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December 2023

Let Me Help You 

By: Dan Roberts / Roberts Rules 

No good deed goes unpunished. 

As discussed in last month’s issue, my 

Vegas Voice partner of 14 years, Ray Sarbacker 

retired. I’ve previously announced on more occasions than I can count 

that Ray was the finest graphic artist in Nevada. His numerous national 

awards speak for themselves. 

With Ray gone, who does The Vegas Voice look to for future graphics? 

One volunteer immediately and eagerly 

raised her hand – my PILL (partner in 

love & life) and the new President of 

our “media empire” Rana Goodman. 

She reminded me that she had 

“Photoshop” installed on her computer 

and although it was an older version, 

she would purchase the newest version 

and PRESTO, we’re as good as new. 

And that’s when the fun began. 

After receiving it, she discovered that 

her computer did not have enough 

RAM memory (whatever that is) to 

accommodate the new Photoshop 

program. 

Upon consulting with her grandson, she was told that it was not a 

problem. She just needed to order a larger RAM Memory Card. 

“Open the computer, take out the old one and snap in the new one” 

the grandson confidently advised. “Any idiot can do that” 

Immediately “this idiot” proclaimed, “don’t even think of me 

helping.” I readily admit that I do not have a clue about this (or any) 

technology. With my level of “smarts” I’m just ecstatic when I can turn 

on the computer and get my email. 

“I don’t need you” my Ladylove exclaimed. “I’ll do it myself.” 

Thanks to Amazon, the new RAM Memory Card was delivered the 

next day. And (of course) it was the wrong size. Undeterred, my Rana 

re-ordered another set, and once again, it did not fit. 

After struggling a few hours, like a dog with a bone, Rana growled 

in frustration and began using some of her native British expressions. 

“Bloody hell, Oh, Crykie damn it!” 

While those words are nowhere near as colorful as my Bronx 

expressions I’ve used watching my NY Giants football games, I 

understood the concept. Although our family feline, Eli didn’t flinch, 

you better believe Yours Truly scampered out of her office like a terrified 

cat. 

After a drink (or two), she decided to call Best Buy and to her delight, 

was told it was not a real issue. Simply bring in the computer and their 

Geek Squad will handle it. 

And so began our weekly trips to this store. 

Once there, as I hid behind their new HDTVs, Rana was informed 

that her six-year-old computer was sooooo outdated perhaps she 

should purchase a new one. 

With me dropping to my knees and begging her to “forget about 

it” my (not stubborn, mind you but determined) Rana purchased, 

not another computer, but a super-charged (and naturally expensive) 

laptop. 

You can guess the rest. After countless attempts trying to figure out 

“where all her files went” she now signed up for classes to learn how to 

use all this “great and wonderful” technology. 

“This is the last straw!” my Rana finally admitted after weekly 

trips to the store and countless telephone calls to the “help centers”. 

“If this doesn’t work, I’ll get rid of the 

(expletive deleted here) RAM memory 

card, Photoshop upgrade and keep 

what I have.” Problem solved! 

As for our required graphics… 

Anybody know a graphic artist? 

*With everything going on in this 

world; two wars, a super ugly national 

election on the horizon and an economy 

that, notwithstanding what the experts 

claim is recovering (those guys must 

be the ones that can afford the price of 

gas) I cannot think of anything more 

important than “family.” 

Now my concept of “family” is not strictly blood relations. It includes 

those that always have your back and is there for you when times get 

tough. 

For my Rana and me, it’s our “Vegas Voice family.” This family 

consists of our ever increasing number of columnists, advertisers and 

you – our readers. 

Now we may not always agree and recognize that every family has 

its dysfunctional members (and god knows we have ours, but that’s for 

another column) however my PILL and I have come to recognize these 

once strangers as members of our family. 

And for that, we are most fortunate and blessed. 

From the bottom of our collective hearts, our family 

wishes you the happiest of holidays and that the New Year 

brings you and yours all the smiles, joy, happiness (and 

health) that life has to offer. 

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To aid folks who plan to go Christmas caroling 

this holiday season, I have done a careful 

analysis of some popular songs and found that many of these songs’ 

lyrics appear to come close to crossing the line in today’s politically 

correct climate and run counter to the true spirit of the season. 

For example, who is the song “Do you hear what I hear?” mocking? 

Well, me, of course, and others my age. 

Sure, I do have some trouble hearing these days, like when my wife 

hints that a fungus is forming in my toilet bowl that rivals “The Blob” 

and that I should consider cleaning it. And yes, in reference to another 

of the song’s lyrics, I do “see what you see,” it’s just a little bit blurry 

to me. 

What about the carol “Here We Come A-Wassailing”? Sounds 

innocent enough, doesn’t it? 

But I would argue that singing about a pre-Christian fertility rite 

encouraging folks “fortified by copious quantities of alcohol” to 

head off into 

an orchard and 

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Dreaming of a Neutral- 

Color Christmas 

By: Mike Murphy / Social Insecurity 

December 2023 

threaten the 

apple trees to 

produce fruit “or 

else” is clearly 

inappropriate for 

joyous holiday 

background 

music at the 

grocery store. 

The song 

“Little Drummer 

Boy” obviously contains a hidden black-magic incantation involving 

the repeated mesmerizing chant of “Pa rum pum pum pum,” with the 

worrisome result of more than one spellbound listener’s face plopping 

into a bowl of plum pudding. 

Along with being sexist, “Frosty the Snowman” is politically incorrect 

in that it also promotes smoking (“With a corncob pipe”) and violates 

all international climate-control agreements (“And two eyes made out 

of coal”). 

I’m sure that, like me, most dads today turn off the radio whenever 

“I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus” plays. Any responsible father 

would not let his children hear this lurid tale of Mommy smooching 

and tickling a stranger who sneaks into the house. 

Finally, my Boomer generation receives enough ridicule without the 

addition of an entire Christmas carol with that sole purpose in mind. 

How else can one possibly interpret the intent of such cruel sarcasm as 

in the pitiful plea “All I Want for Christmas Is My Two Front Teeth”? 

Mike Murphy is a retired teacher/coach. His book of humorous 

articles titled “Tortoise Crossing - Expect Long Delays” is available 

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Bill Blurb’s Christmas Spirit 

By: Bill Caserta / Bill’s Blurbs 

The Salvation Army realized that it had 

never received a donation from Las Vegas’ 

most successful lawyer. So, a volunteer paid the 

attorney a visit. 

The volunteer said, “Our research shows that 

even though your annual income is over ten million dollars, you don’t 

give a penny to charity. Wouldn’t you like to give something back to 

your community?” 

The lawyer replies: “First, did your research show that my mother is 

dying after a long, painful illness and she has huge medical bills that 

are beyond her ability to pay?” 

Embarrassed, the volunteer mumbles, “Uh . . . no, I didn’t know 

that.” 

“Secondly,” declared the lawyer, “did it show that my brother, a 

disabled veteran, is blind and confined to a wheelchair and is unable 

to support his wife and children?” The stricken volunteer begins to 

stammer an apology but is cut off. 

“And finally, did your research also show that my sister’s husband 

died in a dreadful car accident, leaving her penniless with a mortgage 

and three children? The humiliated volunteer replied, “I’m so sorry, I 

had no idea.” 

The lawyer added, “And if I didn’t give any money to them, what 

makes you think I’d give any to you?” 

*A couple (Greg & Nancy) were Christmas shopping at the mall on 

Christmas Eve and the mall was packed. Walking through the mall, 

Nancy noticed Greg was nowhere around. She used her cell phone to 

call him. 

Greg, in a calm voice said: “Honey, remember the jewelry store 

we went into five years ago where you fell in love with that diamond 

necklace that we could not afford, and I told you that I would get it for 

you one day?” 

With tears in her eyes, Nancy answered: “Yes, I remember that jewelry 

store.” 

He said: “Well I’m in the bar right next to it.” 

**And my annual wish to Santa: This year, please give me a 

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Keep Your Sympathies 

By: Liz Breier / This & That 

Approximately one week after the Hamas 

invasion into Israel, I wrote my article for 

the November issue. I was then and still am in 

mourning and shock over the devastating attack 

on civilians on October 7. 

Now a month later, I am broken-hearted and in disbelief. 

Jews in America have made every effort to 

assimilate. Many of us have turned our backs on 

religious observance to be part of the American 

culture. 

The common sentiment is, “I am an American 

Jew” not a “Jewish American.” Jews feel the pain 

of their brothers more intensely because of the 

persecution they themselves have suffered as a 

people. 

It was Jews who were the largest and loudest supporters of equal 

rights in the 1960s; marching shoulder to shoulder with their Black 

brothers for equality. It was Jewish young men killed in the deep south 

working for the civil rights. 

Yet, just a few generations later, it’s the Jews that are the target of 

hatred and disgust from their fellow Americans. Ironically, many of the 

Jews slaughtered on October 7 were self-described ”peaceniks.” 

They lived on the border with Gaza because they believed that they 

could live in peace together. Many did not have firearms to protect 

themselves, however those who loved their Palestinian neighbors the 

most were the first ones slaughtered. 

I have received many kind messages in response to my article 

last month. Many of those are from non-Jews and while I especially 

appreciate those I’m struck by their common theme. 

From friends of our family who are not Jewish, 

I hear comments like “I hope you are okay” or 

“I pray for your family.” People WAKE UP. 

Because I am Jewish, you’re feeling sorry for 

me because I might be in danger? And yes, surely 

all Jews are today. 

But what you must realize is that we are all 

in danger. The terrorists hate Jews and Christians 

and Americans. If they could slaughter every Jew, 

do you think they will stop? 

Don’t you remember 9/11? There is no difference between Hamas 

and Hezbollah and ISIS. Because Osama Bin Laden is dead do you 

think it’s over? 

