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ZIP DOBYNS (Astrology) - Film Score Rundowns

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<strong>ZIP</strong> <strong>DOBYNS</strong> ON COUNSELING<br />

(Sunday, December 2, 1979)<br />

Bernard Rosenblum is a psychotherapist M.D. in New York City, and he gave this<br />

outline which happens to have twelve points. They are not related to the Zodiac signs--it<br />

just happens to come out twelve. But we can relate them to some extent to factors in the<br />

chart, and that is what I found as an interesting exercise to do. He tried to do it just a<br />

little bit in his lecture, but he knows very little astrology. He's a very good therapist with,<br />

I think, a very good understanding of psychology. Here I can bring in more of the<br />

astrological correlates as we go along.<br />

Not necessarily in order of importance, the following first point is nevertheless<br />

very important:<br />

(1) THE NEED FOR A SUPPORTIVE, NONJUDGMENTAL, INTERESTED,<br />

OBJECTIVE ATTITUDE WHICH MUST BE GENUINE.<br />

In other words, if you are going to work with someone, you need to be able to be<br />

supportive & nonjudgmental (not looking down on them) but having respect for them,<br />

accepting them as they are, and wanting to help them find a better life. It is the need to<br />

be interested in them. It has to be genuine, sincere, and yet you also have to be objective.<br />

If you get totally wrapped up in their problems, you are probably not going<br />

to be of any help--you're going to be in there right with them. That's the difference<br />

between seeing someone going down in quicksand and standing outside throwing a rope<br />

OR crawling in with them.<br />

For a counselor to have these qualities, we would want some water in the nature<br />

for the person to be supportive and nurturing and empathic. We would want some air for<br />

the counselor to be nonjudgmental, interested, and objective. So water and air really are<br />

the elements of psychotherapy--the conscious and unconscious mind. It is the ability to<br />

tune into the other person through the unconscious (water), and bring it up into<br />

consciousness, and communicate it (air). If there is too much fire and earth, they are<br />

going to be more likely to push or carry the client or just get impatient and give up. So<br />

water and air, which are relatively passive elements, are still the good ones for<br />

psychotherapy.<br />

(2)THE CLIENT'S NEED TO BE UNDERSTOOD.<br />

This is where the astrologer, on the one hand, has an enormous opportunity and<br />

advantage over the psychotherapist; on the other hand, it is an enormous danger because<br />

we think by looking at the chart we can really understand the person. This is true<br />

sometimes if we are really good at what we are doing so that we can understand them<br />

even before they say anything. It is also true that we do not have final answers in<br />

astrology, and very frequently astrologers will jump to conclusions about the person<br />

which are not true and will end up laying a trip on the client. And if the person is<br />

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