Articles Book III - Pg 1-117 (Adoptees) - triadoption

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Slarf Pholov~phtf Ken
Elli~ll 11 u%ed In sclllns
lnn~lrrd In hh rorh -
moll rrrrnllt 1.tlna hlq
om pholosrlrrph .hle he
gI8ttnl ar #he Delrocd
rhltmlet in rrbntlr and
rundown dlmn rho 11.
lu~t~~ltd our Mnr I4 *I.
lute on rnnddchl. Dm
K~nouldldhlmvlIIwlhl~
Inus', rtntr on .dopllnn.
Ilrt4ckdupMrr.Dorothy
hlspn .I hct hame In
Totoao. drove lo Uoad
9 I I or our rmil~.
hato;sh
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- .keo i'hs ihte woken met lo, IuI. aha muld lndlals thal she
Ihc n!rl rlmr I"ou nn m lhs lrnulu ~4 I I atu - sn rmatlon ~~- n muld momedar
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prrcnls' orsmlmllon. She uvc up her
Inlanl tan In 1964. "I1 doern'l hurl s:!
Ins buse I1 happened I J ruts #lo.
While we, 8s ldopllve prenll, hlve
Ihe wle rlshl lo ralse our daulhler 10
mlurlly. re rc~lizc lhal we mn'l
Facers her for the rcsl al hrr lire. Over
lhs lrrr lew rcrn we've ilo*ly b m r ..- .. .~
ante ihal woman ran~rrhete may lh
mnderlnslboulourd~u~hlcr -
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h, r~,r~oh,a. ~ftrti~ 18 rrth hnu.t+~thn
whn b
Ron Rtnnrn (Irll)ondahp#~wh,hrr
RGfil~3il:llrfoundon01hn hr@hhn
her druihler. too - I
and may llka lo
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know many lhinss lhal we wid sham
rllh her wllhoul lhtulcnlnslhcururll~ whrlhcr ahewnnlr lomcel her trown.up
shc may WAI lo updale cl~lld. Surprirln~ly, one . provlnn -
Ncwloundland 2 Is quletly ollcrlns
such a servln nuw.
Omuse lhe provlnn I: so small and
Ihc number of lnqulrlcl arc lev, lhe
Newfoundland Dcp.nmcnl al Swid
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wmmvnkm~c
ho 1.1
10 0111 daushln lo tern&
Uenilnimknur rnrv wlrdl .nd'ltlur
lvatsl lro more ~nkln, lhnugh .e don3 '"7 ruiin~ orrrjrnlon.
U,U.IV rnn.,e~~!~~r h~m ror that. slnro h., The mrlhad ol mmmunlcallan
ma been mmpieled. But h nn ~lvlyr be
AU. 3.n" opened lo nrrlre new Infmmallon: I1
AtlMm(*
tlnn lhb"4
Servlccr hmr ken mblc lo csl.blhh I
palnslmklnl procedure lhal mg lakt
aveal monlhr. So lar abovl levm adull
sdoplecs wmllnn to mrel lhclr blrlh
vlrrs and munsellin( sn,lonr: *hm
nemssaty. a m~chl~l~lsl Itled lo saqe
lhclr abllilr lo handle a mcriblc rrlrr.
Ilon. ~veiumlb. whcn a'blrlh moihcr
who looked like her. A pll. Rools.
"llnnor uvr me lhc barkslaund Infur.
mallon lhrl nnally let me lwk back. She
loldmc 1 h*dkcn ulth my birll! tnolhrr
for flrc math%. hly God, she rarcd
enou~hlo kmpmdllonnr lold me thal I
hall been In I haby home, 1h.l my
morhrr had idkn 111 and cuuldn'r krrp
up lhc paymtnls In #he home. llollar
lave me myiifr." .
In rclvrn loan Vnnclune - 1 MI,.
Morlndcl's urglnl - gave life lo
Rrcnl Flndrts. I1 muld herante llnnor
Mowln~krl's lc~ry; she died crrly 11th
yur. Mn. V~nslonc dcvclnbed I1 It810 a
nallonll tcunion rcdslly lor adoplccs
and blllll 101111ve6 an lnarutllon cclllrc
whcrc they ten lertn llnw in flnd one
*nother. and an lnlermedirry lhlouth
which one prlycm r~ulloacly arpmrrt
Ihc olher wirhoe wrcrkln~ a lilc.
lhrml Finden' head nfllm lr 1408 I
Awnue. Vancouver, D.C.
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C-tt1kll.am1.n
,wr*rz,uur ;. ,
ruut IIC~HI, 1 .
Cast Ul~m 6 .