It is true that Israel is at the forefront now and we must all pray that 

they succeed because this will only be the beginning. Does anyone know 

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Living to 100 

By: Gayla Kalp / Life is Laughter 

Now that the Holiday Season is upon us, I am 

preparing for all the festivities. Especially the 

food! 

I look forward to the Thanksgiving and 

Christmas Day dinner feasts. I am so happy I wear those pants with the 

elastic waist! 

The best part are the leftovers. You can eat yourself into a coma for 

another three days. 

I don’t even need to mention all the parties with fabulous appetizers 

and booze. You can’t turn around in an office without your hand 

touching Holiday candy or delicious baked items. Yea, Holiday Season! 

Then I read an article, “World’s Blue Zones Present Lessons in 

Longevity.” 

It discussed the 

seven areas in 

the world where 

the population 

lives to over 100 

years old. I always 

thought that I 

would live into my 

90s because my 

relatives lived that 

long. 

The article 

said that genetics 

plays only 20% 

into the reason 

for a long life. The 

remaining 80% is from diet, exercise, having the right outlook and 

connecting. 

I’m screwed! Per the article, I should have died 20 years ago. I have 

no diet. My version of exercise is a “brisk sit.” 

My outlook on life is that when I wake up every day (if I am on the 

daylight side of the dirt) it’s a great day! I connect by playing card 

games with friends but it mainly causes me stress because they cheat! 

The Centenarians live on a diet of plant based proteins. They only 

have a small amount of meat. They also eat a diet rich in fruits, 

vegetables, whole grains, beans, nuts, seeds and tofu. 

I live on a diet of In & Out Burgers, Hostess cupcakes, Jersey Mikes, 

Martinis, Ice Cream Sandwiches, Pizza and Pop Tarts. 

Obviously my diet and exercise regimen are terrible! I want to live 

to be 100+. 

So, this Holiday Season, I am going to hit the salad bar, go to the gym 

and surround myself with fun people who don’t cheat! I’m still going to 

include an In & Out burger. 

After all, a burger has lettuce, tomatoes, pickles and very little meat. 

Yea, to the new me! 

Gayla is a speaker, author, psychologist and humorist. She also 

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Santa & the Snowman 

By: Beverly Washburn / Hollywood Memories 

For this holiday month, I thought I’d write 

about the time I worked with actor Edmund 

Gwenn. He is best remembered 

as Santa Claus in “Miracle on 34 th Street.” When I 

worked with Mr. Gwenn, he played a snowman that 

comes to life. 

It was 1952 and I was cast as the daughter of 

George Reeves. My mother was played by Anita 

Louise and my brother by Tommy Rettig, who 

later became well known as Jeff on the Lassie 

TV series. The TV show was Ford Theatre and the 

episode was called “Heart of Gold.” 

That’s George Reeves in the photo who is putting 

the locket around my neck. Of course, most people 

won’t recognize him, as he was usually in his 

Superman outfit. 

I had worked with him previously in Superman 

and The Moleman. Since I was so young, I actually 

believed that he was Superman. As that’s the only way I had ever seen 

him, I didn’t recognize him. 

During the shooting, I heard a few crew members teasingly calling 

him “Superman.” That was quite confusing for me. How could he be 

Superman and then be playing my father on this show? 

When I asked my mother about that, she told me that he really was 

A Kiss on the Red Carpet 

Superman but was just “play-acting” as my father for this production. 

That was good enough for me and it answered all my questions. 

The make-up and wardrobe departments made a snowman suit 

out of cotton which Gwenn wore with only a portion of his face being 

seen. For its day, it was actually pretty elaborate and 

impressive. 

In this episode, Tommy and I play in the snow 

and build a snowman. I then place the necklace on 

the snowman and he comes to life! When we tell our 

parents that the snowman is alive, they of course, 

don’t believe it until they see it with their own eyes. 

It was a very sweet story and so much different 

from the television shows that are on now. It was 

innocent, lighthearted and entertaining. 

The program aired on December 25, 1952 and was 

very well received. The other thing I remember about 

working on that show is that Tommy Rettig was the 

first person to ever tell me that there was no Santa 

Claus. I don’t think I ever forgave him for that! 

Ironically, Robert Stevenson was the director 

of that show and little did I know that a few years later he would be 

directing me in the Walt Disney movie “Old Yeller.” 

May you all have a Blessed Holiday Season and be grateful that we 

are still here. 

Until next time, remember: Those who give love, gather love. 

Beverly Washburn graced the silver screen as a child actress and 

is the author of Reel Tears. You can contact Beverly at: bjradell@ 

hotmail.com. 

Christmas Hollywood Memories 

That’s our Hollywood Memories Beverly Washburn puckering 

up on the Red Carpet at the premiere of the movie remake, 

Spider Baby directed by Dustin Ferguson. 

That’s Ron Chaney planting the kiss on Beverly. Ron and 

Beverly had cameos roles in the movie. Beverly starred in the 

original Spider Baby classic along with Ron’s grandfather, Lou 

Chaney Jr. 

What was it like making both the original movie and remake? 

Watch Beverly’s interviews on our Vegas Voice YouTube channel 

(YouTube.com/c/vegasvoice) or on our website, vegasvoicetv. 

net 

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December 2023 

Beverly Washburn with Publisher Dan on the set of our Hollywood Memories 

Videos. Beverly reminisced about her Christmas TV episodes when she an 

adorable, beautiful child. 

You can watch the episodes on our YouTube channel (YouTube/c/vegasvoice) 

or on our website.

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Estate Sales Concerns 

By: Rana Goodman / On My Soapbox 

As we navigate through our senior years, I’m 

sure the question of what happens to our 

“must have possessions” when we are gone 

becomes a concern. 

Such possessions that make our 

house a home might be of huge 

sentimental value that no doubt 

many of us will designate favorites 

to family members (or even special 

friends), but what about the rest of 

the possessions? 

More and more often I receive 

emails from Estate Sale companies 

announcing items to be sold, 

including photos of furniture, décor 

and clothing that will be available. 

But who or what Estate Sales company 

can you trust? 

I recently received an email from a 

former neighbor who had moved east. Due to his wife’s health, “Jim” 

(he requested that I do not disclose his name) wanted to be closer to 

family as they entered their twilight years. 

They hired an estate sale company but since their move date was 

rapidly approaching, they were not able to supervise or attend their 

sale. Thus, trust was placed on George Sielski of Las Vegas Antique 

Shops/Estate Sales. 

The agreement was a 40/60% split with the Estate Sales company 

getting 40%. On the 2nd day of the sale Sielski told Jim that things 

were going quite well and there was more than $2,800.00 in sales so far. 

The plan was for the sale to continue until May 30. Upon conclusion, 

Sielski and his company would start packing what was left to be sold 

on consignment at some location that a friend of Sielski has. Lastly, 

the remaining items not sold on consignment would then be given to 

Goodwill. 

Although many months and texts have been sent by Jim, to date, not 

a dime has been paid, nor has any accounting of the sale been made. 

The only correspondence since 

then was an email to Jim advising 

him that Sielski had been in the 

hospital, and when he is discharged, 

he would be happy to pay a token 

amount monthly to settle the debt. 

I found it “interesting” that when 

I tried to find contact information 

about Sielski and/or Las Vegas 

Antique Shops/Estate Sales all 

references were to an attorney. The 

attorney subsequently forwarded my 

email to Sielski asking him to reply 

to my message. 

He eventually replied, a month or 

so later with a flimsy excuse. Bottom 

Line: During all this time, no accounting, and not a dollar of the debt 

has been paid. 

Jim told me he now understands what “ghosting” is, but certainly 

could use the money due him! 

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movie theatre, mall, casino, or 

cont’d from page 8 church you might be in next week? 

What kind of world have we 

deteriorated into where students of one ethnicity are tormented and 

threatened by others at their university? So many of those screaming 

for Free Palestine have no idea of what they are supporting. 

Do the women screeching know that in the world of radical Muslims 

they must be obedient to their men, can’t go anywhere without a male 

chaperone, can be stoned for suspicion of adultery, can’t drive a car? 

These same students are often self-described feminists. 

There is no alignment with any feminist edicts in the radical 

Muslim world. How about LGBTQ for Palestine? Do they realize they 

could be thrown off the roof of the nearest building for their sexual 

preference? 

I would request that my non-Jewish friends rethink the need to 

impart their sympathies and concerns for their Jewish brethren. 

The Church of the Holy Sepulcher, where Jesus’ body was entombed, 

is located in Jerusalem. If Hamas gains control of Israel “from the 

River ( Jordan) to the sea (Mediterranean)” that will all be destroyed. 

The ability for religious folks to go to the River Jordan to be baptized 

will cease to occur. 

No, don’t feel sorry for me or my fellow Jews. Feel sorry that we live 

in an America where photos of kidnapped babies and children are 

considered such a threat that radical, ill-informed, sheep need to rip 

them down. 

Finally, even if you strongly believe that the Palestinians in Gaza 

(many of whom work in Israel) were in some way wronged, how can 

anyone possibly justify the burning, beheading, rape, torture and 

mutilation that occurred on October 7th? 

Liz Breier is an ex-New Yorker who retired to Florida for 24 

years before deciding that Nevada means home to her. You can 

contact Liz at: bluesky090372@gmail.com. 

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Writing Skills & Requirements 

By: Jonny Bird / Here’s Jonny 

always wanted to be a writer. I loved books as 

I a little kid, and was a voracious reader, a word 

I learned with my Webster’s dictionary always by 

my side. 

I had my Superhero comics, my Great Grandfather Jones’ Charles 

Dickens full set of hardcovers, and all of the Hardy Boys books in blue. 

