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CODEPENDENCE - DEAN AMORY

PERSONALITY DISORDER, CODEPENDENCE, RELATIONSHIPS, PSYCHOLOGY, LOVE, MATRIMONY, LIFE, LIVE,

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say, “I’m not going to eat ice cream every day, because I don’t want to get fat so I’ll<br />

choose more fruits and vegetables.” Your unconscious hears, “I’m going to eat ice cream,<br />

I’m going to get fat, I’m going to choose more fruits and vegetables.” These messages<br />

are usually enhanced mentally with pictures of ice cream and being fat instead of eating<br />

healthy vegetables and a healthy body.<br />

Affirmations That Work!<br />

Most spend far more time thinking what they don’t want than<br />

what they desire. Each time you think about a problem in a<br />

particular habitual way, the mental circuits or pathways get<br />

activated and strengthen with each recall. Through time,<br />

mental ruts form that makes it difficult to reorganize information,<br />

or see it from a different perspective, much less<br />

choose a different behavior.<br />

Reversal Conflict Tapping Technique uses a combination of<br />

energy modalities including Touch for health, Eye Movement<br />

Desensitization, and the Acupuncture Meridian System. The<br />

goal is to 1) confuse and weaken negative habits and neural<br />

pathways, and 2) replace and strengthen new, positive<br />

patterns of connections between the nerve cells, so<br />

increasing the odds are that you will call up the new memory.<br />

Real change without the struggle can be realized when the<br />

unconscious and conscious brain and body are congruent.<br />

Given the right tools, all parts are willing, ready and able to<br />

change.<br />

Reversal Conflict Tapping Technique:<br />

Goal: Confuse and delete old habits and install a new ones.<br />

1. Pinpoint your underlying negative emotion or state: fear,<br />

stressed, anxious, depressed, failure, angry, overwhelmed,<br />

guilty, sad, jealous, stuck, frustrated, hopeless, powerless<br />

2. The key to choice and change is to make peace with your<br />

conflicting parts that sabotage your intentions and<br />

affirmations. This requires self acceptance and love for<br />

yourself just the way you are presently, even before things change, even if things never<br />

change.<br />

Say: “In spite of this inner conflict, _______ (ie, fear, anxiety,depression, apathy, anger,<br />

failure, conflict, etc.) “ I deeply and profoundly love, accept, and respect myself.”<br />

3. Stimulate both brain hemispheres. Since your brain has 100 billion neurons, each<br />

being a “learning center” capable of storing new information, activate this potential by<br />

tapping.<br />

Do: Tap lightly in a semi-circle on the area one inch above and around the ear.<br />

4. Circular eye movements integrate both brain hemispheres to assist in deleting the<br />

mental ruts and replacing them with new information.<br />

Do: With your head still and facing straight, move your eyes in a large circle, then begin<br />

looking down on the floor, move them to the right as if you are outlining a large circle<br />

with your eye. Follow the imaginary circle up and down the opposite side, and back to<br />

the floor where you started. Repeat the circles for 5-6 times in one direction, then<br />

change directions for 5-6 eye circles.<br />

* Combine A, B, C to delete the old and enhance the new.

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