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where they were cam ped. T he magazines were pornographyof women she physically resembled: blond, childlike.They called her names from the pornography: Little Gotdiva, Golden Girl, also bitch and slut. They threatened tokill her. They m ade her undress. It was November andcold. One held a rifle to her head; another beat her breastswith his rifle. All three raped her— penile penetration intothe vagina. T he third one couldn’t get hard at first so hedem anded a blow job. She d id n ’t know what that was. T hethird man forced his penis into her m outh; one of theothers cocked the trigger on his rifle. She was told she hadbetter do it right. She tried. W hen they were done withher they kicked her: they kicked her naked body and theykicked leaves and pine needles on her. “[T]hey told methat if I wanted m ore, that I could come back the nextday. ”6She was sexually abused when she was three by a boywho was fourteen— it was a “gam e” he had learned frompornography. “[I]t seems really bizarre to me to use theword ‘boy’ because the only memory I have of this personis as a three year old. And as a three year old he seemedlike a really big m an. ” W hen she was a young adult shewas drugged by men who m ade and sold pornography.She rem em bers flashing lights, being forced onto a stage,being undressed by two men and sexually touched by athird. Men were waving money at her: “one of them shovedit in my stomach and essentially punched me. I kept wonderinghow it was possible that they couldn’t see that Ididn’t want to be there, that I wasn’t there willingly. ”7She had a boyfriend. She was twenty-one. One night hewent to a stag party and watched pornography films. Hecalled her up to ask if he could have sex with her. She feltobligated to make him happy. “I also felt that the refusalwould be indicative o f sexual quote unquote hang-ups onmy part and that I was not quote unquote liberal enough.6 . S e e P u b l i c H e a r i n g s , M i n n e a p o l i s , p p . 3 8 - 3 9 .7 . S e e P u b l i c H e a r i n g s , M i n n e a p o l i s , p p . 3 9 - 4 1 .
When he arrived, he informed me that the other men atthe party were envious that he had a girlfriend to fuck.They wanted to fuck too after watching the pornography.He informed me of this as he was taking his coat off. ” Hehad her perform oral sex on him: “I did not do this of myown volition. He put his genitals in my face and he said‘Take it all. ’ ” He fucked her. The whole encounter took0about five minutes. Then he dressed and went back to theparty. “I felt ashamed and numb and I also felt very used. ”8She was seventeen, he was nineteen. He was an art student.He used her body for photography assignments byputting her body in contorted positions and telling herrape stories to get the expression he wanted on her face:fear. About a year later he had an assignment to do bodycasts in plaster. He couldn’t get models because the plasterwas heavy and caused fainting. She was a premed student.She tried to explain to him how deleterious the effects ofthe plaster were. “W'hen you put plaster on your body, itsets up, it draws the blood to the skin and the more areait covers on your body, the more blood is drawn to yourskin. You become dizzy and nauseous and sick to yourstomach and finally faint. ” He needed his work to be exhibited,so he needed her to model. She tried. She couldn’tstand the heat and the weight of the plaster. “He wantedme to be in poses where I had to hold my hands up overmy head, and they would be numb and they would fall.He eventually tied my hands over my head. ” They gotmarried. During the course of their marriage he began toconsume more and more pornography. He would readexcerpts to her from the magazines about group sex, wifeswapping, anal intercourse, and bondage. They would goto pornography films and wet T-shirt contests with friends.“1 felt devastated and disgusted watching it. I was told bythose men that if I wasn’t as smart as I was and if 1 wouldbe more sexually liberated and more sexy that I would getalong a lot better in the world and that they and a lot of
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Page 7 and 8: F or Jo h n S toltenbergIn M em ory
Page 9 and 10: C o n t e n t sIntroductionxiiiPref
Page 11 and 12: sires; and I appealed to them, whet
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Page 15: esist; they disappear when the dang
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Page 23 and 24: word to make it denote a story, pro
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Page 33 and 34: who were the same, never of those w
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Page 46 and 47: women evil; he exterminates nine mi
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Page 52 and 53: culture, he is a giant, enlarged by
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Page 56 and 57: hunter, think of seals clubbed to d
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Page 62 and 63: limited framework of male sexual va
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another female’s cunt. ” The hu
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studio. Narrator wonders whether he
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sleep. Rod wakes to find Larry assf
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Lesbians are in each vignette. In t
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distinctly pinkish. One of her hand
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Men and BoysJust so docs Miller ret
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The boy will be a witness as the fa
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Body, philosopher Norman O. Brown,
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penis signifies humanity. Though th
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Throughout male culture, the penis
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aggression of the aggressor and use
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does not exist; rape of the sacred
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male who cannot change his devalued
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Male perceptions of women are askew
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The solution, as Dinnerstein sees i
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other century. There are only the o
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3The Marquis de Sade ( 1 7 4 0 —1
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most of the women and girls he abus
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Sade took Keller to his private hou
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another order was issued for his ar
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sporadically). O n Sade’s release
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perhaps fourteen years old, essenti
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With his usual perception about him
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power of the biographers to define
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esistance from “puritanical” or
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had the authority to spend her mone
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degree, is authentic because a man
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collection of Sade’s work, point
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sexuality. The shared victim result
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Sade himself, in a footnote to Juli
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A daughter’s turning on her mothe
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Sade’s work in exciting the imagi
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is movable property— cattle, wive
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The whole world outside man himself
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image of her while being an externa
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falling off a log for her. It is ea
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leave her alone. The moment we leav