Every writer had a style and every book had a mini lesson on telling 

a story, painting a picture, or setting a scene. I had a pop-up digital 

Cosmo lamp (pretty cool at the time) that I would put at the head of 

my bed, crawl under the covers on my belly, and pull the covers over my 

head and lamp to read through the night. 

In hindsight, I’m lucky I didn’t start my bed on fire! 

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I distinctly remember the first paper I wrote entitled “I Want To Be A 

Lawer.” No, that’s not a typo, I spelled “lawyer” wrong, and I still have 

that paper. 

It didn’t deter me though, because from that point on, I knew I was 

headed for law school. Of course, I didn’t anticipate that I’d later drop 

my law classes for a microphone and start an entertainment company 

in Minnesota, but that’s what happened, nonetheless. 

Back in college, I did a lot of writing and had “minimum word 

counts” to contend with. I’d phrase and re-phrase to add bulk until 

I finally learned to stop counting and start actually writing what I 

wanted to say. After that, I always had more than enough to stop 

counting altogether. 

I laugh now as I proofread my kids’ papers with those same 

minimums, with plenty of “really’s,” “very’s,” and other fluff words to 

hit their targeted word count. I am usually pretty gentle as I cross out 

the fluff and guide them to better ways of writing. 

Here at The Vegas Voice, I get a maximum of 350 words, so I must 

be careful not to go over, or Publisher Dan will bring out the ruler for 

my knuckles, or so I’ve been warned. 

So now I count. Every word. Really! 

Jonny Bird is the entertainment host of all Vegas Voice shows. Have 

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My To Do List Got Done 

By: Adrea Nairne-Barrera / Senior Moments 

At the end of every year, we check off all the 

things we promised to do in January. It either 

is, or it isn’t realistic when we first start out, but 

as we get older, we don’t set the bar quite as 

high anymore. 

Most of us set weight or exercise goals 

and/or ways to budget more efficiently. I 

passed on all three. 

My focus went to the closet, the overloaded 

cabinets, expired drugs, cleaning the junk 

out of my computer, calling the shredder 

guy and general miscellaneous chores I 

never found time to do. 

When I hit the closet, I found some 

beautiful clothes that cost a fortune 20 to 30 

years ago. Some were fat clothes and some 

were skinny clothes. 

How about a wedding dress? And the 

shoes, and the handmade sheer jacket that 

went over it? More designer things with padded shoulders too. What’s 

a girl to do? 

Then there’s the garage. It now has lovely leaves blowing in and 

hiding behind the boxes I have to save just in case the world comes to 

an end. Every time I think it’s OK to give away or trash things, I know 

in one month (or less) I will need it again. 

Anyway, it’s either too windy, too hot, too cold or too close to dinner 

time. 

I’ve written about this many times in one 

form or another so to anyone sharing my 

experience, or lack thereof, I understand 

your pain. LOL. 

But the most important accomplishment 

was training our golden retriever for her 

Canine Good Citizen certification and then 

her Therapy Dog certification so she can 

go to events. She is also a service dog, so 

all around, she reached her goals even if I 

didn’t do all of mine. 

So, Ginger the wonder dog and my Louie 

dog will celebrate the end of the year still 

together and not worry about the list for 

2024. We’ll just recycle the one from 2023. 

Have a very happy and safe holiday to all. 

We’re still here! 

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By: Susan Goldfein / Susan’s Unfiltered Wit 

If I hear one more boast about brisket, I’m going 

to spray paint someone’s Dutch oven. When did 

brisket emerge as the national dish of December? 

Last year, I realized I was living on the fringe of a cult when I inquired 

of friends “How was your holiday? Did your family 

join you?” 

And to a person, they replied, “Yes they did, and 

I made a brisket!” The pride factor was palpable. 

Each woman who rhapsodized about this fatty 

chunk of beef claimed to have the best brisket 

recipe ever, a family treasure handed down from 

Great-Aunt Selma, whose secret ingredient was 

whispered in confidence – grape jelly! Or was it 

Coca-Cola? 

Men were no better. Discussions of golf games 

were replaced by passionate praise of their wives’ briskets. While it’s 

flattering to be extolled by one’s husband, I would prefer praise for my 

looks, and/or intelligence - and the fact that I am adept at fixing paper 

jams. 

Perhaps I couldn’t share the culinary enthusiasm of my friends 

because my personal relationship with brisket didn’t have a good 

beginning. Let’s just say that brisket and I got off on the wrong hoof. 

My mother had excellent qualities, but cooking wasn’t one of 

them. Frequently, on Friday nights, or other celebratory occasions, she 

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would serve a platter containing some gray-brown meat that reminded 

me of a cooked loafer. With ketchup. 

But that was long ago, and childhood trauma notwithstanding, it 

was time to discover what all the fuss was about. 

Since I banished brisket from my life, I never considered its source. I 

lumped it together with the rest of those fatty, 

ethnic cuts of beef that had to be cooked to death 

before it was edible. I decided to investigate. 

Brisket (lower chest) isn’t flanken (short ribs) 

and flanken isn’t brisket. And neither of them is pot 

roast (chuck, upper chest). Roast beef is another 

matter, coming from the end of the cow we’d prefer 

not to think about. 

Brisket is talented. In brine it becomes corned 

beef; corned beef cured morphs into pastrami. And 

I’ve never regarded corned beef or pastrami as 

unappealing. 

Brisket is multi-cultural. It’s an inexpensive cut of beef which lends 

itself to the culinary preferences of different nationalities. The French 

cook it with bacon and cognac; Texans like it barbecued with Tex-Mex 

spices. 

Each Eastern European country has its own version. Thais and 

Koreans love it. The Chinese like it with ginger. 

I’m now converted. I’ll cook a brisket. Of course, mine will be the 

best recipe ever, giving my husband bragging rights. 

And since it has such an international appeal, perhaps the next time 

world leaders meet, someone should serve brisket. This formerly ugly 

meat could very well be our best hope for world peace! 

Susan Goldfein’s newest book, Laughing My Way Through the 

Third Stage, is available at Amazon.com, BN.com, Read her blog 

at: www.SusansUnfilteredWit.com. Email Susan: SusanGoldfein@ 

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Inspiring Respite for 

Quilt Lovers 

By: Kathy Manney / Around Our World 

As an activity enjoyed by both young and old, 

quilt lovers are found in all 50 states. There 

are block quilts for beginners and complicated patterns for advanced 

quilters 

Only a few places, however, bring quilt enthusiasts together like 

Tillamook’s Latimer Quilt & Textile Center, a working museum 

considered among the world’s largest. 

Many consider the Oregon coast the world’s most beautiful and 

Tillamook is a coastal community where the temperature seldom 

ranges beyond mild, regardless of season. A short distance inland from 

the Pacific Ocean lies a wall of dense coastal forest, evergreens, maples, 

and ferns. 

With the sound of seagulls 

calling, we approach the 

textile center/museum. 

Before 1959, the building 

housed the Maple Leaf 

School and then became 

abandoned. It gradually 

and sadly deteriorated as 

the elements took over with 

wild blackberries growing 

through the floorboards and 

birds nesting in the eaves. 

The owners, the Latimer family, suggested the building to the 

Tillamook County Pioneer Museum Foundation. The former school 

reopened in 1991 as the Latimer Quilt & Textile Center. 

In succeeding years, the structure has been fully restored and 

improved. The interior walls are adorned with gorgeous quilts and 

textile arts. 

As you wander from room-to-room, you realize this is a working 

museum. Quilters and other fiber artists are often observed while 

operating the center’s quilting equipment and looms. 

For many family members and friends, sleeping under the quilt a 

loved one made becomes the quilter’s beloved legacy. My grandmother 

left a legacy of many beautiful handmade quilts. 

The museum’s exterior welcomes with a mural depicting quilting 

history through generations. And the gift shop is filled with a variety of 

handmade quilts, wall-hangings and fiber art. 

For anyone desiring to research quilting and fiber arts, there is a 

library with books on quilting, textile creation, spinning, embroidery 

and rug hooking. It’s a sizeable quilt pattern library. 

So, whether you are a quilter or simply enjoy fiber flair, the museum 

is a noteworthy destination. Without any doubt, it’s an inspiring respite 

for quilt lovers wanting to meet and learn. 

Kathy draws her articles from a diverse personal background. She 

hopes readers enjoy her column as much as she enjoys the writing and 

sharing. 

December 2023 

Families Are Made of This 

By: Pat Alexander / Art of Entertaining 

Holidays always mean family to me. Whether 

it’s the one you’re born into or one that you 

make. 

Part of moving into a senior community means that for the most 

part you leave behind family and friends. You come into this new place 

with hopes of new friendships and opportunities. 

To me, Holidays also mean food. In my youth, food was a major 

factor in all our gatherings. We laughed at the table, shed tears, shared 

stories and, as we ate, we bonded. 

Ties form that remain your entire life. Food comes into play in 

everything. 

We meet friends for breakfast, for lunch, for dinner. No longer family, 

but friends we make 

family. We take food 

to a friend who’s 

ill. We laugh over 

hors d’oeuvre at a 

party. In every part 

of our lives, the 

connecting part is 

still food. 

Nowadays, my 

family is scattered 

throughout the 

country. We meet 

when we can, call 

to stay in touch, not 

as much as we’d like 

but enough to keep 

tabs on one another. 

We still talk about 

our Holiday celebrations and the closeness we shared. We remember 

our “then” and it colors our “now” and it completes us. 

But it’s also the case that my new friends are now my family as 

well. We share food, fun, laughter, and games. And we share tears and 

heartbreak. We weren’t born to each other, but we share our lives. In 

every way, we are family! 

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pinch of kosher salt. Add ½ of whipped cream mixture to mascarpone 

with 1 Tbs. coffee liqueur. Mix until just combined. 

