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Welcome to the Club - Volume 1, Issue 1

A Magazine for 55+ Like No Other! Welcome to The Club features timeless articles and anecdotes including many from the archives of Daytripping Magazine. It's online at www.welcometotheclub.ca and is also distributed free in Sarnia-Lambton, Ontario.

A Magazine for 55+ Like No Other! Welcome to The Club features timeless articles and anecdotes including many from the archives of Daytripping Magazine. It's online at www.welcometotheclub.ca and is also distributed free in Sarnia-Lambton, Ontario.

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Some of <strong>the</strong> articles are from <strong>the</strong> archives of Daytripping Magazine<br />

Actual<br />

FAMILY<br />

FEUD<br />

Answers<br />

• A kind of ache - Fillet 'O' Fish<br />

• A sign of <strong>the</strong> zodiac - April<br />

• Name an animal you might see at <strong>the</strong> zoo - Dog<br />

• A food that can be brown or white - A pota<strong>to</strong><br />

• Something a cat does - Goes <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>to</strong>ilet<br />

• A famous Scotsman - Vinnie Jones<br />

• Name a famous royal - Mail<br />

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Established in 1978,<br />

Lamb<strong>to</strong>n Pharmacy continues <strong>to</strong><br />

provide caring, professional pharmacy<br />

services <strong>to</strong> residents of <strong>the</strong> beautiful<br />

<strong>to</strong>wn of Petrolia and Lamb<strong>to</strong>n County.<br />

By Jeanette Brimner, Embro<br />

On Hiding Your Age Daytripping July-August 2007<br />

Age demeaning remarks can come<br />

anytime, from anywhere. I was picking<br />

out a colour for our new living room rug<br />

when I pointed out a tint I disliked. The<br />

saleswoman, in late middle age like<br />

myself, answered my comment with “I<br />

hate it <strong>to</strong>o! It reminds me of old age.<br />

But we’re all headed that way aren’t<br />

we?” I managed a slight smile, gritted<br />

my real teeth and changed <strong>the</strong> subject.<br />

It makes me angry every time I hear<br />

something deroga<strong>to</strong>ry about age. I hate<br />

<strong>the</strong> commercials that tell us how <strong>to</strong><br />

erase fine lines and wrinkles, tighten<br />

saggy eyelids, fade age marks and hide<br />

every hint of gray hair. I should hold<br />

a placard outside of our local beauty<br />

salon saying “I’m keeping my wrinkles<br />

and laugh lines, my sagging neck, my<br />

droopy lids and everything else about<br />

me that hints that I’m no longer young<br />

and am not ashamed of it, so <strong>the</strong>re!” Of<br />

course <strong>the</strong> younger ones would agree<br />

that my crazy behavior and outlandish<br />

attitude was due <strong>to</strong> early onset senility<br />

and I’d be swept away in a paddy<br />

wagon!<br />

A friend of mine, a very attractive<br />

woman whose hair turned prematurely<br />

white when she was in her thirties was<br />

going <strong>to</strong> see a nice relaxing movie. A<br />

cocky teenager selling tickets asked,<br />

“Are you a senior?” despite <strong>the</strong> fact she<br />

was only fifty one.”<br />

“Not yet,” she said while forcing a<br />

fake smile.<br />

“Well if you’re over forty,” he<br />

remarked arrogantly “You’re already<br />

over <strong>the</strong> hill!”<br />

It’s lucky my friend is good natured<br />

or she might have kicked him way<br />

over <strong>the</strong> hill and in<strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> river! What<br />

a nerve!<br />

I’ve heard of age discrimination in<br />

<strong>the</strong> job market, but when someone<br />

on a documentary announced he had<br />

lost his job as vice president of a large<br />

corporation because he was <strong>to</strong>o old<br />

and set in his ways I wanted <strong>to</strong> laugh<br />

out loud, because <strong>the</strong> facts were so<br />

absurd. I’m getting used<br />

<strong>to</strong> doc<strong>to</strong>rs who look like<br />

teenagers taking care of<br />

me when I go <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> clinic,<br />

and lawyers on sitcoms<br />

looking as if <strong>the</strong>y just got<br />

out of high school, but<br />

when a forty seven year<br />

old is treated as if he’s<br />

becoming obsolete it’s just<br />

<strong>to</strong>o much <strong>to</strong> tackle.<br />

There are so many<br />

people I know who<br />

are living vibrant and<br />

productive lives and are in <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

eighties now. A friend who lives in <strong>the</strong><br />

area where I used <strong>to</strong> live is now eighty<br />

four, but she’s still energetic and loves<br />

life. And she’s very thankful <strong>to</strong> have<br />

her health. To this day she attends<br />

exercise classes every week, rides<br />

her bike, travels and attends various<br />

meetings and has her black belt in Tae<br />

Kwon Do.<br />

My husband plays bridge every<br />

week and one of <strong>the</strong> oldest members<br />

is almost ninety. She’s sharp and finds<br />

duplicate bridge relaxing! My uncle<br />

practiced law well in<strong>to</strong> his seventies<br />

and <strong>the</strong>re are so many I know who are<br />

living productive lives in <strong>the</strong>ir senior<br />

years that <strong>the</strong>y’re <strong>to</strong>o numerous <strong>to</strong><br />

mention.<br />

Imagine if Grandma Moses decided<br />

not <strong>to</strong> paint because she was getting<br />

old. If Michelangelo had decided at<br />

sixty five that he was a ‘has been’ <strong>the</strong><br />

world would have been deprived of his<br />

most famous frescoes. So many well<br />

known people have achieved so much<br />

in <strong>the</strong>ir later years.<br />

“You’re as old as you feel,” is a worn<br />

out saying but it’s so<br />

true. A persons attitude,<br />

not our youth obsessed<br />

society, should have<br />

<strong>the</strong> last word, and it’s<br />

time that older people<br />

demand more respect.<br />

Now that <strong>the</strong> baby<br />

boomers are ageing,<br />

attitudes will slowly begin<br />

<strong>to</strong> change. Older people<br />

should be able <strong>to</strong> ripen<br />

naturally, not succumb<br />

<strong>to</strong> cosmetic surgery, laser<br />

treatments and liposuction in order<br />

<strong>to</strong> be accepted in society. When <strong>the</strong><br />

lack of young workers results in many<br />

seniors returning <strong>to</strong> work, it won’t be<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir looks that are important but <strong>the</strong>ir<br />

experience, open mindedness and<br />

health!<br />

So here’s <strong>to</strong> people over forty. We<br />

may be considered over <strong>the</strong> hill but<br />

<strong>the</strong>re’s ano<strong>the</strong>r one up ahead waiting<br />

for us <strong>to</strong> climb!<br />

Publisher’s note:<br />

Since when is 40 over <strong>the</strong> hill!<br />

Egads, <strong>the</strong> nerve of some people!<br />

4130 Glenview Rd, Unit 2, Petrolia<br />

519-882-0650<br />

Danielle Edgar, B.Sc., PharmD<br />

Pharmacist<br />

Monday–Friday 9am–6pm<br />

Saturday 9–12<br />

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Winter 2021 It is more difficult <strong>to</strong> maintain honour than <strong>to</strong> become prosperous. (Irish Proverb)<br />

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