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CONTENTS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
THE CHALDEAN NEWS VOLUME 13 ISSUE X<br />
departments<br />
6 FROM THE EDITOR<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
Being a resource of information<br />
8 IN MY VIEW<br />
BY MICHAEL SARAFA<br />
It’s about TIME<br />
9 WHERE DO YOU STAND?<br />
BY MICHAEL SARAFA<br />
Seminarian professor challenges<br />
Pope Francis<br />
10 GUEST COLUMNS<br />
BY ROCKY BAHOURA<br />
Physical therapy over drugs for pain relief<br />
BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />
The human side of deportation<br />
12 NOTEWORTHY<br />
16 IRAQ TODAY<br />
BY MIDDLE EAST ONLINE<br />
Iraqi Kurds postpone elections<br />
amid tensions with Baghdad<br />
18 CHAI TIME<br />
20 RELIGION<br />
22 OBITUARIES<br />
38 CHALDEAN ON THE STREET<br />
BY HALIM SHEENA<br />
How to combat the drug problem?<br />
40 DOC IS IN<br />
BY DR. TALIA KARMO<br />
Addiction: A hidden illness<br />
24<br />
on the cover<br />
24 DEALING WITH DRUGS<br />
BY WEAM NAMOU<br />
Community members speak out about overdoses<br />
25 ARMING THE COMMUNITY<br />
WITH RESOURCES<br />
BY WEAM NAMOU<br />
features<br />
26 THE BUSINESS OF POLITICS<br />
BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />
Chaldean Chamber luncheon focused on current<br />
political climate in the United States<br />
28 EVANGELIZING THE FAITH<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA-GARMO<br />
ECRC evolves its ministry to meet<br />
the needs of the community<br />
30 LEARNING AND LOVE<br />
THROUGH B.E.A.M.<br />
BY LISA CIPRIANO<br />
32 COMING TO AMERICA<br />
BY EDWARD VINCENT<br />
Sharing John’s Five Year Diary Box<br />
34 THE POWER OF STORYTELLING<br />
BY STEPHEN JONES<br />
36 UNDER GOD’S WINGS<br />
TO FOCUS ON TEEN ISSUES,<br />
OPIOID CRISIS<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
42 CLASSIFIED LISTINGS<br />
44 KIDS CORNER<br />
Happy Turkey Day!<br />
45 EVENTS<br />
Taking a Stride for Seminarians<br />
Celebrating Ten Years<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 5
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It has to be one of a parent’s<br />
worst nightmare —<br />
your child is addicted to<br />
drugs. As a parent, guiding<br />
your children is a top priority<br />
— or at least it should<br />
be — but we are all bound<br />
to make mistakes and we<br />
certainly don’t have all the<br />
answers.<br />
When I hear about a kid<br />
straying, I have often asked<br />
the question: Where were<br />
the parents? I guess it is<br />
a natural instinct. However, when<br />
you do some research, you will often<br />
find out that the parents were right<br />
there every step trying to get their<br />
child the help they needed.<br />
The reality is that the world we<br />
live in can be a very scary place.<br />
When I was growing up, it was<br />
much easier for my parents to protect<br />
us from the outside world but<br />
today, the outside world is just a<br />
keyboard or a Smartphone away.<br />
The outside world is in the hands of<br />
our children.<br />
Years ago, while working fulltime<br />
at WJR, I did a week-long series<br />
on heroin addiction as it was becoming<br />
an epidemic in the region.<br />
Here we are again — about 20 years<br />
later — and drugs are still at the<br />
forefront.<br />
One statistic I learned while producing<br />
that series really alarmed me<br />
— less than one percent of people<br />
who try to kick the heroin addiction<br />
are successful — the rest will most<br />
likely die from it.<br />
That reality has become a very<br />
VANESSA<br />
DENHA-GARMO<br />
EDITOR IN CHIEF<br />
CO-PUBLISHER<br />
serious one for the Chaldean<br />
community. We have<br />
had reported overdoses recently<br />
and we are still not<br />
certain how many of our<br />
own people are addicted to<br />
some kind of drug.<br />
We are reporting on<br />
this issue once again. It<br />
has been almost two years<br />
since we featured a story on<br />
heroin and we are brining<br />
you not just a cover story<br />
on the drug problem but an<br />
issue heavily focused on it.<br />
We have several pieces including<br />
a two-part cover story written by<br />
Weam Namou on the drug update<br />
and how it is affecting the Chaldean<br />
community. We believe it is imperative<br />
that we share this information<br />
with you — our readers — and the<br />
community at large. We have to<br />
unite as a community to combat this<br />
very serious problem. We are losing<br />
lives — our children — to this dark<br />
world of drugs.<br />
We encourage parents and family<br />
members to put stigmas and pride<br />
aside and do what you can to get the<br />
addicts help. We also ask that others<br />
who love to gossip to find ways to be<br />
an advocate and not adversary. You<br />
know the old saying, ‘those who live<br />
in glass house…?’ Heed that and<br />
stop throwing stones. We cannot<br />
judge families when they are facing<br />
traumatic and often life-threatening<br />
challenges. We are called as Christians,<br />
which we are, to help our suffering<br />
brothers and sisters.<br />
Drugs don’t discriminate by financial<br />
status, age, gender or education.<br />
No one is immune to the<br />
societal pressures. All of our children<br />
are vulnerable. We hope you<br />
use these stories in this issue as a resource<br />
to educate and to help.<br />
It’s also a time to give thanks. I<br />
am grateful for those families who<br />
were willing to share their stories<br />
with us and our writers who sought<br />
out the answers they needed to craft<br />
these articles. We will continue to<br />
follow this story and the resources<br />
available to help families and we<br />
will report on it not only on these<br />
pages but on our website and our social<br />
media platforms.<br />
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weekly newsletter as well. We are<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 7
in my VIEW<br />
It’s about TIME<br />
As far back as I can<br />
remember, Time<br />
Magazine came<br />
to our house addressed<br />
to my dad once a week.<br />
That had to be the mid<br />
1970’s. It was coming to<br />
the house for years before<br />
then. When I moved to<br />
Philadelphia for graduate<br />
school, I got my own<br />
subscription. That was<br />
1991. It’s been with me<br />
ever since. Lansing, East Lansing,<br />
Farmington Hills, Detroit, Novi and<br />
back to Farmington Hills. Twentysix<br />
years in all, not including my<br />
childhood when I had dibs on it after<br />
my dad.<br />
A couple of weeks ago, I received<br />
the issue below with addition of the<br />
wrap announcing that “This could<br />
be your LAST ISSUE.” I had been<br />
ignoring successive renewal mailings<br />
for months. Why? I barely pick my<br />
Time Magazine up anymore. By the<br />
time I get the weekly publication,<br />
several news cycles have already<br />
come and gone. The Time writers<br />
are sprinkled throughout cable news<br />
television. They blog. They tweet.<br />
By the time they type their last letter<br />
for each week’s Time Magazine, their<br />
analysis is already outdated.<br />
The news cycle has been evolving<br />
for years, even decades. But social<br />
media has completely upended<br />
the way most Americans get their<br />
information. The dawn of the Trump<br />
era and his presidential Tweets have<br />
accelerated this trend in ways we<br />
could not have imagined. Trump’s<br />
tweets have the ability to change<br />
MICHAEL G.<br />
SARAFA<br />
SPECIAL TO THE<br />
CHALDEAN NEWS<br />
the topic of discussion in a<br />
matter of minutes. This is<br />
not just going around the<br />
traditional media. That’s<br />
been going on for decades.<br />
Even President Reagan<br />
reduced news conferences<br />
and preferred direct addresses<br />
to the American<br />
people.<br />
What Trump is doing<br />
is controlling the news cycle.<br />
He has accomplished<br />
this by successfully expanding the<br />
bounds of what is considered news<br />
worthy. He has made the outrageous,<br />
normal; the politically incorrect,<br />
acceptable; the obscene, unremarkable.<br />
Trump has achieved what<br />
former U.S. Senator Daniel Patrick<br />
Moynihan once ominously warned<br />
about: the notion of “defining deviancy<br />
down.” As standards and expectations<br />
fall, this new, lower level<br />
eventually becomes normal.<br />
Hence, while social media has exploded<br />
and redefined the way news<br />
is gathered, and disseminated, so too<br />
has public discourse declined. In the<br />
process, the traditional news outlets<br />
have been devastated. Combine these<br />
facts with the decline of print media,<br />
and my history with Time Magazine,<br />
regrettably, is near the end.<br />
While all good things do often<br />
come to an end, this situation<br />
presents a conundrum. How does<br />
one gather information on current<br />
events in this day and age? There<br />
is no one answer and no good answer.<br />
One could take the Trump<br />
approach which simply makes the<br />
news his enemy; unless of course its<br />
good news for him, in which case,<br />
it’s okay. In other words, just make<br />
the news yourself, the way you want<br />
it to be.<br />
Another idea is to just forget<br />
about it. Life is busy enough without<br />
the news. One could confine news<br />
content to life and death matters<br />
only. These days that might include<br />
the weather or threats from North<br />
Korea. I think this option seems to<br />
be in vogue. Today, nobody talks<br />
about the news much for fear of offending<br />
people and, frankly, because<br />
it is perceived not to matter. Being<br />
informed is less important than we<br />
were probably taught. There are<br />
forces larger than the idea of the<br />
informed citizen that will fix things<br />
eventually.<br />
I hope this is not the case. But<br />
as I contemplate letting my Time<br />
Magazine subscription expire for the<br />
first time in a quarter century, I keep<br />
wondering if it’s about Time?<br />
Michael Sarafa is Co-publisher of the<br />
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where do you STAND?<br />
Seminarian professor challenges Pope Francis<br />
BY MICHAEL SARAFA<br />
Here comes a document signed<br />
by more than 70 priests,<br />
scholars, and church opinion<br />
leaders once again challenging<br />
7 “heretical propositions” put forth<br />
by Pope Francis in Amoris Laetitia<br />
(The Joy of Love), his apostolic exhortation.<br />
The letter challenging the<br />
Pope is more significant for who did<br />
not sign it, which is nobody from the<br />
entire College of Cardinals and say<br />
but for one Bishop, currently suspended<br />
for his own unorthodoxies.<br />
Amongst their reprisals is that<br />
“The Joy of Love” contains propositions<br />
which contradict truths that<br />
are divinely revealed…” The authors<br />
are still bent about the notion of divorced<br />
people receiving Holy Communion<br />
because they are still living<br />
in a state of sin. But let’s leave that<br />
alone for now.<br />
One signatory to this letter is<br />
notable for his geography. Right on<br />
Chicago Boulevard in Detroit works<br />
Dr. Phillip Blosser, Professor of Philosophy<br />
at Sacred Heart Major Seminary.<br />
His job: to train and educate<br />
the seminarians. Blosser told the<br />
Free Press that he loves Pope Francis<br />
but that the he would “like to see<br />
greater clarity and consistency in his<br />
teaching.” The nerve.<br />
The Free Press quoted other experts<br />
that called these signatories<br />
“the extreme fringe” and “the usual<br />
suspects of really far right types who<br />
have been upset not only with this<br />
pope but others in recent years.”<br />
Pope Francis will continue to rebuff<br />
and ignore these challenges to his<br />
papacy by what he calls the “doctors<br />
of the law” more worried about rules<br />
than the ability to discern the manifestation<br />
of Jesus’ love in daily life.<br />
But never mind all this. There’s<br />
a bigger problem. The Sacred Heart<br />
Seminary doesn’t just educate seminarians<br />
for the Archdiocese of Detroit.<br />
That is also where Chaldean<br />
Diocese priest candidates get their<br />
training. Why is this our business?<br />
Twice a year all the Chaldean<br />
Churches take a collection to support<br />
the education of the Chaldean<br />
seminary students. Their tuition is<br />
expensive. There is a Seminarian<br />
fund created by former Bishop Ibrahim<br />
Ibrahim just for this purpose.<br />
Many of us have donated to it over<br />
the years. There are other major fund<br />
raising events held throughout the<br />
years for this important and worthwhile<br />
cause.<br />
I’m sure Professor Blosser must<br />
be a fine individual. But do we really<br />
want someone considered on the<br />
“fringe” of the Catholic Church to<br />
be teaching our future priests? Do we<br />
want the dollars we donate to support<br />
our seminarians’ education to go<br />
towards the salary of someone who<br />
accuses Pope Francis of heresy?<br />
I would think not, but, where do<br />
you stand?<br />
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Physical therapy over drugs for pain relief<br />
ROCKY<br />
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No one wants to live<br />
in pain and turning<br />
to pain medication<br />
seems to be their only option,<br />
but opioid addiction<br />
is very common in today’s<br />
society and can be extremely<br />
dangerous. During<br />
the past 15 to 20 years, the<br />
amount of opioid prescription<br />
drugs continues to increase.<br />
These drugs such as Vicodin<br />
and Oxycontin can<br />
be very harmful if not used appropriately.<br />
Addiction to prescription<br />
opioids can eventually lead to heroin<br />
addiction and even death.<br />
In response to a growing opioid<br />
addiction, the CDC released opioid<br />
prescription guidelines. The<br />
guidelines recognize that prescription<br />
opioids are appropriate in certain<br />
cases, including cancer treatment,<br />
palliative care, and<br />
also in certain acute care<br />
situations.<br />
An alternative to opioid<br />
prescription drugs that<br />
is recommended is physical<br />
therapy. Physical therapists<br />
can treat pain<br />
through movement<br />
and this will help<br />
patients to improve<br />
or maintain their<br />
mobility and quality<br />
of life. Exercise<br />
can help treat patients with<br />
low back pain, hip osteoarthritis,<br />
knee osteoarthritis,<br />
fibromyalgia, shoulder osteoarthritis,<br />
neck pain, and many more conditions<br />
causing pain. A physical<br />
therapist can create an appropriate<br />
exercise program to help many conditions<br />
causing pain.<br />
The longer the patient deals<br />
with pain the greater the likeliness<br />
of addiction to prescription opioids.<br />
Physical therapist treat many<br />
patients post operation such as a<br />
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pain. Cold packs, hot packs, and<br />
the use of electrical stimulation<br />
can help with pain reduction. Exercise<br />
can help reduce pain through<br />
the replacement of endorphins.<br />
Given the evidence of potential<br />
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The human side of<br />
deportation<br />
BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />
There are few moments that<br />
will stay with me for the rest<br />
of my life and watching my<br />