Crumble 2 Tbs. ladyfingers into pretty glass dishes. Add 1 Tbs. coffee 

liqueur. Top with whipped mixture. Using pastry bag, make decorative 

pattern on top. Sprinkle with cocoa powder.. 

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Accomplished Bruce Ewing Steps Down 

By: Sam Wagmeister / People & Places 

In the history book that should be written 

about Las Vegas “movers and shakers”, Bruce 

Ewing’s name deserves 

bold face headlines. Ewing’s efforts have touched 

thousands, both on and off the theatrical and 

spiritual stages of the town. 

For ten years Ewing played Lady of Spain 

on an accordion, spun plates on 4’ stick, sang 

Wagnerian opera and kissed Topo Gigo good 

night while parodying the three minute, eleven 

seconds Ed Sullivan Show when he headlined 

the long running musical Forever Plaid. 

The originally anticipated three month run 

stretched to seven years at the Flamingo and three more at Gold Coast. 

But for Ewing, his greatest satisfaction came at the white brick church 

on East Tropicana. 

For the past 15 years, Ewing served dual roles as Community Lutheran 

Church’s Choir Director and Worship Leader before stepping down last 

month. Ewing defines the churches commitment, “We’re only meant to 

be here to give love and grace to others.” 

The church attracts an ecumenical following that includes many of 

Pastor Ben Bergen (left) & Ewing 

the city’s local entertainment icons. “This is a place that respects art 

and creativity,” Ewing reflects. 

His efforts have provided lifelong memories for many congregants. 

In 2017, Ewing led the choir on a tour of Germany. That tour was a 

precursor to a 2019 honor when his 90-member 

ensemble accepted an invitation to perform at 

New York City’s Carnegie Hall. 

Throughout his tenure at the church, 

Ewing has enjoyed casino theater residencies 

and headlining cruises with the Phat Pack, 

volunteered in Panama, co-starred in Phantom 

– The Las Vegas Spectacular, opened a 

neighborhood coffee bistro and regularly 

answered the bell when volunteer opportunities 

presented themselves. 

A trifecta of the church’s congregants has stepped forward to assume 

Ewing’s responsibilities: award winning composer and musical director 

Keith Thompson takes the reins as Choir Director; former principal 

singer of Bally’s Jubilee Dana Martin will share worship service 

leadership with the larger than life singer-funny man Tony Arias. 

Ben Bergen, the church’s Senior Pastor, praised Ewing’s contributions, 

“He’s a giver who has given all of himself to the church for the past 25 

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The Composers Room 

By: Dianne Davis / That’s Entertainment 

The Composers Room opened in November 

and our senior population – as well as the 

general community will be delighted with its 

offerings. 

Entertainment industry veteran Damian Costa of Pompey 

Entertainment has fashioned a 

spot where, “vintage Vegas meets 

modern charm in the heart of 

the Historic Commercial Center 

District.” The mission, “he says, 

is to present a menu of enjoyable 

food, upscale cocktails and 

memorable musical performances 

from today’s artists.” 

The charming venue pays 

homage to members of the 

entertainment industry and gives 

a feeling of old Vegas with the 

memorabilia and photos on the walls. I became a believer when we saw 

the charming exterior as we pulled into the parking lot on East Sahara. 

The parking is free and close to the entrance. That’s a draw for sure. 

Food is not mandatory, but the menu selections may certainly entice 

you. 

For me, the entertainment is a selling point. A star-studded lineup 

at a pre-opening event included local favorites who likely will 

be entertaining audiences in the 150 seat show stage area theatre 

– equipped with a state of the art sound system. The roster included 

Travis Cloer, Brent Barrett, Rose Kingsley and Marco Antorio Varela, Vita 

Drew (December 10th), and Jimmy Hopper, all on the schedule. 

One of my local favorites Keith Thompson is bringing his Piano 

Party (Dec 5 & 19) and will have 

another fan fav - the hilarious 

Tony Arias - as his sidekick. 

Clint Holmes, Earl Turner, Kelly 

Clinton-Holmes, Vincent John, 

Sarah Jessica Ross, Ms. Monet 

and the always entertaining Wes 

Winters delighted the audience. 

Upcoming shows include 

Jimmy Mulidore’s Jazz Party and 

The Swing It! Girls, Broadway 

themed productions, impressionist 

Jammin’ Jay Lamont and 

Limoncello (Wednesday 7 pm.) 

The Tavern Stage includes a well-stocked bar and ample seating as 

patrons enjoy piano music and song. Menu options range from small 

bites like bacon-wrapped dates to deli offerings like “the Italian” and 

seasonal fish, steak, chicken or the ever popular meatloaf. 

Las Vegas’ wonderful entertainers and musicians have a new venue 

where they can share their talents with our community. If opening 

night is any indication, then Composers Room is a spot you’ll want to 

visit often. 

Dianne Davis specializes in “senior entertainment” and is the 

Las Vegas Associate Editor of lasvegassplash.com. She hikes, works on 

her stand-up comedy, and looks forward to more travels with her 

husband Burt. 

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December 2023 

Entering the Rhinestone Room 

Guest Pietra Sardelli shares a laugh with host Tony Arias on our 

Vegas Voice Rhinestone Room TV set. What’s so funny? Find out and 

see all of Tony’s great interviews on our YouTube channel (YouTube/c/ 

vegasvoice) or on our website.

WHY DOES IT HURT TO PINCH? IS THERE A FIX? 

By:Ryan Grabow, MD / Help My Hands! 

“Help My Hands!” - our column on common 

hand conditions has returned. 

WHAT CAUSES THUMB PAIN WHEN I PINCH? 

Pain at the base of the thumb or thumb pad when you try 

to pinch is a very common complaint, and is typically 

due to thumb joint arthritis, also called, Basal Joint 

Arthritis. 

Symptoms are variable 

Although the pain may be worst at 

those areas, it may also feel like 

your whole hand aches or the 

pain may radiate up your forearm. 

Some patients may only experience a mildly 

annoying crunchy, grinding, or shifting sensation with thumb use. 

Others have so much pain with thumb use they have limited ability to 

use their hand! Swelling and stiffness of the thumb and weakness of 

pinching and grip is also common with this condition. 

WHAT CAUSES THUMB ARTHRITIS? 

While a trauma to the joint can lead to arthritis, 

the most common cause of thumb arthritis is simply 

normal hand use, gender, and genetics (yes - it 

does run in families). Forceful hand use, typing, 

or writing don’t put you at higher risk. You did not 

cause it - you inherited it! 

While many men do get thumb arthritis, it is much more common in 

women, with a majority of women developing this arthritis by the time 

they are in their 60s. Thankfully, not everyone who develops arthritis 

experiences pain. To confirm this diagnosis, a physical exam and 

xrays are typically all that is needed. 

HOW DO WE TREAT THUMB ARTHRITIS? 

If oral anti-inflammatories and occasional brace 

use do not help, a steroid injection to the joint is 

typically very effective. 

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It’s The Most Wonderful Time 

By: Mary Richard / Health Fitness 

Here it is December 2023 and I’m starting the 

celebration of my birthday month! Yes, this is 

my most favorite time of the year. 

It’s festive. And most people are jolly and happy with festivities 

throughout the Las Vegas Valley. Food and drink are plentiful and are 

everywhere. 

I’m thrilled to be celebrating my 79th year on this earth! WOW - 

how did that happen? I 

still enjoy teaching my 

Zumba and balance 

classes, as well as 

choreographing dance 

groups. 

My part-time ushering 

job at The Smith Center 

is still going strong and 

I intend to continue 

working there as long as 

I’m physically able. In 

between my busy schedule I will spend time enjoying the holidays with 

my friends as much as possible, 

Thinking back of my years on the East Coast, I really enjoy our 

beautiful winter weather without that snow! I can look at Mt. Charleston 

if I want to see that white stuff. 

The holidays are notorious for putting on some extra pounds, so do 

yourself a favor. You can enjoy the holiday goodies but continue with 

your exercises or take up some new ones. I’m determined not to put 

back the extra pounds I gained these last few years from the pandemic. 

So, as we wind down this year, be good to yourself and reflect upon 

what you want to check off your “bucket list” and go for it. 

BE GRATEFUL - for what you have, not what you don’t have. 

POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND HAPPY HEALTH TO ALL! 

Mary Richard is a long term supporter of senior fitness. She 

teaches Zumba, toning and dance classes throughout the Las 

Vegas Valley. 

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December 2023 

Vegas Voice 

Podcast 

Tom Harmon, from 

Lean Dog Fitness gets ready 

for our Vegas Voice People & 

Places podcast last month. 

He’s joined by our new Vice 

President Dianne David. 

You can hear this interview 

on all podcast platforms as 

well as our sister website: 

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Reversing Type 2 Diabetes 

By: Tom Harmon / Lean Dog 

Type 2 diabetes is a chronic condition 

affecting millions nationwide. While medical 

advancements have greatly improved 

management, adopting natural wellness habits can play 

a pivotal role in reversing this condition. 

Addressing the root causes, such as poor diet and 

sedentary lifestyle, these habits empower individuals to 

take control of their health. Take a look at the following: 

1. Embrace a Nutrient-Dense Diet: Dietary changes are 

essential when it comes to reversing type 2 diabetes naturally. Focus 

on whole, unprocessed foods, abundant in nutrients and low in added 

sugars. 

Emphasize high-fiber foods like fruits, vegetables, sprouted grains, 

and legumes. Incorporate lean proteins and healthy fats like those 

found in nuts, seeds, meat, and fatty fish. Avoid processed foods, sugary 

drinks, and seed oils in your cooking. 

