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Grief in Women Religious 9<br />

spirituality also can focus on an indefinable substance that provides meaning in the<br />

individual's life. In recent years, bereavement scholars have attempted to integrate grief<br />

studies and spirituality by reflecting on clinical and/or individual experiences. Studies<br />

found that, for individuals who believe in God, grief may produce a spiritual crisis that<br />

leaves the bereaved depressed, helpless, and hopeless, and it also may raise faith<br />

questions that are incongruent with the individual's spiritual roots (Massey, 2000). This<br />

spiritual turning point reflects a rupture in the person's present relationship with God and<br />

consequently, the bereaved may experience loneliness and desolation (Massey, 2000).<br />

Consolation, however, may be obtained by sensing the presence <strong>of</strong> the deceased in a<br />

religious experience such as private prayer, ritual, or prayer services (Klass, 1993). On<br />

these occasions the mourners may feel God's presence which brings comfort and peace;<br />

however, many will likely still feel the sadness and emptiness associated with grief<br />

(Bullitt-Jonas, 1994).<br />

Balk's (1999) examination <strong>of</strong> case studies indicates that bereavement also affects<br />

spirituality by challenging innate beliefs about life. This may shake faith systems and<br />

lead to a period <strong>of</strong> inner turmoil as the bereaved searches for new meaning. In order to<br />

change the anguish into optimism and be transformed by God, the person must enter into<br />

the grief process, face the pain and make sense <strong>of</strong> the loss (Balk, 1999; Webner, 1999).<br />

In this way, spiritual change can occur and the individual may become compassionate<br />

(Balk, 1999; Chen, 1997). <strong>The</strong>refore, this research may suggest that during times <strong>of</strong> loss,<br />

grief may impact spirituality.<br />

Additional research indicates that spirituality is related to the bereavement<br />

process. Results <strong>of</strong> one qualitative study performed by Golsworthy and Coyle (1999)

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