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CONTENTS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 13 ISSUE X<br />

departments<br />

6 FROM THE EDITOR<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

Being a resource of information<br />

8 IN MY VIEW<br />

BY MICHAEL SARAFA<br />

It’s about TIME<br />

9 WHERE DO YOU STAND?<br />

BY MICHAEL SARAFA<br />

Seminarian professor challenges<br />

Pope Francis<br />

10 GUEST COLUMNS<br />

BY ROCKY BAHOURA<br />

Physical therapy over drugs for pain relief<br />

BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />

The human side of deportation<br />

12 NOTEWORTHY<br />

16 IRAQ TODAY<br />

BY MIDDLE EAST ONLINE<br />

Iraqi Kurds postpone elections<br />

amid tensions with Baghdad<br />

18 CHAI TIME<br />

20 RELIGION<br />

22 OBITUARIES<br />

38 CHALDEAN ON THE STREET<br />

BY HALIM SHEENA<br />

How to combat the drug problem?<br />

40 DOC IS IN<br />

BY DR. TALIA KARMO<br />

Addiction: A hidden illness<br />

24<br />

on the cover<br />

24 DEALING WITH DRUGS<br />

BY WEAM NAMOU<br />

Community members speak out about overdoses<br />

25 ARMING THE COMMUNITY<br />

WITH RESOURCES<br />

BY WEAM NAMOU<br />

features<br />

26 THE BUSINESS OF POLITICS<br />

BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />

Chaldean Chamber luncheon focused on current<br />

political climate in the United States<br />

28 EVANGELIZING THE FAITH<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />

ECRC evolves its ministry to meet<br />

the needs of the community<br />

30 LEARNING AND LOVE<br />

THROUGH B.E.A.M.<br />

BY LISA CIPRIANO<br />

32 COMING TO AMERICA<br />

BY EDWARD VINCENT<br />

Sharing John’s Five Year Diary Box<br />

34 THE POWER OF STORYTELLING<br />

BY STEPHEN JONES<br />

36 UNDER GOD’S WINGS<br />

TO FOCUS ON TEEN ISSUES,<br />

OPIOID CRISIS<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

42 CLASSIFIED LISTINGS<br />

44 KIDS CORNER<br />

Happy Turkey Day!<br />

45 EVENTS<br />

Taking a Stride for Seminarians<br />

Celebrating Ten Years<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 5


from the EDITOR<br />

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It has to be one of a parent’s<br />

worst nightmare —<br />

your child is addicted to<br />

drugs. As a parent, guiding<br />

your children is a top priority<br />

— or at least it should<br />

be — but we are all bound<br />

to make mistakes and we<br />

certainly don’t have all the<br />

answers.<br />

When I hear about a kid<br />

straying, I have often asked<br />

the question: Where were<br />

the parents? I guess it is<br />

a natural instinct. However, when<br />

you do some research, you will often<br />

find out that the parents were right<br />

there every step trying to get their<br />

child the help they needed.<br />

The reality is that the world we<br />

live in can be a very scary place.<br />

When I was growing up, it was<br />

much easier for my parents to protect<br />

us from the outside world but<br />

today, the outside world is just a<br />

keyboard or a Smartphone away.<br />

The outside world is in the hands of<br />

our children.<br />

Years ago, while working fulltime<br />

at WJR, I did a week-long series<br />

on heroin addiction as it was becoming<br />

an epidemic in the region.<br />

Here we are again — about 20 years<br />

later — and drugs are still at the<br />

forefront.<br />

One statistic I learned while producing<br />

that series really alarmed me<br />

— less than one percent of people<br />

who try to kick the heroin addiction<br />

are successful — the rest will most<br />

likely die from it.<br />

That reality has become a very<br />

VANESSA<br />

DENHA-GARMO<br />

EDITOR IN CHIEF<br />

CO-PUBLISHER<br />

serious one for the Chaldean<br />

community. We have<br />

had reported overdoses recently<br />

and we are still not<br />

certain how many of our<br />

own people are addicted to<br />

some kind of drug.<br />

We are reporting on<br />

this issue once again. It<br />

has been almost two years<br />

since we featured a story on<br />

heroin and we are brining<br />

you not just a cover story<br />

on the drug problem but an<br />

issue heavily focused on it.<br />

We have several pieces including<br />

a two-part cover story written by<br />

Weam Namou on the drug update<br />

and how it is affecting the Chaldean<br />

community. We believe it is imperative<br />

that we share this information<br />

with you — our readers — and the<br />

community at large. We have to<br />

unite as a community to combat this<br />

very serious problem. We are losing<br />

lives — our children — to this dark<br />

world of drugs.<br />

We encourage parents and family<br />

members to put stigmas and pride<br />

aside and do what you can to get the<br />

addicts help. We also ask that others<br />

who love to gossip to find ways to be<br />

an advocate and not adversary. You<br />

know the old saying, ‘those who live<br />

in glass house…?’ Heed that and<br />

stop throwing stones. We cannot<br />

judge families when they are facing<br />

traumatic and often life-threatening<br />

challenges. We are called as Christians,<br />

which we are, to help our suffering<br />

brothers and sisters.<br />

Drugs don’t discriminate by financial<br />

status, age, gender or education.<br />

No one is immune to the<br />

societal pressures. All of our children<br />

are vulnerable. We hope you<br />

use these stories in this issue as a resource<br />

to educate and to help.<br />

It’s also a time to give thanks. I<br />

am grateful for those families who<br />

were willing to share their stories<br />

with us and our writers who sought<br />

out the answers they needed to craft<br />

these articles. We will continue to<br />

follow this story and the resources<br />

available to help families and we<br />

will report on it not only on these<br />

pages but on our website and our social<br />

media platforms.<br />

We will continue emailing our<br />

weekly newsletter as well. We are<br />

here to keep you abreast of all the<br />

news in the community and bring<br />

you tools you need to solve problems.<br />

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just a news source but a resource of<br />

information that we can share on a<br />

daily basis. Stay connected with us<br />

and we will keep you connected to<br />

all the news and information you<br />

need.<br />

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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 7