2. Regular Physical Activity: Engaging in regular physical 

activity holds numerous benefits for reversing type 2 diabetes. Exercise 

helps lower blood sugar levels, enhances insulin sensitivity, and 

promotes weight loss. 

Walk, walk, walk! Combine this with strength training exercises 

which will improve muscle strength and glucose control. 

3. Stress Reduction Techniques: Increased stress levels have a 

direct impact on blood sugar regulation. Incorporating stress reduction 

techniques into your routine can support the reversal of type 2 diabetes. 

Explore practices like meditation, deep breathing exercises, yoga, or 

mindfulness. 

4. Quality Sleep Patterns: Sleep deprivation and 

fluctuating sleep patterns can disrupt insulin sensitivity 

and impair glucose metabolism. Prioritize obtaining 

adequate and quality sleep consistently. 

Aim for seven to nine hours of uninterrupted sleep each 

night. 

Harnessing natural wellness habits presents an empowering 

approach to reversing type 2 diabetes. Through adopting a nutrientdense 

diet, proper supplements, engaging in regular physical activity, 

reducing stress, and prioritizing quality sleep, individuals can take 

charge of their health and work towards reversing this condition. 

And of course, last but not least, always consult a healthcare 

professional before making any significant changes or discontinuing 

any prescribed medications. 

Tom Harmon is a Certified Fitness Trainer & Nutritionist and 

owns Lean Dog Fitness in Henderson. Call 702/297-6440 to book 

your free intro/assessment to begin your journey to reclaim your 

health. www.leandogfitness.com 

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Resistance Exercise Bands 

By: Linda Bateman-Gomez / Timeless Beauty 

As I shared previously, I broke my leg last 

Christmas Eve. I elected to pass on surgery 

and although I’m not sure if that was my wisest 

decision, I’m too 

far to turn back now. 

I’m still in a leg brace and still going 

to physical therapy but I’m now able to 

travel and have found my best new travel 

companion! The resistance exercise 

bands I use in PT are great to carry for 

exercising on the go. They are small, 

easy to pack, easy to use, inexpensive and 

very effective. 

I’ve never really worked out much, 

although I should have. I’m now 

learning lots of new things about 

exercise. 

For example: How using resistance bands strengthening exercises 

helps to build muscle. I can really tell the difference when using them. 

Both at home and while traveling, doing things like leg lifts or arm 

exercises (for flabby arms) using the bands really allows you to work 

the muscles much more. There are articles that state these little bands 

are like using weights, and in some instances are even more effective. 

Other studies say using the bands while exercising will also help melt 

fat. Sadly, I have not seen any personal evidence of that. 

The bands are color coded based on strength of resistance. There are 

different types, some with handles which are bigger overall. 

I bought the 5-color coded flat bands. They were $10.00 on Amazon 

although there are many available 

online. 

Should you opt for the ones with 

handles be extra careful! Used incorrectly 

or without enough strength, they can 

snap and potentially hit you. Use those 

with caution. 

As with all things, if you have physical 

health issues, always check with your 

doctor before trying something new. As 

we age, lots of conditions should guide 

the kinds of exercises we do. 

My favorite thing to do if I do nothing 

else to do, is to stretch every day. Being physically fit is good for our 

health and makes us look younger too! 

Linda Bateman-Gomez has an international beauty company 

based in Las Vegas that specializes in cosmetics and other beauty 

products. Contact Linda at TimelessBeauty2020@gmail.com or 

through her website www.fullips.com. 

By: Lisa Kemmerling / Fashion Couture 

The U.S. population age 65 and older has grown 

38.6% in the past 10 years alone. There is now 

a large population of women who even though 

the number says one 

thing, they don’t look or feel their age. 

Not only do individuals age gracefully, 

but they also have many outside interests 

like travel, social clubs, the arts, and sports 

to keep them busy on a daily basis. With 

that being said, fashion has become ever 

more important. 

Thinking back to when I was a child and 

watching my mother put on a beautiful 

two piece skirt combo that was paired with 

lovely faux pearl earrings and necklace, 

she looked simply stunning. What an indelible impression that left on 

my young mind. 

Granted that was the 60s and nowadays, the styles are not all that 

impressive for aging women. It’s apparent that designers stop creating 

more fashionable looks once you pass through your 50s. Why is that?? 

Recently, my sister was visiting from Alaska and wanted to shop, as 

we often do. I helped show her how to bring updated fashions into play 

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How to be Fashionable Regardless of Age 

December 2023 

by creating a modern look. 

Black pleated pants, paired with a long black sleeve shirt, with a 

keyhole neckline. Next we added multicolored drop style earrings and 

matching bracelet, and a lovely black/white swirl jacket with an artistic 

flair and topped off the ensemble with two 

inch black suede pumps. 

The result was a chic look and provided 

her with an abundance of confidence that 

garnered several compliments. This one 

outfit changed her mind that women can 

and do look great after 50. 

Maybe as a new project, I’ll take on the 

idea of creating fashions for women past 

a certain age? Not likely, as I’m aging 

gracefully and enjoying my free time with 

family and friends. 

As Robert Browning quotes, “Grow old 

with me! The best is yet to be.” Happiest of Holidays to you and your 

family, whether they’re near or far! 

Lisa Kemmerling is the owner of Clean Lines Fashion Consulting, 

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By: Dan Roberts / Publisher 

As regular readers know, my Rana and I were oh so close to 

becoming victimized. Luckily we eventually realized what was 

occurring and after some immediate emergency actions on our part, 

we escaped any financial misfortune. 

But in the course of our actions, we found another “bad guy.” Now 

they don’t steal from you, but they do provide you with false hope. 

That’s our federal and state government and especially those 

“don’t we make you feel good” bureaucrats. They pat themselves 

on the back as they go on and on about all the wonderful programs 

they have, but ever try to use one? 

Sadly, my Pill (partner in love & life) 

and I now have first-hand knowledge 

what’s its like to report a scam. Two 

words – You’re screwed. 

I want to start with the Federal Trade 

Commission. You know, the guys that 

brought you that “do not call” telephone 

number to stop those telemarketers. 

How’s that working out? 

And while the FTC goes all out to tell 

the public to report fraud, what’s the 

final result? You think they will make 

you whole again or even get back to you? 

But I’m not done yet. 

We also contacted the Henderson Police, The Nevada Attorney 

General, the United States Postal Service and even the FBI. 

They won’t even talk to you. You have to file your incident on line 

and at best you get a Complaint or File number. After that…not a 

damn thing. 

Let me therefore reiterate that it is up to you to protect yourself and 

your family against all those SOBs that want to steal your money. 

So, what do you do when you get that unsolicited telephone call or 

email? There is only one fool-proof way to protect yourself. 

DELETE THAT EMAIL AND HANG UP THE PHONE, HANG 

UP THE PHONE AND… HANG UP THE PHONE. 

December 2023 

Homeless Have Hope 

By: Dan Hyde / Call to Action 

have written numerous articles admonishing 

I our elected officials’ inability (or lack of 

interest) in implementing policies to humanely 

address homelessness. Politicians are masters of 

advocating positions but are rarely held to account. 

I called them lip service specialists and until and unless action(s) 

are taken, the problem will worsen. And yes, the problem has worsened. 

Finally, the homeless have hope - at least in Henderson. I recently had 

the opportunity to discuss this issue with Henderson City Councilman 

Dan Shaw. He outlined a detailed program that Henderson has 

implemented which is showing some positive results, albeit with some 

difficulty. 

The program involves a “small army” of counselors who traverse 

the community seeking the homeless and offering them a fully city 

funded step-by-step program to gain (or regain) their self-reliance. 

The city will provide 30 days rent free at an assigned hotel. During 

that period, they will be counseled as to how and where they can acquire 

necessary physical and mental health care and job opportunities. 

At the conclusion of their stay, they follow up to ensure they are on 

track. Sounds good? Well, the problem is that 50% of the homeless 

refuse to take the help. 

Why? The reason is twofold. 

First, their plight is engrained. Their lifestyle may not be great, but it 

is familiar and they have formed a community bond with those equally 

homeless. 

Second, by “giving that up” even for a short month, it will rattle 

their foundation. What if they fail? Then they would have to start all 

over again. . 

What makes the Henderson program so innovative and worthy is 

that the counselors do not give up on those who initially refuse. They 

repeatedly return to those who said no until they hopefully relent and 

say YES! 

The success of that effort is still a work in progress. Future articles 

will follow up with what they are doing. Finally, real leadership in 

addressing those most in need! 

Kudos and a heartfelt thank you to the City of Henderson and 

Councilman Dan Shaw! 

Dan Hyde is a passionate and effective advocate for the senior 

community. He can be reached at: dhyde9@cox.net.

‘Tis the Season…Three Life-Saving Digits 

By: Chuck Dean / Vet 2 Vet 

Recently, the Department of Veterans Affairs 

made a smart move - it eliminated telephone 

numbers for veterans to call 

in when seeking help when 

embroiled in a suicide crisis. 

Shortened for obvious reasons, 

it’s now a quick 988. 

It could be a horrible 

outcome if a standard 

telephone number stayed in 

place to deal with these types of 

situations. It would be awful to 

hear … “an agent will be with 

you shortly, your wait time is” 

… or “leave a message, an 

agent will return your call.” 

The results could be disastrous. 

There is a myth that suicide rates climb during the year-end holiday 

season. This notion has been debunked somewhat over the years but 

we’re talking about veteran suicides, not civilian. 

The psychological stress many veterans suffer are different dynamics 

all around, making any time of the year “that season.” For example, 

older veterans can sometimes become isolated from their family due to 

the inability to get around effectively. 

They might be unable to leave the VA hospital, nursing home, or 

be house bound. All these things, coupled with PTSD and other warrelated 

stressors, can lead to severe depression. 

