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In Other Words<br />
Good-bye, Sweet Girl<br />
Hello, There!<br />
Joan Macaluso • Fairfax, Virginia<br />
(Author's note: Throughout this article, there<br />
are places where the reader may have the<br />
impression that Pup Pup is actually speaking<br />
to us as a living human would. In actuality, the<br />
medium receives imagesfrom the spirit coming<br />
through from the other side. The animal does<br />
not obtain the ability to speak after death.<br />
They provide images that are interpreted by<br />
the person receiving them. Sometimes they are<br />
easy to understand, other times they are more<br />
difficult. In this particular case, Pup Pup<br />
so goodat communicating her thoughts we had<br />
little difficulty understanding the meaning. Not<br />
all readings may be this easy to understand.)<br />
Febraary 28,<strong>2005</strong>, started out like<br />
any normal day. Shower, dress,<br />
walk the dog, offto work. I called<br />
home about half way through the<br />
day to check for messages. There was<br />
one from my friend, Wendy. She sounded<br />
very upset, but didn't leave any message<br />
other than to call her. Of course, I didn't<br />
have her number with me! I was frantic to<br />
reach Wendy because I knew something<br />
had happened. I called a mutual friend of<br />
ours who told me that Pup Pup had passed<br />
way.<br />
Pup Pup was a little blue merle who<br />
stole my heart seven years ago when she<br />
first came to live with Wendy. Though<br />
Pup Pup was not supposed to live long<br />
(see the story of Pup Pup's heart surgery<br />
in the January-February 2002 issue of the<br />
Aussie Times), she survived despite the<br />
odds stacked against her.<br />
Pup Pup split the first couple of years<br />
of her life betweenmy home and Wendy's.<br />
She was a sweet, loving, affectionate girl<br />
who could make you laugh no matter how<br />
bad you felt. She seemed to know exactly<br />
what you needed, when you needed it and<br />
wouldgoto anylengthsto makethepeople<br />
she lovedhappy. She triedharder than any<br />
dog I had ever met, whether doing basic<br />
obedience (the only title she ever earned<br />
was her CGC), herding, or being a devoted<br />
pet.<br />
The news of Pup Pup's death was shocking,<br />
to say the least. The details were sketchy<br />
due to Wendy's emotional state. Basically,<br />
all I knew was that she was found laying in<br />
the snow in the yard. After the conversation<br />
with Wendy, I asked my boss if I could go<br />
home. The grief was overwhelming and I<br />
did not want my co-workers to have to deal<br />
with my sobbing. I came home, fell onto the<br />
couch, and cried myself to sleep.<br />
Wendy and I talked off and on the<br />
next couple ofdays. I was given more and<br />
more information about Pup Pup's death,<br />
but there were so many questions with<br />
no answers. I resigned myself to the fact<br />
that Pup's death would remain a partial<br />
mystery. No autopsy was done since the<br />
vet did not believe it would give us any<br />
conclusive answers.So many questions, so<br />
few answers.<br />
Whileworking at the SuperPet Expo<br />
inChantilly, VA, theweekendof 1-3 April,<br />
I had the opportunity to meet a woman<br />
who would change that for me. Her name<br />
is Barb Mallon; she is a psychic medium.<br />
When I realized there was a medium at the<br />
expo doing readings, I brought Pup Pup's<br />
picture with me to the next day in the hopes<br />
I would be able to schedule a reading with<br />
Barb. This was not my first experience with<br />
a medium, but it was my first experience<br />
with Barb. My previous experiences in<br />
communicating with my pets had been<br />
limited to the ones that currently live with<br />
me and had been provided by a woman I<br />
now consider a friend. I wasn't sure how a<br />
reading with a deceased pet would work, or<br />
if it even would work,but decided to give<br />
it a try just so I could know I had tried to<br />
reach Pup Pup.<br />
I told Barb that this would be a difficult<br />
reading for me since Pup Pup had died so<br />
recently. Barb said "Okay" and handed me<br />
a box of tissues. She explained to me that<br />
Pup Pup may not come through this soon<br />
after her death, as it sometimes takes a few<br />
AUSSIE TIMES I <strong>July</strong>-<strong>Aug</strong>ust <strong>2005</strong> 109