in my VIEW<br />

It’s about TIME<br />

As far back as I can<br />

remember, Time<br />

Magazine came<br />

to our house addressed<br />

to my dad once a week.<br />

That had to be the mid<br />

1970’s. It was coming to<br />

the house for years before<br />

then. When I moved to<br />

Philadelphia for graduate<br />

school, I got my own<br />

subscription. That was<br />

1991. It’s been with me<br />

ever since. Lansing, East Lansing,<br />

Farmington Hills, Detroit, Novi and<br />

back to Farmington Hills. Twentysix<br />

years in all, not including my<br />

childhood when I had dibs on it after<br />

my dad.<br />

A couple of weeks ago, I received<br />

the issue below with addition of the<br />

wrap announcing that “This could<br />

be your LAST ISSUE.” I had been<br />

ignoring successive renewal mailings<br />

for months. Why? I barely pick my<br />

Time Magazine up anymore. By the<br />

time I get the weekly publication,<br />

several news cycles have already<br />

come and gone. The Time writers<br />

are sprinkled throughout cable news<br />

television. They blog. They tweet.<br />

By the time they type their last letter<br />

for each week’s Time Magazine, their<br />

analysis is already outdated.<br />

The news cycle has been evolving<br />

for years, even decades. But social<br />

media has completely upended<br />

the way most Americans get their<br />

information. The dawn of the Trump<br />

era and his presidential Tweets have<br />

accelerated this trend in ways we<br />

could not have imagined. Trump’s<br />

tweets have the ability to change<br />

MICHAEL G.<br />

SARAFA<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

the topic of discussion in a<br />

matter of minutes. This is<br />

not just going around the<br />

traditional media. That’s<br />

been going on for decades.<br />

Even President Reagan<br />

reduced news conferences<br />

and preferred direct addresses<br />

to the American<br />

people.<br />

What Trump is doing<br />

is controlling the news cycle.<br />

He has accomplished<br />

this by successfully expanding the<br />

bounds of what is considered news<br />

worthy. He has made the outrageous,<br />

normal; the politically incorrect,<br />

acceptable; the obscene, unremarkable.<br />

Trump has achieved what<br />

former U.S. Senator Daniel Patrick<br />

Moynihan once ominously warned<br />

about: the notion of “defining deviancy<br />

down.” As standards and expectations<br />

fall, this new, lower level<br />

eventually becomes normal.<br />

Hence, while social media has exploded<br />

and redefined the way news<br />

is gathered, and disseminated, so too<br />

has public discourse declined. In the<br />

process, the traditional news outlets<br />

have been devastated. Combine these<br />

facts with the decline of print media,<br />

and my history with Time Magazine,<br />

regrettably, is near the end.<br />

While all good things do often<br />

come to an end, this situation<br />

presents a conundrum. How does<br />

one gather information on current<br />

events in this day and age? There<br />

is no one answer and no good answer.<br />

One could take the Trump<br />

approach which simply makes the<br />

news his enemy; unless of course its<br />

good news for him, in which case,<br />

it’s okay. In other words, just make<br />

the news yourself, the way you want<br />

it to be.<br />

Another idea is to just forget<br />

about it. Life is busy enough without<br />

the news. One could confine news<br />

content to life and death matters<br />

only. These days that might include<br />

the weather or threats from North<br />

Korea. I think this option seems to<br />

be in vogue. Today, nobody talks<br />

about the news much for fear of offending<br />

people and, frankly, because<br />

it is perceived not to matter. Being<br />

informed is less important than we<br />

were probably taught. There are<br />

forces larger than the idea of the<br />

informed citizen that will fix things<br />

eventually.<br />

I hope this is not the case. But<br />

as I contemplate letting my Time<br />

Magazine subscription expire for the<br />

first time in a quarter century, I keep<br />

wondering if it’s about Time?<br />

Michael Sarafa is Co-publisher of the<br />

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where do you STAND?<br />

Seminarian professor challenges Pope Francis<br />

BY MICHAEL SARAFA<br />

Here comes a document signed<br />

by more than 70 priests,<br />

scholars, and church opinion<br />

leaders once again challenging<br />

7 “heretical propositions” put forth<br />

by Pope Francis in Amoris Laetitia<br />

(The Joy of Love), his apostolic exhortation.<br />

The letter challenging the<br />

Pope is more significant for who did<br />

not sign it, which is nobody from the<br />

entire College of Cardinals and say<br />

but for one Bishop, currently suspended<br />

for his own unorthodoxies.<br />

Amongst their reprisals is that<br />

“The Joy of Love” contains propositions<br />

which contradict truths that<br />

are divinely revealed…” The authors<br />

are still bent about the notion of divorced<br />

people receiving Holy Communion<br />

because they are still living<br />

in a state of sin. But let’s leave that<br />

alone for now.<br />

One signatory to this letter is<br />

notable for his geography. Right on<br />

Chicago Boulevard in Detroit works<br />

Dr. Phillip Blosser, Professor of Philosophy<br />

at Sacred Heart Major Seminary.<br />

His job: to train and educate<br />

the seminarians. Blosser told the<br />

Free Press that he loves Pope Francis<br />

but that the he would “like to see<br />

greater clarity and consistency in his<br />

teaching.” The nerve.<br />

The Free Press quoted other experts<br />

that called these signatories<br />

“the extreme fringe” and “the usual<br />

suspects of really far right types who<br />

have been upset not only with this<br />

pope but others in recent years.”<br />

Pope Francis will continue to rebuff<br />

and ignore these challenges to his<br />

papacy by what he calls the “doctors<br />

of the law” more worried about rules<br />

than the ability to discern the manifestation<br />

of Jesus’ love in daily life.<br />

But never mind all this. There’s<br />

a bigger problem. The Sacred Heart<br />

Seminary doesn’t just educate seminarians<br />

for the Archdiocese of Detroit.<br />

That is also where Chaldean<br />

Diocese priest candidates get their<br />

training. Why is this our business?<br />

Twice a year all the Chaldean<br />

Churches take a collection to support<br />

the education of the Chaldean<br />

seminary students. Their tuition is<br />

expensive. There is a Seminarian<br />

fund created by former Bishop Ibrahim<br />

Ibrahim just for this purpose.<br />

Many of us have donated to it over<br />

the years. There are other major fund<br />

raising events held throughout the<br />

years for this important and worthwhile<br />

cause.<br />

I’m sure Professor Blosser must<br />

be a fine individual. But do we really<br />

want someone considered on the<br />

“fringe” of the Catholic Church to<br />

be teaching our future priests? Do we<br />

want the dollars we donate to support<br />

our seminarians’ education to go<br />

towards the salary of someone who<br />

accuses Pope Francis of heresy?<br />

I would think not, but, where do<br />

you stand?<br />

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GUEST columns<br />

Physical therapy over drugs for pain relief<br />

ROCKY<br />

BAHOURA PT, DPT<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

No one wants to live<br />

in pain and turning<br />

to pain medication<br />

seems to be their only option,<br />

but opioid addiction<br />

is very common in today’s<br />

society and can be extremely<br />

dangerous. During<br />

the past 15 to 20 years, the<br />

amount of opioid prescription<br />

drugs continues to increase.<br />

These drugs such as Vicodin<br />

and Oxycontin can<br />

be very harmful if not used appropriately.<br />

Addiction to prescription<br />

opioids can eventually lead to heroin<br />

addiction and even death.<br />

In response to a growing opioid<br />

addiction, the CDC released opioid<br />

prescription guidelines. The<br />

guidelines recognize that prescription<br />

opioids are appropriate in certain<br />

cases, including cancer treatment,<br />

palliative care, and<br />

also in certain acute care<br />

situations.<br />

An alternative to opioid<br />

prescription drugs that<br />

is recommended is physical<br />

therapy. Physical therapists<br />

can treat pain<br />

through movement<br />

and this will help<br />

patients to improve<br />

or maintain their<br />

mobility and quality<br />

of life. Exercise<br />

can help treat patients with<br />

low back pain, hip osteoarthritis,<br />

knee osteoarthritis,<br />

fibromyalgia, shoulder osteoarthritis,<br />

neck pain, and many more conditions<br />

causing pain. A physical<br />

therapist can create an appropriate<br />

exercise program to help many conditions<br />

causing pain.<br />

The longer the patient deals<br />

with pain the greater the likeliness<br />

of addiction to prescription opioids.<br />

Physical therapist treat many<br />

patients post operation such as a<br />

total knee, total hip, total shoulder,<br />

back and neck surgery and it is<br />

recommend that the patient limit<br />

the amount of prescription opioid<br />

use. Physical therapist can also<br />

use therapeutic modalities to treat<br />

pain. Cold packs, hot packs, and<br />

the use of electrical stimulation<br />

can help with pain reduction. Exercise<br />

can help reduce pain through<br />

the replacement of endorphins.<br />

Given the evidence of potential<br />

for serious harm from opioid addiction,<br />

patient education and discussion<br />

before starting opioid therapy<br />

are critical. Physical therapists can<br />

play a valuable role in the patient<br />

These drugs such as Vicodin and Oxycontin can be<br />

very harmful if not used appropriately. Addiction to<br />

prescription opioids can eventually lead to heroin<br />

addiction and even death.<br />

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The human side of<br />

deportation<br />

BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />

There are few moments that<br />

will stay with me for the rest<br />

of my life and watching my<br />

father get zip tied and tossed into<br />

a car by Immigration and Customs<br />

Enforcement (ICE) agents is at the<br />

top of my list. There’s nothing quite<br />

like hearing my father, a man who<br />

has seen many horrors in his 51<br />

years of life, cry out to me, begging<br />

me to not forget him.<br />

Since June 11, the politics of the<br />

ICE sweeps have run rampant. The<br />

phrase “the law is the law” is thrown<br />

around as if it were the answer to everything.<br />

Oddly enough, I like the<br />

intricacy of politics, but the mass detainment<br />

of more than 100 Iraqis has<br />

been enough to make me nauseous<br />

at the black and white thought processes<br />

of some. These detainees have<br />

committed crimes, but they have<br />

also served their time accordingly.<br />

I want to share the human side<br />

of these potential deportations.<br />

We’ve heard all the politics and<br />

immigration jargon, it’s now time<br />

to see the detainees and their families<br />

as humans.<br />

My mother and father ran away<br />

from Iraq after they married in 1992<br />

and for almost eight months, stayed<br />

in a Turkish refugee camp where<br />

they waited to finally be allowed<br />

entry to the United States. In June<br />

of 1993, my parents entered the<br />

U.S. legally and became permanent<br />

residents. With their first child born<br />

exactly six months later, my father<br />

knew that going to school was not a<br />

reality for him or my mother. They<br />

worked and supported what would<br />

eventually become a family of six.<br />

As a result, obtaining his citizenship<br />

found a permanent residency at the<br />

bottom of his list of things to worry<br />

about.<br />

My parents shed their former<br />

life like a second skin in that Turkish<br />

refugee camp. They were proud<br />

Americans and nothing would<br />

change that. They still rooted for<br />

Iraq’s soccer team and wistfully<br />

spoke of the shawarma sandwiches<br />

bought on street corners, but they<br />

never once felt the pull to return to<br />

a land destroyed by endless terror.<br />

Since my father was picked up, I<br />

find myself overwhelmed by my responsibilities,<br />

his responsibilities and<br />

the responsibility to save his life. I<br />

work to pay my bills, my mother’s bills,<br />

his bills, and the added financial burden<br />

of having a father facing deportation.<br />

I would have never thought that<br />

speaking to my father on the phone or<br />

paying for food would become such a<br />

financial burden.<br />

Since June 11, my mom, sister<br />

and I have gone without, so that we<br />

could ensure my father and brothers<br />

didn’t have to worry about food,<br />

shelter, etc. The financial burden is<br />

almost worse than the thought that<br />

my father, a father, brother, uncle<br />

and U.S. Army veteran, will be sent<br />

back to a war zone where he will<br />

face persecution. It’s ironic, really,<br />

to think that immigrants can voluntarily<br />

enlist to fight for this country,<br />

but cannot become citizens of this<br />

country for the mere fact that they<br />

are enlisting.<br />

As the child of immigrants, I<br />

have always had more responsibilities<br />

than other people my age; I came<br />

to terms with that long ago when I<br />

was calling DTE Energy about an<br />

issue with our bill at the ripe age of<br />

8. Never in my life, however, did I<br />

think I would be fighting tooth and<br />

nail to save my father’s life. I would<br />

take filling out papers and translating<br />

over this fight any day.<br />

Countless organizations have<br />

helped me in the fight, from CODE<br />

Legal Aid to the Chaldean Community<br />

Foundation, and I don’t know<br />

what I have done in my life to come<br />

across these amazing people, but I am<br />

thankful. At the end of the night,<br />

though, when I’m left with just my<br />

thoughts, I think of the odds. I think<br />

of the exuberant man that is sitting<br />

in Northeast Ohio Correctional Facility<br />

and how he has fought to become<br />

a better person. The man that<br />

was so proud to be an American, he<br />

enlisted in the armed forces even<br />

with the nightmares he still experienced<br />

from his time in the Republican<br />

Guard.<br />

I think of how I don’t want to fail<br />

him. He has so much faith in me and<br />

my abilities, but with each day that I<br />

don’t have good news to give him, I<br />

find myself panicking at the thought<br />

of letting him and my family down.<br />

It’s been on a constant loop and<br />

it’s a fact we can’t escape, these detainees<br />

have previously committed<br />

crimes and have received final orders<br />

of deportation. However, what is not<br />

so prominently stated is that these<br />

detainees have served their time and<br />

have made the necessary changes to<br />

once again become productive members<br />

of the community. They’re not<br />

running around committing crimes;<br />

it’s hard to commit crimes when you<br />

regularly check in with ICE. There<br />

is no value in this prolonged detainment<br />

and certainly not in deporting<br />

these men and women.<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 11


noteworthy<br />

Steve Acho, Author<br />

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now author. Acho wrote a technology<br />

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Steve Acho Acho’s book is one of many toprated<br />

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major milestone in his music career as his music<br />

has been downloaded and streamed more than 10<br />

million times. Acho has performed across the U.S.<br />

and the world as an independent musician, including<br />

national TV and radio appearances in the U.S.<br />

and Japan. Acho has also performed with celebrities<br />

and has sung the national anthem for Detroit<br />

sports teams.<br />

University of Detroit Students Volunteer<br />

Roughly 950 of University of Detroit Jesuit High School and Academy’s young men provided much-needed<br />

services to nine agencies throughout the city of Detroit. From site beautification to providing meals for<br />

the less-fortunate. The school has this event every year where they split up the kids and tackle clean up at<br />

various Detroit locations. These boys were at Historic Fort Wayne in Detroit. It was the Academy (7th and<br />

8th grade) and Freshman. They cleaned bushes and trees along the river.<br />

Family Feud Time<br />

On March 26, <strong>2017</strong>, Theresa Sitto and her children,<br />

Jacinta, Brent, Olivia, and Spencer appeared on Family<br />

Feud. This began with an audition at Cobo in Detroit<br />

then a second audition in Atlanta, where they<br />

were chosen to appear. The episode filmed for more<br />

than an hour. “It was an overall amazing and fun family<br />

experience; the Family Feud production staff were<br />

wonderful and very professional and impressive. All<br />

details were handled with precision and the entire<br />

crew was welcoming and kind. Steve Harvey told<br />

stories and had everyone laughing. He even did the<br />

halhole during the segment, and although that part<br />

didn’t air, it was a lot of fun,” said Theresa.<br />

UHC Baby<br />

Shower<br />

On October 4, <strong>2017</strong>,<br />

UnitedHealthcare Community<br />

Plan hosted a<br />

Community Baby Shower<br />

and partnered with<br />

United Community Family Services/CALC, and St.<br />

John Providence Ascension Health System. This was<br />

their third annual successful event with more than<br />

100 expectant and new moms in attendance. This<br />

collaboration provided a unique opportunity to work<br />

jointly to educate new and expectant mothers with<br />

valuable health information exclusively presented in<br />

Arabic to promote healthy living and healthier communities.<br />

The event was once again a great success,<br />

with excellent turnout and lively participation.<br />

Building Bridges<br />

On Wednesday, October 4,<br />

members of the Chaldean community<br />

came together with<br />

members of the Jewish community<br />

for the Chaldean/Jewish<br />

Building Bridges event. This<br />

event was hosted at the Shenandoah<br />

Country Club, where<br />

event goers were given a tour of<br />

the Chaldean Cultural Museum.<br />

The Building Bridges event was<br />

sponsored by the Chaldean News<br />

and the Detroit Jewish News.<br />

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IRAQ today<br />

Iraqi Kurds postpone elections<br />

amid tensions with Baghdad<br />

Simultaneous legislative, presidential elections due for November 1<br />

postponed by 8 months amid tensions over disputed territory with Baghdad.<br />

ARBIL<br />

Parliament in Iraq’s autonomous<br />

Kurdish region decided Tuesday<br />

to hold legislative elections<br />

in eight months after they were delayed<br />

amid tensions with the central<br />

government in Baghdad over disputed<br />

territories.<br />

Regional legislative and presidential<br />

elections had both been due on<br />

November 1 but were delayed after<br />

Baghdad seized a swathe of territory<br />

from Kurdish forces following an independence<br />

vote.<br />

There was no immediate word on<br />

a new date for a presidential election<br />

“The Kurdistan parliament decided...<br />

to postpone the parliamentary<br />

elections in the autonomous region<br />

by eight months,” Islamic Union of<br />

Kurdistan parliamentarian Bahzad<br />

Zebari said.<br />

Farsat Sofi of the Kurdistan Democratic<br />

Party (KDP) of long-time<br />

Kurdish leader Massud Barzani said<br />

parliament would choose the date for<br />

legislative and presidential elections.<br />

The elections were originally set<br />

for just over a month after a September<br />

25 referendum in the Kurdish areas<br />

which resulted in a massive “yes”<br />

for independence.<br />

The referendum, set in motion<br />

by Barzani, was strongly opposed by<br />

Baghdad.<br />

Iraqi forces last week swept into<br />

the oil-rich Kirkuk province in the<br />

north, restoring it and Kurdish-held<br />

parts of Nineveh and Diyala provinces<br />

to central government control.<br />

The rapid Kurdish retreat triggered<br />

recriminations among Kurdish<br />

politicians and prompted the regional<br />

parliament to postpone both<br />

elections.<br />

“Parliament has decided to freeze<br />

the activities of the Kurdistan presidency,”<br />

Zebari said on Tuesday.<br />

This body includes Barzani,<br />

his vice-president Kosrat Rasul of<br />

KDP rival the Patriotic Union of<br />

Iraqi Kurdistan’s main opposition party called for Barzani to step down<br />

Kurdistan (PUK), and the head of<br />

the presidential cabinet, Fuad Hussein.<br />

Its freezing, and the fact that parliament<br />

did not extend its mandate<br />

again, represent a major blow to Barzani.<br />

On Sunday, Iraqi Kurdistan’s<br />

main opposition party called for Barzani<br />

to step down after the loss of<br />

Kurdish-controlled territory.<br />

Shoresh Haji of the Goran movement,<br />

which holds 24 out of 111 seats<br />

in the Iraqi Kurdish parliament, said<br />

both Barzani and Rasul should quit.<br />

“The Kurdistan region’s president<br />

and his deputy no longer have any legitimacy<br />

and should resign,” he said.<br />

Haji called for the creation of a<br />

“national salvation government” to<br />

prepare for dialogue with Baghdad<br />

and organize new elections.<br />

The mandate of Barzani, the<br />

first and only elected president of<br />

the autonomous Kurdish region,<br />

expired in 2013.<br />

It was extended for two years<br />

and then continued in the chaos<br />

that followed the Islamic State<br />

group’s sweeping offensive across<br />

Iraq in 2014.<br />

Under the autonomous region’s<br />

laws, it was Barzani who had set general<br />

elections for November 1.<br />

Tuesday’s vote now means that<br />

parliament will decide the new electoral<br />

calendar, several parliamentarians<br />

said.<br />

A month after scoring a major<br />

victory in the independence referendum,<br />

Barzani now finds himself<br />

increasingly isolated both at home<br />

and abroad.<br />

The United States, a key ally of<br />

both Baghdad and Kurdish forces in<br />

the battle against IS, opposed the<br />

non-binding referendum, as did nations<br />

including Iraq’s neighbors Iran<br />

and Turkey.<br />

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CHAI time<br />

CHALDEANS CONNECTING<br />

COMMUNITY EVENTS IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />

Thursday, November 2<br />

Charity: The Grosse Point War Memorial<br />

is hosting their first annual Art<br />

and Antiques show on November 2<br />

from 6:00 to 11:00 pm. The show will<br />

run through November 5, with a preview<br />

party and strolling dinner crafted<br />

by Chef Frank Turner on the first day.<br />

Tickets for the first day include general<br />

admission Friday through Sunday,<br />

dinner, cocktails, appetizers, and desserts<br />

raffle drawing. Tickets are $190.<br />

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tickets contact Joyce Russell at (313)<br />

332-4075.<br />

Thursday, November 2<br />

Music: Joins us at Cranbrook House<br />

for The Keys of Cranbrook: A Dueling<br />

Piano Concert from 7:00 to 8:00 pm.<br />

Pierre Fracalanza will take to the Cranbrook<br />

House 1929 Steinway Concert<br />

Grand Model D piano accompanied<br />

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delight guests with a varying selection<br />

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Friday, November 3<br />

Charity: Join more than 300 young<br />

professionals and philanthropic leaders<br />

from all around Detroit in the fight<br />

against cancer at the Skyline Soiree.<br />

The Skyline Soiree will be held at Waterview<br />

Loft at Port Detroit. Hosted by<br />

Lear and benefiting the American Cancer<br />

Society, the Skyline Soiree will offer<br />

food, beverages, entertainment and a<br />

silent auction to benefit the American<br />

Cancer Society. For more information<br />

about the Skyline Soiree or to purchase<br />

tickets, call 248-663-3401 or visit skylinesoireedetroit.com.<br />

Friday, November 10<br />

Musical: For the 36th year in a row, the<br />

holiday classic, A Christmas Carol will<br />

be captivating audiences with the story<br />

of Scrooge and the ghosts that haunt<br />

him. A Christmas Carol will be running<br />

from November 10 through December<br />

24 at the Meadow Brook Theatre on<br />

Oakland University’s campus in Rochester,<br />

MI. Tickets range from $28 to<br />

$35. To purchase tickets, contact the<br />

box office at (248) 377-3300 or go online<br />

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Wednesday, November 15<br />

