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healthy families<br />
Grit:<br />
The<br />
Ingredient<br />
that Matters<br />
Most<br />
By Malka Ismach<br />
Picture the scene:<br />
A group of fifth graders<br />
are sitting around<br />
discussing their<br />
upcoming science test<br />
next period.<br />
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Each one is “flaunting” about how<br />
little they studied. I can picture such<br />
a scene vividly. I can almost hear<br />
myself saying that I “barely studied,”<br />
when in truth, I studied intensely for<br />
three hours. Fast forward 20 years<br />
and my husband is now reflecting on<br />
a speaking engagement. I hear him<br />
telling people that it took him an hour<br />
to prepare each minute of his talk. My<br />
immediate reaction is, “I can’t believe<br />
he’s telling people how long it takes<br />
him. That’s so embarrassing.” Fast<br />
forward a few years after that and<br />
I remember an accomplished lawyer<br />
at my Shabbos table proudly talking<br />
about how little she studied for the<br />
bar exam and still passed.<br />
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