The 988 number has made the rescue much easier. 

The latest information indicates that 22 veterans commit suicide 

every day in America. With this tragic statistic, there are many 

concerned individuals and organizations that have stepped up to work 

on reducing these numbers, 

Mission 22 is a good one. 

Recently Chuck N. Baker, 

a combat veteran of the 

Vietnam War, has taken on a 

new mission with a song he 

has written, performed, and 

recorded. The title? 

“Nine-Eight-Eight.” (Visit 

YouTube. Type in Nine-Eight- 

Eight/Chuck N. Baker and 

check it out.) It is Chuck’s 

hope that the song will become 

an ongoing soundboard to get 

the word out on the Suicide 

Hotline. Thanks Chuck. 

And to all my friends and Vegas Voice readers: Have a safe holiday 

season. 

Chuck Dean served as an Army paratrooper in Vietnam and 

through that experience was led to address the many transitional 

issues veterans struggle with. He is the author of several important 

books for veterans. 

Thank You for Your Service 

Sun City MacDonald Ranch Mary Fellows and Loizel Jimenez 

welcome residents to its Veterans Day event last month. With its color 

guard to start the tribute, it was an outstanding and moving “thank 

you” to our vets for their service. 

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Glimmers Are Gifts of Aging 

By: Pat Landaker / Positive Aging 

There are moments that happen in your life 

you may not take time to notice. They are 

glimmers of 

awareness 

that bring you happiness 

and joy, and they need to be 

acknowledged, regarded and 

remembered. 

These are gifts. See them. 

Receive them. 

Glimmers have been described 

as experiences that make you 

feel safe and connected. They’re 

small unexpected moments that 

make you feel calm, peaceful, 

present, joyful and spark positive 

feelings. 

A glimmer can appear differently to each individual. It can be a 

letter from a friend, the warmth of a loving pet, a scene in your favorite 

movie, a drop of rain on your face, seeing something that brings up 

a fond memory, the comfort of time spent with a good book or cup of 

Thoughts to Ponder 

By: Dianne Hahn / Back in the Days 

* 

Don’t let go of your dreams. Life hardly ever 

turns out the way you think it will, but if you 

give up, your 

dreams will disappear. A part of you 

will, too. Some dreams take longer 

to materialize. If you pay your dues, 

chances are you can bring the house 

down with yours! 

*Stand up for yourself and those you 

love. Cherish your country and guard 

the freedom it brings. 

*Be proud of who you are and take 

advantage of what you have been 

given. Those who came before you 

weren’t perfect, but they led you here. 

Most worked hard and sacrificed. Don’t 

waste their efforts. Use the positives they 

passed on and build on them. You are 

the future! 

*Walk with a steady foot and look 

ahead, but don’t forget to glance up at the moon and stars. Love will 

change the course of your world. Sip a little wine occasionally, grab 

your dancing shoes, and celebrate life! 

*Cherish the ones who have loved and cared for you. They are called 

family, the most important people in your life. Care for them when it’s 

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coffee, even a special embrace. 

You’ll notice them when you slow down and look at the glimmers 

of light all around you. They represent smile-generating emotions. 

They’re what we get to experience more fully and mindfully as we age. 

Take a moment to discover, 

open, and acknowledge your 

gifts of glimmers and experience 

the joys of Positive Aging. Happy 

Holidays everyone! 

FYI: I’ll be holding Positive 

Aging workshops for Optum 

Nevada at both their East 

and West locations on 

January 8 th and 11 th , 2024. 

Workshops are FREE and 

you must be an Optum 

member to register. Please 

visit Optum Nevada. 

Pat Landaker is a Certified Senior Advisor (CSA) and owner of 

Living La Vida Senior, Ageless Aging, and Senior Solutions. She 

also teaches Positive Aging at UNLV/OLLI. Visit www.patlandaker- 

AGEncy.com or email her at: info@patlandakeragency.com. 

your turn. That’s the chain of life. 

*When and if your link produces another, know that parenting will 

be the hardest, but most important job you’ll ever have. It will give your 

life meaning and instill a love in you stronger and more powerful than 

you can ever imagine. 

*Everyone makes mistakes. Don’t 

beat yourself up. Learn from yours. 

Don’t repeat. 

*Pay attention to your body and what 

it tells you. Care for it. It’s your one and 

only! 

*Handle your fragile self with care. 

Resentment and grudges hurt only 

you. Shake them off and free yourself 

of their bonds. 

*You have control. Think, plan, 

and walk in your own shoes or you’ll 

be working someone else’s plan and 

walking in their shoes. Secondhand 

shoes are uncomfortable. Shape your 

own style! Write your own book. 

*Always remember: You’re never 

alone. Those who came before are a 

part of you. Their love will forever be 

wrapped around you to give you warmth, hope and strength. 

A former schoolteacher, Dianne Sebis Hahn writes for children too. 

Presently, Dianne has eight books available on Amazon.com.

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Understanding Heart Murmurs 

By: Kyo Mitchell / A Healthier You 

Your heart is an amazing organic machine. 

A muscular pump which pushes blood 

throughout your body, the heart beats 100,000 

times per day and 35 million times each year with no break. 

The functioning of the heart is both simple and complex. It is made 

up of four chambers, two atria and two ventricles. 

The right atria is designed to pump as much blood as possible and 

fill up the second chamber, the right ventricle. The right ventricle then 

pumps blood to the lungs so that oxygen can be absorbed by red blood 

cells within the blood stream. 

The “Friendship Case” 

By: Ali Guggenheim / Psychic Phenomenon 

The Friendship Case’s story of mass alien 

contact has been kept secret for over half 

a century. For at least 20 of those years, W56, a 

group of Extraterrestrials, contacted hundreds of politicians and highranking 

world influencers to participate. Since then, many more people 

from all walks of life worldwide have participated. 

President Dwight Eisenhower, Alberto Perego, an Italian diplomat, 

and a handful of others assisted in coordinating the more than a 

hundred high-profile professionals flown on multiple UFOs and shown 

secret alien earth bases. 

The largest cluster of these bases is in Italy. Since 2007, witnesses of 

this incredible alien contact have finally been willing to speak, and 

there’s plenty of evidence to back them up. 

This oxygen is pertinent for the body’s cells to make energy and 

survive. The left atria, similar to the right atria, is designed to fill up 

the left ventricle as much as possible before the left ventricle contracts 

and sends blood, oxygen, and nutrients to the body’s approximately 37 

trillion cells. 

Where this may sound like a simple process, it is anything but. One 

example would be that the heart has valves. The purpose of the valves 

is that for the heart to work effectively and efficiently, the blood has to 

flow in only one direction. 

If the aortic valve (the valve between the left ventricle of the heart 

and the blood vessels which go out to the body) is defective, blood may 

backflow into the heart. This poses a problem because the body gets less 

blood and cannot fuel the functions of all tissues of the body. 

As tissues get less blood, their function decreases and medical 

problems can result. 

If there is a problem with one of the valves of the heart, it’s called 

a heart murmur. This is the sound of the blood backflowing through 

a defective valve. The murmur can also be felt on the wrist for those 

trained in the medicine of China. 

Murmurs can happen in reference to any of the four chambers of 

the heart and their respective valves. These murmurs can be relatively 

benign or serious depending on the extent of the backflow. Fortunately, 

there are surgical techniques which can effectively treat defective heart 

valves if serious. 

Dr. Kyo Mitchell served as faculty at Bastyr University in Seattle 

and Wongu University in Las Vegas for over a decade. Dr. Mitchell 

practices in Summerlin and can be reached at 702-481-6216 or 

rkyomitchell@gmail.com. 

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In the film, footage, and photos of spacecraft in flight, UFO spheres 

from World War II continue to amaze researchers worldwide, and even 

shocking footage of spheres (technology has proven they are not from 

the planet Earth) create complex crop circle formations. Witnesses 

claim that homemade videos of the influx of UFOs saturating the skies 

during World War II left them wondering if aliens would attack them. 

For the first few months after contact, Perego tells of long walks 

on the beach with Diempietro, the W56 Captain, and others. The 

Extraterrestrials, who’ve been here for centuries, spoke perfect Italian, 

knew Earth’s history, philosophy, and religions, and gave the humans 

much information during their acquaintanceship. 

They explained, “Earth was created for a positive purpose, but 

humans turned it evil.” They came in peace out of concern for our 

planet without intending to conquer Earth. However, they preferred not 

to expose themselves to humans because they were not ready for their 

contact. 

Diempietro explained that; “human morality is much lower than 

their own, and how critical a time this is in human history.” Atomic 

weapons, he went on, can destroy the world in a matter of minutes, and 

that is such a huge risk that it could not come to pass merely because 

of our low moral sense. 

Their task was to ensure the situation wouldn’t get out of hand. 

Everything should stem from love and respect. And most of all, they 

hoped their truth would be more potent than human doubts. 

To contact Ali or for spiritual consultations, coaching, workshops 

and readings, email: alivegasvoice@yahoo.com.

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Is December 31 Really 

the Best Day to Buy a 

Car? 

By: BJ Killeen / Down the Road 

I 

’m sure you’ve all heard someone say, if you’re going to buy a new 

car, wait until December 31. Is this true? 

The answer is, yes, and no. The best time to buy a car depends on 

many factors. 

First is your immediate need for a new car. Is your vehicle looking at 

repairs that cost more than it’s worth? Is it still drivable? 

If the answer is no, then you need a car asap. Waiting till the end of 

the year makes no sense. If the car is still drivable and isn’t going to put 

you at risk, sure, you can wait. 

Second, is the car you’re looking to purchase a desirable model, one 

that is near the end of its lifecycle, or a completely new version? If so, 

you may get a better deal on the outgoing version, but you won’t on a 

new model - no matter what time of year it is. 