Faith: Join us for Under God’s Wings<br />

on November 15 from 6:30 to 8:30<br />

pm. Under God’s Wings is a parent’s<br />

program presented by the St. Thomas<br />

Chaldean Church. Each month, parents<br />

gather to discuss a different topic.<br />

The purpose is to educate, inform and<br />

provide the resources needed to build<br />

stronger Catholic families. This month’s<br />

topic of discussion is drug awareness<br />

and prevention presented by Dr. Lindsay<br />

Najor. There will also be a personal<br />

testimony from a community member.<br />

Thursday, November 16<br />

Charity: In celebration of their 50th anniversary,<br />

the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation<br />

is hosting an Evening at the Movies<br />

at Emagine Theaters. The event will begin<br />

at 6:30 pm. The <strong>2017</strong> honoree will<br />

be Iris Yellen, for her many years of dedication<br />

to the Michigan chapter of the<br />

foundation. Ernesto Drelichman, M.D.,<br />

colon and rectal surgeon, will be the<br />

<strong>2017</strong> Rosenthal Award Winner. Sheldon<br />

Yellen, CEO of Belfor Holdings Inc., will<br />

serve as the event speaker. The event<br />

will feature a silent auction and strolling<br />

dinner. For more information, visit bit.ly/<br />

EveningattheMovies or contact Kiel Porter<br />

at kporter@crohnscolitisfoundation.<br />

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Friday, November 17<br />

Social: Presented by the Ford Motor<br />

Company, Hob Nobble Gobble will be<br />

hosted at Ford Field from 6:30 to 10:30<br />

pm. Guests can enjoy a black-tie evening<br />

featuring a Carnival Midway with<br />

rides and games, cuisine and live entertainment<br />

from end zone to end zone<br />

for all ages. Attendees will enjoy special<br />

performances from headlining acts, the<br />

famous Parade of Stars featuring dancing<br />

elves and the sounds of the All City<br />

Marching Band and Santa Claus. Hob<br />

Nobble Gobble helps to raise funds for<br />

The Parade Company which produces<br />

America’s Thanksgiving Parade. Tickets<br />

are on sale now. For more information<br />

and to reserve your table for <strong>2017</strong>, contact<br />

CarolAnn at cbarbb@theparade.<br />

org, (313) 432-7831.<br />

Saturday, November 18<br />

Charity: Join the Our Lady Star of the<br />

Sea Parish at 6:30 pm for an evening of<br />

beer and wine tasting, food sampling,<br />

and jazz. For five years, the parish has<br />

hosted this event, which offers attendees<br />

the opportunity to taste a variety of<br />

foods and desserts from local restaurants,<br />

clubs, caterers, and bakeries.<br />

Several select wines, both red and<br />

white, and a selection of beers will be<br />

available for tasting. Guests will be entertained<br />

by the Chris Codish Trio. A<br />

cash bar will be available for guests 21<br />

and over. Tickets are $35 in advance<br />

or $40 at the door. For online reservations,<br />

visit olsos.org. For more information,<br />

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Saturday, November 18<br />

Charity: Join us for the ninth annual<br />

Dancing with the Detroit Stars at the<br />

Townsend Hotel in Birmingham, hosted<br />

by South Oakland Shelter. Metro Detroiters<br />

will pair up with professional<br />

dancers from the Arthur Murray Dance<br />

Studio for a celebrity dance competition.<br />

This premier event is filled with<br />

dancing, music, a strolling dinner,<br />

cocktails, and a silent auction. The<br />

proceeds from the event benefit the<br />

homeless men, women, and children<br />

in our community who are served by<br />

South Oakland Shelter. Reserve your<br />

tickets or check out the online auction<br />

at my.southoaklandshelter.org/dancing<br />

or call Omari Taylor at 248-809-3773.<br />

Friday, November 24<br />

Fundraiser: Join us for the third annual<br />

helpiraq.org fundraiser. The fundraiser<br />

will be taking place on Black Friday<br />

at the Shenandoah Country Club in<br />

West Bloomfield. Every month for the<br />

past 3 years, MERCI has been sending<br />

an average of $30,000 to Iraq to help<br />

makeshift clinics. Over 150,000 Christians<br />

and many other minorities were<br />

displaced from their homes, so they did<br />

not have access to any healthcare or<br />

their monthly medication. With the help<br />

of volunteer healthcare professionals<br />

here and Iraq who have stepped up<br />

and try to fill the void, these makeshift<br />

clinics are successfully providing care<br />

to our displaced Christians and those<br />

in need.<br />

One of our main fundraisers that<br />

contributes to the clinics is the Helpiraq<br />

Black Friday event. This event typically<br />

raises 20% to 30% of the funds<br />

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this event has sold out with over 700. A<br />

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eligion<br />

PLACES OF PRAYER<br />

CHALDEAN CHURCHES IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT<br />

THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS<br />

THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED STATES<br />

St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Diocese<br />

25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033; (248) 351-0440<br />

Bishop: Francis Kalabat<br />

Retired Bishop: Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />

HOLY CROSS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

32500 Middlebelt Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48334; (248) 626-5055<br />

Rector: Msgr. Zouhair Toma Kejbou<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon in Chaldean; Saturdays, 4:30 p.m. in<br />

English; Sundays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, noon in English, 6<br />

p.m., in Arabic<br />

HOLY MARTYRS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

43700 Merrill, Sterling Heights, MI 48312; (586) 803-3114<br />

Rector: Fr. Manuel Boji<br />

Parochial Vicar: Fr. Matthew Zetouna<br />

Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Thursdays, 8 p.m. Seed of<br />

Faith in English;<br />

Saturdays, 7 p.m. Witness to Faith in Arabic<br />

Youth Groups: Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for High Schoolers<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 9 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />

English; Sundays: 9 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, 10:30 a.m. in English,<br />

Morning Prayer at noon, High Mass at 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean; 8 p.m.<br />

in English<br />

MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

24010 Coolidge Highway, Oak Park, MI 48237; (248) 547-4648<br />

Pastor: Fr. Stephen Kallabat<br />

Retired Priest: Fr. Suleiman Denha<br />

Adoration: Last Friday of the month, 4 p.m. Adoration; 5 p.m. Stations of<br />

the Cross; 6 p.m. Mass; Wednesdays, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.<br />

Bible Study: Fridays, 8-10 p.m. in Arabic and Chaldean<br />

Youth Groups: Thursdays, 7:30-9 p.m. Jesus Christ University High<br />

School and College Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon; Sundays, 10<br />

a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. High Mass in Chaldean<br />

MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; (248) 356-0565<br />

Administrator: Fr. Pierre Konja<br />

Bible Study: Mondays, 7-9 p.m. in English; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for<br />

college students in English<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m.; Tuesdays, 8:45 p.m. in English;<br />

Saturdays, 4 p.m. in English; Sundays: 8:30 a.m. in Arabic, 10 a.m. in<br />

English, noon in Chaldean, 7 p.m. in English<br />

OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HELP<br />

CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

11200 12 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48093; (586) 804-2114<br />

Pastor: Fr. Fadi Philip<br />

Bible Study: Thursday, 8 p.m. for ages 18-45; Friday, 8 p.m. in Arabic.<br />

Teens 4 Mary Youth Group: Saturdays, 10 a.m.-1 p.m.<br />

Confession: 1 hour before mass or by appointment.<br />

Adoration: Thursday, 5-7 p.m. Chapel open 24/7 for adoration.<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday-Wednesday, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Thursday,<br />

1 p.m. in English and 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Friday 7 p.m. in Chaldean;<br />

Sunday, 10 a.m. in Arabic and 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean.<br />

SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

30590 Dequindre Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 393-5809<br />

Pastor: Fr. Sameem Belius<br />

Mass Schedule: Sundays, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean<br />

ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI 48317; (586) 254-7221<br />

Pastor: Fr. Wisam Matti<br />

Parochial Vicars: Fr. Anthony Kathawa<br />

Youth Groups: Disciples for Christ for teen boys, Tuesdays, 7 p.m.;<br />

Circle of Friends for teen girls; Thursdays, 6 p.m.; Bible Study for<br />

college students, Wednesdays 8 p.m.<br />

Bible Study: Wednesdays, 8 p.m. in English; Fridays, 8 p.m. in Arabic<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Wednesdays, 7<br />

p.m. Adoration; 8-10 p.m. Confession; Saturdays, 6:30 p.m. in English<br />

(school year); 6:30 p.m. in Chaldean (summer); Sunday: 8:30 a.m.<br />

in Chaldean, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 11:30 a.m. in English, 1:15 p.m. in<br />

Chaldean; 7:30 p.m. in English<br />

ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

2442 E. Big Beaver Road, Troy, MI 48083; (248) 528-3676<br />

Administrator: Fr. Rudy Zoma<br />

Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Arabic; Tuesdays, 7 p.m. in English;<br />

Thursdays, 7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ Youth Group for High<br />

Schoolers<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean except Wednesdays,<br />

10 a.m. in Arabic<br />

Saturdays, 6 p.m. in English and Chaldean; Sundays, 9 a.m. in Arabic,<br />

10:30 a.m. in English, noon in Chaldean, 2 p.m. in Chaldean and Arabic,<br />

7 p.m. in Chaldean<br />

Baptisms: 3 p.m. on Sundays.<br />

ST. PAUL CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

5150 E. Maple Avenue, Grand Blanc, MI 48439;<br />

(810) 820-8439<br />

Pastor: Fr. Ayad Hanna<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 6 p.m.; Sundays, 12:30 p.m.<br />

ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322; (248) 788-2460<br />

Pastor: Fr. Bashar Sitto<br />

Parochial Vicars: Fr. Jirgus Abrahim, Fr. Andrew Seba<br />

Retired Priest: Fr. Emanuel Rayes<br />

Bible Study: Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m. in Arabic<br />

Youth Groups: Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Girls Challenge Club for Middle<br />

Schoolers; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ for High<br />

Schoolers; Thursdays, 6:30 p.m. Boys Conquest Club for Middle<br />

Schoolers<br />

Other: First Thursday and Friday of each month, 10 a.m. Holy Hour;<br />

11 a.m. Mass in Chaldean; Wednesdays from midnight to Thursdays<br />

midnight, adoration in the Baptismal Room; Saturdays 3 p.m. Night<br />

Vespers (Ramsha) in Chaldean<br />

Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />

English;<br />

Sundays, 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in<br />

Chaldean, 2 p.m. in Arabic; 6 p.m.<br />

Grotto is open for Adoration 24/7 for prayer and reflection<br />

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EASTERN CATHOLIC RE-EVANGELIZATION CENTER (ECRC)<br />

4875 Maple Road, Bloomfield Township, MI 48301; (248) 538-9903<br />

Director: Patrice Abona<br />

Daily Mass: Monday-Friday 8 a.m.<br />

Thursdays: 5:30 Adoration and 6:30 Mass<br />

First Friday of the month: 6:30 p.m. Adoration, Confession and Mass<br />

Bible Study in Arabic: Wednesdays 7 p.m.<br />

Bible Study in English: Tuesdays 7 p.m.<br />

ST. GEORGE SHRINE AT CAMP CHALDEAN<br />

7000 Clements Road, Brighton, MI 48114; (888) 822-2267<br />

Campgrounds Manager: Sami Herfy<br />

ST. MARY HOLY APOSTOLIC CATHOLIC<br />

ASSYRIAN CHURCH OF THE EAST<br />

4320 E. 14 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 825-0290<br />

Rector: Fr. Benjamin Benjamin<br />

Mass Schedule: Sundays, 9 a.m. in Assyrian; noon in Assyrian and<br />

English<br />

ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />

25600 Drake Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48335; (248) 478-0835<br />

Pastor: Fr. Toma Behnama<br />

Fr. Safaa Habash<br />

Mass Schedule: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m.; Sunday 12 p.m.<br />

All in Syriac, Arabic and English<br />

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for God’s Blessings<br />

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In Loving Memory Of<br />

FRANCIS ADIL DADO<br />

(August 1, 1985 – September 16, <strong>2017</strong>)<br />

It was the morning of September<br />

16th <strong>2017</strong> that our Lord took our<br />

beloved son, brother, uncle and<br />

friend Francis Dado by the hand and<br />

welcomed him through the gates<br />

of heaven and into the company of<br />

Saints. A place where tears, pain<br />

and suffering cease to exist and only<br />

great joy, abundant life and peaceful<br />

rest remains.<br />

Francis aka (Frank the Tank) will<br />

be missed and spoke of by many for<br />

years to come. We will never know<br />

why someone so bright and happy<br />

is no longer here with us, but death<br />

should not be a reason to be sad but<br />

a celebration of a wonderful life so<br />

well lived.<br />

Frank was always the center of attention<br />

no matter where or what the<br />

occasion, the life of every gathering,<br />

wedding, outing, or even just at work<br />

and home. From his dancing, silly<br />

jokes, strong bear hugs he owned a<br />

piece of everyone's heart in the family.<br />

Lasting memories about the<br />

times enjoyed with Frank will remain<br />

in us forever. Activities such as<br />

fishing, camping and sports are just<br />

a few to name. In general Frank was a<br />

tremendous athlete. He spent much<br />

time at the gym with his brother Ed<br />

and his cousins Chris and Justin. A<br />

true gentlemen that would give the<br />

very shirt off his back for anyone he<br />

loved. He had such admiration for<br />

the women and children in his family,<br />

but above all Frank was a genuine<br />

momma’s boy who loved her cooking,<br />

cleaning and even took a good<br />

whopping from time to time.<br />

I want you all to understand<br />

what kind of man Frank was. In<br />

order to do that I have to take you<br />

back some years ago. Frank was the<br />

victim of a senseless robbery late<br />

one night on his way home and it<br />

left him shot multiple times. While<br />

in the hospital he called his brother<br />

Salah, and scared outta his wits,<br />

his brother rushed to the hospital<br />

to find Frank sitting upright wide<br />

awake in bed. Tears in his eyes and<br />

an IV hanging from him, Frank said<br />

with strong faith in his tone, “Don’t<br />

cry. Only one man can take my life<br />

in this world and that is the Lord<br />

and when he comes I have no choice<br />

but to leave you all, brother.”<br />

Now, that time has come and we<br />

will be reunited with you once again<br />

someday.<br />

Rest in Peace dear Francis Dado.<br />

Love,<br />

Dad, Mom, Ban, Salah,<br />

Danny, and Eddi<br />

And all the families and<br />

friends he is survived by!


