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Student Life | Issue 40

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LGBT

CO-EDITOR RAINE HATCH

LGBTQs

BY RAINE HATCH

Hello! Let’s play a game of ‘who am

I’ (not the existential kind. Maybe

later, though). As your new LGBT+

co-editor, Raine, I’m using our

first LGBTQ’s session together to

introduce to you what I’m all about,

so that hopefully, you may feel

comfortable introducing yourself

and your story to me in return. Let’s

begin!

HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY EXACTLY?

As of today, I am a girl, attracted

to girls. I am also attracted to the

prospect of a student debt-free life,

but it’s tricky to get either these days,

huh.

To be upfront, labels sit weirdly with

me. ‘Lesbian’ is what I tell people, how

I relate to those sweet LGBT+ memes,

what I put under ‘current employment

status’ in my CV and so on – but in

the end, I am Raine. Some days, I just

want to cuddle and marathon 2000’s

British sitcoms with anybody nice, I

don’t mind! Others, I get this superintrusive

urge to start a cat empire

with any cute girl who smiles my

way. I also like to wear a chest binder

because it gives me confidence. But

does that mean I must embark on

some spiralling quest to find the label

for me? Long story short: CBA.

ARE YOU OUT OF THE CLOSET?

My definition may vary to yours.

Being ‘out’ to me is a state of mind;

fully accepting the person you are on

the inside, you’ll feel free to radiate

that energy on the outside for all the

world to see. In that sense, I’m out

to everybody. I am a power-walking,

high-heeled queer on a mission to

(consensually) steal your lady. Boom.

Well, I’m out to everybody, except for

my parents. They are not to know for

as long as I live under their roof, and I

have made peace with this fact.

HOW DO YOU COPE WITH

HAVING TO HIDE YOUR QUEER

IDENTITY FROM YOUR FAMILY?

I accept that it’s going to suck. It’s

65 • 65 MARCH • LGBT 2019 • STUDENT • STUDENT LIFE LIFE

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