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~~ ~ ~~ ~ ~~~ ~ ~-~ PAGE &The Columble Dally Trlbune, Colurnbla, Mo., - Dr. Waft Menninger In .~. rcsmnsc lo a recent column. I hnvc me~veJ n gmd mnny le~tcn lrom adop< cd chlldrc~+now ,grown up-wonderlng abul the search lor their mls. Samc samplcs: Ilenr Dr. hlcnnlngcr, I havc bccn read. Ing wllh much lnlercst your column on sdopllon. I also was odopled and not (old aboul II unlll lhcagr of 14, when Iwo oldcr drls "lipped me on." Snooping, I found my adopllon papers. h'ccdlcss lo my, I was vcry much mlxcd up nnd hurl. I know my rcal molher'i and Ialher's nnmcr but no more. I wrote lo ihc adopllon agency where I mas plnccd and a4cd lor lnlormnllon 01 my pnmnls' blrlhploccs. But It dl*. morrgcd ony acllon on my porl and nauldn'l lcll mc anylhlng. They snld my mnlher ond lather were never morrled, and he dldn'l know ol her prcflancy. At Ilral, ol lhal young age. I was hlller, Ihlnklng,"II my molher dldn'l Ilkc me any more than lo give me sway, I dldn'l eve *on1 lo see hcr." As I grew older-l am 41-1 rcollccd It was a dinrran back (hen loran unwcd blrl to gcl p6gnanl; and she ' had done what she had lo do. I do lhlnk lhal anyone who gave up a baby woultl lire In agony knowln~ lhnl wmcwhere In the world rhe had a chlld and grandchlldmn. II havc three boys.) Do you lhlnk I should leave well cnough alone? I wouldn't won1 lo cnusc any lroublc. Do you lhlnk my molhcr would wml lo hcnr from mc, provldlng I would be lucky +nough lo llnd her? Thank you. hfn. n1.o. Dear Dr. hlcnnlngcr, I'm lnlc!cstcd in wklng oul my oslursl nrolhcr and would Uke any lnlonnallon or sul(l(c~llons. I'm now B ycnm old, am co~lcnlcdly and comforpbly married and havc two small boys. hly pdrcnls havealways bccn lovlng and open ~lhout my bclng adopted and havc made me lccl speclnl because ol It. nu1 I'vc always bccn curlous abul my nalural pnrenls' hnckgroundr. Inlllnlly, I'd slmply like lo mnke conlicl nilh my molhcr, perhaps lhrough n mlddlc person. If shc dccllncs lnlcresl In mcc1ln.q mc, lhnl will cnd my "scorch." I hoQe It won't hnppcn tho1 nay. ol course. I'vc rend nrllclcs hy Eda LcShnn nnd olhcrs, largely dlscounglng such scnrchcs lor nalurnl porcnls or chlldrcn. I ' don'l 'want lo Intrude an)uhcre I1 my nalurnl mother docsn'l lccl lncllncd to make conlncl. I've chcckcd wllh (he local counly courl house nnd have hcen told ihal Ihc records are sealed by stole low. Is lhcrc any way I con procccd? Thnnk you. C.S. One olhcr odoplee wrolc of her anger nl being denled ll~e up rlunily lo explore her rmts knusc o?n slole lnw whlch senled the rcmrds. Shc ranlcdlo know the Inlormollon lor lncdlcal 0s well ns person. nl reasons. She lndlcsled n wllllngness lo murk wllh the courl so llre blrtIrparcnl?r' ILlcstylc would not be harmed. Should rcllcnough be lell alone? Rene lions lo that qucsllon ore ccrtnln lo be mlxcd. Previously I haw shared nn lm. passloncd leltcr from a blrthparcnl. Llndn Shl Icy. win did won1 lo know nbout tlre chlrd shcgnvc nwny lor adopllon. llow should you proctxd. II you dccldcd lo do m? The seorch lor blrlhpnrcnls slrould be done wlllr cnre and tact, rllh respct lor the liosslblc rcluclnnce ol the blrlhpnrcnls to encounlcr you. If slymlcd. you may llnd suppurl and lurlher suggcsllons by conlocllng one 01 lhc nnlinnnl orgnnlznllons ol blrllrpnrenls .and ndoplees. Two send out, mgulnrly. lnlormalional ' ncwslellers: . OrpllOn Voynge. Cedaredge, Colo. 8l4lJ Venn Pnlon.KII(Jonl; Concerned Unlled Birth. parents. Inc.. P.O. Boa 573. hllllor?. hlnss. 01757 (Lee Cnmplxll, prcsldenll
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