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Wilh lhe name and any non.ldcnllly.
have some nfcsuards: lrrincd mun. willr branchel In I4 clller end a IC&ISII~ 1nnlnform.lion avmliablc In lhr ndopllan
M*nha*lnla.AnnCdtln~ , ~llon should lnlcrvlew bolh p.rlln lo or 1,100 nmmcs - was besun In Van. nle - pbn ol blrlh. mnlhcr'~ ale and
hdwrmbur. i,, e~plorelhelr prnenl lllcslluallanl. thelr muvcr thrcc yem mso by an ebulllanl mupallon - sn adaplcc can %our such
~n ~vm~trrntuom
cmo~lonml~lnn.lhelr molivcslormcel. ndoplec named lorn Vsns~onc. I public r d r .I old phonc brinks, dty
A-lw An Ill& . . Ins. The rounsellon muld recommend mlddle.agcd mmhcr oflhrec,
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llrr oedo dircnnrlcs and rrltml ycarhauk1. Thc
am&.,L(yI
f ' mulnu a Ieunlon, but should no1 have lccma lo k summed up In s remrlk she search ir vsurlb Ions. ~Ithoug11 some
IW m
~nn~a..&h~tu.~loy . lhe ponr In prevenl 11.
madctoua recenlly:"My~oul Is my soul ares arc e~cepllonml. Gary Cowlry. a
'. A r~slrymuldaaually pmlCcl mdap and mdopllon shnuld no1 sell my tad rounder of Patent Flndcrr, had lrled or
= " ;, ~ llvcprmulrom ~ lhme ~ lew blnh pmnlr ~ Inlo slavety. Everyone her m dghl lo hb and on lrom the llmc he was I8 In learn
n*.wt** . I
re kno* who'va found oul where lhelr om sense olldenll~y and dlsnlly!' his hlrlh name. Finally. In Ills mid.10~.
Ovr~lSh* children arc. Knowins lhsl lhcrc'm a She'd lurned about her own blrlh he bemsn to wrile the Orilkh Colvmhla
UIt*l.l Am#*-- . ' leal chann lhcy an meel lhrm as plrenlc horn the lame Children's AId mtlotney.smenl'l depmtlmml. Aller I8
cumtb ~nr.. ~ anr%nlns :' rdulls, IhcMrrh prenamisht bldqlhelr Soelcly srrfsl worker who hnndlcd our months. lor rearens lhal wrle never
hnlrnlrl MnniahUhhO*Onh~ llme Inslead of ltyln: I0 Inltudsdurln( daushler's ndopllon - a warm, perm(* nrldc clur. Mrs. hlowlnrkel was given
C-Mk(kr tWIdn*rhtrtloml)rt the imrnalure live womm named ~~nor.M~~lnck~I. permi~slm lo rcvnl hls Idmlily. Then,
Nbawbr*lhll*r hblnhrn 1Id.Y)I WY. Dcyond runnlng I rr~lslty. sdopllon )o?n Vln~!onc diuuvetcd lhat her m l her auggnlian, hc placed a ncwspapc
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rmm'4 *'L"lt la 'tCYbrlrl. lsenriel should be prrparcd lo .el as In.
Adwtirlna irtmrntalmM8raaMMi Umitd.
nrlural parcnla hhd dlrd long before she ad asklni aboul hlr molhrr's uhrri.
raa,o.ad,,,,n,bn ,IL,l,A,IO~rIY, ltrmcdiatlcs even whcn only one prrly llled loollnslhcrn. Ye1 MR. M~wintkel lbouU and the very nc~l
day rmlvrd a
Y. blplna,~.ac. IV IM( II~.)~I.II~~ has lndklled m.deslre lor rcunlon. For smve hcrcnoush dctallfrom ascnqfllcr phone all from m run1 he'd never
km4,lrn mu1 ntntr.%a nurnk, Il11:m~ inslance, a munrcllot mishl diwrwlly lo lrark down hnll.htolhcr. a hsll. known. Il'i molhcr was dead. she lold
c'ls.rlr' ldmd*lh'rdm~d,"** leek oul m blrlh molhcr and dclermlne ~lsIrr.aunls, unclcsmndmuslns. Proplc him. and char wma 1 shock but he dld
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maiurlly we hoFc'lherc wliibe analnclal
r~llrlq llsllns the nrmes ol.dull sdop
Lea and birlh pnrcnls who wan1 lo
reunilc. This reunlon rclisln should
Arras Canada, n looser, boldly
unollldal reunlon %rrlcc has ilterdy
bloulhllo~clhcr~boull00adoplccssnd
lhrlr blrlh rchlircs. Rrcnl Flndcn -
bear only;he adonllrr lamlly's 5urnrmc
and only tame adapllon orders carq lltc
blrlh surname.
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