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CODEPENDENCE - DEAN AMORY

PERSONALITY DISORDER, CODEPENDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS, PSYCHOLOGY, LOVE, MATRIMONY, LIFE, LIVE,

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Sponsorship<br />

In twelve-step programs, a sponsor is a more experienced person in recovery<br />

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the final of the twelve steps is often interpreted to imply becoming a sponsor to<br />

newcomers in recovery. "Sponsorship, with its continuing interest in another<br />

alcoholic, often develops when the second person is willing to be helped, admits<br />

having a drinking<br />

problem, and<br />

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"Sponsors share<br />

their experience,<br />

strength, and hope<br />

with their<br />

sponsees... A<br />

sponsor’s role is

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