Dealing with drugs<br />

Community members speak out about overdoses<br />

BY WEAM NAMOU<br />

The small tight-knit Chaldean<br />

community prides itself on<br />

having strong family values<br />

and a solid Christian faith. So, when<br />

negative outside influences of modern-day<br />

society such as drugs sneaks<br />

its way into their homes, they are<br />

baffled on what to do. Most prefer<br />

hiding the issue to avoid shame and<br />

embarrassment. They don’t want to<br />

be judged, talked about, and looked<br />

down upon. Some end up facing<br />

their worst nightmare – the loss of a<br />

loved one.<br />

Nearly two years after our 2015<br />

cover story on heroin addiction, drug<br />

overdoses continue to plague the<br />

community and Peter’s Angels is still<br />

on a mission to fight this epidemic.<br />

After struggling for about ten years<br />

with addiction, Peter Alraihani lost<br />

his life at 27-years-old to an overdose<br />

on August 11, 2014. His aunt Iman<br />

Numan will never forget the day she<br />

received a call from her brother telling<br />

her of the horrific news.<br />

“It was raining very hard,” she<br />

said. “I felt the angels crying for him.”<br />

On the day of his funeral, Numan<br />

approached Peter’s older sister,<br />

Angie Toma, to find a way to help<br />

others in similar situations. This had<br />

already crossed Toma’s mind so she<br />

thought it was a great idea. Together,<br />

they founded Peter’s Angels, a 501<br />

(C3) nonprofit organization.<br />

“I didn’t want my brother’s death<br />

to go in vain,” said Toma. “He always<br />

wanted something in our community<br />

that addresses this problem. He<br />

said, ‘Why do I have to always go to<br />

American church and other centers<br />

for that?’”<br />

Ten years his senior, Toma said<br />

she practically raised her brother<br />

Peter, who was the youngest of three<br />

children. She learned about his addiction<br />

about two years into it. It<br />

was sad and painful to watch him go<br />

through the ups and downs because,<br />

she said, “He’s not that type of person.<br />

He was such a good boy growing<br />

up.”<br />

Peter was also smart, having<br />

received the highest MEAP Test<br />

score in the city of Southfield. His<br />

siblings are both well-educated; his<br />

brother has a master’s in computer<br />

science and his sister graduated from<br />

the University of Michigan – Dearborn<br />

with a degree in administration<br />

healthcare.<br />

“My brother wasn’t a street kid or<br />

a punk,” Toma said. “He was a good<br />

person and my parents are great. This<br />

isn’t about social class or whether<br />

you’re a good person or not. It could<br />

happen to anyone.”<br />

Similar words were echoed by<br />

George Abro who lost his nephew<br />

Brandon Kallabat, 26, to a drug overdose<br />

in September of <strong>2017</strong>. Abro<br />

said that no one is immune from this<br />

issue, that the richest and smartest<br />

people could fall prey to it.<br />

“My nephew was a bright kid with<br />

good grades who came out of school<br />

with honors,” he said. “There’s nothing<br />

his parents wouldn’t have done<br />

for him.”<br />

The educational and social backgrounds<br />

of those affected by the drug<br />

epidemic has parents even more baffled.<br />

If providing love, support and<br />

financial security for their children<br />

can’t guarantee they will stay off of<br />

this deadly path, what will?<br />

Some have suggested that parents<br />

use extreme old-fashioned measures<br />

such as locking the addict in a room,<br />

even beating them if necessary, to<br />

get them to quit. Abro said, “Being<br />

locked up or beat up will only make<br />

individuals worse. They will come<br />

out of it angry.”<br />

He reminds people that laws<br />

don’t allow parents to control their<br />

children beyond 18 years of age.<br />

“My nephew was a grown adult<br />

making his own choices,” he said.<br />

“People are quick to blame the parents,<br />

but how do you know what the<br />

parents went through?”<br />

One mother whose son is currently<br />

struggling with drug addiction said<br />

that she refuses leaving her home<br />

for fear that her son would overdose<br />

while she’s out. She devotes all her<br />

time watching over him. Toma said<br />

that was the situation for her mother<br />

too.<br />

“My mother would not go to<br />

work, would stay home and just<br />

wait,” she said. “There was constant<br />

fear – every day not knowing if that’s<br />

the day that would be his last.”<br />

Abro believes that a suitable<br />

long-term rehab, proper counseling,<br />

and the right amount of cooperation<br />

from the individual could help an addict<br />

recover.<br />

“It’s a myth to think that if you’ve<br />

gone too far, you can’t clean up,”<br />

he said. “But it’ll have to be a longterm<br />

process. Short-term fix doesn’t<br />

work.”<br />

“No one is ever straight,” said<br />

Toma. Her brother, similarly to<br />

Abro’s nephew, would go clean for<br />

years and then fall back again.<br />

Neither families know exactly<br />

how their loved ones got into drugs,<br />

whether it was through friends or by<br />

prescribed drugs, but they believe<br />

that the best defense to prevention<br />

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Arming the community with resources<br />

BY WEAM NAMOU<br />

and recovery is education and awareness<br />

about medicine and addiction.<br />

Father Brian addressed this issue<br />

during a Sunday mass at St. Joseph<br />

Chaldean Church. He said that millions<br />

of Americans suffer from pain<br />

every day, that people are in so much<br />

pain, they feel their only option is a<br />

pill. “They try to hide the pain rather<br />

than reach out,” he said.<br />

“People shouldn’t be afraid or<br />

ashamed to come forward,” said<br />

Toma. “It’s the parents’ job to know<br />

about this and catch it early. It’s not<br />

easy when you catch them late.”<br />

“Families sheltering their children<br />

or loved ones are not doing<br />

them any service,” said Abro. “These<br />

individuals are lost and if they don’t<br />

find something greater than themselves<br />

to occupy them, they’ll continue<br />

what they’re doing.”<br />

Abro said that this especially hits<br />

children who want to fit in. Drug use<br />

is glamorized through social media<br />

and rap songs. When something is<br />

taboo, it becomes exciting and kids<br />

want to do it.<br />

“That was the case when alcohol<br />

was prohibited,” he said.<br />

He feels his job is not finished.<br />

He and his brother will continue to<br />

work on finding steps to build education<br />

and awareness because the last<br />

thing he wants is for this issue to just<br />

go away. “That’s when we’ve failed,”<br />

he said.<br />

While he does recognize and criticize<br />

the Chaldeans who are poisoning<br />

their own community by selling<br />

drugs, much of his concern is about<br />

doctors who easily prescribe drugs to<br />

their patients.<br />

“It’s a quick fix and the doctors<br />

are getting compensated for it,” he<br />

said. “All these pills are just masking<br />

the pain.”<br />

Aside from education and awareness,<br />

Peter’s aunt advised people to<br />

turn to God to strengthen their faith.<br />

That was Father Brian’s message for<br />

his congregation. He first noted that<br />

there are no pills for a broken heart,<br />

for bullying at school, or for being<br />

abused by a spouse. Pain is something<br />

we all endure, that it hits everyone<br />

and doesn’t discriminate. Sometimes<br />

it leads to despair, to giving up.<br />

He then encouraged people to<br />

turn to Jesus rather than a pill for<br />

help, saying, “When you turn to Jesus<br />

for help, He’ll say ‘thank you.’ He<br />

won’t turn you away, but you have to<br />

invite Him. He might use a doctor,<br />

priest, or counselor to help you.”<br />

Within one month, three people from the Chaldean<br />

American community lost their lives to<br />

drug overdose. In response, Peter’s Angels<br />

hosted a Resource Fair on Sunday, September 24 at St.<br />

Joseph Chaldean Catholic Church in Troy. Named after<br />

Peter Alraihani, who lost his life at 27-years-old to an<br />

overdose in 2014, Peter’s Angels was formed by his aunt<br />

Iman Numan and sister Angie Toma. They wanted to<br />

raise awareness of the drug epidemic within the Chaldean<br />

community and to provide prevention through<br />

education and awareness.<br />

“This isn’t isolated to the Chaldean community, it’s<br />

a national crisis,” said Michael Patton, Chief of Police<br />

of the West Bloomfield Police Department. “More than<br />

50,000 Americans died from drug overdoses in 2015, the<br />

highest number ever, and they haven’t calculated the<br />

numbers for 2016.”<br />

According to 2015 data from the Michigan Department<br />

of Health and Human Services, there were 1,275<br />

deaths from an overdose of opioids, including heroin, in<br />

Michigan alone. That number exceeded the 840 deaths<br />

from traffic crashes and the 1,164 from gun deaths.<br />

“We have a culture that depends on prescription<br />

drugs for pain management,” said Patton. “If not used<br />

correctly or if used for too long, powerful legal drugs prescribed<br />

by a doctor can create an addiction.”<br />

Once the patient no longer has the prescribed medication,<br />

they move on to street drugs such as heroin, meth,<br />

crack, cocaine, and synthetic molly. Dealers meanwhile<br />

are diluting heroin with fentanyl, which is stronger and<br />

cheaper than heroin.<br />

“A lot of drugs out there are being abused, including<br />

marijuana,” said Patton. “There’s no regulations or quality<br />

control so you don’t know what’s going into your body.”<br />

Some police departments across the country, including<br />

West Bloomfield, carry NARCAN, a nasal spray<br />

that’s highly successful in reversing the overdose. They<br />

use it if they arrive to the scene before the paramedics.<br />

Critics have said that this drug is enabling, but Patton<br />

says, “Look, we’re in the life saving business.”<br />

NARCAN can be prescribed to and administered by<br />

a caregiver of someone who is addicted.<br />

“There has to be a balancing act between caring for<br />

pain and not getting addicted,” said Patton.<br />

The best way to address this epidemic is through<br />

education and prevention. Yet since this issue is so entrenched<br />

in the notion of taboo, many Chaldean individuals<br />

and families try to hide the drug addiction and<br />

deal with it themselves. People fear that if others find<br />

out, they will talk about and look down upon them.<br />

“Unfortunately, this stops people from getting the<br />

proper and necessary help that they need and take the<br />

right steps,” said Janice Kizy from Hope in Counseling,<br />

adding, “You can’t force anyone to get help. A good way<br />

to get help is to get help yourself to learn about the resources<br />

and options out there.”<br />

Wendy Love of Families Against Narcotics (FAN)<br />

has observed that the Italian and Chaldean culture have<br />

a lot of pride and it is hard to break that pride when it<br />

comes to this subject.<br />

“It’s really a medical issue,” said Love. “We get people<br />

of every background sitting together and figuring out<br />

how to work on this together.”<br />

FAN was born out of a town hall meeting held in<br />

2007 as a result of two teen heroin overdoses just weeks<br />

apart in the small, middle-class suburban community of<br />

Fraser, Michigan. One of their programs is Hope Not<br />

Handcuffs where an individual with any drug addiction<br />

can come to any of the designated agencies, such as a<br />

police station, and ask for help. An “angel” will then be<br />

called to them.<br />

“The “angel” will do everything in their power to get<br />

them into rehab,” she said. “Once we get them in there,<br />

we’ll do everything we can to get them to stay in recovery.”<br />

Feinberg Addiction Services also participated at the<br />

Source Fair. They have professionals who are not only<br />

very knowledgeable and skilled in the field of addiction,<br />

but they have walked the path themselves. Through their<br />

own recovery, they are able to support their clients and<br />

their families by providing them with hope and the tools<br />

to help them heal. For instance, Jeff Rosenberg is a recovering<br />

addict who is happy to use his skill to help others.<br />

“This is where my passion and love is,” Rosenberg<br />

said. “To have a job trying to help people just like me.”<br />

The government also recently got involved in this<br />

issue. On October 12, Wayne County and Oakland<br />

County announced that they’re suing about a dozen drug<br />

manufacturers and distributors for deceptive marketing<br />

and sales of opioids (in 2011 alone, pharmaceutical<br />

companies generated $11 billion just from opioid sales).<br />

They’re welcoming Macomb County to join, as well as<br />

asking patients and doctors to come forward.<br />

“My brother would be so proud of all the people that<br />

came out to the Source Fair,” said Angie Toma.<br />

If you are in need of help or are a family member or<br />

friend is seeking help, call Peter’s Angels 24-Hour Hotline<br />

at (833) ANGEL-4U [ (833) 264-3548 ] - where<br />

someone will always answer to help you or your loved<br />

one find help.<br />

If you suspect a loved one is in trouble, seek help immediately.<br />

Look for the following warning signs and possible<br />

symptoms of opiate abuse (information made available<br />

by FAN).<br />

Warning Signs of Abuse<br />

• Missing money and valuables<br />

• Missing spoons (used to heat heroin)<br />

• Arrests for theft<br />

• Finding needles or orange caps, burnt bottle caps,<br />

small plastic bags or foil<br />

• Constantly asking for money<br />

Possible Symptoms of Opiate Abuse<br />

• Behavior changes: loss of interest in activities they<br />

once enjoyed including sports, school, friends, or family<br />

• Physical changes: no longer cares about appearance<br />

• Constricted pupils<br />

Drowsy or nodding out even in mid-sentence<br />

• Disorientation<br />

• Irresponsibility at work or school<br />

• Lying, manipulating and stealing<br />

• Wearing long shirts and pants, even during warm weather<br />

• Increased sleeping<br />

• Slurred speech<br />

• Needle track marks on arms or legs<br />

• Weight loss and/or loss of appetite<br />

• Constant runny nose<br />

• Dark, hollow or sunken eyes<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 25


The business of politics<br />

Chaldean Chamber luncheon focused on current political climate in the United States<br />

BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />

It’s the annual business luncheon<br />

but the focus this year was on the<br />

business of politics. On Friday,<br />

October 20, the Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce hosted their<br />

