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wellness & beauty<br />
Shira on Fringe<br />
By Shira Walden<br />
Everybody always asks me how I got into this<br />
business. This story is more about sisterhood<br />
than it is about a boutique.<br />
There are two sides to sisterhood. The first<br />
is mirroring, the search for oneself through<br />
reflection of the other—that which powers the<br />
undercurrent power struggle, competition,<br />
and insecurity; the delicate dance of love<br />
and hate that only siblings often share. Then<br />
there is the built-in best friend.<br />
Tova always knew how to see the bigger<br />
picture. The first to dip her toe—actually, to<br />
cannonball—into the pool of opportunities,<br />
and pull me in afterward. Into the cold lakes<br />
spotted across Ontario, whizzing down the<br />
steep road in rollerblades she went, and I<br />
followed. From teaching dance to teaching<br />
high school she forged, and I joined. In a<br />
twisted sense of fate she got divorced, as did<br />
I the same calendar year. Much like brethren<br />
sharing a foxhole, we sought solace in each<br />
other. The unconditional love, mutual respect<br />
of sisterhood grew, and the competition<br />
faded into dust of the past immaturity.<br />
Tova and I have a yin-yang thing going on.<br />
She is the Coke to my Sprite, the sweet red<br />
wine to my dry white, and most importantly,<br />
the air to my fire. What we discovered here is<br />
that together our differences create a more<br />
wholesome result. So Tova shared Fringe with<br />
me and eight months later we transformed it<br />
to Sisters on Fringe with two locations, one in<br />
Toronto and one in south Florida.<br />
Fringe is a place where two sisters curate<br />
a collection of modest fashion for their<br />
communities. The racks are the confluence of<br />
female entrepreneurs, providing access to a<br />
wide range of modest fashion. The boutique<br />
is a culmination of many Jewish brands,<br />
bringing diversity, unity, and sisterhood.<br />
Our motto here is dress to express,<br />
not impress. There is this idea in pop<br />
culture today of the ideal woman.<br />
It’s not explicitly said; it’s more of<br />
an image portrayed and taken in<br />
by the subconscious mind. We adopt<br />
this idea without even realizing it,<br />
of how one is supposed to look. It’s<br />
ever-present in our everyday lives,<br />
right there in the palm of our hands.<br />
To the point that when we look in<br />
the mirror, what we see reflecting<br />
back is what’s wrong rather than<br />
what’s right. How do I know? I have<br />
this large mirror in my store, leaning<br />
against a wall. Standing in front<br />
of that mirror is a vulnerable place<br />
for people to be. The truth is, there<br />
is no one way to look. Diversity is<br />
what makes us whole. The sum of<br />
our parts is greater than the whole.<br />
There is so much beauty in our<br />
differences. There is always a dress<br />
that is right—for your unique shape,<br />
for your style, and your expression.<br />
And what I want to create at Fringe<br />
is a celebration of life. To empower<br />
women to look in that mirror and see<br />
what’s right, to see their beauty and<br />
express it.<br />
sisters on<br />
Shira<br />
Tova<br />
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