father get zip tied and tossed into<br />
a car by Immigration and Customs<br />
Enforcement (ICE) agents is at the<br />
top of my list. There’s nothing quite<br />
like hearing my father, a man who<br />
has seen many horrors in his 51<br />
years of life, cry out to me, begging<br />
me to not forget him.<br />
Since June 11, the politics of the<br />
ICE sweeps have run rampant. The<br />
phrase “the law is the law” is thrown<br />
around as if it were the answer to everything.<br />
Oddly enough, I like the<br />
intricacy of politics, but the mass detainment<br />
of more than 100 Iraqis has<br />
been enough to make me nauseous<br />
at the black and white thought processes<br />
of some. These detainees have<br />
committed crimes, but they have<br />
also served their time accordingly.<br />
I want to share the human side<br />
of these potential deportations.<br />
We’ve heard all the politics and<br />
immigration jargon, it’s now time<br />
to see the detainees and their families<br />
as humans.<br />
My mother and father ran away<br />
from Iraq after they married in 1992<br />
and for almost eight months, stayed<br />
in a Turkish refugee camp where<br />
they waited to finally be allowed<br />
entry to the United States. In June<br />
of 1993, my parents entered the<br />
U.S. legally and became permanent<br />
residents. With their first child born<br />
exactly six months later, my father<br />
knew that going to school was not a<br />
reality for him or my mother. They<br />
worked and supported what would<br />
eventually become a family of six.<br />
As a result, obtaining his citizenship<br />
found a permanent residency at the<br />
bottom of his list of things to worry<br />
about.<br />
My parents shed their former<br />
life like a second skin in that Turkish<br />
refugee camp. They were proud<br />
Americans and nothing would<br />
change that. They still rooted for<br />
Iraq’s soccer team and wistfully<br />
spoke of the shawarma sandwiches<br />
bought on street corners, but they<br />
never once felt the pull to return to<br />
a land destroyed by endless terror.<br />
Since my father was picked up, I<br />
find myself overwhelmed by my responsibilities,<br />
his responsibilities and<br />
the responsibility to save his life. I<br />
work to pay my bills, my mother’s bills,<br />
his bills, and the added financial burden<br />
of having a father facing deportation.<br />
I would have never thought that<br />
speaking to my father on the phone or<br />
paying for food would become such a<br />
financial burden.<br />
Since June 11, my mom, sister<br />
and I have gone without, so that we<br />
could ensure my father and brothers<br />
didn’t have to worry about food,<br />
shelter, etc. The financial burden is<br />
almost worse than the thought that<br />
my father, a father, brother, uncle<br />
and U.S. Army veteran, will be sent<br />
back to a war zone where he will<br />
face persecution. It’s ironic, really,<br />
to think that immigrants can voluntarily<br />
enlist to fight for this country,<br />
but cannot become citizens of this<br />
country for the mere fact that they<br />
are enlisting.<br />
As the child of immigrants, I<br />
have always had more responsibilities<br />
than other people my age; I came<br />
to terms with that long ago when I<br />
was calling DTE Energy about an<br />
issue with our bill at the ripe age of<br />
8. Never in my life, however, did I<br />
think I would be fighting tooth and<br />
nail to save my father’s life. I would<br />
take filling out papers and translating<br />
over this fight any day.<br />
Countless organizations have<br />
helped me in the fight, from CODE<br />
Legal Aid to the Chaldean Community<br />
Foundation, and I don’t know<br />
what I have done in my life to come<br />
across these amazing people, but I am<br />
thankful. At the end of the night,<br />
though, when I’m left with just my<br />
thoughts, I think of the odds. I think<br />
of the exuberant man that is sitting<br />
in Northeast Ohio Correctional Facility<br />
and how he has fought to become<br />
a better person. The man that<br />
was so proud to be an American, he<br />
enlisted in the armed forces even<br />
with the nightmares he still experienced<br />
from his time in the Republican<br />
Guard.<br />
I think of how I don’t want to fail<br />
him. He has so much faith in me and<br />
my abilities, but with each day that I<br />
don’t have good news to give him, I<br />
find myself panicking at the thought<br />
of letting him and my family down.<br />
It’s been on a constant loop and<br />
it’s a fact we can’t escape, these detainees<br />
have previously committed<br />
crimes and have received final orders<br />
of deportation. However, what is not<br />
so prominently stated is that these<br />
detainees have served their time and<br />
have made the necessary changes to<br />
once again become productive members<br />
of the community. They’re not<br />
running around committing crimes;<br />
it’s hard to commit crimes when you<br />
regularly check in with ICE. There<br />
is no value in this prolonged detainment<br />
and certainly not in deporting<br />
these men and women.<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 11
noteworthy<br />
Steve Acho, Author<br />
Steve Acho has made great<br />
strides as both a musician and<br />
now author. Acho wrote a technology<br />
driven book titled, “Why<br />
Technology Recruiting is Broken<br />
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Steve Acho Acho’s book is one of many toprated<br />
books on Amazon. Most<br />
recently, Acho has reached a<br />
major milestone in his music career as his music<br />
has been downloaded and streamed more than 10<br />
million times. Acho has performed across the U.S.<br />
and the world as an independent musician, including<br />
national TV and radio appearances in the U.S.<br />
and Japan. Acho has also performed with celebrities<br />
and has sung the national anthem for Detroit<br />
sports teams.<br />
University of Detroit Students Volunteer<br />
Roughly 950 of University of Detroit Jesuit High School and Academy’s young men provided much-needed<br />
services to nine agencies throughout the city of Detroit. From site beautification to providing meals for<br />
the less-fortunate. The school has this event every year where they split up the kids and tackle clean up at<br />
various Detroit locations. These boys were at Historic Fort Wayne in Detroit. It was the Academy (7th and<br />
8th grade) and Freshman. They cleaned bushes and trees along the river.<br />
Family Feud Time<br />
On March 26, <strong>2017</strong>, Theresa Sitto and her children,<br />
Jacinta, Brent, Olivia, and Spencer appeared on Family<br />
Feud. This began with an audition at Cobo in Detroit<br />
then a second audition in Atlanta, where they<br />
were chosen to appear. The episode filmed for more<br />
than an hour. “It was an overall amazing and fun family<br />
experience; the Family Feud production staff were<br />
wonderful and very professional and impressive. All<br />
details were handled with precision and the entire<br />
crew was welcoming and kind. Steve Harvey told<br />
stories and had everyone laughing. He even did the<br />
halhole during the segment, and although that part<br />
didn’t air, it was a lot of fun,” said Theresa.<br />
UHC Baby<br />
Shower<br />
On October 4, <strong>2017</strong>,<br />
UnitedHealthcare Community<br />
Plan hosted a<br />
Community Baby Shower<br />
and partnered with<br />
United Community Family Services/CALC, and St.<br />
John Providence Ascension Health System. This was<br />
their third annual successful event with more than<br />
100 expectant and new moms in attendance. This<br />
collaboration provided a unique opportunity to work<br />
jointly to educate new and expectant mothers with<br />
valuable health information exclusively presented in<br />
Arabic to promote healthy living and healthier communities.<br />
The event was once again a great success,<br />
with excellent turnout and lively participation.<br />
Building Bridges<br />
On Wednesday, October 4,<br />
members of the Chaldean community<br />
came together with<br />
members of the Jewish community<br />
for the Chaldean/Jewish<br />
Building Bridges event. This<br />
event was hosted at the Shenandoah<br />
Country Club, where<br />
event goers were given a tour of<br />
the Chaldean Cultural Museum.<br />
The Building Bridges event was<br />
sponsored by the Chaldean News<br />
and the Detroit Jewish News.<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 15
IRAQ today<br />
Iraqi Kurds postpone elections<br />
amid tensions with Baghdad<br />
Simultaneous legislative, presidential elections due for November 1<br />
postponed by 8 months amid tensions over disputed territory with Baghdad.<br />
ARBIL<br />
Parliament in Iraq’s autonomous<br />
Kurdish region decided Tuesday<br />
to hold legislative elections<br />
in eight months after they were delayed<br />
amid tensions with the central<br />
government in Baghdad over disputed<br />
territories.<br />
Regional legislative and presidential<br />
elections had both been due on<br />
November 1 but were delayed after<br />
Baghdad seized a swathe of territory<br />
from Kurdish forces following an independence<br />
vote.<br />
There was no immediate word on<br />
a new date for a presidential election<br />
“The Kurdistan parliament decided...<br />
to postpone the parliamentary<br />
elections in the autonomous region<br />
by eight months,” Islamic Union of<br />
Kurdistan parliamentarian Bahzad<br />
Zebari said.<br />
Farsat Sofi of the Kurdistan Democratic<br />
Party (KDP) of long-time<br />
Kurdish leader Massud Barzani said<br />
parliament would choose the date for<br />
legislative and presidential elections.<br />
The elections were originally set<br />
for just over a month after a September<br />
25 referendum in the Kurdish areas<br />
which resulted in a massive “yes”<br />
for independence.<br />
The referendum, set in motion<br />
by Barzani, was strongly opposed by<br />
Baghdad.<br />
Iraqi forces last week swept into<br />
the oil-rich Kirkuk province in the<br />
north, restoring it and Kurdish-held<br />
parts of Nineveh and Diyala provinces<br />
to central government control.<br />
The rapid Kurdish retreat triggered<br />
recriminations among Kurdish<br />
politicians and prompted the regional<br />
parliament to postpone both<br />
elections.<br />
“Parliament has decided to freeze<br />
the activities of the Kurdistan presidency,”<br />
Zebari said on Tuesday.<br />
This body includes Barzani,<br />
his vice-president Kosrat Rasul of<br />
KDP rival the Patriotic Union of<br />
Iraqi Kurdistan’s main opposition party called for Barzani to step down<br />
Kurdistan (PUK), and the head of<br />
the presidential cabinet, Fuad Hussein.<br />
Its freezing, and the fact that parliament<br />
did not extend its mandate<br />
again, represent a major blow to Barzani.<br />
On Sunday, Iraqi Kurdistan’s<br />
main opposition party called for Barzani<br />
to step down after the loss of<br />
Kurdish-controlled territory.<br />
Shoresh Haji of the Goran movement,<br />
which holds 24 out of 111 seats<br />
in the Iraqi Kurdish parliament, said<br />
both Barzani and Rasul should quit.<br />
“The Kurdistan region’s president<br />
and his deputy no longer have any legitimacy<br />
and should resign,” he said.<br />
Haji called for the creation of a<br />
“national salvation government” to<br />
prepare for dialogue with Baghdad<br />
and organize new elections.<br />
The mandate of Barzani, the<br />
first and only elected president of<br />
the autonomous Kurdish region,<br />
expired in 2013.<br />
It was extended for two years<br />
and then continued in the chaos<br />
that followed the Islamic State<br />
group’s sweeping offensive across<br />
Iraq in 2014.<br />
Under the autonomous region’s<br />
laws, it was Barzani who had set general<br />
elections for November 1.<br />
Tuesday’s vote now means that<br />
parliament will decide the new electoral<br />
calendar, several parliamentarians<br />
said.<br />
A month after scoring a major<br />
victory in the independence referendum,<br />
Barzani now finds himself<br />
increasingly isolated both at home<br />
and abroad.<br />
The United States, a key ally of<br />
both Baghdad and Kurdish forces in<br />
the battle against IS, opposed the<br />
non-binding referendum, as did nations<br />
including Iraq’s neighbors Iran<br />
and Turkey.<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 17
CHAI time<br />
CHALDEANS CONNECTING<br />
COMMUNITY EVENTS IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong><br />
Thursday, November 2<br />
Charity: The Grosse Point War Memorial<br />
is hosting their first annual Art<br />
and Antiques show on November 2<br />
from 6:00 to 11:00 pm. The show will<br />
run through November 5, with a preview<br />
party and strolling dinner crafted<br />
by Chef Frank Turner on the first day.<br />
Tickets for the first day include general<br />
admission Friday through Sunday,<br />
dinner, cocktails, appetizers, and desserts<br />
raffle drawing. Tickets are $190.<br />
For more information and to purchase<br />
tickets contact Joyce Russell at (313)<br />
332-4075.<br />
Thursday, November 2<br />
Music: Joins us at Cranbrook House<br />
for The Keys of Cranbrook: A Dueling<br />
Piano Concert from 7:00 to 8:00 pm.<br />
Pierre Fracalanza will take to the Cranbrook<br />
House 1929 Steinway Concert<br />
Grand Model D piano accompanied<br />
by a Steinway Spirio player piano to<br />
delight guests with a varying selection<br />
of songs. The piano concert will<br />
cover nearly a century’s worth of music,<br />
complemented with a visual representation.<br />
Tickets can be purchased<br />
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cranbrook.edu/events/<strong>2017</strong>-11/keyscranbrook-dueling-piano-concert.<br />
Friday, November 3<br />
Charity: Join more than 300 young<br />
professionals and philanthropic leaders<br />
from all around Detroit in the fight<br />
against cancer at the Skyline Soiree.<br />
The Skyline Soiree will be held at Waterview<br />
Loft at Port Detroit. Hosted by<br />
Lear and benefiting the American Cancer<br />
Society, the Skyline Soiree will offer<br />
food, beverages, entertainment and a<br />
silent auction to benefit the American<br />
Cancer Society. For more information<br />
about the Skyline Soiree or to purchase<br />
tickets, call 248-663-3401 or visit skylinesoireedetroit.com.<br />
Friday, November 10<br />
Musical: For the 36th year in a row, the<br />
holiday classic, A Christmas Carol will<br />
be captivating audiences with the story<br />
of Scrooge and the ghosts that haunt<br />
him. A Christmas Carol will be running<br />
from November 10 through December<br />
24 at the Meadow Brook Theatre on<br />
Oakland University’s campus in Rochester,<br />
MI. Tickets range from $28 to<br />
$35. To purchase tickets, contact the<br />
box office at (248) 377-3300 or go online<br />
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Wednesday, November 15<br />
Faith: Join us for Under God’s Wings<br />
on November 15 from 6:30 to 8:30<br />
pm. Under God’s Wings is a parent’s<br />
program presented by the St. Thomas<br />
Chaldean Church. Each month, parents<br />
gather to discuss a different topic.<br />
The purpose is to educate, inform and<br />
provide the resources needed to build<br />
stronger Catholic families. This month’s<br />
topic of discussion is drug awareness<br />
and prevention presented by Dr. Lindsay<br />
Najor. There will also be a personal<br />
testimony from a community member.<br />