A Holiday Genealogy 

Journey 

By: Craig Smith / Exploring Your Roots 

Continuing with the holiday theme, let’s look 

at the significance of genealogy during the 

holiday season. The holidays are a perfect time to 

delve into your family’s history. 

As family members come together to celebrate, it’s an opportunity to 

share stories about your ancestors. Understanding where your family 

came from can help you appreciate the unique traditions and customs 

that have been passed down through the years. 

Sharing holiday recipes is always a great way to pass down traditions. 

In my family, our somewhat non-traditional Christmas Eve dinner 

has been passed down since I was a little tyke. To this day, my son, 

grandchildren, and great grandchildren have the same dinner every 

Christmas Eve. 

It’s true that every dealership (as well as every manufacturer) wants 

to sell as many vehicles before reporting year-end sale figures. But they 

aren’t giving anything away at sub-bargain prices. 

It comes back to doing your homework before you buy, just as you 

would any time of year. 

Yes, there are some decent deals, especially for vehicles already on 

the lot, but keep in mind that car buying takes more than a few hours. 

If you are doing a trade, they will want to inspect it to make sure the 

value is there. 

Are your finances in order? Any credit glitch can hang up the deal, 

and instead of walking away with a vehicle on the 31 st , you’re out of 

luck on January 2. 

Plus, expect them to be busy, so patience will be a virtue. It’s smarter 

to go to the dealership any time in December when the sales have 

already started. They won’t be as rushed, you’ll have time to remedy 

any glitches, and you’ll still get a decent bargain. 

Good luck and happy shopping! 

BJ Killeen has been an automotive journalist for over 30 years. 

She welcomes all questions and inquiries, and can be reached at 

bjkdtr@gmail.com 

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Even when we can’t be together, we use FaceTime to share our dinner 

every year. I always take the opportunity to explain to the youngsters the 

family tradition and how long we have been eating the non-traditional 

family meal. 

While the holidays are a great time for sharing traditions and family 

stories, it is also a great time to start your genealogical adventure. This 

is the best time of year to subscribe to online resources such as Ancestry 

and MyHeritage. 

Many of these commercial genealogy websites offer great discounts 

for monthly or annual subscriptions. Subscription discounts range 

from 20% - 40% off regular subscriptions. 

It is also a good time to sign up for DNA tests. DNA testing will help 

discover your genetic roots and connect with distant relatives. Websites 

like Ancestry, FamilyTree DNA and MyHeritage offer insights into 

your ethnic origins and can help you build a more comprehensive 

family tree. 

This holiday season, explore your family’s history, traditions, and 

recipes, and make new connections with your roots. I should also 

mention that researching your family tree can be fun and exciting. 

Happy holidays and happy hunting! 

Craig Smith is the President of the Clark County Nevada 

Genealogical Society. The Society meets on the third Saturday of 

each month at the Paseo Verde Library in Henderson. Craig can 

be contacted at president@ccngs.org

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Our Coldest Month 

By: Howard Galin / Happy Gardening 

December is the coldest month in Las Vegas. 

Although daytime temperatures can be quite 

moderate, evening temperatures can dip down to 

the low 30’s or below! 

There are preventative measures to protect your landscapes from 

cold damage as well as preparing your gardens for the 

Spring. Inspect your irrigation systems making certain that 

the narrow tubing is buried at least 2” below the ground to 

prevent freezing, splitting and leaks. 

Check the underground irrigation boxes for frozen 

valves and make sure you have placed insulated covers 

over exposed spigots and pipes. Close down fountains and 

other “water features” that may freeze. 

December is a good time to replenish both rock and 

organic mulch in order to protect soil and roots from freezing. 

Once leaves have fallen off deciduous trees and bushes, remove any 

remaining rubbish from you landscape to prevent unwanted rodents 

and insects from building nests. 

Any remaining pruning should be completed. Wait until Mid- 

December for “late” blooming plants to go dormant before heavily 

pruning. 

At that time, 1/3 of the tops and side branches of roses should be 

removed and lantana and lavender plants should be pruned down to 

soil level. Heavy pruning of Texas Rangers, Jasmines and Hawthornes 

will stimulate fresh growth and flowering once the growing season 

begins. 

Follow the Water Authority Winter Schedule for “once a week” 

irrigation. Remember, however, NOT to water after the sun goes down 

or when ground temperatures approach freezing. 

Succulents should NOT be watered at all during December through 

January. 

Cold sensitive plants can be wrapped with burlap while 

young plants can be protected by placing Styrofoam 

cups over their tops to insulate them from cold and wind 

damage. 

Plants can also be protected by wrapping them with 

outdoor (non-LED) Christmas lights that can be turned on 

during cold winter nights. An old blanket can be thrown 

over delicate bushes when temperatures go below freezing. 

Potted plants should be moved close to the outer walls of your home 

to take advantage of the sun’s reflected heat. During prolonged cold 

spells, move these pots into your garage. 

Have a gardening question? Contact me at: Theplantwhisperer28@ 

gmail.com. 

Howard Galin is a University of Nevada certified Master 

Gardener who lectures on, and writes about native plants and 

desert landscaping 

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Next Year Plans 

By: Stu Cooper / Happy Adventures 

2024 is upon us. Sharon and I want to thank all 

of you who participated in our trips this past 

year. And I want to tell you about the trips we have 

coming up in the next year. 

Yes, we will have are usual array of “Bus to the Boat” trips. However, 

the trip that seems to be garnering the most interest is our Vegas Voyagers 

River Boat cruise with Viking River Cruises 

October 24 - 31, 2024. 

We will be sailing 

through Switzerland, 

Germany, France and 

the Netherlands as we 

cruise the Rhine River. Space is 

limited as the vessel holds only 180 

passengers and it will fill quickly. 

As for Buses to the Boat, we still have limited availability if you want to 

cruise the Mexican Riviera on January 6 – 13 on Princess Cruise Line’s 

Discovery Princess. We have 130 “Voyagers” cruising on this cruise. 

Our FOLK LEGACY TRIO CRUISE along the coast of California, March 

9 – 16, 2024 is also extremely popular. We have close to 100 “Voyagers” 

joining us for that cruise. 

If long (and I mean long cruises) are of interest to you, consider 

our 32 night south Pacific cruise April 5 th on the Sapphire Princess. It’s 

round trip from Los Angeles, cruising to Hawaii, Fiji, Samoa and Tahiti. 

Our Bus to the Boat program includes a 10 night Baja Mexico cruise 

on the Grand Princess January 4 – 14, 2025. 

Last, but not least,, we will be cruising to Hawaii for a special 16 night 

Tony Arias & Friends cruise February 25, 2025. It is over one year away 

but this is going to be a great cruise as we sail to Hawaii and include 

several great concerts with Tony and his friends. 

There you have it, an overview of our Vegas Voyager trips for the next 

year, with more to be added. A happy and healthy 2024 to all. 

Cruising in 2024 

Sharon Cooper gets ready 

to greet Vegas Voyagers at its 

recent Travel Club meetings 

in Henderson and Summerlin 

last month. We have some 

great cruises coming up next 

year! 

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Enduring Mottos For the 

New Year 

By: Heather Latimer / Heather’s Self-Help Tips 

* 

Actions speak louder than words. 

*Don’t close the gate after the donkey is out. 

*The early bird catches the worm. 

*Never make a mountain out of a molehill. 

*When the cat is away the mice will play. 

*Always saddle your own horse. 

*You can’t un-ring a bell. 

*Look before you leap. 

*Don’t cover one 

mistake with another 

mistake. 

*Never let the sun go 

down on your anger. 

*Birds of a feather flock 

together. 

*There are two sides to 

every pancake. 

*You can take a horse to 

water but you can’t make 

him drink. 

*Be sure to always make 

a Plan B. 

*Every cloud has a silver 

lining. 

*Nothing ventured, 

nothing gained. 

*Don’t burn you bridges 

before you reach them. 

*You reap what you sow. 

*The squeaky wheel gets the oil. 

*You can’t get blood from a stone. 

*Forewarned is forearmed. 

*Don’t judge a man until you’ve walked in his shoes. 

*You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. 

*All that glitters is not gold. 

*If at first you don’t succeed, try, try, try again. 

*Don’t cut off your nose to spite your face. 

*Err on the side of caution. 

*A picture is worth a thousand words. 

*You can’t eat your cake and eat it too. 

*If you can’t beat them, join them. 

*Be careful what you wish for. You might get it. 

*He who hesitates is lost. 

*Better to be safe than sorry. 

*Truth is stranger than fiction. 

Heather Latimer is a nationally recognized specialist in making 

difficult subjects easy and author of 17 books. See amazon.com/ 

heather latimer/how to overcome. 

December 2023 

Killers of the Flower Moon 

By: Renee Riendeau / Movie Revelations 

Based on David Grann’s 2017 bestselling book, 

it tells the story of a string of murders on the 

Osage Nation’s land in Oklahoma during the 

1920s. 

The movie delves into racial and family dynamics that rocked 

Oklahoma when oil was discovered on Osage lands. Martin Scorsese 

was fascinated by the book and decided to co-write the film with Eric 

Roth. He also produced 

and directed the movie 

The cast includes 

Leonardo DiCaprio, 

Robert De Niro, 

Lily Gladstone, 

John Lithgow, and 

Brendan Fraser, to 

name a few. 

At least 60 Osage 

people were murdered 

or disappeared between 

1921 and 1925. From the 

early 1800s through the 

1930s, official US policy 

displaced thousands 

of Native Americans 

from their ancestral 

homes through the 

policy known as Indian 

Removal, or Reign of 

Terror. 

This forced removal touched every tribe east of the Mississippi. In 

total, about 100,000 American Indians were removed from their 

Eastern homelands to Western reservations. 

