CODEPENDENCE - DEAN AMORY
PERSONALITY DISORDER, CODEPENDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS, PSYCHOLOGY, LOVE, MATRIMONY, LIFE, LIVE,
PERSONALITY DISORDER, CODEPENDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS, PSYCHOLOGY, LOVE, MATRIMONY, LIFE, LIVE,
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say, “I’m not going to eat ice cream every day, because I don’t want to get fat so I’ll<br />
choose more fruits and vegetables.” Your unconscious hears, “I’m going to eat ice cream,<br />
I’m going to get fat, I’m going to choose more fruits and vegetables.” These messages<br />
are usually enhanced mentally with pictures of ice cream and being fat instead of eating<br />
healthy vegetables and a healthy body.<br />
Affirmations That Work!<br />
Most spend far more time thinking what they don’t want than<br />
what they desire. Each time you think about a problem in a<br />
particular habitual way, the mental circuits or pathways get<br />
activated and strengthen with each recall. Through time,<br />
mental ruts form that makes it difficult to reorganize information,<br />
or see it from a different perspective, much less<br />
choose a different behavior.<br />
Reversal Conflict Tapping Technique uses a combination of<br />
energy modalities including Touch for health, Eye Movement<br />
Desensitization, and the Acupuncture Meridian System. The<br />
goal is to 1) confuse and weaken negative habits and neural<br />
pathways, and 2) replace and strengthen new, positive<br />
patterns of connections between the nerve cells, so<br />
increasing the odds are that you will call up the new memory.<br />
Real change without the struggle can be realized when the<br />
unconscious and conscious brain and body are congruent.<br />
Given the right tools, all parts are willing, ready and able to<br />
change.<br />
Reversal Conflict Tapping Technique:<br />
Goal: Confuse and delete old habits and install a new ones.<br />
1. Pinpoint your underlying negative emotion or state: fear,<br />
stressed, anxious, depressed, failure, angry, overwhelmed,<br />
guilty, sad, jealous, stuck, frustrated, hopeless, powerless<br />
2. The key to choice and change is to make peace with your<br />
conflicting parts that sabotage your intentions and<br />
affirmations. This requires self acceptance and love for<br />
yourself just the way you are presently, even before things change, even if things never<br />
change.<br />
Say: “In spite of this inner conflict, _______ (ie, fear, anxiety,depression, apathy, anger,<br />
failure, conflict, etc.) “ I deeply and profoundly love, accept, and respect myself.”<br />
3. Stimulate both brain hemispheres. Since your brain has 100 billion neurons, each<br />
being a “learning center” capable of storing new information, activate this potential by<br />
tapping.<br />
Do: Tap lightly in a semi-circle on the area one inch above and around the ear.<br />
4. Circular eye movements integrate both brain hemispheres to assist in deleting the<br />
mental ruts and replacing them with new information.<br />
Do: With your head still and facing straight, move your eyes in a large circle, then begin<br />
looking down on the floor, move them to the right as if you are outlining a large circle<br />
with your eye. Follow the imaginary circle up and down the opposite side, and back to<br />
the floor where you started. Repeat the circles for 5-6 times in one direction, then<br />
change directions for 5-6 eye circles.<br />
* Combine A, B, C to delete the old and enhance the new.