Thursday, November 16<br />
Charity: In celebration of their 50th anniversary,<br />
the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation<br />
is hosting an Evening at the Movies<br />
at Emagine Theaters. The event will begin<br />
at 6:30 pm. The <strong>2017</strong> honoree will<br />
be Iris Yellen, for her many years of dedication<br />
to the Michigan chapter of the<br />
foundation. Ernesto Drelichman, M.D.,<br />
colon and rectal surgeon, will be the<br />
<strong>2017</strong> Rosenthal Award Winner. Sheldon<br />
Yellen, CEO of Belfor Holdings Inc., will<br />
serve as the event speaker. The event<br />
will feature a silent auction and strolling<br />
dinner. For more information, visit bit.ly/<br />
EveningattheMovies or contact Kiel Porter<br />
at kporter@crohnscolitisfoundation.<br />
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Friday, November 17<br />
Social: Presented by the Ford Motor<br />
Company, Hob Nobble Gobble will be<br />
hosted at Ford Field from 6:30 to 10:30<br />
pm. Guests can enjoy a black-tie evening<br />
featuring a Carnival Midway with<br />
rides and games, cuisine and live entertainment<br />
from end zone to end zone<br />
for all ages. Attendees will enjoy special<br />
performances from headlining acts, the<br />
famous Parade of Stars featuring dancing<br />
elves and the sounds of the All City<br />
Marching Band and Santa Claus. Hob<br />
Nobble Gobble helps to raise funds for<br />
The Parade Company which produces<br />
America’s Thanksgiving Parade. Tickets<br />
are on sale now. For more information<br />
and to reserve your table for <strong>2017</strong>, contact<br />
CarolAnn at cbarbb@theparade.<br />
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Saturday, November 18<br />
Charity: Join the Our Lady Star of the<br />
Sea Parish at 6:30 pm for an evening of<br />
beer and wine tasting, food sampling,<br />
and jazz. For five years, the parish has<br />
hosted this event, which offers attendees<br />
the opportunity to taste a variety of<br />
foods and desserts from local restaurants,<br />
clubs, caterers, and bakeries.<br />
Several select wines, both red and<br />
white, and a selection of beers will be<br />
available for tasting. Guests will be entertained<br />
by the Chris Codish Trio. A<br />
cash bar will be available for guests 21<br />
and over. Tickets are $35 in advance<br />
or $40 at the door. For online reservations,<br />
visit olsos.org. For more information,<br />
call 313-884-5554.<br />
Saturday, November 18<br />
Charity: Join us for the ninth annual<br />
Dancing with the Detroit Stars at the<br />
Townsend Hotel in Birmingham, hosted<br />
by South Oakland Shelter. Metro Detroiters<br />
will pair up with professional<br />
dancers from the Arthur Murray Dance<br />
Studio for a celebrity dance competition.<br />
This premier event is filled with<br />
dancing, music, a strolling dinner,<br />
cocktails, and a silent auction. The<br />
proceeds from the event benefit the<br />
homeless men, women, and children<br />
in our community who are served by<br />
South Oakland Shelter. Reserve your<br />
tickets or check out the online auction<br />
at my.southoaklandshelter.org/dancing<br />
or call Omari Taylor at 248-809-3773.<br />
Friday, November 24<br />
Fundraiser: Join us for the third annual<br />
helpiraq.org fundraiser. The fundraiser<br />
will be taking place on Black Friday<br />
at the Shenandoah Country Club in<br />
West Bloomfield. Every month for the<br />
past 3 years, MERCI has been sending<br />
an average of $30,000 to Iraq to help<br />
makeshift clinics. Over 150,000 Christians<br />
and many other minorities were<br />
displaced from their homes, so they did<br />
not have access to any healthcare or<br />
their monthly medication. With the help<br />
of volunteer healthcare professionals<br />
here and Iraq who have stepped up<br />
and try to fill the void, these makeshift<br />
clinics are successfully providing care<br />
to our displaced Christians and those<br />
in need.<br />
One of our main fundraisers that<br />
contributes to the clinics is the Helpiraq<br />
Black Friday event. This event typically<br />
raises 20% to 30% of the funds<br />
needed for the year. The last 2 years<br />
this event has sold out with over 700. A<br />
table of 10 is $1,000 or $125 per ticket.<br />
Sponsorship opportunities include<br />
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PLACES OF PRAYER<br />
CHALDEAN CHURCHES IN AND AROUND METRO DETROIT<br />
THE DIOCESE OF ST. THOMAS<br />
THE APOSTLE IN THE UNITED STATES<br />
St. Thomas Chaldean Catholic Diocese<br />
25603 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48033; (248) 351-0440<br />
Bishop: Francis Kalabat<br />
Retired Bishop: Ibrahim N. Ibrahim<br />
HOLY CROSS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
32500 Middlebelt Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48334; (248) 626-5055<br />
Rector: Msgr. Zouhair Toma Kejbou<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon in Chaldean; Saturdays, 4:30 p.m. in<br />
English; Sundays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, noon in English, 6<br />
p.m., in Arabic<br />
HOLY MARTYRS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
43700 Merrill, Sterling Heights, MI 48312; (586) 803-3114<br />
Rector: Fr. Manuel Boji<br />
Parochial Vicar: Fr. Matthew Zetouna<br />
Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Thursdays, 8 p.m. Seed of<br />
Faith in English;<br />
Saturdays, 7 p.m. Witness to Faith in Arabic<br />
Youth Groups: Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for High Schoolers<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 9 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />
English; Sundays: 9 a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, 10:30 a.m. in English,<br />
Morning Prayer at noon, High Mass at 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean; 8 p.m.<br />
in English<br />
MAR ADDAI CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
24010 Coolidge Highway, Oak Park, MI 48237; (248) 547-4648<br />
Pastor: Fr. Stephen Kallabat<br />
Retired Priest: Fr. Suleiman Denha<br />
Adoration: Last Friday of the month, 4 p.m. Adoration; 5 p.m. Stations of<br />
the Cross; 6 p.m. Mass; Wednesdays, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.<br />
Bible Study: Fridays, 8-10 p.m. in Arabic and Chaldean<br />
Youth Groups: Thursdays, 7:30-9 p.m. Jesus Christ University High<br />
School and College Mass Schedule: Weekdays, noon; Sundays, 10<br />
a.m. in Chaldean and Arabic, 12:30 p.m. High Mass in Chaldean<br />
MOTHER OF GOD CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
25585 Berg Road, Southfield, MI 48034; (248) 356-0565<br />
Administrator: Fr. Pierre Konja<br />
Bible Study: Mondays, 7-9 p.m. in English; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. for<br />
college students in English<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m.; Tuesdays, 8:45 p.m. in English;<br />
Saturdays, 4 p.m. in English; Sundays: 8:30 a.m. in Arabic, 10 a.m. in<br />
English, noon in Chaldean, 7 p.m. in English<br />
OUR LADY OF PERPETUAL HELP<br />
CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
11200 12 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48093; (586) 804-2114<br />
Pastor: Fr. Fadi Philip<br />
Bible Study: Thursday, 8 p.m. for ages 18-45; Friday, 8 p.m. in Arabic.<br />
Teens 4 Mary Youth Group: Saturdays, 10 a.m.-1 p.m.<br />
Confession: 1 hour before mass or by appointment.<br />
Adoration: Thursday, 5-7 p.m. Chapel open 24/7 for adoration.<br />
Mass Schedule: Monday-Wednesday, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Thursday,<br />
1 p.m. in English and 7 p.m. in Chaldean; Friday 7 p.m. in Chaldean;<br />
Sunday, 10 a.m. in Arabic and 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean.<br />
SACRED HEART CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
30590 Dequindre Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 393-5809<br />
Pastor: Fr. Sameem Belius<br />
Mass Schedule: Sundays, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 12:30 p.m. in Chaldean<br />
ST. GEORGE CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
45700 Dequindre Road, Shelby Township, MI 48317; (586) 254-7221<br />
Pastor: Fr. Wisam Matti<br />
Parochial Vicars: Fr. Anthony Kathawa<br />
Youth Groups: Disciples for Christ for teen boys, Tuesdays, 7 p.m.;<br />
Circle of Friends for teen girls; Thursdays, 6 p.m.; Bible Study for<br />
college students, Wednesdays 8 p.m.<br />
Bible Study: Wednesdays, 8 p.m. in English; Fridays, 8 p.m. in Arabic<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Wednesdays, 7<br />
p.m. Adoration; 8-10 p.m. Confession; Saturdays, 6:30 p.m. in English<br />
(school year); 6:30 p.m. in Chaldean (summer); Sunday: 8:30 a.m.<br />
in Chaldean, 10 a.m. in Arabic, 11:30 a.m. in English, 1:15 p.m. in<br />
Chaldean; 7:30 p.m. in English<br />
ST. JOSEPH CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
2442 E. Big Beaver Road, Troy, MI 48083; (248) 528-3676<br />
Administrator: Fr. Rudy Zoma<br />
Bible Study: Mondays, 7 p.m. in Arabic; Tuesdays, 7 p.m. in English;<br />
Thursdays, 7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ Youth Group for High<br />
Schoolers<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean except Wednesdays,<br />
10 a.m. in Arabic<br />
Saturdays, 6 p.m. in English and Chaldean; Sundays, 9 a.m. in Arabic,<br />
10:30 a.m. in English, noon in Chaldean, 2 p.m. in Chaldean and Arabic,<br />
7 p.m. in Chaldean<br />
Baptisms: 3 p.m. on Sundays.<br />
ST. PAUL CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
5150 E. Maple Avenue, Grand Blanc, MI 48439;<br />
(810) 820-8439<br />
Pastor: Fr. Ayad Hanna<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 6 p.m.; Sundays, 12:30 p.m.<br />
ST. THOMAS CHALDEAN CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
6900 Maple Road, West Bloomfield, MI 48322; (248) 788-2460<br />
Pastor: Fr. Bashar Sitto<br />
Parochial Vicars: Fr. Jirgus Abrahim, Fr. Andrew Seba<br />
Retired Priest: Fr. Emanuel Rayes<br />
Bible Study: Wednesdays, 6:30 p.m. in Arabic<br />
Youth Groups: Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m. Girls Challenge Club for Middle<br />
Schoolers; Wednesdays, 7 p.m. Chaldeans Loving Christ for High<br />
Schoolers; Thursdays, 6:30 p.m. Boys Conquest Club for Middle<br />
Schoolers<br />
Other: First Thursday and Friday of each month, 10 a.m. Holy Hour;<br />
11 a.m. Mass in Chaldean; Wednesdays from midnight to Thursdays<br />
midnight, adoration in the Baptismal Room; Saturdays 3 p.m. Night<br />
Vespers (Ramsha) in Chaldean<br />
Mass Schedule: Weekdays, 10 a.m. in Chaldean; Saturdays, 5 p.m. in<br />
English;<br />
Sundays, 9 a.m. in English, 10:30 a.m. in English, 12:30 p.m. in<br />
Chaldean, 2 p.m. in Arabic; 6 p.m.<br />
Grotto is open for Adoration 24/7 for prayer and reflection<br />
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EASTERN CATHOLIC RE-EVANGELIZATION CENTER (ECRC)<br />
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Director: Patrice Abona<br />
Daily Mass: Monday-Friday 8 a.m.<br />
Thursdays: 5:30 Adoration and 6:30 Mass<br />
First Friday of the month: 6:30 p.m. Adoration, Confession and Mass<br />
Bible Study in Arabic: Wednesdays 7 p.m.<br />
Bible Study in English: Tuesdays 7 p.m.<br />
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Campgrounds Manager: Sami Herfy<br />
ST. MARY HOLY APOSTOLIC CATHOLIC<br />
ASSYRIAN CHURCH OF THE EAST<br />
4320 E. 14 Mile Road, Warren, MI 48092; (586) 825-0290<br />
Rector: Fr. Benjamin Benjamin<br />
Mass Schedule: Sundays, 9 a.m. in Assyrian; noon in Assyrian and<br />
English<br />
ST. TOMA SYRIAC CATHOLIC CHURCH<br />
25600 Drake Road, Farmington Hills, MI 48335; (248) 478-0835<br />
Pastor: Fr. Toma Behnama<br />
Fr. Safaa Habash<br />
Mass Schedule: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday 6 p.m.; Sunday 12 p.m.<br />
All in Syriac, Arabic and English<br />
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Giving<br />
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We are in the month where<br />
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Below is a gratitude prayer.<br />
For Prayer of Gratitude<br />
for God’s Blessings<br />
O Lord and Vivifier,<br />
Your grace has achieved for us<br />
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and promised.<br />
Grant us access to the<br />
place of Your peace.<br />
For You are our Vivifier,<br />
You are our Consoler,<br />
You are our life Remedy,<br />
You are our Standard of Victory.<br />
Blessed are we, O Lord,<br />
because we have known You!<br />
Blessed are we,<br />
because we have believed in You!<br />
Blessed are we,<br />
because we bear Your wounds<br />
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countenances!<br />
Blessed are we,<br />
because You are our great hope!<br />
Blessed are we,<br />
because You are our God forever!<br />
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In Loving Memory Of<br />
FRANCIS ADIL DADO<br />
(August 1, 1985 – September 16, <strong>2017</strong>)<br />
It was the morning of September<br />
16th <strong>2017</strong> that our Lord took our<br />
beloved son, brother, uncle and<br />
friend Francis Dado by the hand and<br />
welcomed him through the gates<br />
of heaven and into the company of<br />
Saints. A place where tears, pain<br />
and suffering cease to exist and only<br />
great joy, abundant life and peaceful<br />
rest remains.<br />
Francis aka (Frank the Tank) will<br />
be missed and spoke of by many for<br />
years to come. We will never know<br />
why someone so bright and happy<br />
is no longer here with us, but death<br />
should not be a reason to be sad but<br />
a celebration of a wonderful life so<br />
well lived.<br />
Frank was always the center of attention<br />
no matter where or what the<br />
occasion, the life of every gathering,<br />
wedding, outing, or even just at work<br />
and home. From his dancing, silly<br />
jokes, strong bear hugs he owned a<br />
piece of everyone's heart in the family.<br />
Lasting memories about the<br />
times enjoyed with Frank will remain<br />
in us forever. Activities such as<br />
fishing, camping and sports are just<br />
a few to name. In general Frank was a<br />
tremendous athlete. He spent much<br />
time at the gym with his brother Ed<br />
and his cousins Chris and Justin. A<br />
true gentlemen that would give the<br />
very shirt off his back for anyone he<br />
loved. He had such admiration for<br />
the women and children in his family,<br />
but above all Frank was a genuine<br />
momma’s boy who loved her cooking,<br />
cleaning and even took a good<br />
whopping from time to time.<br />
I want you all to understand<br />
what kind of man Frank was. In<br />
order to do that I have to take you<br />
back some years ago. Frank was the<br />
victim of a senseless robbery late<br />
one night on his way home and it<br />
left him shot multiple times. While<br />
in the hospital he called his brother<br />
Salah, and scared outta his wits,<br />
his brother rushed to the hospital<br />
to find Frank sitting upright wide<br />
awake in bed. Tears in his eyes and<br />
an IV hanging from him, Frank said<br />
with strong faith in his tone, “Don’t<br />
cry. Only one man can take my life<br />
in this world and that is the Lord<br />
and when he comes I have no choice<br />
but to leave you all, brother.”<br />
Now, that time has come and we<br />
will be reunited with you once again<br />
someday.<br />
Rest in Peace dear Francis Dado.<br />
Love,<br />
Dad, Mom, Ban, Salah,<br />
Danny, and Eddi<br />
And all the families and<br />
friends he is survived by!
