Reformed Presbyterian Minutes of Synod 1995 - Rparchives.org

162 MINUTES OF THE SYNOD OF THEordained leaders to be present and to participate in worship. When theofficers of the church call upon the members of the church to assemble toworship, they may not introduce into the worship any element which Godhas not commanded in His Word. To do so would infringe upon the libertywhich Christ gives His people from the doctrines and commandments olmen.It follows that in situations in which the church has not called the peopleto gather for worship, as in musical concerts and social gatherings or atfuneral services or weddings, the regulative principle does not apply. It is insuch gatherings that religious music other than the Psalms has its properplace. In such gatherings it is not improper for the Psalms to be sung withinstrumental accompaniment, provided they are not used irreverently.The Funeral Service2. Bringing comfort at the time of death is the distinct ministry of thepeople of God. Such ministry is deeply needed and appreciated, and theteaching elder particularly is to be ready to give help. He should goimmediately to be with the family to listen to them, to share the comfort ofGod's Word, to pray with and for them, to assure them of the support ofGod's people, and to be available to help with funeral arrangements3. While it is neither unscriptural nor inappropriate to have the funeralservice in the home or in a funeral establishment, there are seriousconsiderations for having the service in the church building: this is whereGod's people meet, where the Word of God is proclaimed, where theblessings of worship have been experienced and where it is natural to seekGod's strength and comfort in a funeral service in which the wholecongregation can participate. While it is well to keep good rapport with thefuneral director, it should be remembered that the pastor determines thecontent and form of the funeral service. He will want to consult the familyregarding the participation of other ministers. There should be nocompromise with secret orders or other non-Christian organizations. If calledto officiate where such organizations desire to perform their ritual, the pastorshould keep his service distinctly separate.4. The funeral of a Christian is a service where we mourn the loss of aloved one and yet rejoice in the hope of eternal life through Jesus Christ. TheScriptures are to have a prominent place. The singing of suitable Psalms ismost appropriate. The prayers should be well considered and shouldcommend the bereaved to the comfort of God's grace. The address shouldbe timely, and without undue praise of the dead. It should set forth Christand His salvation as the basis of comfort to the bereaved and counsel to theliving. Remember that God in His grace often uses such times when people'shearts are tender. It is fitting that the family be consulted before the serviceregarding appropriate Scripture readings, Psalms, and information for theobituary.