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20. My only fear is doing something contrary to human nature—the<br />

wrong thing, the wrong way, or at the wrong time.<br />

21. Close to forgetting it all, close to being forgotten.<br />

22. To feel affection for people even when they make mistakes is<br />

uniquely human. You can do it, if you simply recognize: that they’re human<br />

too, that they act out of ignorance, against their will, and that you’ll both be<br />

dead before long. And, above all, that they haven’t really hurt you. They<br />

haven’t diminished your ability to choose.<br />

23. Nature takes substance and makes a horse. Like a sculptor with wax.<br />

And then melts it down and uses the material for a tree. Then for a person.<br />

Then for something else. Each existing only briefly.<br />

It does the container no harm to be put together, and none to be taken<br />

apart.<br />

24. Anger in the face is unnatural. † . . . † or in the end is put out for<br />

good, so that it can’t be rekindled. Try to conclude its unnaturalness from<br />

that. (If even the consciousness of acting badly has gone, why go on<br />

living?)<br />

25. Before long, nature, which controls it all, will alter everything you<br />

see and use it as material for something else—over and over again. So that<br />

the world is continually renewed.<br />

26. When people injure you, ask yourself what good or harm they<br />

thought would come of it. If you understand that, you’ll feel sympathy<br />

rather than outrage or anger. Your sense of good and evil may be the same<br />

as theirs, or near it, in which case you have to excuse them. Or your sense<br />

of good and evil may differ from theirs. In which case they’re misguided<br />

and deserve your compassion. Is that so hard?<br />

27. Treat what you don’t have as nonexistent. Look at what you have,<br />

the things you value most, and think of how much you’d crave them if you<br />

didn’t have them. But be careful. Don’t feel such satisfaction that you start<br />

to overvalue them—that it would upset you to lose them.

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