Dealing with drugs<br />
Community members speak out about overdoses<br />
BY WEAM NAMOU<br />
The small tight-knit Chaldean<br />
community prides itself on<br />
having strong family values<br />
and a solid Christian faith. So, when<br />
negative outside influences of modern-day<br />
society such as drugs sneaks<br />
its way into their homes, they are<br />
baffled on what to do. Most prefer<br />
hiding the issue to avoid shame and<br />
embarrassment. They don’t want to<br />
be judged, talked about, and looked<br />
down upon. Some end up facing<br />
their worst nightmare – the loss of a<br />
loved one.<br />
Nearly two years after our 2015<br />
cover story on heroin addiction, drug<br />
overdoses continue to plague the<br />
community and Peter’s Angels is still<br />
on a mission to fight this epidemic.<br />
After struggling for about ten years<br />
with addiction, Peter Alraihani lost<br />
his life at 27-years-old to an overdose<br />
on August 11, 2014. His aunt Iman<br />
Numan will never forget the day she<br />
received a call from her brother telling<br />
her of the horrific news.<br />
“It was raining very hard,” she<br />
said. “I felt the angels crying for him.”<br />
On the day of his funeral, Numan<br />
approached Peter’s older sister,<br />
Angie Toma, to find a way to help<br />
others in similar situations. This had<br />
already crossed Toma’s mind so she<br />
thought it was a great idea. Together,<br />
they founded Peter’s Angels, a 501<br />
(C3) nonprofit organization.<br />
“I didn’t want my brother’s death<br />
to go in vain,” said Toma. “He always<br />
wanted something in our community<br />
that addresses this problem. He<br />
said, ‘Why do I have to always go to<br />
American church and other centers<br />
for that?’”<br />
Ten years his senior, Toma said<br />
she practically raised her brother<br />
Peter, who was the youngest of three<br />
children. She learned about his addiction<br />
about two years into it. It<br />
was sad and painful to watch him go<br />
through the ups and downs because,<br />
she said, “He’s not that type of person.<br />
He was such a good boy growing<br />
up.”<br />
Peter was also smart, having<br />
received the highest MEAP Test<br />
score in the city of Southfield. His<br />
siblings are both well-educated; his<br />
brother has a master’s in computer<br />
science and his sister graduated from<br />
the University of Michigan – Dearborn<br />
with a degree in administration<br />
healthcare.<br />
“My brother wasn’t a street kid or<br />
a punk,” Toma said. “He was a good<br />
person and my parents are great. This<br />
isn’t about social class or whether<br />
you’re a good person or not. It could<br />
happen to anyone.”<br />
Similar words were echoed by<br />
George Abro who lost his nephew<br />
Brandon Kallabat, 26, to a drug overdose<br />
in September of <strong>2017</strong>. Abro<br />
said that no one is immune from this<br />
issue, that the richest and smartest<br />
people could fall prey to it.<br />
“My nephew was a bright kid with<br />
good grades who came out of school<br />
with honors,” he said. “There’s nothing<br />
his parents wouldn’t have done<br />
for him.”<br />
The educational and social backgrounds<br />
of those affected by the drug<br />
epidemic has parents even more baffled.<br />
If providing love, support and<br />
financial security for their children<br />
can’t guarantee they will stay off of<br />
this deadly path, what will?<br />
Some have suggested that parents<br />
use extreme old-fashioned measures<br />
such as locking the addict in a room,<br />
even beating them if necessary, to<br />
get them to quit. Abro said, “Being<br />
locked up or beat up will only make<br />
individuals worse. They will come<br />
out of it angry.”<br />
He reminds people that laws<br />
don’t allow parents to control their<br />
children beyond 18 years of age.<br />
“My nephew was a grown adult<br />
making his own choices,” he said.<br />
“People are quick to blame the parents,<br />
but how do you know what the<br />
parents went through?”<br />
One mother whose son is currently<br />
struggling with drug addiction said<br />
that she refuses leaving her home<br />
for fear that her son would overdose<br />
while she’s out. She devotes all her<br />
time watching over him. Toma said<br />
that was the situation for her mother<br />
too.<br />
“My mother would not go to<br />
work, would stay home and just<br />
wait,” she said. “There was constant<br />
fear – every day not knowing if that’s<br />
the day that would be his last.”<br />
Abro believes that a suitable<br />
long-term rehab, proper counseling,<br />
and the right amount of cooperation<br />
from the individual could help an addict<br />
recover.<br />
“It’s a myth to think that if you’ve<br />
gone too far, you can’t clean up,”<br />
he said. “But it’ll have to be a longterm<br />
process. Short-term fix doesn’t<br />
work.”<br />
“No one is ever straight,” said<br />
Toma. Her brother, similarly to<br />
Abro’s nephew, would go clean for<br />
years and then fall back again.<br />
Neither families know exactly<br />
how their loved ones got into drugs,<br />
whether it was through friends or by<br />
prescribed drugs, but they believe<br />
that the best defense to prevention<br />
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Arming the community with resources<br />
BY WEAM NAMOU<br />
and recovery is education and awareness<br />
about medicine and addiction.<br />
Father Brian addressed this issue<br />
during a Sunday mass at St. Joseph<br />
Chaldean Church. He said that millions<br />
of Americans suffer from pain<br />
every day, that people are in so much<br />
pain, they feel their only option is a<br />
pill. “They try to hide the pain rather<br />
than reach out,” he said.<br />
“People shouldn’t be afraid or<br />
ashamed to come forward,” said<br />
Toma. “It’s the parents’ job to know<br />
about this and catch it early. It’s not<br />
easy when you catch them late.”<br />
“Families sheltering their children<br />
or loved ones are not doing<br />
them any service,” said Abro. “These<br />
individuals are lost and if they don’t<br />
find something greater than themselves<br />
to occupy them, they’ll continue<br />
what they’re doing.”<br />
Abro said that this especially hits<br />
children who want to fit in. Drug use<br />
is glamorized through social media<br />
and rap songs. When something is<br />
taboo, it becomes exciting and kids<br />
want to do it.<br />
“That was the case when alcohol<br />
was prohibited,” he said.<br />
He feels his job is not finished.<br />
He and his brother will continue to<br />
work on finding steps to build education<br />
and awareness because the last<br />
thing he wants is for this issue to just<br />
go away. “That’s when we’ve failed,”<br />
he said.<br />
While he does recognize and criticize<br />
the Chaldeans who are poisoning<br />
their own community by selling<br />
drugs, much of his concern is about<br />
doctors who easily prescribe drugs to<br />
their patients.<br />
“It’s a quick fix and the doctors<br />
are getting compensated for it,” he<br />
said. “All these pills are just masking<br />
the pain.”<br />
Aside from education and awareness,<br />
Peter’s aunt advised people to<br />
turn to God to strengthen their faith.<br />
That was Father Brian’s message for<br />
his congregation. He first noted that<br />
there are no pills for a broken heart,<br />
for bullying at school, or for being<br />
abused by a spouse. Pain is something<br />
we all endure, that it hits everyone<br />
and doesn’t discriminate. Sometimes<br />
it leads to despair, to giving up.<br />
He then encouraged people to<br />
turn to Jesus rather than a pill for<br />
help, saying, “When you turn to Jesus<br />
for help, He’ll say ‘thank you.’ He<br />
won’t turn you away, but you have to<br />
invite Him. He might use a doctor,<br />
priest, or counselor to help you.”<br />
Within one month, three people from the Chaldean<br />
American community lost their lives to<br />
drug overdose. In response, Peter’s Angels<br />
hosted a Resource Fair on Sunday, September 24 at St.<br />
Joseph Chaldean Catholic Church in Troy. Named after<br />
Peter Alraihani, who lost his life at 27-years-old to an<br />
overdose in 2014, Peter’s Angels was formed by his aunt<br />
Iman Numan and sister Angie Toma. They wanted to<br />
raise awareness of the drug epidemic within the Chaldean<br />
community and to provide prevention through<br />
education and awareness.<br />
“This isn’t isolated to the Chaldean community, it’s<br />
a national crisis,” said Michael Patton, Chief of Police<br />
of the West Bloomfield Police Department. “More than<br />
50,000 Americans died from drug overdoses in 2015, the<br />
highest number ever, and they haven’t calculated the<br />
numbers for 2016.”<br />
According to 2015 data from the Michigan Department<br />
of Health and Human Services, there were 1,275<br />
deaths from an overdose of opioids, including heroin, in<br />
Michigan alone. That number exceeded the 840 deaths<br />
from traffic crashes and the 1,164 from gun deaths.<br />
“We have a culture that depends on prescription<br />
drugs for pain management,” said Patton. “If not used<br />
correctly or if used for too long, powerful legal drugs prescribed<br />
by a doctor can create an addiction.”<br />
Once the patient no longer has the prescribed medication,<br />
they move on to street drugs such as heroin, meth,<br />
crack, cocaine, and synthetic molly. Dealers meanwhile<br />
are diluting heroin with fentanyl, which is stronger and<br />
cheaper than heroin.<br />
“A lot of drugs out there are being abused, including<br />
marijuana,” said Patton. “There’s no regulations or quality<br />
control so you don’t know what’s going into your body.”<br />
Some police departments across the country, including<br />
West Bloomfield, carry NARCAN, a nasal spray<br />
that’s highly successful in reversing the overdose. They<br />
use it if they arrive to the scene before the paramedics.<br />
Critics have said that this drug is enabling, but Patton<br />
says, “Look, we’re in the life saving business.”<br />
NARCAN can be prescribed to and administered by<br />
a caregiver of someone who is addicted.<br />
“There has to be a balancing act between caring for<br />
pain and not getting addicted,” said Patton.<br />
The best way to address this epidemic is through<br />
education and prevention. Yet since this issue is so entrenched<br />
in the notion of taboo, many Chaldean individuals<br />
and families try to hide the drug addiction and<br />
deal with it themselves. People fear that if others find<br />
out, they will talk about and look down upon them.<br />
“Unfortunately, this stops people from getting the<br />
proper and necessary help that they need and take the<br />
right steps,” said Janice Kizy from Hope in Counseling,<br />
adding, “You can’t force anyone to get help. A good way<br />
to get help is to get help yourself to learn about the resources<br />
and options out there.”<br />
Wendy Love of Families Against Narcotics (FAN)<br />
has observed that the Italian and Chaldean culture have<br />
a lot of pride and it is hard to break that pride when it<br />
comes to this subject.<br />
“It’s really a medical issue,” said Love. “We get people<br />
of every background sitting together and figuring out<br />
how to work on this together.”<br />
FAN was born out of a town hall meeting held in<br />
2007 as a result of two teen heroin overdoses just weeks<br />
apart in the small, middle-class suburban community of<br />
Fraser, Michigan. One of their programs is Hope Not<br />
Handcuffs where an individual with any drug addiction<br />
can come to any of the designated agencies, such as a<br />
police station, and ask for help. An “angel” will then be<br />
called to them.<br />
“The “angel” will do everything in their power to get<br />
them into rehab,” she said. “Once we get them in there,<br />
we’ll do everything we can to get them to stay in recovery.”<br />
Feinberg Addiction Services also participated at the<br />
Source Fair. They have professionals who are not only<br />
very knowledgeable and skilled in the field of addiction,<br />
but they have walked the path themselves. Through their<br />
own recovery, they are able to support their clients and<br />
their families by providing them with hope and the tools<br />
to help them heal. For instance, Jeff Rosenberg is a recovering<br />
addict who is happy to use his skill to help others.<br />
“This is where my passion and love is,” Rosenberg<br />
said. “To have a job trying to help people just like me.”<br />
The government also recently got involved in this<br />
issue. On October 12, Wayne County and Oakland<br />
County announced that they’re suing about a dozen drug<br />
manufacturers and distributors for deceptive marketing<br />
and sales of opioids (in 2011 alone, pharmaceutical<br />
companies generated $11 billion just from opioid sales).<br />
They’re welcoming Macomb County to join, as well as<br />
asking patients and doctors to come forward.<br />
“My brother would be so proud of all the people that<br />
came out to the Source Fair,” said Angie Toma.<br />
If you are in need of help or are a family member or<br />
friend is seeking help, call Peter’s Angels 24-Hour Hotline<br />
at (833) ANGEL-4U [ (833) 264-3548 ] - where<br />
someone will always answer to help you or your loved<br />
one find help.<br />
If you suspect a loved one is in trouble, seek help immediately.<br />
Look for the following warning signs and possible<br />
symptoms of opiate abuse (information made available<br />
by FAN).<br />
Warning Signs of Abuse<br />
• Missing money and valuables<br />
• Missing spoons (used to heat heroin)<br />
• Arrests for theft<br />
• Finding needles or orange caps, burnt bottle caps,<br />
small plastic bags or foil<br />
• Constantly asking for money<br />
Possible Symptoms of Opiate Abuse<br />
• Behavior changes: loss of interest in activities they<br />
once enjoyed including sports, school, friends, or family<br />
• Physical changes: no longer cares about appearance<br />
• Constricted pupils<br />
Drowsy or nodding out even in mid-sentence<br />
• Disorientation<br />
• Irresponsibility at work or school<br />
• Lying, manipulating and stealing<br />
• Wearing long shirts and pants, even during warm weather<br />
• Increased sleeping<br />
• Slurred speech<br />
• Needle track marks on arms or legs<br />
• Weight loss and/or loss of appetite<br />
• Constant runny nose<br />
• Dark, hollow or sunken eyes<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 25
The business of politics<br />
Chaldean Chamber luncheon focused on current political climate in the United States<br />
BY ASHOURINA SLEWO<br />
It’s the annual business luncheon<br />
but the focus this year was on the<br />
business of politics. On Friday,<br />
October 20, the Chaldean American<br />
Chamber of Commerce hosted their<br />
12th annual business luncheon at<br />
Sound Board in MotorCity Casino<br />
Hotel. Moderated by Fox 2 News legal<br />
analyst, Charlie Langton, guests<br />
were able to enjoy their lunch as they<br />
listened to congressional representatives<br />
discuss pertinent topics and answer<br />
relevant questions.<br />
Congressional representatives on<br />
the panel included U.S. Representative,<br />
Michael Bishop, former Senator<br />
Sander Levin, and U.S. Representative,<br />
John Moolenaar. The first topic<br />