As a director, “I know the story should be profound and I should feel 

the hearts of characters in my heart and gut” says Scorsese.” Critics 

consensus states “It would take a century to tell the true crime story of 

the Osage Nation..” 

This film is very long (3 hours 26 minutes) and is a sobering 

appraisal of America’s relationship with Indigenous peoples. Every 

moment of silence is powerful, purposeful, and more than worth the 

runtime. 

It’s another artistic zenith for Martin Scorsese and his collaborators. 

The acting was strong, the cinematography was gorgeous, and it’s a 

powerful story that kept the audience engrossed in spite of its slower 

pace and extreme length. 

It kept me “locked in.” I love true stories and really enjoyed this 

movie as did the rest of the theater’s crowd. I give this outstanding film 

a big “5!” 

Renee Riendeau is the movie reviewer for The Vegas Voice. Renee 

can be reached at rriendeau@aol.com and is anxious to hear 

from you.

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God Rest Me, Merry Gentlemen! 

By: Vicki Wentz / Vicki’s Voice 

The days between Halloween and New Years 

are my favorite time of year, especially this 

little stretch from Thanksgiving to Christmas. 

However, speaking as a grandparent, I am betting 

that if your home contains any grandchildren under the age of twenty, 

life around now is just a big bowl of 

chaos. 

And, as the 25th approaches, the 

havoc will rise until you are spending 

Christmas Day hiding under your 

computer desk, chugging Jack 

Daniels-spiked eggnog, behind a big 

frozen turkey you forgot to defrost... 

not that I ever did that. 

But, really, this time of year is all 

about the children - the thrill on their 

faces, the awe and wonder in their 

eyes, the adorable way they hurl your 

newly decorated Christmas cookies 

at each other during that dandy candy-cane sugar high… yes, that’s 

what’s important. 

It’s about hiding a scooter, a trampoline, a life-size dollhouse, and 

a turtle, from kids who suddenly have the uncanny ability to morph 

into a liquid and slither through locked, chained, and barred doors. 

So, eventually, you will tell them that Santa wears a “peeking” beeper, 

and that if any children see their presents before the big day, he will get 

beeped and go into cardiac arrest and there will be no Christmas. 

It scares the fruitcake out of them, which is a good tool during the 

holiday season. 

(One year, my children were so savagely persistent, I finally climbed 

up and threw their unwrapped gifts down from the attic. Then, I pulled 

the steps up behind me and sat in the 

rafters all day, remembering when 

they were tiny and had that new-baby 

smell and would never have thought 

of peeking at their presents because 

all they really wanted was a good box 

lid to chew on.) 

It’s about taking the whole family 

merrily off to buy the tree at the 

Methodist church (where you don’t 

belong, but hey, they’re cheaper!) 

but everybody wants a different tree, 

and grandma rules, so they sulk all 

the way home and nobody wants to 

decorate “such a stinky, cruddy tree.” But you haul it inside and jam it 

into the tree stand to find that it’s six inches too tall and you’ll have to 

climb up on a kitchen chair and hack at it with your only good steak 

knife. 

Finally, when you double-check last year’s lights to find that not even 

ONE strand is working, you blow. You warn the sulkers that after you get 

the non-working lights on the hacked-up, stinky tree, everyone better 

get their behinds to trimming or there will be NO PEACE ON EARTH! 

Christmas is also about visiting Santa at the mall. Why? 

Everyone knows that kids only love Santa Claus until they are plunked 

into his lap. You could be doing a complete Olympic gymnastics routine 

in order to make little Junior smile for the camera, but trust me, he’ll 

take one look at that massive beard and scream like you’ve handed 

him to Fidel Castro. Yeah, good times. 

Finally, it’s about Christmas Eve, when the children are at last asleep, 

and you spend the next nine hours assembling a tricycle, a pinball 

game, and a snow cone machine, following directions on a box that 

read “Assembly should take no longer than 30 minutes.” 

(Everyone knows you never believe boxes. Boxes lie. Boxes watch us 

happily settle down to assemble stuff and laugh hysterically; eager to 

tell the other boxes at the landfill about the doofus who bought the 

tricycle and believed the stuff on the box.) 

Meanwhile, you scoff at “It’s a Wonderful Life”, eat Santa’s cookies 

and drink Santa’s milk, and at 4:00 am you drift off to sleep, slumped 

on the floor against the couch, bits of tinsel clinging to your hair, a 

piece of scotch tape stuck to your lower lip, your hands curled in frozen 

wrapping spasms…and God bless us everyone. 

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December 2023 

Vicki Wentz is a writer, teacher and speaker living in North 

Carolina. Readers may contact her - and order her new children’s 

book! - by visiting her website at www.vickiwentz.com.

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What’s the Word? 

By: Mark Richards / Games & Shows 

From the “clue,” we reveal 3 letters in each 

word and you need to fill in the blanks. How 

many can you get? Answers below. 

1. People usually toast them 

___ E ___ ___Y ___E ___ ___ 

2. They do a lot of name calling 

T ___ ___ ___ H ___ ___S 

3. They often run around in circles 

___ A ___ S ___E ___ ___ 

4. It’s not for real 

___ ___ C ___ I ___ N 

5. They’re not getting any younger 

___ ___T ___ ___ U ___ S 

6. It can start a long sentence 

___ E ___ ___I ___ T 

7. He loved playing his horn 

___ A ___ ___ H ___ 0 

8. They make you feel older 

___ I ___ ___ H ___ A ___ ___ 

9. They make a lot of men smile 

___ T ___ I ___ ___ E ___ ___ 

10. There’s no future in it 

___ E ___ ___ E ___ D ___ ___ 

ANSWERS 

(1) Newlyweds, (2) Teachers, (3) Hamsters, (4) Fiction, (5) 

Antiques, (6) Verdict, 

(7) Satchmo, (8) Birthdays, (9) Strippers, (10) Yesterday 

Why Nookie Is Good For You 

By: Lauren Tallman / Erotic Las Vegas 

Put down the crossword puzzles and stop taking 

memory supplements by the fistful. Seniors 

who want to stay in sharper mental shape should 

start having more sex. 

“Sex can be hugely beneficial for people as they get older, not only 

for the reported medical health benefits but for our psychological and 

emotional health,” said Kate Thomas, director of clinical services at 

The Johns Hopkins Sex and Gender Clinic, in an interview with AARP. 

“It can strengthen our relationships, promote self-esteem, and improve 

our sense of identity.” 

According to the Journal of Sex Research, adults aged 75-90 who have 

more frequent sex have better cerebral functioning, and for adults aged 

62-74, better sexual quality, feelings of physical pleasure, emotional 

satisfaction and better cognitive functioning. 

Let’s face it, seniors have fewer distractions, don’t have to worry about 

pregnancy concerns, and have more time to get busy in between the 

sheets. They have a lot more experience than younger people, and they 

usually are willing to enjoy sexual contact and intimacy with roleplaying, 

sex toys, and even by pursuing the thrill of an affair. 

And “sex” doesn’t mean only intercourse and achieving the “Big O.” 

Sexual activity that stimulates brain matter has been proven to happen 

when you touch or hold hands, embrace or hug, or kiss. Marriage. 

com reports kissing is an ageless emotional act that releases feel-good 

chemicals like oxytocin, dopamine, and serotonin in your brain. 

A Senior Sex guide published by the Centers For Disease Control and 

Prevention (CDC) and the Mayo Clinic finds intimacy in older adults 

contributes to less stress, better healing, and a lower risk of depression. 

So, next time you’re spending a boring night in front of the TV, turn 

to your partner instead and start turning up the heat. Studies have 

shown that seniors who are generally healthier are probably more 

sexually active. 

“Continuing [sexual] activity provides protection against a sense 

of aging and loss,” John DeLamater , a sociology professor at the 

University of Wisconsin - Madison, told Reuters. “The sexuality of older 

people should be considered and encouraged.” 

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December 2023 

Lauren Tallman is founder of the Erotic Writers Group of Las Vegas 

and author of “Harem of the Dragon,” “Come Again?,” and “How 

to Have an Affair and Not Get Caught.” Visit her website: laurentallman.com.

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A Delicious Vegan Holiday Dessert For Fun & For Brains! 

By: Jan Fair / A No-Brainer Minute 

W 

e've had several recipes for vegan dishes this year (see my April, October & November 

columns at JanFair.com). So let's end the year with one of my *Good-4-U vegan desserts. 

Also, you might check out (from your local library, that is!) Katie Culpin's book, Vegan Holiday 

Cookbook: Festive Plant-Based Meals & Desserts for the Thanksgiving & Christmas Table. 

*Good-4-U No-Sugar Apple Tarts 

• 1 pre-made pastry crust 

• 4 HoneyCrisp apples 

• 1/2 lemon, juiced 

• 1 cup unsweetened applesauce 

Spices: cinnamon & nutmeg 

1. Cut the pastry sheet into 4" x 4" squares. 

2. Press each square into a muffin pan & 

fold the sides to form a ruffled crust. 

3. Thinly slice the apples into a bowl. Mix 

in lemon juice, applesauce & spices. 

4. Spoon apple mixture into each crust. 

5. Bake at 375°F until edges are golden 

brown (30-40 minutes) 

6. Serve with "Fabulous Faux IceCream" 

(see Jan's February 2013 column at JanFair.com) 

Jan Fair is a writer, consultant & public speaker who has published over 40 books PLUS the 

No-Brainer Brain Games series. Sign up for her FREE newsletter at www.JanFair.com 

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“Fruit Tarts” 

1. In one minute, name fruits 

used to make tarts. 

2. Make an alphabetical list. 

Apricots, Boysenberries, 

Clementines, … 

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