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Grief in Women Religious 3<br />

performed by Thompson, Gallagher-Thompson, Futterman, Gilewski, and Peterson<br />

(1991) also found that grief resolution may not be completed within the first year <strong>of</strong> the<br />

loss. This study found that grief can continue for 30 months after the death <strong>of</strong> a spouse.<br />

Furthermore, Parkes and Weiss (1983) suggest that depression may subside over the first<br />

12 months <strong>of</strong> bereavement, but distress surrounding loss issues continues for a number <strong>of</strong><br />

years.<br />

Several studies found that each loss is unique and that the bereaved lives the loss<br />

uniquely by getting in touch fully with their sorrow (Kenel, 1994; Solari-Twadell,<br />

Bunkers, Wang, & Snyder, 1995) and coping with their feelings (Cowan, 1983). DeVries<br />

(1997) reports that adjustment to the death <strong>of</strong> a loved one takes place on multiple levels.<br />

During this period <strong>of</strong> mourning, the bereaved person searches to find meaning in the<br />

death as well as a new self-meaning (Rosenblatt et al., 1991). Failure to admit the<br />

finality <strong>of</strong> the loss may leave the individual enveloped in depression and anger (Kenel,<br />

1994). <strong>The</strong> resolution <strong>of</strong> grief, however, can enhance an individual's personal richness<br />

and depth and lead to new inner strength (Solari-Twadell et al., 1995), which makes it<br />

possible for love and creativity to intensify (Laakso & Paunonen-Ilmonen, 2002).<br />

Research suggests that social support appears to have a positive effect on grief resolution<br />

and increases personal growth.<br />

Social Support and Grief<br />

Social support is a source <strong>of</strong> nurturance that can positively or negatively impact<br />

an individual's well-being (Laakso & Paunonen-Ilmonen, 2002). Through social support,<br />

individuals develop healthy coping strategies and come to view crises with new insight<br />

(Schaefer & Moos, 2001). By facilitating a clearer understanding <strong>of</strong> the stressful

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