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Articles Book III - Pg 1-117 (Adoptees) - triadoption

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1Vho I Am mnanunl<br />

on hb molhcr'r muvernmcnl. the *doplivc prenl* snd lo have laem In ldenllfiln~ lnlotm~. mlulon lh11 I rrunlon rcml$!r) tmflks<br />

Ihc Mtlh mrma. "Oarl~flly the mmpl Ilon. And Vlmu'ier Iwq~t Thamn "we haw nm hnomc h~hlrlllm rnr<br />

Ad~y lalef Cnwlcy war harlnlln~nd or adopll~~n Is klal, he told uu. Oave. *ha handle, ~dopllnn work ror our wloplcd rhlldfrn unlll lhcl, 19th<br />

cmklcs wllh hll aunl; he w#r ~ rrln~ 1 nllhoumh ha admlllcd: "I1 Is 1 lcaal flc. IheB.C,ma*cmmenl,r~yr,"Omlc~u~e hl~lhday. Ilwin~ lnvrstrd flnanrt~lly<br />

hlmrl lellllvc lor lhc flnl llme. "I llnn In #he bloln~kal rcnro!'Ila allado; Is dlmrull lo show." In hcl, IO rar I, and rmollanallr in our rcl~llo!~chlp *I111<br />

rcmcmhe~ lhlnkln~ th11 I'd fln~lly round xrlbd adopllon 1s belnl "In the n~lurc O.C. atlopllon omclals ireaware, noanc our nlnflcd children, we ire now 1- be<br />

rnmrone rllh lhe llmc hi1 cycbron or1 mnllanull ~mnlcmcnl" In whlch has ever lrlrd lg do so. . plilml In a newrole.. . naone withcr la<br />

and rnund law." She lave him a tlnr lhcn~lural~rrnlr renounmlhrlrfi~hlr Mel Smllh'n squmenls amnlncl re.' share lhc qprrf.1 parenlal relallon~hlp<br />

lhll hall klonled ID hls nts~her. and find Iho adoplln8 plrmls are ~uannlecd unlon rrmlalry rere both lc~~lls~lc snd lhsl hrl lxcn ntabllrl~rd wllh nnolho<br />

plrlure or her. Ile louked like her, ha theln. We palnld oul lh1l !he chlld emollan~l. Ilc fared lhal even herare who has made no real lnvnlmen~ In lllc<br />

reII, bul alher Urlh rcl~llrct wrlc nlnrc I. nnl a party lo lhlr ~'rnmenl end adolc~cenls rerc sll~lblo Tor rcunlon. rcatln'ol lhll child."<br />

sl~rllrd hy the mcmhlmra. Ancr mcel. wondeml whcrc hls rl~hlc ire con. when mmlnr or ,ma, 1.y would mrd Tho hahydllcr ar'umenl 1, answered<br />

In1 hlm [or lk nlsl llmc, hl, hdr.<br />

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mean, or lhrulenln~ lhrlr ~doplln ilmhallc. Adoplea arc haunlrd hy lhc<br />

Commlnlon k k darn on 11s rym ~ppe~rtd 10 ~uqxlse him. "fhnl's the prcnu. Asked If lhll rerc any more lcsr lh11 lhry rere c~lluu~ly abrndoncd<br />

plhcllc ippr~ch In idoplrer and rclca connpl. Thal'l wh1l rdoplbn b 111 Icrloul thln in .dolnrcnl'r thrrslrnlnr and will k tr)mrd I second llmc, or hy<br />

lhe MCI.<br />

~boul....Ilch~saIIlherlJluinyolher I0 lclve home, he rcplled. "No. I gucu lhc ul~lrnrlo hortor lhrl lhcy ate lhc<br />

McLIm!lh, fwndlnm p;esidenl orlhc chlld has undcr the law - wllh lhc one nol."<br />

produn or rape or inarl. Thal'r 1 real<br />

Or~~nlcallan lo Slvn aha Adwllua rxaptlon."Thal 1s. Ihc~doplec,c*cn 18 AI 1 laher or two'roun~ mdoplcd mriblllly. or murrc, bul I1 lends lo<br />

FImlb. was dcli~hlcd wllh the mmmll in .dull, has no rllhl lo know who hcl~. children. Smllh lured lhrl a reunion obrcurc tho real prlblllly lh11 mml<br />

1hn'r reparl. A1 the B.C. #orrrnmenl\ Smllh 1rlued lhal O.C. law now pm- rctlllry wnuld allcr hls relallonihip wllh blrlh molhen rere b~llully dcrcnl .<br />

mnllllullonrl cr~ll<br />

In the a11rnne)- vldn Iorlhc adoplea wllh I nrlou# need his chlldrcn and dilulc the mnwpl 01 ramen wllh mormous emollon~l and<br />

tcnernl's drwnmcnl. Smllh lends lo lo know hlr nrlural plrenlr. Anullly, adopllon loalorlflcd~mlerare.Ileclld perhaps nnancld problcms 11 the lime<br />

lhink In lcr~l terms. Ilc rcordopllon a1 provlnr*l Irw rqulm 1 pelllloner lo Ihc oplnlon of O.C. lrwyer ~lctry.Ccl. they pva up lheir childrm. Cenplc<br />

n conlnclu~l r~hllonrhlp betnm lhc show the Suwcmc Courl "load nuu" le~urlo. wholold the Family L.wCom like B&I~-@JI&. whmc hu~band<br />

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