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A Funny Thing Happened on My Way to Assisted Living<br />
By: Susan Goldfein / Susan’s Unfiltered Wit<br />
Congratulations Seniors! In addition to<br />
receiving benefits such as Social Security,<br />
Medicare, and discount movie tickets, you are<br />
now eligible to receive jokes in your inbox which keep reminding you<br />
that you’re old!<br />
It’s not that I resent jokes about aging. I think<br />
laughing at ourselves is healthy as long as you<br />
empty your bladder first.<br />
In fact, I’ve written many an essay about the<br />
indignities of growing older. For example, I’ve<br />
questioned the wisdom of, after a certain age, paying<br />
a higher price for a product because it comes with a<br />
life-time warranty.<br />
I applied the same logic before agreeing to very expensive dental<br />
work. Do I get a guarantee that I’ll outlive my teeth?<br />
I’ve skewered fashion: the wisdom of wearing stiletto heels, the<br />
trauma of needing a new bathing suit, whether there is an expiration<br />
date for going sleeveless. My essays about height (loss), weight (gain),<br />
body part replacements have all been based on my own real time<br />
experiences.<br />
(It was Bette Davis who first said, “Old age ain’t no place for<br />
sissies!” Now, there was a wise woman!)<br />
But as with life, not all jokes are created equal. Someone should<br />
invent a spam filter that permits only the best ones to survive.<br />
Until someone does, I’ve decided to share my edited list of recent<br />
internet gems that I have found particularly clever. While you may<br />
not wind up rolling on the floor with laugher (which, at our age is<br />
questionable behavior in any circumstance) I hope you at least find<br />
them relatable.<br />
If you can’t think of a word, say “I forget the<br />
English word for it.” That way people will think<br />
you are bilingual instead of senile.<br />
I’ve been watching my weight. It’s still there.<br />
How’s life going? Well, I turned on the wrong<br />
burner and have been cooking nothing for<br />
twenty minutes.<br />
I like to make lists. I also like to leave them lying on the kitchen<br />
counter and then guess what’s on the list while I’m at the store.<br />
When I say, “the other day,” I could be referring to any time<br />
between yesterday and ten years ago.<br />
I’ve successfully completed the 30-year transition from wanting<br />
to stay up late to just wanting to go to bed.<br />
And the most recently arrived favorite: Being an adult is mostly<br />
about being exhausted, wishing you hadn’t made plans, waiting<br />
to take your bra off, wondering how you can fall asleep and stay<br />
asleep, missing someone or something, become forgetful, craving<br />
foods that you know you shouldn’t eat, worrying about things that<br />
haven’t happened yet, and wondering how you got that bruise.<br />
So, keep laughing folks. As a wise man (or was it a woman?) once<br />
said, “Do not regret growing older. It’s a privilege denied to<br />
many.”<br />
Susan Goldfein’s newest book, Laughing My Way Through the<br />
Third Stage, is available at Amazon.com, BN.com, Read her blog<br />
at: www.SusansUnfilteredWit.com. Email Susan: SusanGoldfein@<br />
aol.com.<br />
24<br />
<strong>April</strong> <strong>2023</strong><br />
What an Affair<br />
Performers, Ron & Lisa Smith, Ane, Genevieve, and Denny Pezzin join<br />
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