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Brain is absolutely clear that “[
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sterile word for the phenomenon tha
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significantly determine the quality
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in the realm of female beauty, the
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The prostitute is seen as the antit
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ment. It can also be seen as the cu
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in other words, ” writes Becker,
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Ullerstam, in The Erotic Minorities
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Mother, whore, beauty, abomination,
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own. H er race is ambiguous. From h
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weapon in her hand. Still, the olde
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W ith both the male and the female,
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is propaganda, whether used for soc
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it that way. ” ’7 The weak are
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means that it also generates incred
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the poisonous materials which are u
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Willy linked the experience of blac
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This cautious statement avoids the
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are not really distinct because the
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maintained; otherwise— especially
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variable. It is determined more by
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aised slightly off the floor. The p
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ut she belongs to the Anglo boyfrie
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something important for his complic
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value to possession of the woman. T
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confusing. She is without purpose.
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sex. Force is sex. The woman who wa
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United States, expressed the weary
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head. They parked near the corpse a
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made her lock herself in the wardro
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her robe or back or head while he w
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sat him in a wooden armchair. Simon
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among intellectuals: he writes of h
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ing, or even alerting, conscience.
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followers conclude that women have
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y the human female never matched hi
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programs for combating what is call
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obvious sort of commercialized pros
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When the mates discover them in coi
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scientists, that lip was just looki
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means that force was not used in co
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encouragement was nothing of the so
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vs. adults, ” the sexual act was
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In a study specifically of force us
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T he porne was the cheapest (in the
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the porneia as the technology widen
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why rape is absurd and incomprehens
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ecommendation that legal persecutio
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confined to the cultural level of a
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In the introduction to Black Fashio
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her between her black loins. She sc
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Robert Grey does not want to hurt h
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use of her sex is the use of her sk
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hymen [laughs] so he can’t take i
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enlarged uterus displaces the rest
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ers as whores— completes the pict
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And inside this system, women are p
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Women Against Sexist Violence in Po
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3. John Stoltenberg, “Eroticism a
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26. Gorer, Life and Ideas, p. 37.27
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18. Otto Weininger, Sex and Charact
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58. Ibid., p. 14.59. Herbert Marcus
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43. Ibid., p. 120.44. Ibid., p. 63.
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9. John Wolfenden, Report of the Co
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Addams, Jane. A New Conscience and
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Symons. New York: Albert & Charles
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York: W. VV. Norton & Co., 1978.Bur
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Cooke, Joanne; Charlotte Bunch-Week
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Didion, Joan. The White Album. New
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Fedder, Ruth. A Girl Grows Up. New
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Fuchs, Estelle. The Second Season:
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Goffman, Erving. Relations in Publi
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York: Random House, Vintage Books,
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Ivinskaya, Olga. A Captive of Time.
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Youth. New York: W. W. Norton & Co.
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Lewis, Oscar. Tbe Children of Sanch
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--------- . A Woman's Life. Transla
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Nehrich, Richard B., Jr.; Glenn I.
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of the Commission on Obscenity and
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New York: New York University Press
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Shiloh, Ailon, ed. Studies in Human
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Strindberg, August. Inferno and Fro
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Wald, Karen. Children of Che. Palo
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A r t ic l e s , I n t e r v ie w s
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--------- . “The Lie. ” New Wom
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Kristol, Irving. “T he Shadow of
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“Playboy Gives First Amendment Aw
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IndexAbortionconstraints on rights
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Christ, 53Civilization, as tamer of
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FreedomBrown’s definition of, 52a
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Lerner, Max, 208-9Lesbiansin / Love
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and women as instruments,109-13“O
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Women, ” 160-64Brain on, 112celeb
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Snuff artist, Sade as, 92Snuff film
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