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wellness & beauty<br />

Shira on Fringe<br />

By Shira Walden<br />

Everybody always asks me how I got into this<br />

business. This story is more about sisterhood<br />

than it is about a boutique.<br />

There are two sides to sisterhood. The first<br />

is mirroring, the search for oneself through<br />

reflection of the other—that which powers the<br />

undercurrent power struggle, competition,<br />

and insecurity; the delicate dance of love<br />

and hate that only siblings often share. Then<br />

there is the built-in best friend.<br />

Tova always knew how to see the bigger<br />

picture. The first to dip her toe—actually, to<br />

cannonball—into the pool of opportunities,<br />

and pull me in afterward. Into the cold lakes<br />

spotted across Ontario, whizzing down the<br />

steep road in rollerblades she went, and I<br />

followed. From teaching dance to teaching<br />

high school she forged, and I joined. In a<br />

twisted sense of fate she got divorced, as did<br />

I the same calendar year. Much like brethren<br />

sharing a foxhole, we sought solace in each<br />

other. The unconditional love, mutual respect<br />

of sisterhood grew, and the competition<br />

faded into dust of the past immaturity.<br />

Tova and I have a yin-yang thing going on.<br />

She is the Coke to my Sprite, the sweet red<br />

wine to my dry white, and most importantly,<br />

the air to my fire. What we discovered here is<br />

that together our differences create a more<br />

wholesome result. So Tova shared Fringe with<br />

me and eight months later we transformed it<br />

to Sisters on Fringe with two locations, one in<br />

Toronto and one in south Florida.<br />

Fringe is a place where two sisters curate<br />

a collection of modest fashion for their<br />

communities. The racks are the confluence of<br />

female entrepreneurs, providing access to a<br />

wide range of modest fashion. The boutique<br />

is a culmination of many Jewish brands,<br />

bringing diversity, unity, and sisterhood.<br />

Our motto here is dress to express,<br />

not impress. There is this idea in pop<br />

culture today of the ideal woman.<br />

It’s not explicitly said; it’s more of<br />

an image portrayed and taken in<br />

by the subconscious mind. We adopt<br />

this idea without even realizing it,<br />

of how one is supposed to look. It’s<br />

ever-present in our everyday lives,<br />

right there in the palm of our hands.<br />

To the point that when we look in<br />

the mirror, what we see reflecting<br />

back is what’s wrong rather than<br />

what’s right. How do I know? I have<br />

this large mirror in my store, leaning<br />

against a wall. Standing in front<br />

of that mirror is a vulnerable place<br />

for people to be. The truth is, there<br />

is no one way to look. Diversity is<br />

what makes us whole. The sum of<br />

our parts is greater than the whole.<br />

There is so much beauty in our<br />

differences. There is always a dress<br />

that is right—for your unique shape,<br />

for your style, and your expression.<br />

And what I want to create at Fringe<br />

is a celebration of life. To empower<br />

women to look in that mirror and see<br />

what’s right, to see their beauty and<br />

express it.<br />

sisters on<br />

Shira<br />

Tova<br />

women owned<br />

sister owned<br />

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FLORIDA<br />

TORONTO<br />

<strong>Winter</strong> Issue<br />

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