12th annual business luncheon at<br />

Sound Board in MotorCity Casino<br />

Hotel. Moderated by Fox 2 News legal<br />

analyst, Charlie Langton, guests<br />

were able to enjoy their lunch as they<br />

listened to congressional representatives<br />

discuss pertinent topics and answer<br />

relevant questions.<br />

Congressional representatives on<br />

the panel included U.S. Representative,<br />

Michael Bishop, former Senator<br />

Sander Levin, and U.S. Representative,<br />

John Moolenaar. The first topic<br />

of discussion was the community<br />

members that are currently detained<br />

and at-risk of being deported.<br />

Former Senator Levin, who has<br />

been working alongside the Chaldean<br />

Community Foundation in the<br />

fight to release the detained community<br />

members at-risk of deportation,<br />

expressed his support of the community<br />

as he has worked in and for the<br />

community for many years.<br />

“Facing persecution, a huge number<br />

of people from all around the<br />

world came to this country for a better<br />

opportunity,” said Levin. “There<br />

are some in this country who are<br />

turning their backs on that, though<br />

and we need to stand together to<br />

make sure that never fails.”<br />

In addition to discussing those<br />

at-risk of deportation and immigration,<br />

Langton prompted a discussion<br />

on the topic of healthcare and<br />

taxes. When asked about President<br />

Trump’s plans for healthcare reform<br />

and his progress thus far, Moolenaar<br />

stated that “It remains to be seen<br />

what happens, it is still very early.<br />

Some parts of Obamacare are popular<br />

with younger people, up to age<br />

26, but most of us would like to see<br />

more patient centered approach that<br />

drives down costs in the healthcare<br />

system because Obamacare didn’t do<br />

anything to drive down costs.”<br />

While Moolenaar believed more<br />

time to be the answer, Representative<br />

Bishop believed the discussion<br />

of healthcare needs to include more<br />

than just the lawmakers. “I think<br />

insurance companies have, in many<br />

cases, gotten a pass on a lot of these<br />

discussions and I think they need<br />

to be a part of the discussion,” said<br />

Bishop. “The problem that we have<br />

in this country is the cost. It’s not<br />

who’s going to pay for it, we all know<br />

that it’s easier to look to the government<br />

or the American families and<br />

say ‘you pay for it’. We control the<br />

costs and a part of that discussion<br />

has to come from the medical community.”<br />

Following Langton’s questions,<br />

event goers were given the opportunity<br />

to ask their own questions.<br />

While some people asked questions<br />

that served as follow-ups to the<br />

answers and comments of the congressional<br />

members, what seemed to<br />

dominate the conversation was the<br />

issue of bipartisanship and divisiveness<br />

in the current political climate,<br />

some even going as far as asking why<br />

the Democrats hate the president<br />

and persist in “tearing him down.”<br />

The variety of congressional representatives<br />

allowed for a better understanding<br />

of both sides in today’s<br />

politics.<br />

“It was great having a variety of<br />

congressional members present at<br />

the event discussing how to bring<br />

civility back into government,” said<br />

Martin Manna, Chaldean American<br />

Chamber of Commerce president.<br />

“I am thankful for the friendships<br />

we have forged with these specific<br />

congressional members as they have<br />

helped us with issues important to<br />

the community, specifically those atrisk<br />

of deportation.”<br />

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Evangelizing the faith<br />

ECRC evolves its ministry to meet the needs of the community<br />

BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />

As they approach the 16-year<br />

anniversary of their inception,<br />

the Eastern Catholic<br />

Re-Evangelization Center (ECRC)<br />

is launching a new marriage retreat.<br />

“It has been in the works for<br />

years,” said Patrice Abona, executive<br />

director. “We evaluated existing<br />

retreats and a team of people led by<br />

Pelar and Laura Esshaki who wrote<br />

this retreat from scratch.”<br />

The retreat is designed for couples<br />

at all stages of their marriage<br />

and is being held November<br />

17 – 19 at St. Paul of the Cross<br />

Passionist Retreat and Conference<br />

Center.<br />

It’s just one of the newest<br />

ECRC programs to date.<br />

“This retreat is for all couples<br />

and is not an indicator of a troublesome<br />

marriage,” said Abona.<br />

“In fact, it’s the opposite. A<br />

couple that dedicates time and<br />

effort into their relationship will<br />

see positive results.”<br />

“We’ve purposely focused<br />

the content of this retreat<br />

on areas that effect all marriages,”<br />

said Pelar Esshaki. “We will<br />

cover topics like conflict resolution,<br />

intimacy, common issues and communication.<br />

We’ll look at these not<br />

only as practical topics to apply to<br />

your marriage, but also look at these<br />

through the lens of our Catholic<br />

faith for hopefully a refreshing – and<br />

time-tested perspective. These are<br />

areas that all married couples know<br />

are important, but may not have the<br />

knowledge, discipline or time to incorporate<br />

into their daily lives.”<br />

ECRC is encouraging couples to<br />

get away and spend time together.<br />

“The retreat will give couples a lot<br />

of time for one-on-one communication<br />

and fellowship as well as time<br />

for prayer to focus on the, sometimes<br />

neglected, third person in their marriage:<br />

God,” said Abona. “We get<br />

caught up with our work, kids and<br />

sometimes couples don’t have time<br />

to spend alone. It is a weekend away<br />

and it’s about marriage enrichment<br />

and about our faith.”<br />

While the ECRC team wants to<br />

bring couples closer to God, they<br />

have also placed a major focus on<br />

giving couples that attend this retreat<br />

time to be together as husband<br />

and wife. “Just some good old-fashioned<br />

couple time, with no distractions<br />

of everyday life, a time for them<br />

to focus on their relationship,” said<br />

Esshaki. “Sometimes Laura and I<br />

find that our marriage doesn’t need<br />

another book or technique. While<br />

those things have helped us along<br />

the way, sometimes all we need to<br />

get back on track is a ‘date night’,<br />

so we’ve developed this retreat with<br />

that in mind and have been sure to<br />

incorporate that personal couple<br />

time as a major element to this retreat.”<br />

Pelar and his wife long prayed<br />

about how the Lord best wants them<br />

to serve the church, and they both<br />

felt led to a marriage ministry. “Laura<br />

and I have participated in many<br />

‘Marriage Enrichment’ programs and<br />

retreats over the years with mixed results<br />

in terms of their impact on our<br />

marriage,” said Esshaki. “When we<br />

couldn’t find something that was a total<br />

positive experience for us, we decided<br />

we would take a shot at coming<br />

up with our own, starting with writing<br />

this retreat. We took the best of all<br />

the retreats and programs we’ve been<br />

a part of and put our own touch in a<br />

few areas.”<br />

The hope for the retreat is that<br />

couples will gain a better understanding<br />

for God’s plan in their marriage.<br />

“Too many couples, including<br />

Laura and I, get married without<br />

knowing the truth about Gods blueprint<br />

for marriage and the blessings<br />

that come along with this amazing<br />

sacrament,” said Esshaki. “If this retreat<br />

helps to introduce these themes<br />

or help couples gain a better understanding<br />

of this, their marriage bond<br />

will strengthen. Laura and I believe<br />

there is no more impactful input into<br />

a person’s happiness than the quality<br />

of their relationships and<br />

for married people there is<br />

no more prominent relationship<br />

than with their spouse.<br />

So, in that way we hope this<br />

retreat will positively impact<br />

the quality of life for these<br />

married couples in a tremendous<br />

way. Also, we know that<br />

the church goes as the family<br />

goes, and that in today’s culture<br />

there is a full-blown war<br />

on the family. In that sense<br />

we hope this retreat helps<br />

fight against that trend and<br />

strengthens our Chaldean<br />

Church and Community.”<br />

ECRC has evolved over the years<br />

having gone from parish-based activities<br />

to a ministry that serves the entire<br />

Chaldean Diocese. “As the needs<br />

changed in the diocese, so have our<br />

services,” said Abona. “Thank God we<br />

have so many new priests and seminarians<br />

and so the parishes are vibrant<br />

with activity. ECRC strives to fill the<br />

needs within the entire diocese.”<br />

ECRC has started formation programs<br />

for Catechists and will continue<br />

to offer such spiritual and Catechists<br />

formation classes as well as retreats<br />

for teens and adults. “Our formation<br />

classes for Catechism is a six-session<br />

certification program commissioned<br />

by the Diocese,” said Abona.<br />

If someone cannot get away for<br />

an over-night or weekend retreat,<br />

ECRC offers day retreats such as<br />

their annual Advent Retreat, which<br />

is on December 9 this year and features<br />

Sr. Ann Shields and a Lent retreat<br />

leading up to Easter Sunday.<br />

“There is also a growing need for<br />

conferences” said Abona. “We have<br />

our signature conference Awake My<br />

Soul, which was held this past summer<br />

and we were also able to host our<br />

annual Gather and Give Fundraiser,<br />

which featured a video on the fruits<br />

of ECRC.”<br />

ECRC launched the media division<br />

of the ministry a few years ago<br />

and has since produced hundreds of<br />

episodes on faith-based programs.<br />

All of them can be seen on the You-<br />

Tube Channel Mar Toma Productions.<br />

They also share them on their<br />

social media platforms under ECRC<br />

and Mar Toma.<br />

New this year is Fikra Nagma<br />

hosted by Karam Bahnam, which is<br />

an Arabic program held on the first<br />

Wednesday of every month at ECRC.<br />

It is based on a meditative thought<br />

and musical melody. It is also a Mar<br />

Toma Productions Show, which airs<br />

on Catholic Channels around the<br />

globe and on YouTube.<br />

Tom Naemi who hosts the Show<br />

“Freedom Behind Bars” also facilitates<br />

healing service on the second<br />

Friday of each moth at ECRC. He<br />

sometimes is accompanied with a<br />

priest who celebrates mass and offers<br />

confession.<br />

One of ECRC’s newer programs<br />

which is widely attended is “Ignite<br />

the Spirit,” which is a praise and<br />

worship program held at a different<br />

church each month. Mother of God<br />

is hosting “Ignite the Spirit” on November<br />

24 and St. Thomas will host<br />

the group on December 29.<br />

There is Tuesday bible study with<br />

Bishop Francis and Jeff Kassab as<br />

well as theology classes with Hubert<br />

Saunders.<br />

“ECRC is located in Bloomfield,<br />

but it is not about the building,” said<br />

Abona. “ECRC is about the programs,<br />

the ministry and the people we serve.<br />

We are an evangelization ministry designed<br />

to serve the entire diocese.”<br />

You can find out about all the<br />

ECRC programs at www.ecrc.us or<br />

follow them on Facebook and Instagram.<br />

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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29