of discussion was the community<br />
members that are currently detained<br />
and at-risk of being deported.<br />
Former Senator Levin, who has<br />
been working alongside the Chaldean<br />
Community Foundation in the<br />
fight to release the detained community<br />
members at-risk of deportation,<br />
expressed his support of the community<br />
as he has worked in and for the<br />
community for many years.<br />
“Facing persecution, a huge number<br />
of people from all around the<br />
world came to this country for a better<br />
opportunity,” said Levin. “There<br />
are some in this country who are<br />
turning their backs on that, though<br />
and we need to stand together to<br />
make sure that never fails.”<br />
In addition to discussing those<br />
at-risk of deportation and immigration,<br />
Langton prompted a discussion<br />
on the topic of healthcare and<br />
taxes. When asked about President<br />
Trump’s plans for healthcare reform<br />
and his progress thus far, Moolenaar<br />
stated that “It remains to be seen<br />
what happens, it is still very early.<br />
Some parts of Obamacare are popular<br />
with younger people, up to age<br />
26, but most of us would like to see<br />
more patient centered approach that<br />
drives down costs in the healthcare<br />
system because Obamacare didn’t do<br />
anything to drive down costs.”<br />
While Moolenaar believed more<br />
time to be the answer, Representative<br />
Bishop believed the discussion<br />
of healthcare needs to include more<br />
than just the lawmakers. “I think<br />
insurance companies have, in many<br />
cases, gotten a pass on a lot of these<br />
discussions and I think they need<br />
to be a part of the discussion,” said<br />
Bishop. “The problem that we have<br />
in this country is the cost. It’s not<br />
who’s going to pay for it, we all know<br />
that it’s easier to look to the government<br />
or the American families and<br />
say ‘you pay for it’. We control the<br />
costs and a part of that discussion<br />
has to come from the medical community.”<br />
Following Langton’s questions,<br />
event goers were given the opportunity<br />
to ask their own questions.<br />
While some people asked questions<br />
that served as follow-ups to the<br />
answers and comments of the congressional<br />
members, what seemed to<br />
dominate the conversation was the<br />
issue of bipartisanship and divisiveness<br />
in the current political climate,<br />
some even going as far as asking why<br />
the Democrats hate the president<br />
and persist in “tearing him down.”<br />
The variety of congressional representatives<br />
allowed for a better understanding<br />
of both sides in today’s<br />
politics.<br />
“It was great having a variety of<br />
congressional members present at<br />
the event discussing how to bring<br />
civility back into government,” said<br />
Martin Manna, Chaldean American<br />
Chamber of Commerce president.<br />
“I am thankful for the friendships<br />
we have forged with these specific<br />
congressional members as they have<br />
helped us with issues important to<br />
the community, specifically those atrisk<br />
of deportation.”<br />
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ECRC evolves its ministry to meet the needs of the community<br />
BY VANESSA DENHA GARMO<br />
As they approach the 16-year<br />
anniversary of their inception,<br />
the Eastern Catholic<br />
Re-Evangelization Center (ECRC)<br />
is launching a new marriage retreat.<br />
“It has been in the works for<br />
years,” said Patrice Abona, executive<br />
director. “We evaluated existing<br />
retreats and a team of people led by<br />
Pelar and Laura Esshaki who wrote<br />
this retreat from scratch.”<br />
The retreat is designed for couples<br />
at all stages of their marriage<br />
and is being held November<br />
17 – 19 at St. Paul of the Cross<br />
Passionist Retreat and Conference<br />
Center.<br />
It’s just one of the newest<br />
ECRC programs to date.<br />
“This retreat is for all couples<br />
and is not an indicator of a troublesome<br />
marriage,” said Abona.<br />
“In fact, it’s the opposite. A<br />
couple that dedicates time and<br />
effort into their relationship will<br />
see positive results.”<br />
“We’ve purposely focused<br />
the content of this retreat<br />
on areas that effect all marriages,”<br />
said Pelar Esshaki. “We will<br />
cover topics like conflict resolution,<br />
intimacy, common issues and communication.<br />
We’ll look at these not<br />
only as practical topics to apply to<br />
your marriage, but also look at these<br />
through the lens of our Catholic<br />
faith for hopefully a refreshing – and<br />
time-tested perspective. These are<br />
areas that all married couples know<br />
are important, but may not have the<br />
knowledge, discipline or time to incorporate<br />
into their daily lives.”<br />
ECRC is encouraging couples to<br />
get away and spend time together.<br />
“The retreat will give couples a lot<br />
of time for one-on-one communication<br />
and fellowship as well as time<br />
for prayer to focus on the, sometimes<br />
neglected, third person in their marriage:<br />
God,” said Abona. “We get<br />
caught up with our work, kids and<br />
sometimes couples don’t have time<br />
to spend alone. It is a weekend away<br />
and it’s about marriage enrichment<br />
and about our faith.”<br />
While the ECRC team wants to<br />
bring couples closer to God, they<br />
have also placed a major focus on<br />
giving couples that attend this retreat<br />
time to be together as husband<br />
and wife. “Just some good old-fashioned<br />
couple time, with no distractions<br />
of everyday life, a time for them<br />
to focus on their relationship,” said<br />
Esshaki. “Sometimes Laura and I<br />
find that our marriage doesn’t need<br />
another book or technique. While<br />
those things have helped us along<br />
the way, sometimes all we need to<br />
get back on track is a ‘date night’,<br />
so we’ve developed this retreat with<br />
that in mind and have been sure to<br />
incorporate that personal couple<br />
time as a major element to this retreat.”<br />
Pelar and his wife long prayed<br />
about how the Lord best wants them<br />
to serve the church, and they both<br />
felt led to a marriage ministry. “Laura<br />
and I have participated in many<br />
‘Marriage Enrichment’ programs and<br />
retreats over the years with mixed results<br />
in terms of their impact on our<br />
marriage,” said Esshaki. “When we<br />
couldn’t find something that was a total<br />
positive experience for us, we decided<br />
we would take a shot at coming<br />
up with our own, starting with writing<br />
this retreat. We took the best of all<br />
the retreats and programs we’ve been<br />
a part of and put our own touch in a<br />
few areas.”<br />
The hope for the retreat is that<br />
couples will gain a better understanding<br />
for God’s plan in their marriage.<br />
“Too many couples, including<br />
Laura and I, get married without<br />
knowing the truth about Gods blueprint<br />
for marriage and the blessings<br />
that come along with this amazing<br />
sacrament,” said Esshaki. “If this retreat<br />
helps to introduce these themes<br />
or help couples gain a better understanding<br />
of this, their marriage bond<br />
will strengthen. Laura and I believe<br />
there is no more impactful input into<br />
a person’s happiness than the quality<br />
of their relationships and<br />
for married people there is<br />
no more prominent relationship<br />
than with their spouse.<br />
So, in that way we hope this<br />
retreat will positively impact<br />
the quality of life for these<br />
married couples in a tremendous<br />
way. Also, we know that<br />
the church goes as the family<br />
goes, and that in today’s culture<br />
there is a full-blown war<br />
on the family. In that sense<br />
we hope this retreat helps<br />
fight against that trend and<br />
strengthens our Chaldean<br />
Church and Community.”<br />
ECRC has evolved over the years<br />
having gone from parish-based activities<br />
to a ministry that serves the entire<br />
Chaldean Diocese. “As the needs<br />
changed in the diocese, so have our<br />
services,” said Abona. “Thank God we<br />
have so many new priests and seminarians<br />
and so the parishes are vibrant<br />
with activity. ECRC strives to fill the<br />
needs within the entire diocese.”<br />
ECRC has started formation programs<br />
for Catechists and will continue<br />
to offer such spiritual and Catechists<br />
formation classes as well as retreats<br />
for teens and adults. “Our formation<br />
classes for Catechism is a six-session<br />
certification program commissioned<br />
by the Diocese,” said Abona.<br />
If someone cannot get away for<br />
an over-night or weekend retreat,<br />
ECRC offers day retreats such as<br />
their annual Advent Retreat, which<br />
is on December 9 this year and features<br />
Sr. Ann Shields and a Lent retreat<br />
leading up to Easter Sunday.<br />
“There is also a growing need for<br />
conferences” said Abona. “We have<br />
our signature conference Awake My<br />
Soul, which was held this past summer<br />
and we were also able to host our<br />
annual Gather and Give Fundraiser,<br />
which featured a video on the fruits<br />
of ECRC.”<br />
ECRC launched the media division<br />
of the ministry a few years ago<br />
and has since produced hundreds of<br />
episodes on faith-based programs.<br />
All of them can be seen on the You-<br />
Tube Channel Mar Toma Productions.<br />
They also share them on their<br />
social media platforms under ECRC<br />
and Mar Toma.<br />
New this year is Fikra Nagma<br />
hosted by Karam Bahnam, which is<br />
an Arabic program held on the first<br />
Wednesday of every month at ECRC.<br />
It is based on a meditative thought<br />
and musical melody. It is also a Mar<br />
Toma Productions Show, which airs<br />
on Catholic Channels around the<br />
globe and on YouTube.<br />
Tom Naemi who hosts the Show<br />
“Freedom Behind Bars” also facilitates<br />
healing service on the second<br />
Friday of each moth at ECRC. He<br />
sometimes is accompanied with a<br />
priest who celebrates mass and offers<br />
confession.<br />
One of ECRC’s newer programs<br />
which is widely attended is “Ignite<br />
the Spirit,” which is a praise and<br />
worship program held at a different<br />
church each month. Mother of God<br />
is hosting “Ignite the Spirit” on November<br />
24 and St. Thomas will host<br />
the group on December 29.<br />
There is Tuesday bible study with<br />
Bishop Francis and Jeff Kassab as<br />
well as theology classes with Hubert<br />
Saunders.<br />
“ECRC is located in Bloomfield,<br />
but it is not about the building,” said<br />
Abona. “ECRC is about the programs,<br />
the ministry and the people we serve.<br />
We are an evangelization ministry designed<br />
to serve the entire diocese.”<br />
You can find out about all the<br />
ECRC programs at www.ecrc.us or<br />
follow them on Facebook and Instagram.<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 29
Learning and love through B.E.A.M.<br />
BY LISA CIPRIANO<br />
Gabrail Youhana came to the<br />
U.S. in 2008 like many others<br />
to escape the religious<br />
persecution of Christians in his native<br />
country Iraq. He had more than<br />
the usual challenges of learning the<br />
language and culture of his new<br />
home. Youhana has the additional<br />
struggle of being completely blind.<br />
That might seem like an overwhelming<br />
number of obstacles to<br />
overcome, if it were not for a special<br />
program offered by the Chaldean<br />
Community Foundation. Thanks to<br />
the B.E.A.M. project, Youhana found<br />
learning and the love of his life.<br />
B.E.A.M. stands for braille, ESL<br />
(English as a second language), acculturation,<br />
and mobility. They are four<br />
very important focuses to help bring<br />
blind and legally blind immigrants<br />
and refugees out of the darkness of a<br />
new, unfamiliar country into the light<br />
of a more independent life.<br />
It’s collaboration among the<br />
Chaldean Community Foundation,<br />
Bureau of Services for Blind Persons,<br />
Macomb Literacy Partners and St.<br />
Joseph Chaldean Catholic Church.<br />
B.E.A.M. participants learn to<br />
speak English, read through braille<br />
and learn to be more independent<br />
through classes once a week.<br />
The project is part of the CCF’s<br />
Breaking Barriers Program and exists<br />
because of the hard work and dedication<br />
of Susan Kattula, behavioral<br />
health manager for the Chaldean<br />
Community Foundation.<br />
The project came to life in 2014<br />
when Sue Kattula set out to help 16<br />
blind refugees. “I went on home visits<br />
and assessed the needs of every<br />
single one of them. I found that they<br />
all wanted the same things. They<br />
needed to learn English. They needed<br />
to learn Braille because many of<br />
them lived in apartment complexes<br />
and they got confused using the elevators.<br />
They needed to be more<br />
mobile and use a white cane so as not<br />
to always need to rely on somebody<br />
sighted to get around,” explained<br />
Kattula.<br />
Youhana had similar needs when<br />
he enrolled in the program shortly<br />
after arriving in the U.S. Aside from<br />
not being able to see his new surroundings,<br />
he couldn’t understand<br />
anything that what was being said on<br />
the TV news and radio. “After that, I<br />
said to myself, that I have to learn it.<br />
I have to learn everything,” said Youhana.<br />
“I also can’t see the words and<br />
the spelling of the words. So it makes<br />
it even harder,” Youhana added.<br />
Youhana went looking for a<br />
school to accommodate his special<br />
needs with no luck, until someone<br />
told him about the B.E.A.M. project.<br />
“So, I went there to learn the language,<br />
the technology on the laptop<br />
and iPhone apps that talk to me and<br />
help me, the braille and the things<br />
to help with mobility like the white<br />
cane that I never knew about,” he<br />
explained.<br />
Recently, Kattula was able to secure<br />
a $25,000 scholarship grant to<br />
get the vital technology that comes<br />
with iPhone and iPad into the hands<br />
of 15 of her students. They benefit<br />
enormously from the helpful applications<br />
that are available to assist the<br />
blind with everyday life things that<br />
the sighted often take for granted.<br />
“There are apps that can read money.<br />
They can see if it’s a five-dollar bill or<br />
a 20-dollar bill. There is even an app<br />
that can tell them what color pants<br />
they are wearing,” said Kattula.<br />
Aside from the unique technology<br />
services that the B.E.A.M. project<br />
has developed, Kattula is able to<br />
provide other services by creating<br />
partnerships with other state and local<br />
social service agencies such as the<br />
Bureau of Services for Blind Persons<br />
and Macomb Literacy Partners. “MLP<br />
provides two tutors weekly for three<br />
hours each to teach one-on-one English<br />
as a second language course as<br />
well as group courses,” said Kattula.<br />
In fact, many of the lessons are<br />
interdependent. “For instance, a student<br />
must be able to learn English in<br />
order to learn Braille,” Kattula explained.<br />
