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Grief in Women Religious 43<br />

women religious were tested as one group, is inconsistent with research on spirituality<br />

and grief, which indicates that spirituality impacts grief resolution (Golsworthy & Coyle,<br />

1999; Marrone, 1999). While spirituality is an important focus for active women<br />

religious, their lives also entail a ministerial dimension. <strong>The</strong>ir ministry requires them to<br />

engage in personal contact with others and to spend less time in silence and structured<br />

prayer (Schneiders, 2000). <strong>The</strong> fast-paced feature <strong>of</strong> the active religious life is similar to<br />

the lifestyle <strong>of</strong> lay people. For these reasons, it appears that spirituality may impact the<br />

grief <strong>of</strong> active women religious as previous research suggests (Golsworthy & Coyle,<br />

1999; Marrone, 1999). In addition, active women religious may also use high perceived<br />

spirituality as a shield to refrain from addressing the pain associated with their loss. This<br />

would be consistent with research that suggests that while faith supports individuals<br />

through the grief process, it can also lead to feelings <strong>of</strong> embarrassment and guilt when<br />

individuals criticize themselves for not coping more effectively with their loss<br />

(Golsworthy & Coyle, 1999). In contrast to the active group, results indicate that for the<br />

contemplative group spirituality at time 1 did not impact grief at time 2. This finding is<br />

consistent with a longitudinal study <strong>of</strong> bereaved adults using the TRIG and a spirituality<br />

scale which did not find a significant relation between spirituality and grief (Longman,<br />

1993). Additional research in this area is needed.<br />

Moreover, the difference found between active and contemplative women<br />

religious may also suggest a relation between religious lifestyles and coping styles. <strong>The</strong><br />

lifestyle <strong>of</strong> active women religious may provide more overt opportunities for coping such<br />

as personal therapy, support groups, or frequent contact with other individuals who have<br />

lost loved ones; whereas, in the contemplative life, due to its structure, these

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