Learning and love through B.E.A.M.<br />

BY LISA CIPRIANO<br />

Gabrail Youhana came to the<br />

U.S. in 2008 like many others<br />

to escape the religious<br />

persecution of Christians in his native<br />

country Iraq. He had more than<br />

the usual challenges of learning the<br />

language and culture of his new<br />

home. Youhana has the additional<br />

struggle of being completely blind.<br />

That might seem like an overwhelming<br />

number of obstacles to<br />

overcome, if it were not for a special<br />

program offered by the Chaldean<br />

Community Foundation. Thanks to<br />

the B.E.A.M. project, Youhana found<br />

learning and the love of his life.<br />

B.E.A.M. stands for braille, ESL<br />

(English as a second language), acculturation,<br />

and mobility. They are four<br />

very important focuses to help bring<br />

blind and legally blind immigrants<br />

and refugees out of the darkness of a<br />

new, unfamiliar country into the light<br />

of a more independent life.<br />

It’s collaboration among the<br />

Chaldean Community Foundation,<br />

Bureau of Services for Blind Persons,<br />

Macomb Literacy Partners and St.<br />

Joseph Chaldean Catholic Church.<br />

B.E.A.M. participants learn to<br />

speak English, read through braille<br />

and learn to be more independent<br />

through classes once a week.<br />

The project is part of the CCF’s<br />

Breaking Barriers Program and exists<br />

because of the hard work and dedication<br />

of Susan Kattula, behavioral<br />

health manager for the Chaldean<br />

Community Foundation.<br />

The project came to life in 2014<br />

when Sue Kattula set out to help 16<br />

blind refugees. “I went on home visits<br />

and assessed the needs of every<br />

single one of them. I found that they<br />

all wanted the same things. They<br />

needed to learn English. They needed<br />

to learn Braille because many of<br />

them lived in apartment complexes<br />

and they got confused using the elevators.<br />

They needed to be more<br />

mobile and use a white cane so as not<br />

to always need to rely on somebody<br />

sighted to get around,” explained<br />

Kattula.<br />

Youhana had similar needs when<br />

he enrolled in the program shortly<br />

after arriving in the U.S. Aside from<br />

not being able to see his new surroundings,<br />

he couldn’t understand<br />

anything that what was being said on<br />

the TV news and radio. “After that, I<br />

said to myself, that I have to learn it.<br />

I have to learn everything,” said Youhana.<br />

“I also can’t see the words and<br />

the spelling of the words. So it makes<br />

it even harder,” Youhana added.<br />

Youhana went looking for a<br />

school to accommodate his special<br />

needs with no luck, until someone<br />

told him about the B.E.A.M. project.<br />

“So, I went there to learn the language,<br />

the technology on the laptop<br />

and iPhone apps that talk to me and<br />

help me, the braille and the things<br />

to help with mobility like the white<br />

cane that I never knew about,” he<br />

explained.<br />

Recently, Kattula was able to secure<br />

a $25,000 scholarship grant to<br />

get the vital technology that comes<br />

with iPhone and iPad into the hands<br />

of 15 of her students. They benefit<br />

enormously from the helpful applications<br />

that are available to assist the<br />

blind with everyday life things that<br />

the sighted often take for granted.<br />

“There are apps that can read money.<br />

They can see if it’s a five-dollar bill or<br />

a 20-dollar bill. There is even an app<br />

that can tell them what color pants<br />

they are wearing,” said Kattula.<br />

Aside from the unique technology<br />

services that the B.E.A.M. project<br />

has developed, Kattula is able to<br />

provide other services by creating<br />

partnerships with other state and local<br />

social service agencies such as the<br />

Bureau of Services for Blind Persons<br />

and Macomb Literacy Partners. “MLP<br />

provides two tutors weekly for three<br />

hours each to teach one-on-one English<br />

as a second language course as<br />

well as group courses,” said Kattula.<br />

In fact, many of the lessons are<br />

interdependent. “For instance, a student<br />

must be able to learn English in<br />

order to learn Braille,” Kattula explained.<br />

Blind students also are not<br />

able to take a written literacy test to<br />

assess what levels they are at. “That’s<br />

where we needed Macomb Literacy<br />

Partners to come in and work with<br />

the student’s and teach ESL in a different<br />

way so that they could build<br />

up their language skills and participate<br />

in a publicly funded ESL program,”<br />

Kattula concluded.<br />

Volunteers, mostly from local<br />

churches, are also essential to keep<br />

the program running successfully.<br />

“We have a few volunteers that come<br />

in on a regular basis. They are assigned<br />

certain students to work with;<br />

they help them with interpretation.<br />

They also help them navigate around<br />

so that they will be safe in their environment.<br />

Kattula prefers that volunteers<br />

commit long-term in order to<br />

develop a relationship with students<br />

and keep up with each person’s goals.<br />

The project even has a dedicated bus<br />

driver to make sure that students,<br />

who don’t have someone to transport<br />

them, are safely transported to the<br />

B.E.A.M. program’s Sterling Heights<br />

location.<br />

A total of 38 blind and legally<br />

blind students have benefitted from<br />

the B.E.A.M. program since its inception.<br />

Thirteen of them are constant<br />

students. “It all depends on<br />

each student’s individual needs and<br />

goals at the time. We have three<br />

students who are working towards<br />

achieving their American citizenship.<br />

So, they are coming in to be tutored<br />

for instance, on the civics portion<br />

of the test,” Kattula explained.<br />

“It changed everything,” said<br />

Youhana.<br />

The B.E.A.M. project quite literally<br />

did change everything for Youhana.<br />

It’s where he found his lifelong<br />

soulmate in another one of the project’s<br />

students by the name of Noora<br />

who also came to the US from Iraq<br />

for the same reasons as Youhana.<br />

Noora and Gabrail Youhana in the BEAM class and on their wedding day.<br />

The two participated in the program<br />

at the same time and on the same<br />

schedule. Noora would take a taxi<br />

from Novi as Youhana was being<br />

brought in from Shelby Township.<br />

On most days, they would arrive early<br />

and chat with one other to pass the<br />

time. They developed and friendship<br />

and a romance soon followed. Noora<br />

became Mrs. Gabrail Youhana in<br />

September of 2015. Their daughter,<br />

Pearla was born on August of <strong>2017</strong>.<br />

“You don’t have to have sight to<br />

love each other because the heart is<br />

love,” concluded Youhana.<br />

The Chaldean Community Foundations’<br />

B.E.A.M. project /Breaking<br />

Barriers program is seeking dedicated,<br />

long term volunteers. If you or<br />

someone you know is interested in<br />

volunteering or donating, go online<br />

to: http://www.chaldeanfoundation.<br />

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Grow’ option.<br />

Anyone who is interested in enrolling<br />

in the program should call the Chaldean<br />

Community Foundation’s Sterling<br />

Heights location at: (586) 722-7253.<br />

30 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>


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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 31


Coming to America<br />

Sharing John’s Five Year Diary Box<br />

BY EDWARD VINCENT<br />

Everybody’s personal history is<br />

the thread that defines their<br />

life. Whether we review or<br />

look back into our own lives from<br />

time to time, our history is always<br />

present much like the rings of a tree<br />

represent its growth over the years.<br />

Moreover, our individual history is<br />

evolved from and inter woven with<br />

the history of our families - our parents,<br />

siblings, relatives, our community<br />

as a whole and our ancestors.<br />

In 2012, my eldest brother John<br />

passed away at the age of 81. The<br />

circumstances of his death were very<br />

difficult for the family. He lived with<br />

my mother who was 99 at the time.<br />

They were generally managing okay<br />

with the daily and regular visits and<br />

involvement of my sister, another<br />

brother and myself. Whenever my<br />

brother or myself stopped in each<br />

day, we would be sure to see our<br />

mother who was generally sitting<br />

in the living room watching the<br />

Catholic Network channel EWTN.<br />

John however might be in his room,<br />

maybe napping or otherwise there<br />

quietly. So, it was not unusual to<br />

not run into him on<br />

each daily visit.<br />

Then one day<br />

when I stopped by,<br />

my mother noted that<br />

she hadn’t seen John<br />

for the past day. As an<br />

alarm went off in my<br />

head, I tensely walked<br />

the several steps to<br />

the side of the house<br />

where his room was. I<br />

knocked and called out<br />

his name with no response.<br />

Slowly opening<br />

the door, I found him.<br />

John and I had not<br />

always communicated<br />

very well in recent years. As it was<br />

and unfortunately so, communication<br />

between myself and the rest of<br />

my family had been challenging at<br />

times over the years. Yet we all cared<br />

for each other and would do our best<br />

to help one another through difficulties.<br />

I have deep regret that I was<br />

not able to help John<br />

through the difficulties<br />

he faced near the end<br />

of his life. He apparently<br />

had some kind of<br />

medical issue and was<br />

planning to go to the<br />

hospital for some tests.<br />

What exactly those issues<br />

were, was not clear<br />

to any of us.<br />

As time passed and<br />

we continued to care<br />

for my mother, she<br />

eventually had to enter<br />

into a nursing home<br />

because of a stroke and need for 24-<br />

hour care. She passed in 2013. So, in<br />

the span of one and a half years we<br />

had the death of John and then my<br />

mother. Another brother, George<br />

had died 20 years earlier. My father<br />

had died some 45 years ago. It was after<br />

my mother’s death that we had to<br />

begin to sort through all the belongings<br />

of our lost family members that<br />

were part of our family home.<br />

John by far had amassed the most<br />

possessions of anyone else in the<br />

family. I was the one who took on<br />

the responsibility for going through<br />

all of his things- records, papers,<br />

books, electronic gadgets. We all<br />

took our time in sorting through<br />

our family home of nearly 50 years.<br />

I spent several months almost a year<br />

going through John’s things because<br />

I wanted to be careful and show respect<br />

to what he had left behind. In<br />

so doing I came upon a box that apparently<br />

once held a diary in it. The<br />

box was labeled as a Five-Year Diary.<br />

It did not contain a diary but rather<br />

some documents related to John’s<br />

immigration to America.<br />

Five years later after his death, I<br />

decided to write a story about John’s<br />

experience in coming to America<br />

on his own when he was only 16.<br />

There are many things I never fully<br />

understood about John and did not<br />

have a chance to ask him about. So,<br />

I could only tell the story with what<br />

anecdotes he had shared over the<br />

years, what others had said and by<br />

relying on the artifacts that he had<br />

left behind.<br />

I’ve woven a little story about<br />

John and my family in their immigration<br />

history. It is entitled John’s Five<br />

Year Diary Box. The Chaldean News<br />

will post it on their website as it is<br />

too long for the paper publication. I<br />

was asked to write something about<br />

it for this guest column. I hope this<br />

will suffice and you the reader will be<br />

interested in going online to read a<br />

little bit about my brother and family<br />

history. I hope too that you can<br />

maybe relate to it in some way with<br />

your own personal and family immigration<br />

history.<br />

32 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>


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The power of storytelling<br />

BY STEPHEN JONES<br />

Most think of Greece as a<br />

utopia in southeastern Europe.<br />

On the southern end<br />

of the Balkan Peninsula, it is the<br />

convergence point of Europe, Asia<br />

and Africa. Tens of millions of tourists<br />

visit Greece each year to bask in<br />

its beauty or trace the fingerprints of<br />

its rich history. Christina Salem, a<br />

senior at Oakland University studying<br />

journalism, was well aware of the<br />

splendor of Greece. However, when<br />

she visited the country for herself,<br />

she met some of its citizens and heard<br />

some of its untold stories.<br />

Salem was one of 12 students<br />

that went on a trip to Greece to<br />

cover its economic and refugee crisis.<br />

She spent a month learning about<br />

Greece’s difficulties and connecting<br />

with refugees of religious violence.<br />

She quickly realized that the camps<br />

in which those refugees were housed<br />

was very different from the wonderland<br />

that she’d heard about coming<br />

into the trip.<br />

“The living situations are terrible,”<br />

Salem said. “It’s filthy, it’s uncomfortable,<br />

they live in tin boxes<br />

basically the size of a parking space.<br />

It’s not like anything you would ever<br />

think of when you think of Greece.<br />

When you think of Greece, you<br />

think of paradise, but this was not<br />

paradise.”<br />

When Salem spoke to refugees,<br />

she heard the story of a more peaceful<br />

time that was driven off the rails<br />

by divisive religious tactics from terror<br />

organizations such as the Islamic<br />

State group.<br />

“The information that I gathered<br />

was that Muslims and Christians<br />

lived together like brothers and sisters<br />

before ISIS took over and created<br />

the division between them,”<br />

Salem explained. “They had a large<br />

force manipulating the population,<br />

and pinning one against the other,<br />

and that’s how the division was created.”<br />

Salem’s specific focus was the<br />

phenomenon of Christians hiding<br />

their faith within the refugee camps.<br />

As a member of the Chaldean community,<br />

this topic hit Salem very<br />

close to home.<br />

“I spent a month there gathering<br />

information on the Christian minority<br />

population within these refugee<br />

camps,” Salem said. “After venturing<br />

in and out of refugee camps for the<br />

first two weeks of July, it struck me<br />

that most of these people withheld<br />

their identity as an effort to protect<br />

themselves from an impending persecution<br />

from their fellow neighbors<br />

within these camps.”<br />

Salem describes the trip as a humbling<br />

and eye-opening experience.<br />

Although the trip was emotionally<br />

taxing because of the living conditions<br />

she witnessed in the camp,<br />

Salem was encouraged by the leadership<br />

in the camps and the dialogue<br />

that took place.<br />

“They had people in charge of<br />

them who were giving them an opportunity<br />

to express themselves in a<br />

way that doesn’t harm others,” Salem<br />

said. “It goes back to them just acknowledging<br />

that we’re all under one<br />

God, and that’s what they’re promoting,<br />

it’s the peace and the unity<br />

among different cultures.”<br />

Salem says the trip encouraged<br />

her to do everything in her power to<br />

promote unity. Salem believes the<br />

Greece trip made her a more complete<br />

person.<br />

“I was super inspired” Salem said. “I<br />

just felt like I was constantly shedding<br />

layers of myself onto the world until<br />

all I had was this raw form, and in that<br />

form I had to be the bravest version of<br />

myself, and that was hard. It really inspired<br />

me to conquer a lot fears that I<br />

had. I think I grew a lot from it.”<br />

Some of Salem’s goals for the future<br />

include pursuing other humanitarian<br />

efforts and having her own<br />

talk show to spotlight some of the<br />

world’s most challenging issues.<br />

Salem took a lot away from her<br />

trip across the world. She was able<br />

to develop personally and professionally.<br />

The study abroad program<br />

gave her an opportunity to research<br />

an issue, visit the location where the<br />

issue is taking place and have conversations<br />

with the individuals most<br />

effected. All of these things add up to<br />

an extremely valuable experience for<br />

an aspiring journalist. Upon returning<br />

home, she wrote a feature story<br />

for Oakland University’s OU Refugee<br />

Report website titled Hidden<br />

Christians.<br />

In her feature, Salem asks her audience<br />

to put themselves in the shoes<br />

of a refugee fleeing from persecution.<br />

Salem feels a deep sense of empathy<br />

for the people in the camps and<br />

wants to shed light on the issues they<br />

face. The trip caused Salem to view<br />

the world around her differently,<br />

and at the end of it one message was<br />

clearer than ever before.<br />

“It’s our differences that we<br />

should celebrate rather than having<br />

our differences divide us.”<br />

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Under God’s Wings to focus<br />