Blind students also are not<br />
able to take a written literacy test to<br />
assess what levels they are at. “That’s<br />
where we needed Macomb Literacy<br />
Partners to come in and work with<br />
the student’s and teach ESL in a different<br />
way so that they could build<br />
up their language skills and participate<br />
in a publicly funded ESL program,”<br />
Kattula concluded.<br />
Volunteers, mostly from local<br />
churches, are also essential to keep<br />
the program running successfully.<br />
“We have a few volunteers that come<br />
in on a regular basis. They are assigned<br />
certain students to work with;<br />
they help them with interpretation.<br />
They also help them navigate around<br />
so that they will be safe in their environment.<br />
Kattula prefers that volunteers<br />
commit long-term in order to<br />
develop a relationship with students<br />
and keep up with each person’s goals.<br />
The project even has a dedicated bus<br />
driver to make sure that students,<br />
who don’t have someone to transport<br />
them, are safely transported to the<br />
B.E.A.M. program’s Sterling Heights<br />
location.<br />
A total of 38 blind and legally<br />
blind students have benefitted from<br />
the B.E.A.M. program since its inception.<br />
Thirteen of them are constant<br />
students. “It all depends on<br />
each student’s individual needs and<br />
goals at the time. We have three<br />
students who are working towards<br />
achieving their American citizenship.<br />
So, they are coming in to be tutored<br />
for instance, on the civics portion<br />
of the test,” Kattula explained.<br />
“It changed everything,” said<br />
Youhana.<br />
The B.E.A.M. project quite literally<br />
did change everything for Youhana.<br />
It’s where he found his lifelong<br />
soulmate in another one of the project’s<br />
students by the name of Noora<br />
who also came to the US from Iraq<br />
for the same reasons as Youhana.<br />
Noora and Gabrail Youhana in the BEAM class and on their wedding day.<br />
The two participated in the program<br />
at the same time and on the same<br />
schedule. Noora would take a taxi<br />
from Novi as Youhana was being<br />
brought in from Shelby Township.<br />
On most days, they would arrive early<br />
and chat with one other to pass the<br />
time. They developed and friendship<br />
and a romance soon followed. Noora<br />
became Mrs. Gabrail Youhana in<br />
September of 2015. Their daughter,<br />
Pearla was born on August of <strong>2017</strong>.<br />
“You don’t have to have sight to<br />
love each other because the heart is<br />
love,” concluded Youhana.<br />
The Chaldean Community Foundations’<br />
B.E.A.M. project /Breaking<br />
Barriers program is seeking dedicated,<br />
long term volunteers. If you or<br />
someone you know is interested in<br />
volunteering or donating, go online<br />
to: http://www.chaldeanfoundation.<br />
org/beam/ and click the ‘Help Us<br />
Grow’ option.<br />
Anyone who is interested in enrolling<br />
in the program should call the Chaldean<br />
Community Foundation’s Sterling<br />
Heights location at: (586) 722-7253.<br />
30 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 31
Coming to America<br />
Sharing John’s Five Year Diary Box<br />
BY EDWARD VINCENT<br />
Everybody’s personal history is<br />
the thread that defines their<br />
life. Whether we review or<br />
look back into our own lives from<br />
time to time, our history is always<br />
present much like the rings of a tree<br />
represent its growth over the years.<br />
Moreover, our individual history is<br />
evolved from and inter woven with<br />
the history of our families - our parents,<br />
siblings, relatives, our community<br />
as a whole and our ancestors.<br />
In 2012, my eldest brother John<br />
passed away at the age of 81. The<br />
circumstances of his death were very<br />
difficult for the family. He lived with<br />
my mother who was 99 at the time.<br />
They were generally managing okay<br />
with the daily and regular visits and<br />
involvement of my sister, another<br />
brother and myself. Whenever my<br />
brother or myself stopped in each<br />
day, we would be sure to see our<br />
mother who was generally sitting<br />
in the living room watching the<br />
Catholic Network channel EWTN.<br />
John however might be in his room,<br />
maybe napping or otherwise there<br />
quietly. So, it was not unusual to<br />
not run into him on<br />
each daily visit.<br />
Then one day<br />
when I stopped by,<br />
my mother noted that<br />
she hadn’t seen John<br />
for the past day. As an<br />
alarm went off in my<br />
head, I tensely walked<br />
the several steps to<br />
the side of the house<br />
where his room was. I<br />
knocked and called out<br />
his name with no response.<br />
Slowly opening<br />
the door, I found him.<br />
John and I had not<br />
always communicated<br />
very well in recent years. As it was<br />
and unfortunately so, communication<br />
between myself and the rest of<br />
my family had been challenging at<br />
times over the years. Yet we all cared<br />
for each other and would do our best<br />
to help one another through difficulties.<br />
I have deep regret that I was<br />
not able to help John<br />
through the difficulties<br />
he faced near the end<br />
of his life. He apparently<br />
had some kind of<br />
medical issue and was<br />
planning to go to the<br />
hospital for some tests.<br />
What exactly those issues<br />
were, was not clear<br />
to any of us.<br />
As time passed and<br />
we continued to care<br />
for my mother, she<br />
eventually had to enter<br />
into a nursing home<br />
because of a stroke and need for 24-<br />
hour care. She passed in 2013. So, in<br />
the span of one and a half years we<br />
had the death of John and then my<br />
mother. Another brother, George<br />
had died 20 years earlier. My father<br />
had died some 45 years ago. It was after<br />
my mother’s death that we had to<br />
begin to sort through all the belongings<br />
of our lost family members that<br />
were part of our family home.<br />
John by far had amassed the most<br />
possessions of anyone else in the<br />
family. I was the one who took on<br />
the responsibility for going through<br />
all of his things- records, papers,<br />
books, electronic gadgets. We all<br />
took our time in sorting through<br />
our family home of nearly 50 years.<br />
I spent several months almost a year<br />
going through John’s things because<br />
I wanted to be careful and show respect<br />
to what he had left behind. In<br />
so doing I came upon a box that apparently<br />
once held a diary in it. The<br />
box was labeled as a Five-Year Diary.<br />
It did not contain a diary but rather<br />
some documents related to John’s<br />
immigration to America.<br />
Five years later after his death, I<br />
decided to write a story about John’s<br />
experience in coming to America<br />
on his own when he was only 16.<br />
There are many things I never fully<br />
understood about John and did not<br />
have a chance to ask him about. So,<br />
I could only tell the story with what<br />
anecdotes he had shared over the<br />
years, what others had said and by<br />
relying on the artifacts that he had<br />
left behind.<br />
I’ve woven a little story about<br />
John and my family in their immigration<br />
history. It is entitled John’s Five<br />
Year Diary Box. The Chaldean News<br />
will post it on their website as it is<br />
too long for the paper publication. I<br />
was asked to write something about<br />
it for this guest column. I hope this<br />
will suffice and you the reader will be<br />
interested in going online to read a<br />
little bit about my brother and family<br />
history. I hope too that you can<br />
maybe relate to it in some way with<br />
your own personal and family immigration<br />
history.<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 33
The power of storytelling<br />
BY STEPHEN JONES<br />
Most think of Greece as a<br />
utopia in southeastern Europe.<br />
On the southern end<br />
of the Balkan Peninsula, it is the<br />
convergence point of Europe, Asia<br />
and Africa. Tens of millions of tourists<br />
visit Greece each year to bask in<br />
its beauty or trace the fingerprints of<br />
its rich history. Christina Salem, a<br />
senior at Oakland University studying<br />
journalism, was well aware of the<br />
splendor of Greece. However, when<br />
she visited the country for herself,<br />
she met some of its citizens and heard<br />
some of its untold stories.<br />
Salem was one of 12 students<br />
that went on a trip to Greece to<br />
cover its economic and refugee crisis.<br />
She spent a month learning about<br />
Greece’s difficulties and connecting<br />
with refugees of religious violence.<br />
She quickly realized that the camps<br />
in which those refugees were housed<br />
was very different from the wonderland<br />
that she’d heard about coming<br />
into the trip.<br />
“The living situations are terrible,”<br />
Salem said. “It’s filthy, it’s uncomfortable,<br />
they live in tin boxes<br />
basically the size of a parking space.<br />
It’s not like anything you would ever<br />
think of when you think of Greece.<br />
When you think of Greece, you<br />
think of paradise, but this was not<br />
paradise.”<br />
When Salem spoke to refugees,<br />
she heard the story of a more peaceful<br />
time that was driven off the rails<br />
by divisive religious tactics from terror<br />
organizations such as the Islamic<br />
State group.<br />
“The information that I gathered<br />
was that Muslims and Christians<br />
lived together like brothers and sisters<br />
before ISIS took over and created<br />
the division between them,”<br />
Salem explained. “They had a large<br />
force manipulating the population,<br />
and pinning one against the other,<br />
and that’s how the division was created.”<br />
Salem’s specific focus was the<br />
phenomenon of Christians hiding<br />
their faith within the refugee camps.<br />
As a member of the Chaldean community,<br />
this topic hit Salem very<br />
close to home.<br />
“I spent a month there gathering<br />
information on the Christian minority<br />
population within these refugee<br />
camps,” Salem said. “After venturing<br />
in and out of refugee camps for the<br />
first two weeks of July, it struck me<br />
that most of these people withheld<br />
their identity as an effort to protect<br />
themselves from an impending persecution<br />
from their fellow neighbors<br />
within these camps.”<br />
Salem describes the trip as a humbling<br />
and eye-opening experience.<br />
Although the trip was emotionally<br />
taxing because of the living conditions<br />
she witnessed in the camp,<br />
Salem was encouraged by the leadership<br />
in the camps and the dialogue<br />
that took place.<br />
“They had people in charge of<br />
them who were giving them an opportunity<br />
to express themselves in a<br />
way that doesn’t harm others,” Salem<br />
said. “It goes back to them just acknowledging<br />
that we’re all under one<br />
God, and that’s what they’re promoting,<br />
it’s the peace and the unity<br />
among different cultures.”<br />
Salem says the trip encouraged<br />
her to do everything in her power to<br />
promote unity. Salem believes the<br />
Greece trip made her a more complete<br />
person.<br />
“I was super inspired” Salem said. “I<br />
just felt like I was constantly shedding<br />
layers of myself onto the world until<br />
all I had was this raw form, and in that<br />
form I had to be the bravest version of<br />
myself, and that was hard. It really inspired<br />
me to conquer a lot fears that I<br />
had. I think I grew a lot from it.”<br />
Some of Salem’s goals for the future<br />
include pursuing other humanitarian<br />
efforts and having her own<br />
talk show to spotlight some of the<br />
world’s most challenging issues.<br />
Salem took a lot away from her<br />
trip across the world. She was able<br />
to develop personally and professionally.<br />
The study abroad program<br />
gave her an opportunity to research<br />
an issue, visit the location where the<br />
issue is taking place and have conversations<br />
with the individuals most<br />
effected. All of these things add up to<br />
an extremely valuable experience for<br />
an aspiring journalist. Upon returning<br />
home, she wrote a feature story<br />
for Oakland University’s OU Refugee<br />
Report website titled Hidden<br />
Christians.<br />
In her feature, Salem asks her audience<br />
to put themselves in the shoes<br />
of a refugee fleeing from persecution.<br />
Salem feels a deep sense of empathy<br />
for the people in the camps and<br />
wants to shed light on the issues they<br />
face. The trip caused Salem to view<br />
the world around her differently,<br />
and at the end of it one message was<br />
clearer than ever before.<br />
“It’s our differences that we<br />
should celebrate rather than having<br />
our differences divide us.”<br />
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<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 35
Under God’s Wings to focus<br />
on teen issues, opioid crisis<br />
BY CRYSTAL KASSAB JABIRO<br />
Last year, youth leaders at St. Thomas Chaldean<br />
Catholic Church in West Bloomfield<br />
reached out to parents to get them more<br />
involved in their teenagers’ lives. They felt there<br />
needed to be more parent-child engagement to support<br />
the morals and values that should be at the<br />
heart of a faith-based family.<br />
Parents organized and did a trial run of a chastity<br />
and purity talk during girls CREW, a middle school<br />
church group, now known as J2S (Journey to Sainthood).<br />
They used a video by Jason Evert, an internationally<br />
known Catholic author and speaker and<br />
founder of the Chastity Project (chastityproject.com)<br />
to springboard the conversation. Based on the positive<br />
reactions, the idea of Under God’s Wings, a parent<br />
group, was born at St. Thomas.<br />
“We need to get together as parents and address<br />
these issues,” said Yasmeen Abbo, a program committee<br />
member.<br />
While sexuality may be an uncomfortable topicand<br />
the language even more distressing- children will<br />
benefit from these real, though maybe awkward, conversations<br />
with their parents.<br />
Abbo uses the Catholic website formed.org to<br />
learn valuable information and to teach it and discuss<br />
it with her kids. She is not relying on the ordinary<br />
school health class.<br />
“I’m not putting blinders on my eyes, but I will<br />
teach chastity and purity,” she insists.<br />
Under God’s Wings will be meeting monthly to<br />
address topics of concern to teens and children. The<br />
purpose is to educate, inform, and provide resources<br />
to help build stronger Catholic families. In October,<br />
they addressed internet safety.<br />
This month’s Under God’s Wings topic is drug<br />
awareness and prevention. The group of parent volunteers<br />
hope other moms and dads come together<br />
to learn the signs of abuse, to remain connected to<br />
their children in order to prevent addiction, and to<br />
get treatment for their children if necessary. Basically,<br />
they want parents to be “in the know.”<br />
“There is a need – especially for the parents of<br />
young children – to go back to the church and relearn<br />
