an environment of doubt and
insecurity.
Again, it’s vital that you are mindful of the energy you put out and the
impact of you holding back. I’m emphasizing the effects of this behavior
because it will get dismissed, and you’ll see it as not a big deal; however,
there are issues that can arise.
Just because this man is the one God has for you, doesn’t mean he’s
going to scale or withstand your walls; or get through all your issues and
problems.
He can’t heal you.
He’ll never be able to get through your walls because he’s human just
like you and I. If the two of you meet when each of you are broken, it will