on teen issues, opioid crisis<br />

BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />

Last year, youth leaders at St. Thomas Chaldean<br />

Catholic Church in West Bloomfield<br />

reached out to parents to get them more<br />

involved in their teenagers’ lives. They felt there<br />

needed to be more parent-child engagement to support<br />

the morals and values that should be at the<br />

heart of a faith-based family.<br />

Parents organized and did a trial run of a chastity<br />

and purity talk during girls CREW, a middle school<br />

church group, now known as J2S (Journey to Sainthood).<br />

They used a video by Jason Evert, an internationally<br />

known Catholic author and speaker and<br />

founder of the Chastity Project (chastityproject.com)<br />

to springboard the conversation. Based on the positive<br />

reactions, the idea of Under God’s Wings, a parent<br />

group, was born at St. Thomas.<br />

“We need to get together as parents and address<br />

these issues,” said Yasmeen Abbo, a program committee<br />

member.<br />

While sexuality may be an uncomfortable topicand<br />

the language even more distressing- children will<br />

benefit from these real, though maybe awkward, conversations<br />

with their parents.<br />

Abbo uses the Catholic website formed.org to<br />

learn valuable information and to teach it and discuss<br />

it with her kids. She is not relying on the ordinary<br />

school health class.<br />

“I’m not putting blinders on my eyes, but I will<br />

teach chastity and purity,” she insists.<br />

Under God’s Wings will be meeting monthly to<br />

address topics of concern to teens and children. The<br />

purpose is to educate, inform, and provide resources<br />

to help build stronger Catholic families. In October,<br />

they addressed internet safety.<br />

This month’s Under God’s Wings topic is drug<br />

awareness and prevention. The group of parent volunteers<br />

hope other moms and dads come together<br />

to learn the signs of abuse, to remain connected to<br />

their children in order to prevent addiction, and to<br />

get treatment for their children if necessary. Basically,<br />

they want parents to be “in the know.”<br />

“There is a need – especially for the parents of<br />

young children – to go back to the church and relearn<br />

the morals and values that were taught to us,” said<br />

Abbo.<br />

Often a taboo topic in the Chaldean community,<br />

Lindsay Najor Ph.D., wishes to shed light on the drug<br />

epidemic at the next Under God’s Wings meeting on<br />

Wednesday, November 15. She recently received her<br />

Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the Michigan<br />

School of Professional Psychology. She completed<br />

her dissertation on “The Parents’ Experience of their<br />

Child’s Opiate Addiction.”<br />

Najor, 32, stresses, “You have to talk to your kids<br />

about drugs.”<br />

Despite the increasing availability of medicinal<br />

marijuana in Michigan, it is still considered a gateway<br />

drug. According to Najor, all of her participants’ children<br />

started experimenting with marijuana before going<br />

to opiates. Marijuana can lead to prescription drug<br />

dependency like OxyContin and then to illegal drugs,<br />

like heroine. Illegal drug use tends to be contingent<br />

on parent-child relationships, not so much on peers.<br />

“You have to be interested in your kids,” Najor<br />

asserted. “You have to give them your attention and<br />

time, not material items.”<br />

Najor notes that the Chaldean community, like<br />

other collective cultures such as the Italians, are<br />

opening up to dealing with substance and drug abuse.<br />

Too often, these issues are kept as family secrets for<br />

fear of blame and embarrassment.<br />

“You don’t have to put your business out there, but<br />

a family cannot solve its child’s problems alone. Addicts<br />

need professional help,” said Najor. “And even<br />

then, they might not recover. It’s entirely up to the<br />

addict.”<br />

Only 20 percent of opiate addicts recover, she continued.<br />

The rest either do not recuperate or die.<br />

Parents need to recognize how much influence<br />

they have over their children’s decisions. This is not<br />

to condemn their parenting styles, but to acknowledge<br />

how they need to model appropriate behavior.<br />

For example, if a child is struggling with alcoholism,<br />

his or her parents and siblings should not drink nor<br />

should they have liquor in the house.<br />

As the guest lecturer at Under God’s Wings, Najor<br />

will teach parents to notice the signs of substance<br />

abuse, which include withdrawal from family and inconsistent<br />

weight gain and loss. She will also encourage<br />

parents of addicts to look into treatment centers to<br />

get their children the help they need. She believes it<br />

is important for parents to educate themselves before<br />

they attempt to educate their children. There will also<br />

be a personal testimony from a community member.<br />

“Your child is abusing drugs to cope with something,”<br />

she maintained. “You have to know what that<br />

is and get them help before it is too late.”<br />

5 Bits of Advice<br />

from Dr. Najor<br />

• Be involved in your child’s life and<br />

spend time with them every day.<br />

• Set clear expectations and enforce<br />

them daily.<br />

• Be a positive role model because<br />

children imitate their parents.<br />

• Help your children choose their<br />

friends wisely and feel comfortable in<br />

social situations.<br />

• Talk to them about drugs. Short conversations<br />

go a long way. Stay engaged!<br />

Gateway drug: a habit-forming substance<br />

(i.e. Alcohol and cigarettes) that may<br />

lead to the use of other more addictive<br />

substances in the future (i.e. Prescriptions<br />

drugs like Vicodin and cocaine).<br />

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• More teens die from prescription<br />

drugs than heroine/cocaine combined.<br />

• One third of teenagers who live in<br />

states with medical marijuana laws get<br />

their pot from other people’s prescriptions.<br />

• By the 8th grade, 28 percent of adolescents<br />

have consumed alcohol, 15<br />

percent have smoked cigarettes, and<br />

16.5 percent have used marijuana.<br />

• About 50 percent of high school<br />

seniors do not think it’s harmful to try<br />

crack or cocaine once or twice and 40<br />

percent believe it’s not harmful to use<br />

heroin once or twice.<br />

• Teens who consistently learn about<br />

the risks of drugs from their parents are<br />

up to 50 percent less likely to use drugs<br />

than those who don’t.<br />

Under God’s Wings will be meeting on<br />

Wednesday, November 15, <strong>2017</strong> at St.<br />

Thomas in West Bloomfield. All parents<br />

and caring family figures are welcome.<br />

Questions or suggestions could be emailed to<br />

stthomasfamilieslovingchrist@gmail.com.<br />

Looking Ahead:<br />

How to Raise Strong Catholic<br />

Families in Today’s Culture<br />

Wednesday, December 15, <strong>2017</strong><br />

6:30-8:30<br />

Dr. Lindsay Najor can be reached at<br />

Dennis & Moye & Associates, 1750<br />

South Telegraph Road, Bloomfield<br />

Hills, MI 48302. She treats clients<br />

10 and older. You can call her at<br />

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lindsayanajor@gmail.com.<br />

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How to combat the drug problem<br />

BY HALIM SHEENA<br />

In light of the recent tragedies that have plagued our community, we took to the street to ask about addiction.<br />

We asked community members, what do you think we, as a community, can do to combat this epidemic?<br />

In this day and age, there are many things that are<br />

broadcasted to everyone through social media, but the<br />

opioid epidemic seems to be brushed under the rug,<br />

and left to be dealt with alone. The process of healing<br />

an addiction is a long road to recovery, and that<br />

calls for us to help them as best as we can by getting<br />

educated on the subject and being a good support<br />

system. There is a group called Peter’s Angels that is<br />

completely dedicated to discussing recognizing addiction<br />

in loved ones, and the proper responses to help,<br />

both spirituality and physically. This group brings parents<br />

and loved ones together to shed light on a very<br />

dark place, and to stop the epidemic by HEALING it.<br />

Please get in touch with them on Facebook.<br />

– Angelica Paparizos, 21, Shelby Township<br />

I believe that our community can help this opioid<br />

epidemic by attacking it at the prescriber’s level. We<br />

have many medical professionals within the community,<br />

especially primary care docs, that can help by<br />

educating their patients about the addictiveness of<br />

these drugs and limiting their use on hospitalized patients.<br />

From working in both outpatient and inpatient<br />

settings, I have seen how these narcotics can be<br />

loosely given for pain and although there seems to be<br />

this culture of “pain seeking behavior” from patients,<br />

physicians need to hold themselves accountable<br />

for providing these highly addictive drugs and their<br />

consequences.<br />

– Dominick Alton, 24, West Bloomfield<br />

Strong support system: Those that suffer from these<br />

addictions are very much sick, and the rhetoric should<br />

be switched from victimizing them as “druggies” to<br />

actually treating them. Alongside this, referring them<br />

to necessary resources (psychiatrist, psychologists,<br />

rehab etc...) Education: the community should be cognizant<br />

of patterns of behavior/ risk factors that predict<br />

or lead to opioid addiction. It can only take something<br />

as simple as a Norco tablet after an innocent injury, to<br />

be a catalyst for a heroin addiction.<br />

– Matthew Allos, 23, Troy<br />

The opioid epidemic is a rising issue that needs our<br />

community’s attention. I think our community can help<br />

by educating themselves about addiction and refrain<br />

from pushing blame on others. Instead of shaming<br />

people who struggle with addictions, we should offer<br />

support to them and their families. If our community<br />

would stop stigmatizing drug abuse, people wouldn’t<br />

feel embarrassed to get the help they need and we<br />

could prevent the issue from getting bigger.<br />

– Gabriella Karmo, 23, West Bloomfield<br />

Opioid use has increased in popularity over the past<br />

few years due to their strong pain-relieving qualities.<br />

This being said, they have the potential to become addicting<br />

which makes them dangerous. There are alternatives<br />

in the drug industry with the same, if not more<br />

of a pain-relieving effect. I believe that health care providers<br />

in the community need to work together and<br />

begin prescribing alternative drugs that can have the<br />

same analgesic effects without the potential for addiction.<br />

– Rita Paulus, 23, Ann Arbor<br />

Unfortunately, many recent tragedies have shown us<br />

that we are not insulated from the problems of the<br />

general community. If you are concerned about yourself<br />

or a loved one, the best thing to do is seek for or<br />

offer help. There are many resources out there, but<br />

right now accepting that we are at risk is the most<br />

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DOCTOR is in<br />

Addiction: a hidden illness<br />

DR. TALIA<br />

KARMO<br />

SPECIAL TO THE<br />

CHALDEAN NEWS<br />

It is a fact that drug addiction<br />

is rampant and most<br />

pervasive among our society.<br />

For the first time, the<br />

United States Surgeon General,<br />

Dr. Vivek Murthy, identified<br />

an unprecedented epidemic<br />

of opioids/heroin as a<br />

major public health problem,<br />

calling for the need to do<br />

something to curb addiction<br />

epidemics. Moreover, this<br />

addiction epidemic is a reality<br />

in the often-hidden communities.<br />

The Chaldean community is<br />

not an exception.<br />

According to the National Institute<br />

on Drug Abuse, addiction is a<br />

chronic, often-relapsing brain disease<br />

that causes compulsive drug seeking<br />

and drug use. The brain changes<br />

that can occur over time challenges<br />

a user’s self-control, and creates an<br />

intense impulse to use more.<br />

It can be a real challenge at times<br />

to spot an addict. There are addicts<br />

who are barely functioning, and others<br />

that are highly functional. It has<br />

a lot to do with the personality type,<br />

family make-up, and familial stressors.<br />

Nevertheless, the list does not end<br />

here as the telltale signs of addiction<br />

depend heavily on the type of drug<br />

use and administration of the drug.<br />

There are various stages of addiction:<br />

Denial – Since functional addicts<br />

have avoided many of the negative<br />

consequences related to addiction,<br />

and since they can maintain some of<br />

the normalcy in their everyday life,<br />

they commonly deny that they have<br />

a problem. Additionally, their family<br />

and friends may deny the problem as<br />

well, either because they do not recognize<br />

it, or because they do not realize<br />

the severity of the situation.<br />

Uncharacteristic behavior –<br />

All addictions have consequences,<br />

whether to health, careers or relationships.<br />

Noticing these slips in<br />

normal behavior can be a tell-tale<br />

sign of addiction.<br />

Excuses – To continue the addiction,<br />

the functional addict must figure<br />

out how to hide his problem, which<br />

often means making excuses for unusual<br />

behavior. They may appear lazy,<br />

but in reality they are addicted.<br />

False appearance of normalcy –<br />

From the outside, most functional<br />

addicts look completely normal and<br />

healthy, but they have actually developed<br />

a complex double<br />

life that enables them to<br />

function in society while<br />

continuing to feed their addiction.<br />

As a community, we<br />

need to be aware of the overall<br />

signs of addiction and be<br />

looking out for neighbors,<br />

friends, and children. There<br />

are several signs that many<br />

addicts will display that can<br />

be easy to pick up on. Neglecting<br />

important responsibilities<br />

such as missing work, cutting<br />

classes, or not taking care of chores<br />

at home could be a sign of addiction.<br />

You can also expect an active addict<br />

to frequently break commitments,<br />

blow off dates, or always have an excuse<br />

for missing important events.<br />

People that are facing addiction<br />

may stop enjoying activities or hobbies<br />

they used to love. This could be due<br />

to distraction caused by drugs, or the<br />

depression, anxiety, and paranoia that<br />

often accompanies addiction. Those<br />

with addiction often fight with their<br />

friends, parents, and partners. They<br />

might even separate, break up, or be<br />

estranged from the people for whom<br />

they used to care about the most.<br />

An individual who gets behind<br />

on bills, always asks for money, and<br />

never has the cash for dinner could<br />

be addicted to drugs. After all, a<br />

drug addiction is expensive. Weight<br />

changes can also be indicative of<br />

an addiction, as rapidly losing or<br />

gaining weight could be a sign that<br />

someone is struggling. Addicts often<br />

would rather use than eat, and some<br />

drugs cause weight changes.<br />

When someone has an addiction,<br />

there may be an unusual odor on a<br />

person’s clothes or in their hair; you<br />

could be smelling drugs. An addict<br />

will also use tons of mouthwash, perfume,<br />

or body spray to conceal their<br />

habit. On the other hand, many addicts<br />

don’t take the time to properly<br />

care for themselves when they are<br />

focused on getting or using their drug<br />

of choice. For example, dirty teeth,<br />

clothing, and hair can be a sign of<br />

drug use. Plus, certain drugs can<br />

cause bad breath and hair loss, additional<br />

signs to watch for.<br />

Stumbling, tremors, or slurred<br />

speech indicate a possible addiction.<br />

When you notice impaired coordination,<br />

it is possible that the addict<br />

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needs a fix, is high, or is coming off a<br />