the morals and values that were taught to us,” said<br />
Abbo.<br />
Often a taboo topic in the Chaldean community,<br />
Lindsay Najor Ph.D., wishes to shed light on the drug<br />
epidemic at the next Under God’s Wings meeting on<br />
Wednesday, November 15. She recently received her<br />
Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the Michigan<br />
School of Professional Psychology. She completed<br />
her dissertation on “The Parents’ Experience of their<br />
Child’s Opiate Addiction.”<br />
Najor, 32, stresses, “You have to talk to your kids<br />
about drugs.”<br />
Despite the increasing availability of medicinal<br />
marijuana in Michigan, it is still considered a gateway<br />
drug. According to Najor, all of her participants’ children<br />
started experimenting with marijuana before going<br />
to opiates. Marijuana can lead to prescription drug<br />
dependency like OxyContin and then to illegal drugs,<br />
like heroine. Illegal drug use tends to be contingent<br />
on parent-child relationships, not so much on peers.<br />
“You have to be interested in your kids,” Najor<br />
asserted. “You have to give them your attention and<br />
time, not material items.”<br />
Najor notes that the Chaldean community, like<br />
other collective cultures such as the Italians, are<br />
opening up to dealing with substance and drug abuse.<br />
Too often, these issues are kept as family secrets for<br />
fear of blame and embarrassment.<br />
“You don’t have to put your business out there, but<br />
a family cannot solve its child’s problems alone. Addicts<br />
need professional help,” said Najor. “And even<br />
then, they might not recover. It’s entirely up to the<br />
addict.”<br />
Only 20 percent of opiate addicts recover, she continued.<br />
The rest either do not recuperate or die.<br />
Parents need to recognize how much influence<br />
they have over their children’s decisions. This is not<br />
to condemn their parenting styles, but to acknowledge<br />
how they need to model appropriate behavior.<br />
For example, if a child is struggling with alcoholism,<br />
his or her parents and siblings should not drink nor<br />
should they have liquor in the house.<br />
As the guest lecturer at Under God’s Wings, Najor<br />
will teach parents to notice the signs of substance<br />
abuse, which include withdrawal from family and inconsistent<br />
weight gain and loss. She will also encourage<br />
parents of addicts to look into treatment centers to<br />
get their children the help they need. She believes it<br />
is important for parents to educate themselves before<br />
they attempt to educate their children. There will also<br />
be a personal testimony from a community member.<br />
“Your child is abusing drugs to cope with something,”<br />
she maintained. “You have to know what that<br />
is and get them help before it is too late.”<br />
5 Bits of Advice<br />
from Dr. Najor<br />
• Be involved in your child’s life and<br />
spend time with them every day.<br />
• Set clear expectations and enforce<br />
them daily.<br />
• Be a positive role model because<br />
children imitate their parents.<br />
• Help your children choose their<br />
friends wisely and feel comfortable in<br />
social situations.<br />
• Talk to them about drugs. Short conversations<br />
go a long way. Stay engaged!<br />
Gateway drug: a habit-forming substance<br />
(i.e. Alcohol and cigarettes) that may<br />
lead to the use of other more addictive<br />
substances in the future (i.e. Prescriptions<br />
drugs like Vicodin and cocaine).<br />
Fast Facts About<br />
Teens and Drug Use<br />
www.dosomething.org<br />
• More teens die from prescription<br />
drugs than heroine/cocaine combined.<br />
• One third of teenagers who live in<br />
states with medical marijuana laws get<br />
their pot from other people’s prescriptions.<br />
• By the 8th grade, 28 percent of adolescents<br />
have consumed alcohol, 15<br />
percent have smoked cigarettes, and<br />
16.5 percent have used marijuana.<br />
• About 50 percent of high school<br />
seniors do not think it’s harmful to try<br />
crack or cocaine once or twice and 40<br />
percent believe it’s not harmful to use<br />
heroin once or twice.<br />
• Teens who consistently learn about<br />
the risks of drugs from their parents are<br />
up to 50 percent less likely to use drugs<br />
than those who don’t.<br />
Under God’s Wings will be meeting on<br />
Wednesday, November 15, <strong>2017</strong> at St.<br />
Thomas in West Bloomfield. All parents<br />
and caring family figures are welcome.<br />
Questions or suggestions could be emailed to<br />
stthomasfamilieslovingchrist@gmail.com.<br />
Looking Ahead:<br />
How to Raise Strong Catholic<br />
Families in Today’s Culture<br />
Wednesday, December 15, <strong>2017</strong><br />
6:30-8:30<br />
Dr. Lindsay Najor can be reached at<br />
Dennis & Moye & Associates, 1750<br />
South Telegraph Road, Bloomfield<br />
Hills, MI 48302. She treats clients<br />
10 and older. You can call her at<br />
248.842.6499 or email her<br />
lindsayanajor@gmail.com.<br />
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chaldean on the STREET<br />
How to combat the drug problem<br />
BY HALIM SHEENA<br />
In light of the recent tragedies that have plagued our community, we took to the street to ask about addiction.<br />
We asked community members, what do you think we, as a community, can do to combat this epidemic?<br />
In this day and age, there are many things that are<br />
broadcasted to everyone through social media, but the<br />
opioid epidemic seems to be brushed under the rug,<br />
and left to be dealt with alone. The process of healing<br />
an addiction is a long road to recovery, and that<br />
calls for us to help them as best as we can by getting<br />
educated on the subject and being a good support<br />
system. There is a group called Peter’s Angels that is<br />
completely dedicated to discussing recognizing addiction<br />
in loved ones, and the proper responses to help,<br />
both spirituality and physically. This group brings parents<br />
and loved ones together to shed light on a very<br />
dark place, and to stop the epidemic by HEALING it.<br />
Please get in touch with them on Facebook.<br />
– Angelica Paparizos, 21, Shelby Township<br />
I believe that our community can help this opioid<br />
epidemic by attacking it at the prescriber’s level. We<br />
have many medical professionals within the community,<br />
especially primary care docs, that can help by<br />
educating their patients about the addictiveness of<br />
these drugs and limiting their use on hospitalized patients.<br />
From working in both outpatient and inpatient<br />
settings, I have seen how these narcotics can be<br />
loosely given for pain and although there seems to be<br />
this culture of “pain seeking behavior” from patients,<br />
physicians need to hold themselves accountable<br />
for providing these highly addictive drugs and their<br />
consequences.<br />
– Dominick Alton, 24, West Bloomfield<br />
Strong support system: Those that suffer from these<br />
addictions are very much sick, and the rhetoric should<br />
be switched from victimizing them as “druggies” to<br />
actually treating them. Alongside this, referring them<br />
to necessary resources (psychiatrist, psychologists,<br />
rehab etc...) Education: the community should be cognizant<br />
of patterns of behavior/ risk factors that predict<br />
or lead to opioid addiction. It can only take something<br />
as simple as a Norco tablet after an innocent injury, to<br />
be a catalyst for a heroin addiction.<br />
– Matthew Allos, 23, Troy<br />
The opioid epidemic is a rising issue that needs our<br />
community’s attention. I think our community can help<br />
by educating themselves about addiction and refrain<br />
from pushing blame on others. Instead of shaming<br />
people who struggle with addictions, we should offer<br />
support to them and their families. If our community<br />
would stop stigmatizing drug abuse, people wouldn’t<br />
feel embarrassed to get the help they need and we<br />
could prevent the issue from getting bigger.<br />
– Gabriella Karmo, 23, West Bloomfield<br />
Opioid use has increased in popularity over the past<br />
few years due to their strong pain-relieving qualities.<br />
This being said, they have the potential to become addicting<br />
which makes them dangerous. There are alternatives<br />
in the drug industry with the same, if not more<br />
of a pain-relieving effect. I believe that health care providers<br />
in the community need to work together and<br />
begin prescribing alternative drugs that can have the<br />
same analgesic effects without the potential for addiction.<br />
– Rita Paulus, 23, Ann Arbor<br />
Unfortunately, many recent tragedies have shown us<br />
that we are not insulated from the problems of the<br />
general community. If you are concerned about yourself<br />
or a loved one, the best thing to do is seek for or<br />
offer help. There are many resources out there, but<br />
right now accepting that we are at risk is the most<br />
important next step.<br />
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Addiction: a hidden illness<br />
DR. TALIA<br />
KARMO<br />
SPECIAL TO THE<br />
CHALDEAN NEWS<br />
It is a fact that drug addiction<br />
is rampant and most<br />
pervasive among our society.<br />
For the first time, the<br />
United States Surgeon General,<br />
Dr. Vivek Murthy, identified<br />
an unprecedented epidemic<br />
of opioids/heroin as a<br />
major public health problem,<br />
calling for the need to do<br />
something to curb addiction<br />
epidemics. Moreover, this<br />
addiction epidemic is a reality<br />
in the often-hidden communities.<br />
The Chaldean community is<br />
not an exception.<br />
According to the National Institute<br />
on Drug Abuse, addiction is a<br />
chronic, often-relapsing brain disease<br />
that causes compulsive drug seeking<br />
and drug use. The brain changes<br />
that can occur over time challenges<br />
a user’s self-control, and creates an<br />
intense impulse to use more.<br />
It can be a real challenge at times<br />
to spot an addict. There are addicts<br />
who are barely functioning, and others<br />
that are highly functional. It has<br />
a lot to do with the personality type,<br />
family make-up, and familial stressors.<br />
Nevertheless, the list does not end<br />
here as the telltale signs of addiction<br />
depend heavily on the type of drug<br />
use and administration of the drug.<br />
There are various stages of addiction:<br />
Denial – Since functional addicts<br />
have avoided many of the negative<br />
consequences related to addiction,<br />
and since they can maintain some of<br />
the normalcy in their everyday life,<br />
they commonly deny that they have<br />
a problem. Additionally, their family<br />
and friends may deny the problem as<br />
well, either because they do not recognize<br />
it, or because they do not realize<br />
the severity of the situation.<br />
Uncharacteristic behavior –<br />
All addictions have consequences,<br />
whether to health, careers or relationships.<br />
Noticing these slips in<br />
normal behavior can be a tell-tale<br />
sign of addiction.<br />
Excuses – To continue the addiction,<br />
the functional addict must figure<br />
out how to hide his problem, which<br />
often means making excuses for unusual<br />
behavior. They may appear lazy,<br />
but in reality they are addicted.<br />
False appearance of normalcy –<br />
From the outside, most functional<br />
addicts look completely normal and<br />
healthy, but they have actually developed<br />
a complex double<br />
life that enables them to<br />
function in society while<br />
continuing to feed their addiction.<br />
As a community, we<br />
need to be aware of the overall<br />
signs of addiction and be<br />
looking out for neighbors,<br />
friends, and children. There<br />
are several signs that many<br />
addicts will display that can<br />
be easy to pick up on. Neglecting<br />
important responsibilities<br />
such as missing work, cutting<br />
classes, or not taking care of chores<br />
at home could be a sign of addiction.<br />
You can also expect an active addict<br />
to frequently break commitments,<br />
blow off dates, or always have an excuse<br />
for missing important events.<br />
People that are facing addiction<br />
may stop enjoying activities or hobbies<br />
they used to love. This could be due<br />
to distraction caused by drugs, or the<br />
depression, anxiety, and paranoia that<br />
often accompanies addiction. Those<br />
with addiction often fight with their<br />
friends, parents, and partners. They<br />
might even separate, break up, or be<br />
estranged from the people for whom<br />
they used to care about the most.<br />
An individual who gets behind<br />
on bills, always asks for money, and<br />
never has the cash for dinner could<br />
be addicted to drugs. After all, a<br />
drug addiction is expensive. Weight<br />
changes can also be indicative of<br />
an addiction, as rapidly losing or<br />
gaining weight could be a sign that<br />
someone is struggling. Addicts often<br />
would rather use than eat, and some<br />
drugs cause weight changes.<br />
When someone has an addiction,<br />
there may be an unusual odor on a<br />
person’s clothes or in their hair; you<br />
could be smelling drugs. An addict<br />
will also use tons of mouthwash, perfume,<br />
or body spray to conceal their<br />
habit. On the other hand, many addicts<br />
don’t take the time to properly<br />
care for themselves when they are<br />
focused on getting or using their drug<br />
of choice. For example, dirty teeth,<br />
clothing, and hair can be a sign of<br />
drug use. Plus, certain drugs can<br />
cause bad breath and hair loss, additional<br />
signs to watch for.<br />
Stumbling, tremors, or slurred<br />
speech indicate a possible addiction.<br />
When you notice impaired coordination,<br />
it is possible that the addict<br />
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needs a fix, is high, or is coming off a<br />
hit. Unexpected mood changes from<br />
one day to the next or even from one<br />
moment to the next, could indicate<br />
that they are suffering from addiction.<br />
Be aware: addicts are excellent<br />
liars. Keeping secrets, hiding spending,<br />
activities, or friends could also<br />
be a sign of an addiction. Taking<br />
drugs can make people feel on top<br />
of the world, invincible, and capable<br />
of leaping tall buildings in a single<br />
bound. If you notice your loved one<br />
is taking more risks than usual, and<br />
you may be looking at a drug addict.<br />
Legal troubles can be a red flag for addiction.<br />
If one has citations or arrests<br />
for actions like disorderly conduct or<br />
stealing, it can indicate that a person<br />
may be suffering from addiction.<br />
If indeed you or a loved one has<br />
become addicted to drugs, then seeking<br />
help from a health professional will<br />
be a decision that can save a life. Do<br />
not wait to see if something happens,<br />
because that “something” can turn<br />
into a devastating life-changing event.<br />
Below are some possible specific<br />
signs of addiction found in addicts<br />
using marijuana, opioids (such as<br />
heroin or pain killers), opium, LSD,<br />
cocaine, and methamphetamines.<br />
Marijuana<br />
