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HEALTHY LIVING<br />

to let them linger on it<br />

too much. Try and make<br />

every day as normal as<br />

possible with your kids<br />

– cancer or not, none of<br />

us know how long we’ve<br />

got on this planet.<br />

I’m a big believer<br />

in you are what you<br />

eat. I’ve had cancer<br />

three times now. Sugars – a big no, no,<br />

they feed cancer cells – processed food,<br />

meat, and salt, you know it’s a minefield<br />

and we must take our diet and our health<br />

seriously. We’re no different to an engine<br />

in that respect – if you put the wrong fuel<br />

in the car, the engine will stop. Healthy<br />

choices are difficult when we’re all so busy<br />

trying to manage work and family, on<br />

the road, so we tend to take shortcuts to<br />

eating. But we’re becoming much more<br />

food-aware now, you see ‘pack-turners’<br />

in the supermarket, reading nutritional<br />

information- you didn’t see that five years<br />

ago. Thankfully the media is bringing health<br />

and nutrition to the forefront.<br />

YOU KNOW YOUR<br />

BODY BETTER<br />

THAN ANYBODY<br />

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The Dark Knight? Sir Richard<br />

Branson? My personal role model<br />

through my whole life is not a celebrity<br />

personality, but my close, high-school friend<br />

– Robbie. His tenacity, drive, his approach<br />

to deal-making and blue-sky thinking was<br />

always my inspiration. I have seen him<br />

starting successful businesses and crashing<br />

some of them, yet coming out stronger<br />

and more tenacious each time to build<br />

even better companies in Australia and the<br />

United States.<br />

The community I served with during<br />

my years in Australian Special Forces also<br />

inspired me. I always respected my peers<br />

and senior members and admired their<br />

“can do” attitude and ability to turn every<br />

negative to a positive. The “no nonsense”<br />

approach to getting a job done which<br />

my unit and colleagues instilled in me<br />

has always been my bedrock to this day.<br />

The ethos and determination I learned is<br />

ingrained and gives me my outlook to how<br />

I conduct my businesses and carry myself<br />

through life.<br />

When it comes to your health -<br />

you know your body better than<br />

anybody. I was too much of a bloke<br />

about it and swept it under the carpet for<br />

a year, during which time the cancer had a<br />

chance to thrive. Check it early, get it early<br />

and sort it early. If the pain persists keep<br />

pushing until you get answers.<br />

I was getting pains in my back and got<br />

misdiagnosed four times before we<br />

knew what was going on. Had all the<br />

usual blood pressure checks. Took the<br />

recommended pain relief meds. Got the<br />

all clear from blood tests. Third time to<br />

my GP I got a referral for x-rays and they<br />

came back all clear. Then I thought I’d best<br />

stop complaining even though the pain<br />

persisted. It was only when I – and my then<br />

partner – found a lump in my chest, that<br />

the doctors found the bones had been<br />

decaying from the tumours in my ribcage.<br />

And was told I had late stage four cancer<br />

of the chest and stomach with only a few<br />

weeks left to live. I had to change my<br />

focus, take the treatment, get determined<br />

and deal with the battle ahead. That<br />

was five years ago. I’m still here: seventy<br />

treatments and three operations.<br />

It’s not something to be feared but<br />

something that you have to do your best<br />

to overcome. Mind-set is 80% of the<br />

battle. It’s about having the right approach<br />

to facing the disease – the right diet, no<br />

sugar. Being determined. Never forget<br />

what you’re fighting for. I want to see my<br />

boys grow up and give them away at their<br />

weddings, then my job’s done.<br />

On a good day I feel great – I’ve had<br />

cancer three times in the past five years and<br />

I’m classified as terminal from a medical<br />

point of view. It’s thrown up a challenge<br />

for my mind-set to prove the doctors<br />

wrong. My children get me through. My<br />

businesses, my passion for life and making<br />

this brand the best it can be.<br />

No regrets – It’s humbling to be<br />

surrounded by so many amazing people<br />

at Mr Lee’s. I’m grateful to be learning so<br />

much on the journey with the business.<br />

And for the little wins – a customer<br />

writing on social media about how our<br />

product has made a difference to their<br />

life is sometimes bigger than a Mr Lee’s<br />

supermarket launch. I’ve built an amazing<br />

business alongside raising my boys. The<br />

disease has made me more determined.<br />

Focussed. Slowed me down in a good<br />

way – the things I used to think were<br />

priorities are no longer priorities. I used<br />

to put my family after work and now my<br />

family come first.<br />

www.mrleesnoodles.com<br />

<strong>MAN</strong> MAGAZINE WINTER <strong>2019</strong><br />

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