hit. Unexpected mood changes from<br />

one day to the next or even from one<br />

moment to the next, could indicate<br />

that they are suffering from addiction.<br />

Be aware: addicts are excellent<br />

liars. Keeping secrets, hiding spending,<br />

activities, or friends could also<br />

be a sign of an addiction. Taking<br />

drugs can make people feel on top<br />

of the world, invincible, and capable<br />

of leaping tall buildings in a single<br />

bound. If you notice your loved one<br />

is taking more risks than usual, and<br />

you may be looking at a drug addict.<br />

Legal troubles can be a red flag for addiction.<br />

If one has citations or arrests<br />

for actions like disorderly conduct or<br />

stealing, it can indicate that a person<br />

may be suffering from addiction.<br />

If indeed you or a loved one has<br />

become addicted to drugs, then seeking<br />

help from a health professional will<br />

be a decision that can save a life. Do<br />

not wait to see if something happens,<br />

because that “something” can turn<br />

into a devastating life-changing event.<br />

Below are some possible specific<br />

signs of addiction found in addicts<br />

using marijuana, opioids (such as<br />

heroin or pain killers), opium, LSD,<br />

cocaine, and methamphetamines.<br />

Marijuana<br />

Shortly after smoking a joint, users<br />

may seem very relaxed, to the point<br />

of being sleepy. This drug can impair<br />

coordination, causing the user to walk<br />

and move in ways that appear awkward.<br />

A heightened craving for food<br />

is typical with marijuana use. Cognitive<br />

processes such as recalling past<br />

events, acquiring new knowledge, or<br />

responding to a problem are markedly<br />

limited under the influence of marijuana.<br />

Emotionally, they will experience<br />

little stress or anxiety during the<br />

high, which peaks after 15 minutes,<br />

then slowly fades over the course of<br />

several hours. Many of the stereotypes<br />

of pot users draw on this “laissez-faire”<br />

attitude the drug induces. Users may<br />

have dry, bloodshot eyes, prompting<br />

them to use eye-wetting drops frequently.<br />

Their clothes and body may<br />

emanate the scent of marijuana, an<br />

odor some describe as almost sweet.<br />

LSD<br />

Acid creates a sense of being disoriented<br />

by your surroundings, and these<br />

episodes can last up to 12 hours with<br />

one dose. With larger quantities, users<br />

experience hallucinations. These<br />

visualizations may prompt strange<br />

behaviors as the person attempts to<br />

respond or interact with what they<br />

think they’re seeing. Speech may be<br />

slurred, bordering on incoherent. The<br />

variance in emotions is a hallmark of<br />

LSD use. Unpredictable and erratic<br />

emotions cause extreme and frequent<br />

mood changes. Users may experience<br />

a disproportionate sense of panic.<br />

When combined with the other signs,<br />

sweaty hands and an increase in underarm<br />

perspiration are another clue<br />

that a person is using LSD. Pupils may<br />

appear larger than normal.<br />

Cocaine<br />

A person on cocaine will act as though<br />

they have little self-restraint, meaning<br />

they may engage in activities that they<br />

would normally find embarrassing,<br />

frightening, or stressful. Cocaine disrupts<br />

sleep, and frequent users can act<br />

violent. Whether snorted, injected,<br />

or smoked, cocaine imbues the user<br />

with energy, allowing them to stay active<br />

longer than normal. This means a<br />

coke user can stay up all night. Instead<br />

of acting sleepy, users act jittery and<br />

jumpy. The increased energy may speed<br />

up speech. It’s the promise of extreme<br />

happiness that attracts many first time<br />

users. However, this feeling is so brief<br />

it’s usually measured in minutes. The<br />

sense of joy is quickly replaced with<br />

depression or a very intense emotional<br />

low. Difficulty recalling memories and<br />

shifts in mood are common with cocaine<br />

use. This drug can create feelings<br />

of ambivalence toward people and activities<br />

that the user used to find engaging.<br />

A gaunt appearance marks a regular<br />

user who can’t keep on the pounds.<br />

In users who snort the drug, the nose<br />

bleeds frequently. The eyes may appear<br />

red with large pupils.<br />

Mushrooms<br />

Intense laughter typically begins 20-<br />

25 minutes after ingesting a mushroom.<br />

For about six hours, users may<br />

vomit, feel physically weak, and be<br />

uncoordinated in moving their body.<br />

Users may feel confused and uncertain<br />

about their surroundings. This may<br />

cause them to feel “spaced out.” In<br />

some cases, users have hallucinations<br />

and may be so mentally impaired that<br />

they can’t identify the hallucinations<br />

for what they are. Their eyes may be<br />

dilated and may not focus on what<br />

is in front of them. They may show<br />

physical signs of nausea.<br />

Methamphetamine (Meth)<br />

Methamphetamines are more common<br />

than people might think, and actually<br />

include commonly prescribed drugs<br />

such as Adderall and Ritalin. Meth addicts<br />

report being able to stay awake for<br />

days at a time. They may accomplish a<br />

large number of tasks in a short period<br />

Resources<br />

• National Institute of Drug Abuse (2016). Emerging Trends and Alerts. Retrieved<br />

from https://www.drugabuse.gov/drugs-abuse/emerging-trends-alerts<br />

• The United States of America Department of Health and Human<br />

Services. (2016). Facing Addiction in America. The Surgeon General›s<br />

Report on Alcohol, Drugs, Health Substance Abuse, and Mental health<br />

Service Administration (SAMSHA). Retrieved from https://addiction.<br />

surgeongeneral.gov/surgeon-generals-report.pdf<br />

• SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year<br />

treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals<br />

and families facing mental health and/or substance use disorders.<br />

Phone: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357)<br />

http://www.samhsa.gov/treatment/index.a<br />

https://www.recoverymonth.gov/organizations-programs/departmenthealth-human-services-samhsa-samhsas-treatment-locator-national<br />

Talia Karmo Al-Hamando, PhD. LLP LMSW is founder of Tri-County<br />

Counseling Services LLC in Madison Heights<br />

of time because they aren’t stopping to<br />

sleep. Agitation, paranoia, and a sense<br />

of being on high alert stem from meth<br />

use. Some people who use meth feel increased<br />

aggression and have hallucinations<br />

while taking the drug. A dramatic<br />

shift in the appearance of the skin from<br />

healthy to sagging and acne-prone is<br />

a strong indicator of using this drug.<br />

It’s hard to mistake the look of meth<br />

mouth—rotting teeth and infected<br />

gums. Meth transforms a vibrant looking<br />

person into a haggard shadow of the<br />

former self. Hair and weight loss often<br />

occur from meth use, which can suppress<br />

the appetite.<br />

Opium<br />

Opium use can cause excessive talking<br />

and is associated with irritability<br />

and anxiety. Individuals may become<br />

aggressive or hostile towards others, as<br />

there is a constant state of tiredness and<br />

exhaustion. Muscle spasms, headaches,<br />

nausea, vomiting, agitated and restless,<br />

and insomnia are also consequences of<br />

Opium use. People will often feel depressed<br />

or anxious, and frequently lie<br />

to cover up the use of opium. A high<br />

craving will lead to a constant desire<br />

to take more opium. Feeling paranoid<br />

or experiencing hallucinations is also<br />

a common experience. Physical signs<br />

may include the skin itching, and becoming<br />

sweaty, or pale.<br />

The signs of opium addiction are<br />

not limited to those mentioned above,<br />

and can depend on the severity of the<br />

addiction. Most signs might go unnoticed<br />

for a while because an addict can<br />

try and conceal their addictive problem.<br />

Also, these symptoms are not necessarily<br />

a fact that a person is addicted<br />

to opium. There may be other reasons<br />

for the changes a person is displaying.<br />

Opioids (Heroin & Pain Killers)<br />

Because this drug is connected to morphine,<br />

it tends to slow breathing and<br />

make the user sleepy. Near constant<br />

nodding off can be a problem for heroin<br />

users. The drug envelops users in<br />

a sense of relaxation. Mental activity<br />

of opioid users often declines, and is<br />

later replaced by lethargy and depression.<br />

Marks, or lines, from repeated<br />

injections appear on the arms of many<br />

heroin users. They may also care very<br />

little about keeping up good hygiene.<br />

Life Threatening Signs<br />

of Opioid Addiction<br />

The common signs of opioid addiction<br />

discussed above can be dangerous<br />

to you or your loved one’s overall<br />

health, and can have an impact<br />

on those around you, causing stress<br />

and worry. Other warning signs that<br />

are life threatening include stealing<br />

money or items from others to pay<br />

for more drugs, suicidal thoughts or<br />

actions, and taking lethal amounts<br />

of opioids. High doses of opioids can<br />

lead to an overdose which can cause<br />

one to become comatose, cause a<br />

stroke, heart attack, or even death.<br />

Those reaching a truly dangerous<br />

point in an opioid addiction may exaggerate<br />

pain symptoms or lie about<br />

injuries to receive more prescriptions,<br />

and request frequent refills for pain<br />

killers. Many people will see multiple<br />

doctors to increase their chances to<br />

have access to more prescriptions.<br />

They will often isolate themselves<br />

and burn through money rapidly,<br />

focusing more on getting and using<br />

their drug that engaging in previously<br />

enjoyed activities. Mood changes can<br />

also occur, ranging from rage and anger<br />

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Dangerous Overdose Signs<br />

Extremely dangerous physical signs<br />

of overdose include muscle weakness,<br />

slowed breathing or heartbeat, cold<br />

or clammy skin, profound drowsiness,<br />

loss of consciousness, coma,<br />

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Dr. Talia Karmo is with Tri-County<br />

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KIDS corner<br />

HAPPY TURKEY DAY!<br />

With school out for a few days and the adults busy getting<br />

Thanksgiving dinner together, boredom is bound to fall upon<br />

the kids. With some supplies and a little bit of imagination, that<br />

can be easily remedied, though.<br />

SUPPLIES NEEDED:<br />

Construction paper<br />

Glue<br />

Crayons, markers or colored pencils<br />

Scissors<br />

Only use scissors under adult supervision<br />

STEP 1: Firmly place your hand on a white piece of construction<br />

paper – make sure to place your hand palm down<br />

and spread your fingers apart. Using a black marker, trace<br />

your hand – starting at your wrist and ending on the other<br />

side of your wrist.<br />

STEP 2: Once you have traced your hand, draw a line<br />

from one end to the other to finish the body of the turkey. Also,<br />

draw a line at the end of each finger to create your turkey’s<br />

feathers.<br />

STEP 3: Don’t forget to give your turkey a face! On the<br />

thumb, draw an eye, and a beak! Now that your turkey has a<br />

face, you can give it a pair of legs!<br />

STEP 4: Before moving on to the fun part, on each finger,<br />

write one thing you are thankful for. It can be anything, your<br />

parents, your pets, the house you live in. Let the Thanksgiving<br />

spirit flow and write what you’re thankful for.<br />

STEP 5: We have finally reached the fun part! It’s time to<br />

color your turkey! Use your imagination for this part and have<br />

fun, coloring in the turkey and feathers.<br />

WORD SEARCH<br />

America Fall Freedom Holiday November Plymouth Stuffing<br />

Colony Family Gratitude Maize Pie Pumpkin Thanksgiving<br />

Cornucopia Feast Harvest Mayflower Pilgrims Squash Turkey<br />

S W F G G V N G Q I D F B R M U Z Y M Q S E A C T<br />

F M N E Z G N M U A S P R F A F S L A C U Y S C D<br />

C A I W A I Z I F R E B M E V O N I I T C F Z P Y<br />

S U C R F S T R H B J H M O E E E M Z C A F D S K<br />

S N D F G N T L A L H U U D H D O A E L K V U R E<br />

I G U U X L K K R H R D E F I L O F L W P Z B H V<br />

G T S K S F I J V F B X B H V M G M Q R I R Y H Z<br />

S M H Y K L Y P E T X Y O F C E C L C K G A Q M F<br />

R K P D R L V S S I G L N G E A K K B S N W A N V<br />

N I K P M U P T T K I N J O X W K Y Q T W Y K U T<br />

W T E R A W O P D D Z V F F L D K O H Y F E I P A<br />

T X R O J Q H L A N Y I Y U F O H V Z L F X N H K<br />

J E P C T B G Y H U K Z B Z I U C F O W X R A K U<br />

A I U V O Y O B O B T V G H N I H W O V J U O K B<br />

T U R K E Y M H F J A U R G Q J E T O C X T A T I<br />

A M E R I C A Q E Z N O E C W R J Q G A D Y G S S<br />

Z U G J W H F F A M U M L T O Q I C I P R P R K W<br />

M J V U S N L K Q F T O F Y L R Y A O K U K A H Y<br />

J C D A Y X F C S V P M E Z B S N N V B M J T T X<br />

B Y U X B T H A N K S G I V I N G U R E H B I U N<br />

C Q J Q R J R L D S S N T K D A H A C S Y R T O O<br />

S F K R O N Z S Q F H U K D B B H N Z O G Y U M A<br />

K O R G T Q G M P Z W O O P O E Z R M G P K D Y T<br />

W S J Y Z J V T I C G Q I L N G W F N Q L I E L I<br />

R Z M H X H S J P O A M K A L B G U L I X R A P K<br />

44 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>


events<br />

Taking a Stride<br />

for Seminarians<br />

PHOTOS BY DAVID REED<br />

On September 24, the Alexander and Gabrielle Mansour Memorial Fund hosted their<br />

fourth annual Stride for Seminarians charity walk in memory of Alex and Gabby. Hosted<br />

at the Detroit Zoo, many showed up to support the memorial fund and participate in an<br />

array of activities, including crafts, face painting and rose petal intentions. Fr. Pierre and<br />

Fr. Andrew kicked off the event with a prayer. Eventgoers were able to enjoy the sight<br />

of the various animals and their habitats during their walk before settling under the zoo’s<br />

pavilion for Mass. Treats for the event were provided by Donut Bar and Party Café.<br />

<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 45


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Celebrating 10 Years<br />

PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />

The Adopt a Refugee Family Program hosted an event on October 5 in celebration of their<br />

10 year anniversary. Since their inception, the Adopt a Refugee program has been able<br />

to send more than 10 million dollars to aid both individual refugees and refugee families,<br />

totaling more than 400,000 refugee families helped. Adopt a Refugee has been able to<br />

achieve this much success through a total volunteer effort. Many joined the celebrations<br />

hosted at the Shenandoah Country Club. Through this event, the Adopt a Refugee Family<br />

Program hoped to raise the funds required to help an additional 208 refugee families.<br />

1. Ban Zora, Kaitlin Senawi, Marcine Karmo<br />

2. Nancy Mezy, Sandy Sesi, Karl Sinawi<br />

3. Lutfi Talia, Najib Jamil<br />

4. Summer Asmar Vought, Marah Karana<br />

5. Emil Abona, Patrice Abona.<br />

6. Izdihar Yono, Neran Karmo, Angie Abdal<br />

7. Vito Gioia, Jerry Flannery<br />

8. Elham Roumayah, Father Jirji Abrahim,<br />

Wally Roumayah<br />

9. Amor Karana, Justin Hanna<br />

10. Sr. Beninia Shikwana, Sr. Therese Shikwana,<br />

Pia Jajo<br />

11. Balsam Sadik, Nadine George, Summer<br />

Asmar Vought, Sarmed Taila, Jumhoria Kaskorkis<br />

12. Sued Bitti, galia Thomes,<br />

Father Andrew Seba, Eli Thomes<br />

13. Fr. Pierre Konja, Deacon Fadie Gorgies,<br />

Fr. Andrew Seba, Marcus Shammami<br />

14. Ihab Albanna<br />

15. Fr. Fadi Habib<br />

16. Basil Bacall<br />

17. Deacon Fadie Gorgies<br />

18. Zuhair Nagara<br />

19. Monsignor Zuhair Kejbou, Fr. Andrew Seba<br />

46 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>


A CELEBRATION OF<br />

giving<br />

&gratitude<br />

We each have countless<br />

reasons to be thankful.<br />

And as we all extend a<br />

hand in the spirit of giving<br />

and gratitude to our<br />

neighbors at home<br />

and around the world,<br />

we at Kroger are reminded<br />

how joyful we are to serve<br />

this special community<br />

every day of the year.<br />

So on behalf of Kroger<br />

and all our associates,<br />

we wish your family a<br />

warm and blessed day<br />

of giving and thanks.<br />

©<strong>2017</strong> The Kroger Co.


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