Shortly after smoking a joint, users<br />
may seem very relaxed, to the point<br />
of being sleepy. This drug can impair<br />
coordination, causing the user to walk<br />
and move in ways that appear awkward.<br />
A heightened craving for food<br />
is typical with marijuana use. Cognitive<br />
processes such as recalling past<br />
events, acquiring new knowledge, or<br />
responding to a problem are markedly<br />
limited under the influence of marijuana.<br />
Emotionally, they will experience<br />
little stress or anxiety during the<br />
high, which peaks after 15 minutes,<br />
then slowly fades over the course of<br />
several hours. Many of the stereotypes<br />
of pot users draw on this “laissez-faire”<br />
attitude the drug induces. Users may<br />
have dry, bloodshot eyes, prompting<br />
them to use eye-wetting drops frequently.<br />
Their clothes and body may<br />
emanate the scent of marijuana, an<br />
odor some describe as almost sweet.<br />
LSD<br />
Acid creates a sense of being disoriented<br />
by your surroundings, and these<br />
episodes can last up to 12 hours with<br />
one dose. With larger quantities, users<br />
experience hallucinations. These<br />
visualizations may prompt strange<br />
behaviors as the person attempts to<br />
respond or interact with what they<br />
think they’re seeing. Speech may be<br />
slurred, bordering on incoherent. The<br />
variance in emotions is a hallmark of<br />
LSD use. Unpredictable and erratic<br />
emotions cause extreme and frequent<br />
mood changes. Users may experience<br />
a disproportionate sense of panic.<br />
When combined with the other signs,<br />
sweaty hands and an increase in underarm<br />
perspiration are another clue<br />
that a person is using LSD. Pupils may<br />
appear larger than normal.<br />
Cocaine<br />
A person on cocaine will act as though<br />
they have little self-restraint, meaning<br />
they may engage in activities that they<br />
would normally find embarrassing,<br />
frightening, or stressful. Cocaine disrupts<br />
sleep, and frequent users can act<br />
violent. Whether snorted, injected,<br />
or smoked, cocaine imbues the user<br />
with energy, allowing them to stay active<br />
longer than normal. This means a<br />
coke user can stay up all night. Instead<br />
of acting sleepy, users act jittery and<br />
jumpy. The increased energy may speed<br />
up speech. It’s the promise of extreme<br />
happiness that attracts many first time<br />
users. However, this feeling is so brief<br />
it’s usually measured in minutes. The<br />
sense of joy is quickly replaced with<br />
depression or a very intense emotional<br />
low. Difficulty recalling memories and<br />
shifts in mood are common with cocaine<br />
use. This drug can create feelings<br />
of ambivalence toward people and activities<br />
that the user used to find engaging.<br />
A gaunt appearance marks a regular<br />
user who can’t keep on the pounds.<br />
In users who snort the drug, the nose<br />
bleeds frequently. The eyes may appear<br />
red with large pupils.<br />
Mushrooms<br />
Intense laughter typically begins 20-<br />
25 minutes after ingesting a mushroom.<br />
For about six hours, users may<br />
vomit, feel physically weak, and be<br />
uncoordinated in moving their body.<br />
Users may feel confused and uncertain<br />
about their surroundings. This may<br />
cause them to feel “spaced out.” In<br />
some cases, users have hallucinations<br />
and may be so mentally impaired that<br />
they can’t identify the hallucinations<br />
for what they are. Their eyes may be<br />
dilated and may not focus on what<br />
is in front of them. They may show<br />
physical signs of nausea.<br />
Methamphetamine (Meth)<br />
Methamphetamines are more common<br />
than people might think, and actually<br />
include commonly prescribed drugs<br />
such as Adderall and Ritalin. Meth addicts<br />
report being able to stay awake for<br />
days at a time. They may accomplish a<br />
large number of tasks in a short period<br />
Resources<br />
• National Institute of Drug Abuse (2016). Emerging Trends and Alerts. Retrieved<br />
from https://www.drugabuse.gov/drugs-abuse/emerging-trends-alerts<br />
• The United States of America Department of Health and Human<br />
Services. (2016). Facing Addiction in America. The Surgeon General›s<br />
Report on Alcohol, Drugs, Health Substance Abuse, and Mental health<br />
Service Administration (SAMSHA). Retrieved from https://addiction.<br />
surgeongeneral.gov/surgeon-generals-report.pdf<br />
• SAMHSA’s National Helpline is a free, confidential, 24/7, 365-day-a-year<br />
treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals<br />
and families facing mental health and/or substance use disorders.<br />
Phone: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357)<br />
http://www.samhsa.gov/treatment/index.a<br />
https://www.recoverymonth.gov/organizations-programs/departmenthealth-human-services-samhsa-samhsas-treatment-locator-national<br />
Talia Karmo Al-Hamando, PhD. LLP LMSW is founder of Tri-County<br />
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of time because they aren’t stopping to<br />
sleep. Agitation, paranoia, and a sense<br />
of being on high alert stem from meth<br />
use. Some people who use meth feel increased<br />
aggression and have hallucinations<br />
while taking the drug. A dramatic<br />
shift in the appearance of the skin from<br />
healthy to sagging and acne-prone is<br />
a strong indicator of using this drug.<br />
It’s hard to mistake the look of meth<br />
mouth—rotting teeth and infected<br />
gums. Meth transforms a vibrant looking<br />
person into a haggard shadow of the<br />
former self. Hair and weight loss often<br />
occur from meth use, which can suppress<br />
the appetite.<br />
Opium<br />
Opium use can cause excessive talking<br />
and is associated with irritability<br />
and anxiety. Individuals may become<br />
aggressive or hostile towards others, as<br />
there is a constant state of tiredness and<br />
exhaustion. Muscle spasms, headaches,<br />
nausea, vomiting, agitated and restless,<br />
and insomnia are also consequences of<br />
Opium use. People will often feel depressed<br />
or anxious, and frequently lie<br />
to cover up the use of opium. A high<br />
craving will lead to a constant desire<br />
to take more opium. Feeling paranoid<br />
or experiencing hallucinations is also<br />
a common experience. Physical signs<br />
may include the skin itching, and becoming<br />
sweaty, or pale.<br />
The signs of opium addiction are<br />
not limited to those mentioned above,<br />
and can depend on the severity of the<br />
addiction. Most signs might go unnoticed<br />
for a while because an addict can<br />
try and conceal their addictive problem.<br />
Also, these symptoms are not necessarily<br />
a fact that a person is addicted<br />
to opium. There may be other reasons<br />
for the changes a person is displaying.<br />
Opioids (Heroin & Pain Killers)<br />
Because this drug is connected to morphine,<br />
it tends to slow breathing and<br />
make the user sleepy. Near constant<br />
nodding off can be a problem for heroin<br />
users. The drug envelops users in<br />
a sense of relaxation. Mental activity<br />
of opioid users often declines, and is<br />
later replaced by lethargy and depression.<br />
Marks, or lines, from repeated<br />
injections appear on the arms of many<br />
heroin users. They may also care very<br />
little about keeping up good hygiene.<br />
Life Threatening Signs<br />
of Opioid Addiction<br />
The common signs of opioid addiction<br />
discussed above can be dangerous<br />
to you or your loved one’s overall<br />
health, and can have an impact<br />
on those around you, causing stress<br />
and worry. Other warning signs that<br />
are life threatening include stealing<br />
money or items from others to pay<br />
for more drugs, suicidal thoughts or<br />
actions, and taking lethal amounts<br />
of opioids. High doses of opioids can<br />
lead to an overdose which can cause<br />
one to become comatose, cause a<br />
stroke, heart attack, or even death.<br />
Those reaching a truly dangerous<br />
point in an opioid addiction may exaggerate<br />
pain symptoms or lie about<br />
injuries to receive more prescriptions,<br />
and request frequent refills for pain<br />
killers. Many people will see multiple<br />
doctors to increase their chances to<br />
have access to more prescriptions.<br />
They will often isolate themselves<br />
and burn through money rapidly,<br />
focusing more on getting and using<br />
their drug that engaging in previously<br />
enjoyed activities. Mood changes can<br />
also occur, ranging from rage and anger<br />
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Extremely dangerous physical signs<br />
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BINGHAM FARMS, MI 48025<br />
TEL: (248) 996-8340 CELL: (248) 925-7773<br />
FAX: (248) 996-8342<br />
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30095 Northwestern Highway, Suite 101<br />
Farmington Hills, MI 48334<br />
CELL (248) 925-7773<br />
TEL (248) 851-1200<br />
FAX (248) 851-1348<br />
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KIDS corner<br />
HAPPY TURKEY DAY!<br />
With school out for a few days and the adults busy getting<br />
Thanksgiving dinner together, boredom is bound to fall upon<br />
the kids. With some supplies and a little bit of imagination, that<br />
can be easily remedied, though.<br />
SUPPLIES NEEDED:<br />
Construction paper<br />
Glue<br />
Crayons, markers or colored pencils<br />
Scissors<br />
Only use scissors under adult supervision<br />
STEP 1: Firmly place your hand on a white piece of construction<br />
paper – make sure to place your hand palm down<br />
and spread your fingers apart. Using a black marker, trace<br />
your hand – starting at your wrist and ending on the other<br />
side of your wrist.<br />
STEP 2: Once you have traced your hand, draw a line<br />
from one end to the other to finish the body of the turkey. Also,<br />
draw a line at the end of each finger to create your turkey’s<br />
feathers.<br />
STEP 3: Don’t forget to give your turkey a face! On the<br />
thumb, draw an eye, and a beak! Now that your turkey has a<br />
face, you can give it a pair of legs!<br />
STEP 4: Before moving on to the fun part, on each finger,<br />
write one thing you are thankful for. It can be anything, your<br />
parents, your pets, the house you live in. Let the Thanksgiving<br />
spirit flow and write what you’re thankful for.<br />
STEP 5: We have finally reached the fun part! It’s time to<br />
color your turkey! Use your imagination for this part and have<br />
fun, coloring in the turkey and feathers.<br />
WORD SEARCH<br />
America Fall Freedom Holiday November Plymouth Stuffing<br />
Colony Family Gratitude Maize Pie Pumpkin Thanksgiving<br />
Cornucopia Feast Harvest Mayflower Pilgrims Squash Turkey<br />
S W F G G V N G Q I D F B R M U Z Y M Q S E A C T<br />
F M N E Z G N M U A S P R F A F S L A C U Y S C D<br />
C A I W A I Z I F R E B M E V O N I I T C F Z P Y<br />
S U C R F S T R H B J H M O E E E M Z C A F D S K<br />
S N D F G N T L A L H U U D H D O A E L K V U R E<br />
I G U U X L K K R H R D E F I L O F L W P Z B H V<br />
G T S K S F I J V F B X B H V M G M Q R I R Y H Z<br />
S M H Y K L Y P E T X Y O F C E C L C K G A Q M F<br />
R K P D R L V S S I G L N G E A K K B S N W A N V<br />
N I K P M U P T T K I N J O X W K Y Q T W Y K U T<br />
W T E R A W O P D D Z V F F L D K O H Y F E I P A<br />
T X R O J Q H L A N Y I Y U F O H V Z L F X N H K<br />
J E P C T B G Y H U K Z B Z I U C F O W X R A K U<br />
A I U V O Y O B O B T V G H N I H W O V J U O K B<br />
T U R K E Y M H F J A U R G Q J E T O C X T A T I<br />
A M E R I C A Q E Z N O E C W R J Q G A D Y G S S<br />
Z U G J W H F F A M U M L T O Q I C I P R P R K W<br />
M J V U S N L K Q F T O F Y L R Y A O K U K A H Y<br />
J C D A Y X F C S V P M E Z B S N N V B M J T T X<br />
B Y U X B T H A N K S G I V I N G U R E H B I U N<br />
C Q J Q R J R L D S S N T K D A H A C S Y R T O O<br />
S F K R O N Z S Q F H U K D B B H N Z O G Y U M A<br />
K O R G T Q G M P Z W O O P O E Z R M G P K D Y T<br />
W S J Y Z J V T I C G Q I L N G W F N Q L I E L I<br />
R Z M H X H S J P O A M K A L B G U L I X R A P K<br />
44 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>
events<br />
Taking a Stride<br />
for Seminarians<br />
PHOTOS BY DAVID REED<br />
On September 24, the Alexander and Gabrielle Mansour Memorial Fund hosted their<br />
fourth annual Stride for Seminarians charity walk in memory of Alex and Gabby. Hosted<br />
at the Detroit Zoo, many showed up to support the memorial fund and participate in an<br />
array of activities, including crafts, face painting and rose petal intentions. Fr. Pierre and<br />
Fr. Andrew kicked off the event with a prayer. Eventgoers were able to enjoy the sight<br />
of the various animals and their habitats during their walk before settling under the zoo’s<br />
pavilion for Mass. Treats for the event were provided by Donut Bar and Party Café.<br />
<strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong> CHALDEAN NEWS 45
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Celebrating 10 Years<br />
PHOTOS BY RAZIK TOMINA<br />
The Adopt a Refugee Family Program hosted an event on October 5 in celebration of their<br />
10 year anniversary. Since their inception, the Adopt a Refugee program has been able<br />
to send more than 10 million dollars to aid both individual refugees and refugee families,<br />
totaling more than 400,000 refugee families helped. Adopt a Refugee has been able to<br />
achieve this much success through a total volunteer effort. Many joined the celebrations<br />
hosted at the Shenandoah Country Club. Through this event, the Adopt a Refugee Family<br />
Program hoped to raise the funds required to help an additional 208 refugee families.<br />
1. Ban Zora, Kaitlin Senawi, Marcine Karmo<br />
2. Nancy Mezy, Sandy Sesi, Karl Sinawi<br />
3. Lutfi Talia, Najib Jamil<br />
4. Summer Asmar Vought, Marah Karana<br />
5. Emil Abona, Patrice Abona.<br />
6. Izdihar Yono, Neran Karmo, Angie Abdal<br />
7. Vito Gioia, Jerry Flannery<br />
8. Elham Roumayah, Father Jirji Abrahim,<br />
Wally Roumayah<br />
9. Amor Karana, Justin Hanna<br />
10. Sr. Beninia Shikwana, Sr. Therese Shikwana,<br />
Pia Jajo<br />
11. Balsam Sadik, Nadine George, Summer<br />
Asmar Vought, Sarmed Taila, Jumhoria Kaskorkis<br />
12. Sued Bitti, galia Thomes,<br />
Father Andrew Seba, Eli Thomes<br />
13. Fr. Pierre Konja, Deacon Fadie Gorgies,<br />
Fr. Andrew Seba, Marcus Shammami<br />
14. Ihab Albanna<br />
15. Fr. Fadi Habib<br />
16. Basil Bacall<br />
17. Deacon Fadie Gorgies<br />
18. Zuhair Nagara<br />
19. Monsignor Zuhair Kejbou, Fr. Andrew Seba<br />
46 CHALDEAN NEWS <strong>NOVEMBER</strong> <strong>2017</strong>
A CELEBRATION OF<br />
giving<br />
&gratitude<br />
We each have countless<br />
reasons to be thankful.<br />
And as we all extend a<br />
hand in the spirit of giving<br />
and gratitude to our<br />
neighbors at home<br />
and around the world,<br />
we at Kroger are reminded<br />
how joyful we are to serve<br />
this special community<br />
every day of the year.<br />
So on behalf of Kroger<br />
and all our associates,<br />
we wish your family a<br />
warm and blessed day<br />
of giving and thanks.<br />
©<strong>2017</strong> The Kroger Co.
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