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Focus on the Family Magazine - October/November 2022

It can be a struggle to raise a family while balancing your work life, social life and relationships. Focus on the Family magazine is here to help! Each complimentary issue delivers fresh, practical Biblical guidance on family and life topics. Every issue comes packed with relevant advice to build up your kids, strengthen your marriage, navigate entertainment and culture, and handle common challenges you may face in your marriage and parenting journeys. Plus you'll find seasonal advice ranging from back-to-school activities to date night tips for you and your spouse.

It can be a struggle to raise a family while balancing your work life, social life and relationships. Focus on the Family magazine is here to help! Each complimentary issue delivers fresh, practical Biblical guidance on family and life topics.

Every issue comes packed with relevant advice to build up your kids, strengthen your marriage, navigate entertainment and culture, and handle common challenges you may face in your marriage and parenting journeys. Plus you'll find seasonal advice ranging from back-to-school activities to date night tips for you and your spouse.

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TRUSTING GOD / FAITH & INSPIRATION<br />

Luke and his family (l to r):<br />

Fr<strong>on</strong>t row: Phoenix, Leo, Jude<br />

Back row: Luke, Courtney, Evie<br />

PHOTOS COURTESY OF LUKE SMALLBONE<br />

professi<strong>on</strong>ally as Rebecca St. James, released<br />

her first major Christian music album with<br />

ForeFr<strong>on</strong>t Records. Rebecca’s musical success<br />

paved <strong>the</strong> way for her younger bro<strong>the</strong>rs, Luke<br />

and Joel. The bro<strong>the</strong>rs sang background vocals<br />

and ran <strong>the</strong> lights for <strong>the</strong>ir sister’s c<strong>on</strong>certs until<br />

<strong>the</strong>y decided, in 2007, to begin <strong>the</strong>ir own musical<br />

duo, eventually named For King & Country.<br />

By 2013, For King & Country had earned<br />

several Dove Award nominati<strong>on</strong>s and even<br />

appeared <strong>on</strong> “The T<strong>on</strong>ight Show With Jay Leno.”<br />

But later that year, Luke became seriously ill,<br />

and <strong>the</strong> bro<strong>the</strong>rs w<strong>on</strong>dered if <strong>the</strong>ir dreams<br />

would survive his illness—or if Luke himself<br />

would survive.<br />

Accepting grace<br />

Joel Smallb<strong>on</strong>e was <strong>on</strong> his h<strong>on</strong>eymo<strong>on</strong> with<br />

his wife, Moriah, that July when his ph<strong>on</strong>e lit<br />

up with a text message—news that Luke had to<br />

stop touring.<br />

Luke had struggled for some time with ulcerative<br />

colitis, a digestive disorder that eventually<br />

wi<strong>the</strong>red his 6-foot-4-inch-tall body from 185<br />

pounds to 125 pounds.<br />

“I looked like a c<strong>on</strong>centrati<strong>on</strong> camp survivor,”<br />

Luke says. He was extremely weak—too weak to<br />

even hold his 6-m<strong>on</strong>th-old s<strong>on</strong>, Jude.<br />

As Luke fought for his life, Courtney—whom<br />

Luke had married in 2010—struggled to nurse<br />

her 26-year-old husband back to health. She<br />

kept a journal of everything he ate and held his<br />

arm whenever he attempted to get some exercise.<br />

For Luke, <strong>on</strong>e lap around <strong>the</strong>ir cul-de-sac<br />

each day was all he could handle.<br />

Meanwhile, as he lay in bed exhausted, Luke<br />

struggled with God.<br />

“I made a decisi<strong>on</strong> to follow Jesus when I was<br />

8, and man, has that held me in good stead for<br />

life,” he says. “But <strong>the</strong>re are moments in life<br />

that it becomes more real than at o<strong>the</strong>r times.”<br />

One night in particular, he remembers crying<br />

OCTOBER / NOVEMBER <strong>2022</strong> FOCUS ON THE FAMILY 29

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