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CODEPENDENCE - DEAN AMORY

PERSONALITY DISORDER, CODEPENDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS, PSYCHOLOGY, LOVE, MATRIMONY, LIFE, LIVE,

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12 Step Process<br />

THE BIBLE & THE TWELVE STEPS<br />

The 12 Steps, properly<br />

understood, are actually twelve<br />

verses of scripture specifically<br />

chosen and simplified for<br />

the addicted one. When properly<br />

applied, they have the ability to<br />

walk a man out of bondage, clean<br />

him up, teach him how to live,<br />

and equip him to effectively help<br />

others find freedom. A physically<br />

sick person would go to a doctor<br />

and get a medicinal prescription,<br />

and if taken as directed, would<br />

hopefully recover. The addicted<br />

one on the other hand has damage<br />

in all three areas (body, soul, and<br />

spirit) and is in need of healing in<br />

all three areas. The problems<br />

burried deep within the soul and<br />

spirit are spiritual and thus require<br />

a spiritual solution. The only One<br />

that can expose and dispose<br />

(surgically remove them) is<br />

the Spiritual Surgeon, Jesus.<br />

The twelve steps, "a spiritual prescription of scripture" are twelve verses of<br />

scripture simplified for the alcoholic and the addict to understand, accept, and utilize.<br />

This process, Biblically speaking, is known as deliverance.<br />

This simple formula has the ability to deliver an abuser from a life of bondage<br />

and insanity, to a place of freedom, peace, and joy. We find in Jesus, what most have<br />

been searching for in the bottle, a needle, and a pipe.<br />

Steps 1 through 3 have the ability to take a person from a state of selfish selfcenteredness,<br />

powerless, helpless, and hopeless, to a Christ-centered life, hopeful and<br />

all-powerful in Christ Jesus. At step three, the all-powerful Helper comes to live within.<br />

"Made a decision" has deeper meaning to it. To decide actually means to kill off the<br />

other option or options. In the process of deliverance, this term is called renounce.<br />

When we decide to turn our will and life over to the care of God, we are<br />

actually renouncing the connections we have made with the other gods we were<br />

worshiping such as alcohol, drugs, sex, etc. The Gate Keeper, our Lord Jesus Christ, the<br />

only One with the power to get them out, can and will get them out and will keep them<br />

out but only if He is asked. He is the giver and respecter of free will, leaving it up to us<br />

to choose how we want to live. When a spirit is removed (in the power of Jesus), the<br />

only way that spirit can return is through a conscious or unconscious invite back. God<br />

has given man a free will and He will certainly respect and protect it.<br />

Steps 4 through 9 are house cleaning steps, a time to utilize the Helper (the Holy Spirit<br />

living within) in the cleansing process of inner self. First, immoral behavior (sin) is dealt

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